paramakina202: Who are your own candidates from Ohafia and Abriba stop spiting siliva everywhere.This is democracy where everyone can have their say.Make your own choice.Where in Bende LGA do you come from?
Lol... Spitting saliva indeed... Go do a better image laundering abeg cos this one is so so wack... Myopic citizen(youth) of Abia state
Calitoscassius: Total rubbish! the guy is a real man, i woulda done the same, i remember one nigerian girl who claimed to be 3 weeks pregnant for me, i was really happy, i wanted the baby, she started asking me to rent flat for her, open business for her, buy her a car. No problemo! I said, i remember giving her a 30k just for pocket money. After few day asked her for proofs of the pregnancy she sent me some clinic's paper's. Then mentioned that i will do a DNA, after 2 days of me mentioning DNA she rang me crying that....... whait for it......
She had a miscariage.
So i don't blame the man. Dey dia de wait for Prince charming to come marry you without been pregnant.
Lol.Oga you again? You ve got so much stories to tell as per women ooh..Haabaa!! Only you? lol
paramakina202: You are still cursing yourself up that won't solve the problem calm down.So who are the aspirants from those places you mentioned? Alex Otti was supported by everyone in 2014 election unfortunately he was rigged out by PDP rigging machine.Btw Ben Kalu is doing very well both in national assembly and delivering projects in his constituency.
Lol.. Which doing well in national assembly and delivering projects...That's has always been my problem with you guys from abia state.. You guys are so so MYOPIC . Thats why most of you cany stand side by side your counter parts from Anambra and imo states... Abia women are way smarter than you guys... See you talking of projects... are nt ashamed of those 'tuketuke' stuffs thrown around that you call projects? No wonder your governor cld do that gross embarrassment you call a flyover.. The entrance of your state capital says it all... MYOPIA..
You speak as of he didnt rig the election too. Abeg no start wetin you no know cos I know them well. Moreover his wife has been my close friend for over 30 years..
paramakina202: Crawl back to whatever hole you came out from and allow decent people to discuss in peace. If you are not from Abia why are you in pain?
No wonder that state is where it is cos of low mentalitied beings like you all littered there in that GLORIFIED VILLAGE called Abia state... SHAME ON YOUwith your myopic and sub standard projects here and there... A state where shoprite is a tourist centre... SHAME!!! SHAME!! SHAME
See your mouth like decent.. Is that Abia state close to decent? ODODONDO TALANTOLO
paramakina202: Are you from Bende or even from Abia state? What made it an insult...explain in plain language.
That's my lga ... Someone else from abiriba or ohafia shld go for such position.. Unaa no see people like Alex Otti? Are nt you ashamed enough of how backward Abia is? See akwaibom and ebony states, can you compare? Even take a look at other SE states... What's actually wrong with the mentality of its citizens?.. Can you compare that Benjamin Kalu to the present governorship aspirants of Anambra state? Who even curse unaa sef? God deliver that GLORIFIED VILLAGE CALLED ABIA STATE
BKayy: Tụfịakwara ndị Abia. Shameless people. Don't doubt this news, I know these people. They never learn. Abia is destined to be what it currently is. Which is Hopeless. It's not the Governor, it is the people
Even after Biafra is achieved, it is the right decision to maintain this current state boundaries so that the people in Abia state can continue their wrong decisions and hopelessness in peace without infecting others. The best way to curtail a disease is by isolation (quarantine)
You re so on point. That's my state but they re so archaic and backward
Sima04: truth be told, this Ben kalu is doing well. presently, there is no town or village within his constituency he has not touched in terms of developmental project, from schools to hospitals to electricity to educational grants to selected university students from each village that make up his constituency, so if folks are clamoring for him to come and contest to succeed ikpeazu, I don't think it is out of order. besides, its abia north's turn to prduce the next governor of abia state.
RUBBISH..All these bende men and their local and archaic mentality had better rest. Someone else from Abiriba or ohafia wld do better... What's Abia state own with all these governors and governor elects from bende? All of them gross disgrace... That's my lga but they shld all go and rest... see you talking of this criminal that is always arguing about their payments never enough for them as reps.. Same thing he complained when one late rep from Ngwa died.
advanceDNA: Yes, other girls will gladly accept as its not a big deal... That's exactly what people have been telling the OP.....it even happens to people dating without planning or talking about it ..... but the best is not agree like you said in case he decides to go an marry someone else after getting you pregnant
Maobichek: No lady who is in a relationship or married will be comfortable to be providing for herself, even if she does, with time she will be frustrated and the evidence will be clear for her boyfriend or husband to see, thank you.
