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mamaput u know that is not what he is saying geez *rolls eyes* try to stay on the issue you going to make into something else now. of course a grown woman can do what she wants, the thread says about parents and daughters

bad breathe lol i think i troo will keep an open mind on that one lol, looks like he is just hurt she turned him down

lol honest? lol no way.

all i can do is smile at this topic, i feel for you but do you know that a heartbreak is not for life? i too got my heart smashed to high heavens, and i was thinking, whats the point let me die, lol guess what? i got over it. You will meet one woman after another , like i met one guy after another and you will laugh at yourself when you think that you actually contemplated killing yourself over another human being Now i even laugh at actually shedding one tear over him, people are people, dont let it jade you.

why do they care so much about Oprah ? they say she is white now, well? so what? she has done a hell of alot for the blacks in America, what has those gang bangers 5ocent, ice cube etc done? the do more harm than good in their communities, with their gun toting lyrics, money in your face attitude in their videos, *hisss* please they should go jump, what a bunch of idiots.

What? they want her to start bling blinging, shoving money down other ppl's faces? she has done a hell of a lot and in a million years they will never achieve what she has, forget the wealth, 50cent can have all the millions on earth and still be a classless , little ignorant air head.

I have no time for rappers they are idiots most of them, look at Kanye west for instance, he was quick to jump on the bandwaggon during hurricane Katherina to say '' bush dont like black ppl'' and then quick to do a u-turn on another show to spoof the whole scenerio, just because the media came down on him. What spineless big mouths. They preach whatever is the fad , they have no substance, no conscience and are a waste of space.

Oprah is a strong black woman, worthy of role model status, respected by many people and has given to the poor more than any one can imagine, what has 50cent done?
what a load of rubbish let them die in their ignorance, once a black person refuses to turn a blind eye to the wrongs within their own community they get called ''sell outs'' lets face our problems . In fact all those rappers should just get educated and stop being fools.

i wonder too   makes me sad. I saw them on Bentv yesterday parading themselves and making empty promises and talking of phantom acheivements as if they think Nigerians have amnesia or something. I think the general public must stand against it, they must show their disapproval on a large scale and remain steadfast  as to what they would not accept. The people of Argentina did it, France did it, many other countries people have stood and been counted and changed the face of their goevrnment in one way or the other.

Many Nigerians are too laidback, too queit, maybe its time to show some real anger no matter the cost.

kay
keep sneaking around lol you rodent.

christiana
please don't call for the monkey, she has not been let out of her cage yet, she'll show when it's feeding time

Oracle
i could kiss you right now lol

lmao lol lol lol lol funny, guys its a joke, get it?

neseel

lol omg if only you knew, listen that is real lol wait have you seen beyonce live before? i mean her face and all? lol she is beautiful but sister not as perfect as she is made to look like(her skin is less than perfect, michele has the best skin ), u are asking ppl to use their brains lol for all you know you could be the only one in the dark here lol. That pic is real and i am glad , very happy to see she is human like the rest of us lmao. Everything in celeb land is an illusion, ever heard of airbrushing? even after all the all over body makeup they apply on them, they still get the experts to airbrush the pictures/videos, and after that still they get another person to do touch ups. nothing , i say nothing is real , thats why i laugh at girls bleaching to look like celebs when on a normal day the celebs all have breakouts and rashes like everybody

why are you guys givin her a hard time? there is nothing wrong with the question. Who says you can't meet people on NL or on line for that matter, the world is now much smaller due to this internet madness, so why cant she or any one find love on a forum?
@Poster search on sister/bro it can happen(just be very very careful there are some weird ppl some called kaylala for instance)

lol dont be, i am upfront but i am just like the next chick later

@saintsam
(hahahaha i bet u werent expecting that lol)

omg lol what have i started?

hmm and i am sure they dont go out every weekend anyway too much info, its unnecessary

No need to get insolent

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I do not need respect from a name on the internet

=CONTRADICTION if i ever saw one

Well i was asking because all my kids are out of the house now.

this is the reason you should not judge people, they live at home with you, i live on my own, pay bills, a mortgage, work etc lol you think i can afford to go out every night? lol its called being practical and sensible. Drinks alone cost an arm and leg in London

And yes my house is always full of kids thats why i wanted to know if you do not have friends

''KIDS'' being the operative word here lol , when i can i do the young adult thing not hang out in people's kitchens . I am over the clubbing phase, these days i can be found organising one baby shower, bridal shower or the other so i guessit answers your question

lol spoken like a true lad

By the way do you not have friends?
What are you doing at home on a weekend?
Welcome on the internet wagon.
Middleaged woman like me is were she should be AT home.
But a young girl should have some were to go.

aww nice of you to ask lady, yes i do have friends lol, and i dont go out every weekend, besides if i were going out i would head for town from 11pm not 6pm which the time is right now. lmao

You just dashed any bit of respect i might have had for you from that really stupid comment lol, you have no idea . glad to see you $hit like the rest of us lol. I think you hanging around children too much, you sounding like one

do you read before posting at all/ who said they will not have sex? of course they will, i know i did, that is irrelevant. what i am saying is BOUNDARIES , you can go tell them about sex and give them condoms if  you wish, what i am saying is, no way will i encourage a child under my roof to go  spending nites at some boy's house. There are stages in life for everything when she reaches the point where he/she feels they can go spending nites at bf's/gf's house then i guess its time they become independent. This is the problem these days few parents stop children from being children and force them to grow up fast. My way is set  boundaries and respect my children not, be a figure head of a parent.

@katherinae is this you? nah dont fall for this

lol i aint retro candylip before rumours start i know what this place is like, coco get out of hereeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Rubbish  who talked of Group Intimacy, please you are just a middle aged mother gone wrong in my opinion, yes it is my opinion take it or leave it i couldnt careless lady. Talking about insolence don't you think your energy would be best spent being a PARENT TO YOURS( some household that must be that you wud allow a child go sleep at a bf house while still under your care) instead of coming here trying to tell people crap about bringing up children. In my opinion i will say it again and again, you are jumping on the PC bandWAGGON trying to appear new age and cool.  This is a forum i would not stop giving my opinon about anything , just like you wont so either you don't talk about your personal affairs in a public place or you accept that people would form an opinon based on what you say .

madam, you are number 1 for making comments without naming names, i am not afraid to speak my mind, if you don't like it tough. I accept your opinion , but guess what?  i'm going to give mine too

@Topic i still say its not best to let your young child sleep at a BF's while still at home, if too desparate to get your own nookie pad.

obviously this is for attention

**shakes head**

I am glad i was never allowed to do this while i was at home, and i never even dreamed of spending the night at some boy's house , what for? hiss,

Sometimes boundaries have to be set and even if the child wants to have sex, the parent i would say should be able to advise against this, otherwise what are you a parent for? young people don't always know or make the right decisions, looking back i know i made some stupid mistakes and at the time i thought i knew it all. Thank God i had a mother that was understanding, wise, a good example, fun , good communicator otherwise i would have ended up like so many other kids around, banged up or worse.

Sometimes people talk out their asses for the sake of looking cool or modern , what a load of crap that is. Parents should set boundaries.

respect your parents rules and home if you dont like it, move out, if you want to go spend the rest of your days at a guys house wait till you can afford to, if your itch is too great move the hell out is what i will say to my child, all that talk about safety is bullcrap, the type of parent you are would show the type of kids you have. geez its like some parents have no roles anymore, want to be all PC and crap. The answer is balance .