₦airaland Forum

lookingfly:
it's glaring your parents over pampered him because he was the first child and spoilt him which they're still doing today......I don't blame him, i blame your parents. The simple solution is kicking him out of the house and let your parents write their will without he's name. When he hustle out there, he would come to terms with reality. All these should be done without pity.

Thank you so much... I mine tried one of those his useless attitudes when I came visiting. I had to get him arrested and he was given proper beating and was made to sign an undertaking. Nobody tell am, he left the house by himself . If my parents like, they shld re admit him again.. That's their problem. I have even cut off from them all

jesmond3945:
I think it is late now. He is already set in his ways. The best bet is to force him out. Let him start taking responsibilities on his own.

That's it. If only the parents re ready to do that

Anakazo22:
You don't need a prophet to tell you that this is a spiritual problem, your brother needs serious prayers to break such attitude, this is beyond advising or counselling.

It osnt any spiritual problem... Over pampering and he has been told that all properties are his... So such breeds selfishness , self centred beliefs and of he sees anyone as a threat to 'his inheritance ' he is ready to kill such person. I had to deal with my eldest brother and my parents cos they re the cause of such

houseontherock:
Your brother is frustrated, believe me and don't think he's doing fine because he's doing his doctoral program! Doing PhD in Nigeria is very frustrating especially if you do it in a public university with frustrated supervisors and little finding. He may be making money through field work and stuff like that but he's definitely using that money for his own research work unless he's employed or he's fully funded. However, it doesn't excuse his insensitivity because like they say "no be you cause him problem". He should be wise

IT ISNT FRUSTRATION.. his attitude is well known in igno land ... most first sons behave that way cos they have been over pampered and told that all properties are theirs

SportsHD:
damn, see how a human thinks. What a pity.

No mind them. That's how they reason and then turn their sisters as slaves in their parents house. I had to deal with my brother and my parents...

ImaIma1:
Your mum still serves his food? As what? His wife?

I think he has been made too comfortable and he doesn't feel the need to leave. And obviously been pampered and overindulged. I mean why should your mum still be serving him. Why can't he come back and cook or serve his food himself? Parents try to over-compensate for a child and they end up doing more harm than good to them.

There are some siblings like that. They lack emotional intelligence, empathy, compassion, etc. It's best to let them be. If it's possible to take your parents away from there so that he can stay alone, that would be better. Or he should be encouraged to rent his own place and move out.

You guys have a lot.on your hands.

My dear pls forget some igbo parents that re so annoying... His parents are the problem... Op shld just concentrate on his family and never spend nor invest his time on parents and siblings at all. To be sincere, his parents have fed his elder brother with rubbish. Hence such attitude. They shld all reap the fruits of their labor ( preferring a child above others)

Mybrotheralso:
My dad instead not my mom but he's ready to let him go now

Pls dont fool yourself. Just concentrate on yourself and leave your parents to clean up their mess. I tell you the truth... Dont spend your money and time on them cos they re gathering wealth for your brother. Just make sure you collect or gather what is yours and leave them to their fates. I m speaking from experience. IF POSSIBLE AND IF YOU CAN CUT OFF FROM THEM ALL FOR NOW AND SAVE YOURSELF SOME STRESS..... I speak from experience again..

kenzysmith:
Gerrout leave ur brother alone u re d main problem the fact he has his masters and PhD I think u should respect him and whereas he is the senior
He is d ist son so it is his birth right
Is your parents complaining? Y are u the one complaing better go and marry and leave your brother alone to enjoy himself. He is not a kid mind ur business

YOU AND ALL THOSE THAT LIKED YOUR COMMENT ARE ALL PATHETIC FOOLS... Just imagine this type of stupid mentality... This is one of the DEVILISH and stupid mentality you all have as first sons in igboland... Useless boys that call themselves men.. God knows my own brother sense don reset. Nobody tell am... All these igbo parents especially mothers that cause all this unnecessary problem in the home and then turn around to say that there is trouble in the home... Pathetic things

Mybrotheralso:
He's the first born out of 5 children. He's doing his PHD and has his own business. He still lives with our parents. So he does not pay for house, food or water. But can you imagine this brother of mine who makes money from his business doesn't contribute to the house for the same food he eats, when he makes money he goes to hotels and sleep over with women and prefers to train and help outsiders than bring something to the family. Recently, he had the effontry to reject my mummy's food on the ground that it was served late. I simply asked my mom to stop putting food for him.

Honestly this brother of mine has never brought joy to my parents and siblings. He has had several accidents driving carelessly, yet my mom still takes care of it all and she has even stayed over in the hospital when he had the last accident and became unconscious.

They're just the kind of brother one will have and you wished you never had a brother , my brother is exactly that kind of brother anyone will wish not to have. Not to talk of his dubious nature, you can't do simple business with him without him cheating on you. I once was rearing one animal and had to send him money for feeds but can you believe he was billing me in excess. We also contributed money to renovate our father's house and he emphatically told us he bought something which he didn't actually buy.

I wonder why God gave us this kind of brother, he has been like this since we all knew something and hasn't changed for good.
He has been sat down and talked to severally yet he will repent and still go back to his old ways .

