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Adviseasister:
Please this is not true. I don't want to say I have many options, but I get approached by men daily. The intention wasn't to fall in love, we only wanted to chat, but you know what regular communication with someone can do.

I really love your personality.. You love love, you know how to love and love to be loved..Some advice here by some Nigerians are 'demonic' . Deep down in your heart you know them. Plz forget them. Their advices are based on fake and 'wuruwuru' love they have experienced in the past. Most of the relationships here are just 'kalokalo'.. ( game playing)..

Always keep your heart as pure as it is. And you ll surely find love

greatnaija01:
wow.... but honestly speaking.... THIS IS A SAD STORY..... 8 timesss?? This is terrible... YES ITS A GREAT NEWS HE GRADUATED.... but his age is no longer employable.... so IS IT REALLY WORTH IT?

The terrible mentality in Nigeria 10 years ago that UNIVERSITY degree is needed before one can secure a bright future has been exposed as a lie.

I hope he uses what he has learned to start business or travel abroad.

That is where :GRACE/ FAVOUR: steps in. We are not God and we can't play God

ubunja:
OH because in your twisted reality truth is a disease

Lolzzz...What truth? All these bitter spills from a distressed and bitterleaf' soul? Guy pls get some joy.. You are too bitter...

Infact I need to run off before I get infected .....Can't stand your type.Sadness everywhere and every moment.. Kaiiii

ubunja:
you're truly blind.

Thats like saying fat women are kind. THEY HAVE TO BE KIND because they don't have anything else to compete wth.

Single mothers by nature are loving because they themselves know they are USELESS.

just like broke guys love more. And ugly guys fvck harder. It's a marketing strategy. All these are WORTHLESS.

How are you feeling? Sorry I just had to ask cos you must be living a very SAD life. Plz get some JOY and not HAPPINESS..

thank you

issylarry:
I know you will always b in support of ladies because you are one.. U might b diff buh most ladies are absurd.The lady was too harsh in all ramification.u sef put ya sef in d guy's shoes..How best do u want to stay focus in dz situation o..

Yes I really don't know how heartbreak feels nor felt as a student cos i didn't go close to trying such back then. It still baffles me how students cope with heartbreaks and studies.. As for me, my primary focus was my' book' . The rest were optional which I paid little or no attention to depending on the activity .

That young man should focus on his studies and leave woman alone for now cos all this epistle he is writing here won't stand the test of time when the chips are down. Moreover, he should have factored the cost of dating as a student should it go wrong...

Op, just consider having a terrible CGPA in this present dispensation... Nobody go tell you to wake up from that slumber you call heartbreak.

Emma1Oj:
C them.

See yourself....Pls learn to read and comprehend a write up before making comments

issylarry:
Come,must you insult me?i said my own view of d mata..den say urs.A man is bn broken down by a lady he fell in love with,she ended up loving some1 else..if d lady truly loves him she will stay wih him no matter wat..
And for d ladies,na u know ya sef..Speak for ur sef..and the change might start from u.

Tell me,what else do u want him to think of if its not money for a better life.A man been hrt broken[not even men alone,anyone who is depressed] is capable of doing anything silly.
The only hope now is to think of how he can be strong financially,work on him sef to be a better man and a better woman will come his way..


So dont ever in ur life quote me again to insult me

But you were so quick to insult the lady.. and again DIDN'T YOU READ UP THE PORTION WHERE HE SAID THE BREAK UP WASN'T THE FAULT OF THE LADY? Pls do your advise and leave her out of it.

issylarry:
I feel your pain bro..For u to come out if it,you have to change your thinking.Think about how rich u want to be that even miss world wud always dance to your tune.
In a nut shell bro
Think of money,pass ya exams,project and reason like a man.

What ever is your own wont pass u by.Ladies to much for dz world dan to dey start to dey brood ontop one hole wey no get sense.

Bro.u v a brighter future.just stay focus

Must you insult the lady ? Didn't you read to see that he said she is not to be blamed for the breakup? Plz keep your 'get rich or die while trying' tutorials to yourself cos that the only message you have got to preach..Silly being

hoodedjaystrim:
babe I don't think anyone can be fooled to this extent

IT'S LOVE.. BLIND LOVE

hoodedjaystrim:
He is a victim of day light robbery

This isn't love cause I know love

IT IS LOVE.. BUT HE LOVED THE WRONG PERSON

koyyes:
Don't mind the regressive baboon.

He and the pu$$1 slaves that liked his trash are broke 1diots looking for a desperate female to clothe and feed them.

The days of emotional blackmail are over.

