₦airaland Forum

Now we're getting to the root of the matter.


You go soon talk the one wey dey bite you for body.

For someone who could wine and dine with the devil, I wonder what that makes the person.

*srunches brows in thought*

OasisX:



......wuz goin on here?! This thread don reach other SM platforms?! LOL!

I was as confused as you are. 🤣🤣🤣


And like a miracle, they all vanished into thin air LMAO.

A feminist lost love sure burns different I know.

Can only be the reason for the trauma-induced reactions.

This is the end of the metamorphosis of the male species.


To be a woman, in toto, gloriously, spiritually.


The 'un-actualization' of this is what causes many a great young men to be misogynistic towards women. They see something, a form they are trying to be like, and they just cannot attain. They yearn to be a woman, they desire to be a woman, and many do not have the resources to quicken the process, so they hope in being hateful towards women, they can keep us dissatisfied with being women, truly and originally.


But the key to masculine happiness and freedom is to accept your feminine spirit and to revel in your visions of girlhood. An average young boy from the age of 5 starts having these dreams about his girhood, and it manifests physically as a wet dream. The process of becoming a woman starts from here until a man is 55, when he truly transforms into being a woman.


But so many men nowadays do not reach this maturation for one reason or the other. Their jealousy for the female nature is so strong that it gets in the way of their growth. They consume so much of the redpill that kills their divine feminine nature and leaves them at the mercy of other failed 'yet-to-developed' women like Andrew Tate and Shola of Twitter. I mean, look at their faces, you can see they look a little bit feminine, right? (Google them and see).


The more masculine a man looks, the farther he is from his feminine nature, and unfulfilled he is.

To be a Bobrisky should be the goal of every man. To be a woman is the highest enlightenment to attain. Everyone should be a Mummy, mother, woman, lady. Anything.

Change your ways as a man today, and work towards your spiritual assignment of ultimately becoming a woman and let us all live in an happy, gynocentric, matriarchal society as nature made it. Afterall, there's only really ONE gender at the point of conception- the XX chromosome.

The Exodus of Guest Viewers.


Oasis, what's happening here that I'm not aware of? Who's throwing a party? It's never this crowded on a normal day.

Or there's a major match being played?

OasisX:


Ṣe Ìjẹ̀bú ni ó ní tàbí Ìjẹ̀ṣà, coz your agidi too much. LOL!

Eyikeyi ti okan e ba ni fe si.


I'll be anyone you want me to be.

OasisX:


.....try dey do your post, ṣókí ni ọbẹ̀ oge.

Mo ti gbo, sugbon, mi o gba.

'You hate Odumodu because he's laying bare the true nature of your gender and you people don't like it because it's a sore point' but going personal where? 🤡


Well I guess men are scum too, not so?

If it pains you, it must mean you're a scum truly, in and out.

A40:
Going personal? Where

Famalam. I don't have time to read all this. I am happy for you though or sorry that happened.

Keep it this way going forward whenever you're tempted to engage me in here.


❤ and💡.

monerozi5590:
Tiwa and Simi are cooking something sha. The title of the song is " Men are Crazy". The song will be released this Friday I think.

I know that.


You should follow the previous posts if you can.

A40:
Lol. See wahala

What wahala? Why are trying to make it seem as if I am doing too much or whatever here? You do not know how to have a discussion in good faith without going personal?

No be you start dissertation unto small question I ask.

I even only initially responded to you because I thought it was A OO1. And I took my time to do so. And you probably know who I am/how I am and the way I write. I do not get why you quoted me in the first place and turn around to call my response a dissertation. Like it was some vapid, vacuous post.

Go and read your post again and see how widely you veered off tangent without answering the question.

