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qtguru:
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maasoap:
Your opinion. Subjectivity

I don't even care about these again. Just invite me to y'all weddings with a transwoman.


If not yours, to your children's or grandchildren's.

folake4u:
As I never see the soulmate nkor?

Soulmate hair cream isonu.

😂😂

I don't know who sent jero defender's work.


Mtcheeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwww.

folake4u:
I've seen it now. So gorgeous!!!!

The angel that dropped me in this kwantry though.

🤣🤣

You don't think it might be because your soulmate is here?

If you were born in another country, you could have missed them o.

Unlimited22:
You're predisposed to violence.... Be calming down nne

K

Eunoiaa:
Modified: Me, I could not even read past 2 pages to get to all of the triggering and traumatic and abusive stuff people are commenting on. But I went to Google to read its reviews.

A book that a DOMESTIC SHELTER ORGANISATION has written against?? Like, wtf?

I assume the pink, cutesy cover it has is what throws the girlies off about it and when they start reading it, they deep into it to stop.

Here's the review; https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/stop-praising-colleen-hoover-s-it-ends-with-us

Oh my God it gets worse.

Let me just wait for you to come on-line, Unlimited.

I-- don't even know if I should call it a generation thing. Because we had Mills and Boon with rapey male characters growing up too, and it's so sad to see that teenagers today are going through the same grooming.

Unlimited22:
Nna ehn.

Ehen...I came here for you.


First of all, I should break a bottle on your head, and finish it off with an uppercut.


You said I seem like a "Colleen Hoover girlie" or what was it? 😭😭😭😭😭😭


Have you read her books before? First let me know before I know how to react. Like, what?! What exactly do you see? Whatever gave you that impression about me? That nonsense writer that even I can write better than? 🤣🤣

Modified: Me, I could not even read past 2 pages to get to all of the triggering and traumatic and abusive stuff people are commenting on. But I went to Google to read its reviews.

A book that a DOMESTIC SHELTER ORGANISATION has written against?? Like, wtf?

I assume the pink, cutesy cover it has is what throws the girlies off about it and when they start reading it, they deep into it to stop.

Here's the review; https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/domestic-violence-op-ed-column/stop-praising-colleen-hoover-s-it-ends-with-us

folake4u:
Eunoiaa Oh no!

😭😭😭Let it load na.

I've shared the link na. You didn't see it??


It's a picture from Twitter.

maasoap:
If he didn't win the prize, Dayo Amusa wouldn't have been ranting online. So, it is about the dress and who wore it better. See as all of us are still referring to Bobrisky as he/him!
Next time, tell women to dress better than him if and when occasion like this occur again

You're almost getting the point.


Does wearing a dress make Bobrisky a female?

It is not about the dress alone, it is about best dressed FEMALE.

He might have ate with the dress, but that doesn't make him a woman/female.

qtguru:
crossdresser

What does it matter?

A woman is a person who says they are a woman. Hence Bob is a woman. Transwomen are women. Bob dressed like a woman and he won as a woman in a women's category.


So when you meet a woman like Bob, invite me over to y'all wedding.

maasoap:
I'm only concerned and commented about the fact that he has dressing/fashion sense more than the actual women present there and he won the prize. We can discuss other stuff another time to know what I think about transgender and cross dressing

Lmaoo.

You people don't even know what you're saying, and you're actually indirectly feeding into the trans rhetoric.


Did Bob win because he's a woman or did Bob win because he dressed well? Is he a woman? Does dressing the way women usually dress make him a woman?

maasoap:
The topic is not about his gender but his dressing sense as a woman that made him beat women hands down

Can you stop confusing yourself?

If this is not about his gender, then why are you saying he sees himself as a woman and that is valid?

maasoap:
Yes, of course. He sees himself now as a woman. The law in some countries also does. You and me may still see him as a man. That's where the subjectivity crop up

You're right, girl.


I knew I could sense a feminine energy oozing from your profile the moment I quoted you. If I knew you were a woman, I wouldn't have at you as 'hard' as I did. 🙃

Anyways, cheers ma'am. It's all good.

maasoap:
Tell them. He outdressed them as a woman but they are complaining about his gender. Confusion

Just answer me if Bobrisky is a woman o, and if he is, tell me what makes him a woman.

So a woman is not a gender? 🤣

It's funny to me that you don't see how you're regurgitating Trans Rights Activists' talking point.

What's Bobrisky's gender that we're complaining of??

qtguru:
Still on this matter, must be a slow day at work

Be sure to Send an IV over when you meet a transwoman of your dream. 🥰

maasoap:
The question is subjective. But he outdressed women, simple. It is about the dress, not the gender

So being a man/woman is a question of subjectivity?


Ah. You should have told me you're fluid like that now, since outside of yourself, nobody can tell if you're a man. You're the only one who knows that.

pocohantas:
I like to think they know.
But potatoes must potate.

Don't mind them.

It's entertainment and giggles for them now, until they are hooking up with and wifing a trans who choose not to disclose their status because "It's a privacy matter."


Until y'all are being gaslighted into accepting a transwoman as a woman, and you're being "canceled" and called out as a bigot, keep thinking this will not have any implication on masculinity you hear, qtguru? And Adakintroy, and Maasoap, and Namaster. Shebi Bob is a woman. We will be here.

Adakintroy:
In dressing sense. He won it fair and square.

So dressing makes a man a woman? Mind you, you didn't just say Bobrisky dressed better than the women, which I wouldn't have had any problem with. No. You equated him with the whole of womanhood and the totality of femininity. From menstruation to pregnancy to breastfeeding, and the unique, collective humanity we share, you said a man, a caricature is better than that.