I quite agree with you but I never expected them to get married so soon. They cld be dating while she supports him through his job search or whatever he tends to do for now... Atleast 2 good heads re better than one.
advanceDNA: God can step into any case.... .the point is some guys want to be sure the lady they want to marry can get pregnant. it doesn't matter whether she's a virgin or a retired prostitute.
Every man his choice. Mee I no do cos for me it might lead to complications and I wldnt want such in my life.make him go check next door . Afterall some other ladies are ready to accept such as long as they can handle and cope with it.That's their own choice...
Loverboy3333: Some girls are even looking for such opportunities, Regina Daniels married Ned with many wives and kids. I bet if this man was to be a billionaire na speed you for open legs to deposit sperm put.
Every lady mustn't act same way... People with their choices
Oksman: Nothing will befall anybody. You are so pained that you are not married yet, and someone else acted irresponsibly faster than yourself. Look if anyone has a share in your wish/curse, it's you and your evil friend who connected you to a "married" man to hook you up. It shows the low regards and the actual worth as a person she has for you because she alone knows you and your kind of lifestyle. "Birds of the same feathers flock together" so stop bleating like a goat in a pen! Your true self is not hidden to those who have discernment even if this forum is faceless. When you said a "friend" linked you up to this man, I hope you know the true def of the above quoted word when next you make an expose of yourself in a public forum.
advanceDNA: There are plenty cases of people medically certified fertile and not able to get pregnant..
It’s one thing to test/check for bio-markers of fertility it’s another thing for the mechanism of conception to fully happen.... Some ladies that have done multiple abortions are even fertile and get pregnant before some virgins..no one know exactly why
Science cannot explain it all....that’s why there’s always a part of research with the statement
“ the reason for this is not fully understood”
And that's where God steps in cos with Him ,All things are possible
RightToReject: Irresponsible - wannabe-woke - people cut across both genders, so don't make it a male issue. In fact, don't blame men who insist on having the non-virgin women in their lives proving the potency of their fertility by getting pregnant before formalizing their relationship - however unpalatable it seems - citing the kind of life most women live.
One is in my house as a guest presently; her fiance, who happens to be the godson of one of my trusted associates, pleaded that I host her in my house and allow her to stay in my guest room because she told them that she's here on an official assignment on behalf of the Nigeria branch of her employer. Her fiance even made me understand beforehand that she's a scrupulous woman, which fortunately or unfortunately she appears to be like in her persona and demeanor, but the reality from what I have observed and seen as her character is that of a typical high-end corporate LovePeddler who is here not just only running high-end hookups, but also fighting a man she's unconsciously told me made her abort severally for him when she was younger. All this is happening without the knowledge of her fiance, who's back home believing that he has the best kind of woman as a fiancee, citing how he boasted to me about her scrupulousness.
Wahala... God I thank you for your grace upon my life
Collysmith: If i insisted for her to be pregnant before marriage I wouldn't be suffering right now. I don't even know what to do whether to marry another wife because adoption is not in my plan.
Why didn't both of you do all necessary checks before getting married if getting pregnant before marriage waant considered? Although I dont subscribe to the latter
gwarotango: Oh so when he told his followers a few days earlier that he was going to Abuja to bring back Buhari's head that didn't warrant his arrest abi? Okay he will tell the judge that one at his next court date.
Icouldhave: how would I know, I don't stay with them only got complains from my mom ending of last year. he's my dad we respect him very much, that's why we looking for a reasonable way to sort this out.
the last time the family sat and deliberate on this issue, my elder brother asked him if my mom was the one visiting another man, how would he feel.
after that day he didn't talk with my brother close to a month.
Hahahahaha... You no go kill person with your last sentence
Calitoscassius: Yes! I did, i mean, why hold on to a husband or wife who wants out of a marriage? If she leaves fine! That means i can go seek other females companionships.
I admire your believes but no for me, i like to live in a reality world.
Funny enough I can easily walk away and never look back without any remorse. But before then, I wld want to be justified before taking such step. I always make sure I exhaust every means to ascertain that the so called misunderstanding isn't something else in disguise such as the partner looking for every means to leave. Once I m so certain of the scenario, I wld know the exact step to take even if the other party has a change of mind, I wld be gone never to go back cos I see such people as unstable, falling in and out of love. For me love is deliberate commitment which we all ve to keep working on.. I love being playful , happy and never a dull moment. So why shld I allow someone make me grow old before my time.. Hmm!!! Dem never born that person sef.. I ll just take a stroll afterall I ve always loved been alone and independent