You were the one who veered off tangent and was bringing in things I never even said. Responding as if the things I said contradict anything you said. I never said Westernization doesn't have any influence on Nigeria or general popular cultures around the world. I simply singled out American feminist trends. Two things can be true at once. Did we have a #MeToo era in Nigeria where CEOs and entertainment giants were called out and sacked from the workplace en masse for sexual crimes and the likes? No. With the exception of recent the Bobrisky saga a few days back, transgenderism is not a thing in Nigeria. The criticism and the blowback that award show got happened mostly online. Nobody on the streets of Nigeria is being charged with misgendering claims. Even indulgence in homosexual acts is still a crime here. That is what I meant when I say that feminism (politics) in America does not translate to the rest of the world. Different society grows and develop in different stages and phrases. So it is NOT a failing of American 'Girlboss' Feminism, as you implied, that Nigerian female artistes do not collaborate with one another. You can come up with other explanations for it outside of feminism. It is also the same way the redpill/alpha male trend that developed on alt-right American forums have no influence on the Nigerian society. Nigeria is a patriarchal society in its own 'right/way' but it is not because of Andrew Tate and the manosphere. A relative of mine doesn't even know Elvis Presley when I asked him about it. This is not me veering off point; it is me substantiating my claim that American gender/feminist politics doesn't show itself in other countries' gender relations, so don't use the "noise" on social media to judge. Don't also wonder why Nigerian female artistes don't feature each other inspite of "girlboss" feminism. You expecting that is ethnocentric- judging another culture by the standard of another. This was my first answer to you, in other words.

I perfectly understand the issue you people have with Odumodu. I said I find it funny. And it's because he exposes the nature of a lot of you in an unflattering manner. The way a lot of your people commodify yourselves in the sexual market is the same way Odumodu was doing it in his song.

In all my response to you, not once did I even think I made reference to you or to the nature of your gender. But you've gone personal with me more than once, but it's you that's seeing wahala. What do you mean he's "exposing my nature?"

Why did you ask me for something and when I responded you're trying to insist I am mad because it's an unpleasant truth about me?

Your post has been deleted, but from the little I recollect, you talked about how it is okay for women to praise their good qualities and show they are wife materials. But did I say that was not okay to do? Did I say it is a bad thing? I said Nigerian women are still very much traditional, even babes who work corporate and are now making money and providing for themselves, as men traditionally used to do, try to present themselves as wife materials. I did not say it as a dunk; I said it to show that Nigerian women aren't overwhelmingly feminist. There are plenty of mummy Zees out there and therefore, 'American feminism' cannot coexist seamlessly in our society. So don't expect features and parts and parcel of that feminism to be manifest here. Stop seeing the apparition of your feminist ex in situations trying to fight at it. I did not say Nigerian women are killing it in businesses to mean that people deserve a pat on the back for doing 'basic things', I said it to contrast against them still being very traditional, socially. That no matter how rich or independent they are, they still try to downplay it (example, Alakija). All of these just to buttress the fact that Nigerian women are traditional, and that Nigeria is not woke. I don't care for the reasons why. So do not expect feminist stuff in our kind of society, and music.

The Nigerian industry is dominated by men (this is not inherently good or bad), hence the few women there have to align with men if they want to get to the top. It is men that "control the money," so to speak (Davido, Olamide, Wizkid, Don Jazzy), so I don't expect women who are not feminist-leaning to forgo the profitability to be found in making music with men under male record labels just to partner with another small, poor female artist because of ideology.

Lady Donli is a feminist and she's okay not making mainstream music. The pop babes who want profitability over ideology are going over to male-owned record labels who have the money, clout and marketing strategies to push them. Before you come for me and say I am attacking anybody again, put on your thinking cap please. An observation is different from a criticism.

Nigeria is a traditional society hence people do traditional stuff and gravitate towards traditional beliefs and songs, including the women you know who sing Odumodu's songs. How simpler should I still spell this for you, or you just want to turn this another an argument for the sake of it?

Maybe if you'll get the social media accounts of the girls you've seen listening to Odumodu and go through it, and you see that they are the feminists who dislike and post against him Odumodu, I'll believe what you're saying about their hypocrisy.