Like how hard is it to pick your words carefully and be mindful of the implication of your statements?

A man who cooks better than a woman is a man.
A man who dresses better than a woman is a man
A man who styles hair better than a woman is a man.
A man who wears makeup is a man.
A man who wears high heels and fix nails is a man.

Doing things traditionally associated to women doesn't make a man woman.

Simply praise what they do, and keep it moving. Not offend people's sensibilities and try to change reality by saying a man is a better woman than women because he dresses well. Are clothes what makes a person a woman? Women have been wearing trousers for ages. Butch (lesbians) been around for a while, and I have NOT seen any one say that they are better men than men are. Stop buying into the "woke" agenda. Nobody can become the other sex. Being a woman is not about the clothes you wear. End of.

Adakintroy:
He won best dress woman.

And how does that make him a better woman than most women per your words?

qtguru:
I don't get why you are angry,

And stop speaking from both sides of your mouth.


If you agree he's not a woman, then we're done here.

qtguru:
Me no, it's why I say he, but to others they might, it's a new woke world now.

Good.

And to Dayo Amusa, too, he's not a woman. What people *think* has nothing to do with objective reality.


So nobody is making noise over a person winning in a category they do not qualify for as you implied, no matter how well dressed they are.

qtguru:
It's you womens problem not men, for us it's entertainment that a man out dresses a woman.

Great.

So why are you commenting on the matter? And why are you saying a woman criticising the matter is a noisemaker?

Why did you go on a roundabout talking about nominations and saying he's best dressed therefore he's a woman.

Oh. So you admit he's a man. He only outdressed a woman ni. Which is even null because he's not a woman to begin with.

qtguru:
By allowing him to even run in the first place in that category, it means they've accepted his identity as a woman

Even if that were the case, it has nothing to do with me or Dayo Amusa or the other people complaining. Nominations does not always count for shit. There are times where athletes have been qualified for a competition, they played and won and were later disqualified for ethical randoms.

So if those people nominated Bob as a woman, IS HE A WOMAN? Does the nomination make him a woman? Is the public no within right to call them out and criticized the event?

qtguru:
By allowing him to even run in the first place in that category, it means they've accepted his identity as a woman

Refer to my modified comment.

Bob is no woman, hence people are allowed to react to the unfairness of the award, PR or no PR. You cannot police that.

qtguru:
Welcome to 2024 a man can be a woman just by dressing or saying they are one, you could arrested in the US for misgendering bobrisky lol

So you think Bobrisky is a woman? You think dressing makes Bobrisky a woman?

qtguru:
But he was allowed to run ? I'm sure there were women in the commitee. if they didn't see issue with his nomimation then what did you expect, as soon as he was allowed to run, he became a woman for that contest, and also dressed better.

How so?

Where did you see talk of nomination or no nomination?

Even at that, does any requirement change reality? If you register yourself for a disability program, does that make you a disabled person? (As far as I know, you're not disabled).

If he was allowed to run, so? Does that still make him a woman? Actors play mermaids and mythical creatures all the time, has that made them non-human?

I'm sure you're only hearing of Bob winning this for the first time, just as I am, so you bringing talks of nomination and all are non-issue. How can people complain of something they don't know of?


Man win award meant for women are people are rightly reacting. End of. He's not a woman. I don't get what justifications you're trying to bring up here.

Adakintroy:
I did not issue an award Na. And why are the women not talking or protesting it in numbers. Maybe they sense the guy had a better dress sense than they that have been women for yrs. You know the way most male hair stylist come and do better hair and makeup than actual women themselves.

So dressing makes a man better at being a woman than a woman? Those were your words. Dressing makes a man a woman?

Anything a man does better than a woman, it makes him a woman, is that what you're saying?

qtguru:
The women championed him and accepted him, so what do you expect will happen when he starts taking what belongs to women.

I mean Bob risky dressed better.

Please stay on issue. This was your comment, implying that because Bobrisky dressed better, he rightly won and you do not get the point of the noise.

Whether women supported him or not is of no consequence here. Is he a woman - yes or no?

If he not a woman, then the women "making noise" are right to do so. And there are plenty of them that do not support him.

maasoap:
Na him say make women no get dressing sense?

Is he a woman?

Why are you people missing the basis of the issue here? It's not about how well or good he dressed. Will wearing suit and tie make me a male? Or if you tie wrapper and gele, you become a woman?

Adakintroy:
Dylan Mulvaney crossed and is racking deals and awards. Bruce Jenner crossed and was named man of the. Weak men cross to female sport and it straight up domination. Now Bob.

Lmaoooo. This is just like when an oyinbo man comes over here and started wearing our traditional outfits and eating our food, and you say he's more of a black man than a black man.

If an oyinbo comes here and started saying "how far, abeg, you dey craze, I wan chow", you'll say he's more of a Nigerian than you? Or when a white person gets promoted to the CEO position in a Nigeria-owned company, you'll say it's because he's more competent that the Nigerians that have been working there for years?

Because suddenly bias and stereotypes and prejudices and nepotism and racism do not exist in the world anymore.

I mean yeah, Caitlyn and Dylan are being recognised in things related to women, but if instead of saying it's due to agenda and propaganda, you choose to attribute it to them being *actual women*... If you think they are women, can you have sex with them? Is the physical the only thing that makes a woman or...?

Or if a woman won anything in men's category, will you say it's because she's a better man than most men?

In trying to hate women, you're consigning homosexuality 👍.


(Let's also ignore that women have been winning things and racking in awards and deals, but one man does it, and it's suddenly 'a takeover. Women have been slacking off').