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xendra:
everybody saying don't date an aggressive lady nobody saying don't cheat on your lady.

that's exactly where the problem is. and y it never ends

No mid them.. No matter the talk, the guy is already dead.. So who finally list it all?

KrystalConnect:
A friend of mine, a top official in EFCC Lagos State told me he invested 5million into MBA Trading And Capital Investment, some of his colleagues invested too and they just clocked their 4th month.

So as you can see guys, MBA is in safe hands..

But that shouldn't be your yardstick for judgement. LEARN TO TAKE AND BEAR YOUR OWN RISK

Daniria007:
Bihari still remain the best president Nigeria has ever had under a democratic system of government.

IRREDEEMABLE ZOMBIE.. TAKE THE CROWN FROM THE GRILLER

festacman:
Who can decipher the mind of the almighty God expect Himself who alone is I AM. He alone has the complete view of the BIG PICTURE, reason why He alone is SOVEREIGN.

Obviously, Pa Ayo Adebanjo must have had a broken heart when President Buhari emerged hale and hearty after Abba Kyari tested positive.

A class illustration of "If men were God!".

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Some people like you said same in the time of Abacha . But SUDDENLY IT HAPPENED AND WE ALL REJOICED WHEN WE HEARD THE GOOD NEWS. But DEMONDS went into MOURNING in their CLOSETS.

Were you one of them?

Did I just see 92 years? If true ,then Buhari must be 150years

Mandeyy:
I've told you the truth.

Lol.. YOUNG MAN WAKE UP.. OR GO FIND OUT FROM SITE OWNERS LIKE ROAD CONSTRUCTION HOW MUCH IS PAID TO CARPENTERS AND MAISON OR YOU THINK THEY ARENT AS IMPORTANT AS DOCTORS?

WHY BOTHER MYSELF. YOU ARE STILL A STUDENT.ABEGII GO READ BOOK FINISH BEFORE COMING TO TYPE HERE..I FORGET SAY NAA SMALL PIKIN I DEY TALK TO SEF

lawrenzooo:
No justification for comparing human life with that of a cow but if u have stayed in the north with this people u did understand why they cherish there cow. A man goes hungry all day because his reserving his little money to buy feeds for his cow. To most of them its there life investment. Then again a thousand cow should not be equated to a human life.

Pls no justification whatsoever.. PLS STOP THIS .. BUHARI GOVERNMENT IS REALLY WORKING WONDERS ON PEOPLE'S BRAIN.. COW!!COW!!COW!! WHAT'S ALL THESE RUBBISH? IF IT ISNT IMPORTATION OF GRASS FOR COWS, IT'S RUGA. IF NOT RUGA IT'S ONE RUBBISH ABOUT COWS .. SOME PEOPLE JUST NEED SOME WASHING AND RESETTING ON THEIR BRAIN

imohchard:
I feel cause of death should be ascertain.

Might probably be a disease or something. It sounds quite creepy.
It should be investigated. We can't afford another wuhan.

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Really? You mean the death of cow should be investigated? This is just too hilarious.

Pls think of better and much more productive ventures. YOU DONT NEED TO REASON LIKE Buhari . He has really done some brain resetting on some people..

Bluehill1051:
Why don't you help him sometimes?
In my own opinion, you're worse than those children. It is your type that will rather take photos of a dying person than actually saving them.

Really? But this comment sounds so awkward. Doesnt it?

0m0nnakoda:
The Ijaws are very much like that. That is how they ran the old Rivers statevbefore Bayelsa was removed. Ask Ogoni or Ikwerres

THATS A BIG FAT LIE

Wickedfacts:
All these Ijaw people sef. Akpabio has taken food away from them and they want to wail to death.

Why speak this way? Do you know the effect of this oil spillage and destruction on their land? Why are you all just too heartless? Take a tour to their land and then come back to read what you typed here

Babatunde40:
The Ijaws are fighting akpabio because he is from a minority tribe in the region. Replace akpabio now with their person, they will calm down. Rubbish

PLS STOP THAT. THE IJAWS ARE NOT LIKE THAT.. And pls spare them. That tribe or ethnic group has been and is paying a lot of price for oil drilling

Wickedfacts:
By the time this Coronavirus is over. China would bitterly regret a lot of things.