498 people cannot be doing something, and when 2 people say they don't do it, you claim it's a lie because you know about 50 people (of the 498) who are doing so. Northern Nigeria has the highest number of child brides in the world, does that give you the right to go about accosting every Northern girl you meet about it? Poverty and illiteracy rates are the highest in the same place, yet I used to have some friends from ABU Zaria who are studying to be medical doctors and lawyers. Intelligent, well-to-do peeps. One even had a cat pet. If your cranium cannot assimilate this ANALOGY for what it is, in relation to this topic, before you go off telling me WHY child marriage is bla bla because of the age of consent or say that I am being hateful towards Northerners, you're more hopeless than I thought.

This is also the second answer I provided; feminists in NG are fewer in number than non-feminist women. The women you know who are vibing to Odumodu are not the ones calling him out.

Even the Zulezoo you falsely claimed sang a song about rape meanwhile it was about a woman cheating. That's the fantasy world you people live

"Fantasy world you people live in." This is also you going personal and exposing your bias, and not only that, but judging based on some pre-conceived notions you hold. Was it not enough for you to call what I said false and provide your perspective on the song? I'm afraid your intellect is highly stunted if you cannot relate with people on the basis of their individuality and what they are saying in the moment, without resorting to "you people" or some opinions you've seen feminists give.

I responded with an epistle as is MY nature but you quoted me first.


If you knew I live in la-la land like other feminists, why did you engage me and why are you continuing to engage me? Because I have more claim to the right of response seeing as you interacted with me first. What is the point of this? Are you seeing me in the feminist you dated or something?


P.S.: You started going personal so I am only returning the favour in kind. And find a bucket to cry salty tears into over this lengthy response.

Phew.

x

Proserpina:
Cc

Is that one not kay*****?


Is he the mc sl*ze dude as well?? ??

A40:
Not FW Odumodu is a personal choice.

This much we can agree on. I am not about to get suckered into a back-and-forth "banter" with you, and I certainly am not looking forward to convincing you of anything you choose to believe or take away from my response.


You asked why Nigerian female artists are not collaborating with each other given the rise of feminism globally/on the net, and I gave you a probable context as to why.


You also said you do not understand why feminists have an issue with Odumodu and you said their issue is actually a non-issue because you know girls in real life who vibe to his song, and I told you why that is so as well. Fin.

Words of affirmation.
Acts of service.

InvertedHammer:
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Is the groundnut and plantain chips worth your security of life?

Someone may carelessly eat them in the car and pass out (if laced with something funny) and end up in kidnappers' den.

/

There's this one too.

ignis:
Driving is beyond hand on the wheel. I also wouldn't want to be discussing agbado and groundnut in a trip. I know where to get them if I want.

I don't know why people are attacking you lmao.


You have a point.

larride:
They are different.

One is the custodian of Otem Atum while the other is an Arsenal turned Bayern supporter.

Oh...


Thank you... the A and 0 in their names have me thinking it's the same person.

I thought it was 001 and I responded enthusiastically. Tch.

Omo.

I don confuse sef.

Is A 40 different from A 001 abi they are one and the same person?? ??

A40:
Lol but with all the girl power talk it's just surprising that Nigeria female musicians have a very very poor collaboration record.

Even Niniola and Teni wey be sisters no dey do collabo. I never see that kin thing before.

This una Feminist beef with Odumodu very funny because in real life wetin I dey see dey very different. I go to one or two grooves and see girls shouting his infamous lyrics.

Matter of fact didn't one of the feminazi leaders get casted (pun intended) dancing and chanting his lyrics at a friend's wedding

Lol.

Your two points can easily be explained with a single answer: feminists in Nigeria are in the minute of minorities in Nigeria. Even when you see some women-tailored programs and schemes, they are hardly phrased as a feminist action. Nigeria is not a woke society; patriarchal cultures and beliefs still reign supreme. Twice today (more like yesterday when i was writing this) has my fam made a reference to how I'll behave in an husband's house and I need to bla bla bla.

