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saintsam
and you think all married people are faithful? you really have plenty to learn, you on another thread saying you have never had a gf remember?

bamidele:
my brother am not a bad influence ooooooooooooooooooooo see this phopto below my brother don't you like it why would anyone want to be gay i can't imagine oooooooooooooo be strong u wil be fine redirect your hormones to eurphria , you hear.
ciao

Bami uhu!

that photo? that photo is faceless mister Bams and i have always wondered who is really inside that big dress, how do we know its not a man . See Saints's hormones are not yet developed for me, i dont want to spoil somebody's child. Let him remain a good boy for now

beautiful lyrics, now i know the meaning, really good

yaa

no no no please don't keep your mouth shout, for one you started this thread and you have a right to speak your mind. I was just pointing out what i observed about how you are quick to say one person is contradicting themselves when i se you do it too.But it's no major crime hey! look at that mad person killing all those people, very sad. Please don't take it the wrong way ok. I was not really having a go at you, i know it sounded like it, i come across like that sometimes

Have a goodbye shag (which you alone know about ofcourse) and while at it just before he cums( nah! you dont give him the satisfaction of an orgasm) yell out another guy's name loud and clear

saintsam

you certainly not gay, so what you dont have a girlfriend at 20? you are a late bloomer. My friend's husband didnt have a girlfriend till he was 24, he was good looking, quite shy but he is married and not gay at all. Don't force the issue and dont worrry yourself about it, it will happen when you least expect it to. You seem to have your own mind, dont follow the crowd of sexual beasts have lots of fun if you can, and please please please stay away from Bamidele bad influence(j/k)

yaa ataa:
@ IBEXY
Why do people like to be politically correct all the time? Its not a black Vs White thing its basic facts! Be real! I was watching a program (white presenter by the way) and they said that white males are more prone to paedophillia and these types of acts (i studied it in my sociology A-level class) whilst blacks are more prone to gun violence, mugging and all the other stereotypical stuff. This is no coincindence there have been many crimes like this in my area. I also did not say all, if you read the statement in bold. I also lived in Brixton up until 16 - so don't get me wrong, i know what your talking about.

Yaa
And you make statements on other threads about being really free of any sort of generalisation or prejudice , i am referring to what you said about another thread about Ghanians and Nigerians. Just pointing out that you contradict yourself about how you really feel about race etc.( pls dont ask me to explain this or argue, just had to stop you there when you are acusing another of political correctness)

@Topic
it is very sad indeed, there are really many disturbed and crazyy people abound. May they rest in peace.

michelin89:
Why has Euphoria deleted her post?

Michellin

I deleted it because you said we should only discuss your problem, as i had already talked about your problem and given the little bit of advice i could, i thought i should also address what Atta was saying but i decided it might not be a good idea as you wanted only your issue dealt it. Its your thread so i thought i should take my post off, so as not to offend you.

I see saintsam, but i strongly believe your talk of abstainance is like a drop in the ocean in trying to fight the virus and also live a life, which includes sex whether you like it or not. Not practical and even when people wait till they marry whats the gaurantee thier filandering husbands or wives wont go dipping it in all sorts of places and passing the virus to their spouses? or is it abstainace in marriage too? then many religious people would be shown for who they really are, and that is flawed beings just like the rest. Many cases reported in sub saharan Africa are those of husbands passing the virus to wives. So for those who choose to have sex , they just need to practise it safely and get really clued up about ways of trying to reduce risk

Drusilla

I guess you are well settled and happy then not to want to share your life except with your lovely kids. But have you got a good balance there?

I was also wondering if it is harder for a single female with kids or the males with kids? what do people think about this?

Ugo
well, there is nothing anyone will say that will make you feel better, or less scared. All you got to do is sit it out, wait and hope you are not pregnant. You probably not, ou are in the panic stage, remember this feeling and hopefully it will cause you to have a condom handy. Apart from pregnancy arent you scared of Aids? _{sorry i had to say that maybe putting the frighters in you will make you remember protection}

Beautiful song and video and before you guys kill me, it reminded me of 2 South African musicals i saw in London theatres. The style in which OLori oko was sung is very much like the Zulu way. But hey! its all African and i guess we all from similar stock so who knows. Great song.