So pathetic!

THROW HIM OUT OF THAT HOUSE AND HAVE PEACE.CASE CLOSED

Shooyie:
You again? You are filled with illogical hate.

Lol.... Yes me till you decide to reason properly and stopped typing rubbish. FAKE ASS PASTOR CALLED OSINBANJO NAA HIM YOU DEY MARKET... YOU NO SEE REASONABLE PEOPLE?

fredoooooo:
Na frustration fo kill all of una..

No be frustration and depression dey make you reason like MUMU?

ajumma:
discombobulated idiot

SENSELESS B(T)OY

ajumma:
fool

IRREDEEMABLE D..FT... FOOLISHNESS is enshrined in your DNA

olaboy33:
I don't know why we keep looking far.

Osinbajo is the best man for the job.

Nigeria is in a free fall and needs someone to urgently turn things around not someone who will come in to start learning the ropes.

That CHRONIC LIAR cum TEN TONGUED SERPENT... abeg shift

ajumma:
Killing and destroyed both public & private property?

See you see MUMU...

SavageResponse:
Would you have said this nonsense is you were one of the people who lost their loved ones and their source of livlihood as a result of the widespread violence that was orchestrated by this buffoon and his cohorts!

Widespread violence as you called it caused and led by who?

ajumma:
because they never killed your brother or relatives in the name of protest?

You re such a big f...ll

fredoooooo:
God bless you ..

God and devil curse you and that person you quoted...

Midas01:
You cannot rewrite history.

You forgot to mention that NG was complicit I'm sponsoring thugs to hijack and attack protesters.

FG also deployed soldiers to shoot and kill protesters but it's innocent protesters who later began a riot due to FG escalating the situation and killing people that you want to blame.

No.mind the foolish thing wey think say him be adult.

ajumma:
See your local reasoning that beclouded your senses.... Benjamin Mendy a Man City football player was denied bail in Britain for an offence is clearly bailable & you didn't shout what a country?
Yet local man want to grant bail to an idiot that orchestrated an attack on law enforcement agents that resulted in killing, maiming & injured thousand . Some sources of livelihood were looted & destroyed with this singular act of incitement etc.

Pls shut up already... Naa your family members orchestrate that attack... which kind stupid people wey call themselves adult full here sef?

Lovenorth:
Nice move, Northerners don't pumper terrorists, if these useless lawmakers happened to be in the East, different traditional titles would be given to them.

Dopemu

helinues:
What have you guys done about the incompetents you called leaders that are unable to tame the madness of UGM?

Always making unnecessary reference

You ve obviously taken over the position of that vulture griller as an IRREDEEMABLE D..FT

Oracleforce:
Where do you think he is now?.. Is he in the DSS hotel?

Don't start what you can't finish...I'm very sure that he will be regretting putting on that Biafra attire...because of some of those things that he supposes to be doing now...but because of the restriction of movement, he would not be able to do it...

He who run away in a fight, live to fight again...

Stop being silly all the time.

emmyluizzz:
be warn...I'm not your regular kind of guy

Lol... keep that warning to yourself

juman:
The old man is hallucinating.

Nigerian politicians only think of power not about religion.

Really?

Sirjamo:
Boko Haram was meant to convert non Muslims to Muslims, 12 years of Boko Haram, how many Christians have been converted?
How many Church have been converted to mosque?


All these useless old fools. Nigeria made them, most of them are former this, former that, but they want to burn down this country with their rotten old smelly mouths.


God punish any idiot that will quote me without using his brain.


Oloriburuku people.




I AM DONE TALKING

Pls be done talking your trash

emapeteum:
Sorry,I end my conversation with a spare part dealer who may not understand my language.

Envy gbuo gi ebea

emapeteum:
Am not envious of ill gotten wealth and unnecessary arrogance.Am well read and well informed with God's blessings.Am only envious of the Jews because of their contributions to global science and engineering.A tribe of less than 15 million people but with Nobel laureates than China.These are the people am envious of ,not a primitive tribe with stupid arrogance.

Oga when you re done crying come collect broken bottle wipe your tears..I'll gotten wealth indeed. Go ask the spirit of God to search you.. envy dey worry you...

Odkosh:
And you want to get out of school, yet you don't know difference between full and fool Hahahahahaha

It's obvious you dont lack sense if you never knew the reason for such being spelt differently... Naa that school be the only school around? Dopemu

Odkosh:
And you want to get out of school, yet you don't know difference between full and fool Hahahahahaha

It's obvious you dont lack sense if you never knew the reason for such being spelt differently... Naa that school be the only school around? Dopemu

emapeteum:
Sorry,am not poor.I have a trace of Igbo blood,but I don't agree with your aggressive , deceitful way of life.always thinking that you're the smartest when you are not.

That you ve traces of igbo blood never stopped you from being envious obviously...

emapeteum:
This is how a failure reason.They leave the issue and attack the messenger

You re the failure in your reasoning. So every wealth acquired is now I'll gotten? Pls get lost... See MUMU messager with evil and misleading messager