Yes, there are online discourses. And there is real life. I agree. So don't think conversations that happen online sometimes translate into real life. But don't take that as a evidence of feminist hypocrisy but rather as a function of number and institutionalisation. About five or so years ago, Alakija, one the richest women in the country was talking about how she still washes her husband's briefs. Whether it's true or not, doesn't matter, but she did it for the optics and to still show that she's not the stereotypical rich wife. We saw what happened to Mummy Zee too. Nigerian women are killing it entrepreneurship-wise, but that's not because of no feminist illumination. It's simply necessitated by the economy of the country.

So they are not getting into business to be "girl bosses", which was an American-centric and -popularized phrase. Even the #MeToo era was barely replicated here. American feminist trends do not drive the feminist consciousness in different cultures.

So as I was saying, even when you see Nigerian babes that are workaholics and business heavyweights and whatnot, socially, they still present themselves as traditional. They still try to emphasise the quality of their wife material and homeliness. It's the society they find themselves in. We have seen women wearing wedding gowns to churches in faith. We saw some singing "carry me dey go my husband house." Interestingly, when feminists criticise these acts, people come for them and call them all sorts of name. But then they'll want to turn around again to use those acts as a dunk on feminism? Like which one? You (not you personally) cannot say feminists aren't doing shit in Nigeria when you'll still be the same one to hound them for making everything a feminist issue.

Teni is also 'one of the boys' coded. So why Nigerian female artists don't feature each other might be a discussion on it own with different possible reasons, it's no fault of feminism.

In the words of someone whose name I cannot remember, "feminists are few in Nigeria; feminists who stands on business are fewer." Again hypocrisy is not exclusively a feminist issue, but a human one. Yeah, I know that being a feminist should inform a person in being less prone to such type of behavior. Yes, some things are utterly indefensible and I saw feminists call Kiki Mordi out. I did not see ONE feminist defend that. She has such big a platform and voice to be caught endorsing Odumodu's lyrics. She's not a private figure that can get away with any kind of acts anymore.

Even outside of feminism, there are some songs I will not be caught dead singing. I don't fw Odumodu is I don't fw Odumodu. Even one Zulezoo song, I think, ever since I discovered it's about rape, I've stopped listening to it.

Saying online talks doesn't translate to real life is just like me saying a lot of people in Nigeria still practice Christianity/Islam as a way to own atheism. Of course, the Nigerian society isn't atheistic. Or me saying that because I've never seen any Chemistry textbook written in Yoruba, then that means all your effort at doing that doesn't translate into real life?

A40:
Female collabo for once. We thank God

I been wan ask why una no dey do collabo.

That's why I have a love-hate relationship with Tiwa sometimes.

She's actually done a collab with Waja once. That's notably the first time. Now she's doing with Simi. It's why I love her.


Other times she's always giving off "pickmeisha" and "one of the boys" vibe. Heard she collab-ed with Gbadumodu.

TemporaryHansel:
When will you brain develop...

When yours degenerate enough for a casket and adieu papa T-shirts to be priced and printed en masse.

Proserpina:


In grand style we shall arrive . Na to find snake remain.


Slavic men? Shey they have money? Mexican babies no know pass flowers like say I be goat

New monicker is Iam.too.fan

Poco will have us covered in that aspect. She knows a lot about snakes and will find non-venomous ones for us to use as garlands and tiaras. I trust her on that.

Rich Slavic men?

I really can't say. They're just a recent obsession for me so I have not gone deep into their characters and nature like that.

Have them use the money they'll use in buying the flower to make a bouquet then. Even if it's #200 nairas they'll join together.

I think that's a perfect compromise.


Thank you! Got the username.

I am sat like mad.


I cannot wait.

Yes, I came to post this here for agenda purposes.