Christino you not alone in the SA influence thought so my head joins your head at the gallows lol

very very stupid idea, our people fool themselve too much. Can you imagine the American music awards being held in Portharcourt **hiss** the organisers truely show themselves to be second class to the western world. I won der when Africans will begin to take themselves seriously and stop trying to impress the masa

that song is a complete disaster, you probably fell off at thesame time as me. Picture it Drus, the only two people who so see the funny side of that line across the pond in fits of laughter

gotta luv him

Now FilthyMind oops LiquidMind that is just revolting

A secret form the past? yeah we all got a few, the best time to tell partner? Never. What happened in the past stays in the past. I live by that.

aww wasnt that sweet? lol sorry Desiree. Yeah you see what i mean though lol. I certainlly want romance these days i am not scared to say it lol

jamming leave him alone please

ur opinion mister, i have mine. u have urs after 128 post

easy now lol o dont think BlacknBold meant it literarily, just saying the guy being an immigrant hater should be thankful he is even looked at by one of us. I think that is what Black meant

@duffer

you kind of sick with that reply and at thesame time i can see the funny side.
@poster you will never find a true friend by looking, they are rare and come into our lives by accident, i have had experiences with old school people who i never thught much of but turned out to be some of my closest friends and the ones i thought were my best turned out to be worse than satan himself. I have one advise for you, when you too start making time for those close to you, you will see others begin to open up to you and give more to you and that way you can begin to build te foundations of friendship. It works both ways too

lol romance and love dont always go hand in hand also. You will find that some of the most romantic are also the biggest players going. But who says a girl can't enjoy all the trappings of a romantic guy? pls if i spot he is playing then i will smart enough to know when to stop dancing to his tune. Romance is a game. For those in real relationships with a omantic guy thats a different matter.

@Harvey
some will surely fall indeed , but you kow what? i get the feeling he is quite old in years though, just lacking social skills. Anyway he should hang around here more , he will soon know how to approach the ladies in the house lol

but you love it really , go one just say it, i wont tell a soul shhhhhhhhhhhhhh

@Saintsam. I should not allow the Eve in me rule my sense of reasoning? i take exception to that remark, because that is totally presumptious of you especially as you don't know what i am about. You are preaching abstainace, and i am saying the reality of life is few people practice that and you sound kind of holier than thou telling me about the Eve in me. Not only does that sound sexist, but down right judgemental.

We are all basically saying kind of thesame thing here, the holy religious attitude towards aids will not help those who do not beleive in our religions. Your shout of absatinance just wont get through to many, because we all have different attitudes to sex, not everyone gets married to practise the one sex partner thing, human being will be human being and the most reasonable thing to say to those sexually active is to be careful, and be educated in how thier lifestyle can put them in danger and then they can find ways to help reduce he risk , using condoms is one of such. I certainly wont be telling anyone how to live their life

Oracle,
yeah i may consider that, if he lost his ex , i know it sounds selfish.

poor you, dear dear don't worry your little head. who is piling your head with all this scare mongery? there is bad in every genre. Me i don't like hip hop any more though because of the message in some. Some Rock and some heavy metal have all those satanic verses too. I think you should be more careful in what you listen to if it means that much o you, just filter out those vile ones and go for the more positive and creative ones. Not the ones who try to shock people and come out with all those controversial lyrics to sell records i.e JayZ etc.

I think the list of terrible things that are happening lol lol are just a compilation of one person's  secret agenda to call the whole hiphop genre evil. Just be more aware of what you are listening to. Unfortunately the most evil and twisted lyrics are the best sounding ones, just be wise. Even some classical stuff are twisted and have paganistic roots. the key is to be careful in what you like and dont like. Many love those twisted lyrics of gun toting gangstas and women being bent over in a million ways for sexual gratification,but hey! if you dont like it dont listen