They will all end up like this.....

Lolzzzz

soul95:
Ishie. I'm a man. Obviously you are mentally incapacitated

Real mentally incapacitated

Dottore:
Dear squeaky pained grandma I ain't dying yet. I'd witness your death and probably attend your funeral. Grandmas are closer to the grave.

NOT SO SOON DEAR... GO DIE AGAIN...

Dottore:
It's obvious you are affected by the writeup. Don't take it personal cos you are not the only single lady in Nairaland appraochin 40 you hear?

Ooh dear, I m even more than 40 years.. SO GO KILL YOURSELF AGAIN....

Dottore:
I tell you most solemnly, you don't know the angst and secret pain an unmarried lady in her 30s passes through let alone the ones being experienced by the ones in their mid 30s and above..

The pain is more when they come across their married mates, the pain is even worsened when they encounter their younger folks who are married with kids

Do u know that even the ones that married in their mid 30s are well aware of how their skin and body are less attractive when compared to ladies in their 20s not to talk of the fact that they are still apprehensive over their ability to conceive.
Compare the laps and arms of any lady in her 30s with the ones in their 20s and you'd understand what I'm talking about.

Forget about the social media smiles and so called feminist propagandists. These ladies are going through emotional hell.

Only gynecologists, priests, spiritualist, pastors and prophets can relate to this.
Argue with your keyboard

If you like, kill yourself on top this matter

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Do not let silly things as this put mistrust in your budding marriage. Many here are sadists and without any concrete relationship of their own and they will spit their venom on yours. Be wise.

Thanks for this

cvibe2:

Guy code.

Use another phone to check without her knowledge.

Or go under the settings section for that particular status post. You will see all the people that have been excluded from seeing that post. Your name will be among. That is why you can't view.

Who told you Nija women recognize early when it comes to pretending, hiding and blocking.

All these checks and balances in 'marriage'?

sureheaven:
Only those who don't know Churchill will argue with tonto.

The guy is a Yahoo ritualist right from his days of sleeping in the burial ground in ondo to the days when maggots was coming out of his manhood to release them to the private part of the lady he slept with then.

Him and his other Yahoo guys used to parade akiavic cyber cafe then

Thank you. If only people ll look beyond her screams and craziness to see the truth in all she has been saying. Well I pray she receives inner peace from God

Firstorderwizard:
How is that your business?If She's qualified for the job then so be it.

Then you must be one of our problems in Nigeria

Wettoid123:
U are a suspect!

Which kind suspect?

Lolzzzzz. This woman get bad mouth ooh

popsy2:
Not supporting this but there are many men out there that has secret families outside their homes. I know it for a fact.

At the end of the day, it is a man's world tho. As for me, I will run tests on each of my kids at birth. Not taking any chances. Nobody should speak to me about trust here. Too many stuffs happening recently in marriages.

You are very correct. Desperate times call for desperate measures

Beautiful I love it. But can't seem to have the time and patience for the process

PDP should be careful. APC will sure capitalize on this and to displace them. Wrong move, wrong timing

Paulpaulpaul:
She is not a wife material. Three abortions!

Is that what you have to say? Rather heartless

PUSSYHOE:
Lol it's ok when you do it because you have a vagina right? Men don't want women to feed them but themselves, control yourself stop allowing your pussy cloud your judgement!

O boy, you are obviously exhibiting signs of frustration and depression .. Plz check it. There's something wrong somewhere

LOLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

PUSSYHOE:
He probably doesn't want to be tagged a woman hater, any man who says the absolute truth about women is considered a woman hater. Men who know the tricks and games of women is generally hated by women, the predator hates when the prey discovers it method of attack isn't it?

CLOWN, I'M OUT COS IT'S OBVIOUS EVERYONE'S LEFT YOU TO YOUR FATE....ENJOY.

PUSSYHOE:
lalasticlala for the love of God!!!

Don't bother calling him. He is simply doing you a favour. You mean you don't know?

PUSSYHOE:
Can you swear on your womb you have never use your sexuality to get money, material things or favour from any man in your life?

GOD FORBID THAT I SWEAR. I BELIEVE YOU UNDERSTAND THAT.

PUSSYHOE:
There is prostitution in every woman, they tend to use it once or more in their lifetime.

Hmmmmm...Atleast not in me...maybe the ones around you .

Your experiences were really terrible.

PUSSYHOE:
How can you tell what is right or wrong when you can't ppostulate without your emotions?

Oga pls don't be too quick to term everything 'emotions ' here. Atleast logic and reasoning should be applied here