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luminouz:
It's always about standards for y'all...not love, shared goals or even interest in being a good wife and mother...it's always superficial stuffs and you wonder why men are not coming?

By designing the interior of my house as a spinster to suit my needs, it devoids me of falling in love, being a good wife, mother..... you're funny sha....

Who told you men aren't coming?

Fortune109:
You clearly don't understand her...

You that understands her, please explain to us here.

HEAVEN4444:
Hmmm ok but I understand where she was coming from because I have lived it but it's just that black people are a people of baggage and loads. When you travel everyone travels light except black people. You will see one person with 8 potmato . And so the concept of minimalism is strange, and most especially for a person who knows they are at an INTERIM point in their lives that is transitory and not permanent and know they will be moving and so they live LIGHT like they are CAMPING so that when it's time to move out it's an EASY PROCESS. As it is now when she is moving out it will be very stressful with all these things you let her buy

What happens to selling them or gifting them out when it's time to move?
Wait o, does this apply to single ladies when they japa?

HEAVEN4444:
no that's not it. The girl was intentionally living as a minimalist cuz she knows she is in an interim point in her life and this condition and place was temporary. Like when it's time to move out it will be an easy move

Is this what you'll advise your daughter when she gets her place?
Let's not abuse the word minimalist as what she did wasn't minimal living.

HEAVEN4444:
so basically you empty that geh account to where she could not afford to pay for driving school. Peer pressure to let her spend all her money she was saving ? That one no good na 👀👀

How did the post depict that she couldn't afford it?
What I could deduce is that the person was waiting for Mr Right to give her the comfort that she deserves when obviously she could afford it. Didn't you read where she said she was giving fake suitors money...

Sonnobax15:

She's right..

What's popping with these Nairaland bots these days . Someone can't just make a simple comment anymore . Any small thing,na ban straight up like say we get beef for somewhere before

Seun , please bring back the vibes that Nairaland used to be known for .

Please tell us why she's right.

You've never dated a successful lady before Mr Banny?

Where shold they stay?

A lady working in Lagos and earns well but her parents live in Ikorudu while she works at CBD should not rent closer to her workplace because she wants to be marriageable. Is aunty saying she should sleep under bridge or live in a dipilated house to be marriageable? Aunty doesn't know what a good interior does to one's mental health as a home is a place of relaxation and not TURMOIL.

My sister just bought a washing machine last month and doing her Masters while working and we've always known that laundry is a chore for her. She was squatting with an aunt but needed more space for herself which we deliberated from a place of concern in terms of security and NEVER marriage.

Pay attention to the ladies doing well here, you'll see that they achieved a level of comfort before saying I do and it raises their standard to seek for the best for themselves. If a lady who wasn't born a nepo works hard and is becoming something, the guy that wants her should also be working hard to be deserving of such woman as she too knows the value she has added and is adding to herself for a better tomorrow.

This babe and always wanting to be in our face to drive traffic...

This noodles dominates the market in Anambra State. I don't know why they don't have a market share in Lagos.

To the rumor mongers, Ire o.

Wisdom is profitable to direct. You see you're being used but you don't want to stop by virtue of your response to someone up there.

When you fall financially, they'll mock you saying "what did he do with all the money..."

Tomorrow isn't promised but you must plan as people perish for lack of vision. If you have plans for your life, you'll set boundaries and cut all unnecessary generosity....

I'm not a fan of BAT but APC winning most of their elections at states and LG levels, it gives BAT mercenaries to work for him to deliver polling units for him in 2027.

EKEDC is blocked from leaving the group chat.....

The family's grouse is the use of stolen funds to solve family problems. Is the escalation from a place of integrity or settling scores.

If it's the former why just speaking out and if it's the latter, make dem sort themselves.

They take this insecurities to the children and bleach them 😪

If she's not good enough for a wife, why turn her to a baby making machine by impregnation her a second time? This is unfair on her and her parents.

Let me ask, would you be happy if your daughter is pregnant the second time for a man who doesn't deem it fit to make her a wife?

Please go and triple your hustle and ensure that you plan your limited resources wisely.

She wey dey do without protection for person wey no wan pay her bride price, she get mind and no be say na obelego.......

Scott has been trying in bringing sanity to the overpriced real estate market. I hope he gets out soon.

Kobojunkie:
She must have been an endurance wife, hoping that some day the magical being in the sky would turn her marriage around with his magic. 🥱🥱🥱

You dey dere to know that she was an endurance wife?

Tightpussy2024:
Do men send their relatives that trouble their wives away?

My sis husband brought his younger bro for nysc orientation. Orientation camp finish. She subjected they find a self contain for him(by the way he got a job in a school that offers accomodation).


Oga said after one year,he will leave. 3.5 year now.if she reminds he will say it's not peace of mind.

Young guy will eat and "forget" plate in the dining. Doesn't help with chores or contribute anything. Dishes his food himself.

Oga refused to send him away

Marriage is unique to the individuals in it.

She understands her husband and knows why she let him stay this long but when it gets to her neck, she knows what to do through her husband.

Lioness5280:
What if there was no problem before ,hence the mother was invited to Canada? What of this Nigerian killer suddenly lost his job and was taking out his frustrations on the wife and the mother intervened and he murdered her ?

You have a point but we aren't privy to the details of the underlying issues that brought about the shooting.

Lionessza6:
Why did the Nigerian man stab and kill this woman when he had so many other options? He is to blame for his actions.

I'm not absolving him of any blame but if you see that your relation doesn't get along with your spouse, you keep them away from your home for peace to reign.

Noahsailingark:
You're an enabler of toxic relationship.

Kindly explain how I enable toxic relationships.

DivinegiftofGod:
My sister. Thank God I'm recovering by his grace. Just that I've not been able to work because I'm still feeling weak from shortage of blood. The other day I went to look for job at a super Mart and fainted in front of one womas shop as I was talking with her that I want to buy something . my sister was called to take me the hospital where I was given two prints of blood .

It's the fibroid now that I praying to heal so that my blood will remain in My system for me. They said it was 13% when they checked.

It is well with you.

Why didn't the wife take her mum away from her home when she must have seen that her mum and husband don't get along well.

I hope nobody still addresses us as giants beyond our population.

Why do I think he must have had another family here.

I look forward to her update of finding out the said lady was a wife and not GF

SoftSport:
Senior Special Assistant Garba Shehu, has issued a firm denial: Buhari is currently in the UK on holiday or receiving routine care , he is "alive and well" .

The presidency has released a statement.

helinues:
You people have started with another Jubril saga.

You refused to learn a thing from the past

https://x.com/bashirahmaad/status/1944428240694542643?s=48
It's true.

Awwwnn.....thank God you're recovering.

Intent247:
If I no fvck now, how I want take know our sexual compatibility. Imagine having this after we are married

I wasn't experienced when we got married and it was painful.....we complained in pharmacies......I was given medications......it took a conversation with a direct report who had 3 kids to tell me what to do after over 6 months and due to our living in different states, it took another 6 months to implement.

This is since 2020 but he was PATIENT with me and we've had 2 children and will be six years in December.

It seems chastity has been erased from the dictionary

It's so bad that someone writing NECO was watching TV into the next day that she has NECO exams last month.

It's obvious she was using expo.