Yesterday, the Japanese government devoted 2 Billion dollars towards moving out their production out of China back to Japan. Others would follow suit. India already is seriously dealing with Chinese businesses in India.
The blockhead at the WHO should keep being an houseboy to China. He would be made a scapegoat.

I just love this. Let the world deal ruthlessly with them.. Stupid people

Mandeyy:
Doctors are not inclusive. A medical doctor will certainly find a well paying job or create one for him or herself. On the contrary, lawyers are not well paid; if you're not well connected, law profession is no longer lucrative except for senior lawyers. In the case of doctors, new diseases are emerging, and people are looking up to them to do something. So, your comment is fallacious. I've done a bit of bricklaying before, and I'm a medical student now. So, I know what I'm saying.

Thank God you said you are a.medical.student now. Be done with it and come face the real world. Then we can talk. Okay?

Smile4mee01:
Sister.... how am I selfish?

I told her my plans to travel in future. We were good friends... no sex nothing nothing.

Once in a while sef she will tell me how her date went. When I noticed she started catching feelings I pulled away and she was upset.

I think she hoped somehow I could have married her.

Now I doubt the if she really a friend,

Now that I have left Nigeria. She blocked from all social media. I.am ok with it.... I have moved on.

So do you discard a friend because your hope to marry him did not happen.... that's why I think it's not healthy to even be friends with a mature unmarried lady desiring marriage cause her priority is to get married while yours might have just been platonic. But if every lady treats her male friends like this.... not good enough.

No ill feelings anywayz... I hope she is better now. If we are related we will meet again.... life goes on.

It's okay.. She is only handling her feelings the way she knows best. Pls dont take it personal nor against her and just let her be. She ll unblock you when her feelings are now 'normal' towards you. It's just temporary. She ll be fine and your 'friendship' with her might continue afterwards

DexterousOne:
You are arguing with the man

When it is clearly his field

Of course Yes. He is trying to justify one of their silly theories or philosophy they teach themselves here

saracen:
https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman/

You exhibited what the great master tai2 calls artificial control. OP read and learn. I was a mugu till the master saved me.

Pls keep your dirty control or whatever philosophy you have there. He should simply stop being unnecessary emotional in his decision making and this doesnt mean same thing as 'controlling' or manipulating someone .
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE IS WHAT HE NEEDS AND NOT YOUR DEVILISH TEACHINGS FROM THE PIT OF HELL CALLED CONTROL(MANIPULATION)

djoey89:
They would just sell it to themselves and continue same old ish.. this people dont have good plans for this country.

Of course YES cos they have stolen enough monies from the nation's coffers

Subsea:
Atiku had this idea as one of his campaign promises and strategies but APC and their mumu followers cried blue murder and used it against Atiku

You see this APC criminals? Well I dont blame them. I blame Nigerians that are just too sentimental / emotional in decision making..

tai2:
@ TeeJay

Do you have a girlfriend or wife? Who is she and what does she do? So you don't want to control your relationship, you want your relationship to control you? You have to earn your woman's respect and that is what control is about. Love makes people act like fools, control is about restricting your inner fool so you can have a healthy relationship,

You are simply playing a CONSCIOUS and CALCULATED GAME which is MADNESS..RESPECT IS EARNED. WHY NOT EARN THE RESPECT OF YOUR PARTNER. Other than this childish game you calk control

TeeJay6:
No point reading the post, why would anyone want to control another human being? This craze for control is the very reason there is witchcraft and all the sort?
If you are worthy of respect she will give it to you, if she is just naturally troublesome then dont marry her all this talk of control is just pure madness

Thanks for this. You have simply differentiated the MEN from BOYS

elijahtemitope:
Same as what am going through now, a crush with 3 months pregnancy, but the guy left her, am now doing Mr Nice guy, with this story, i want to reduce my niceness to avoid story that touch

I ll.advise that she sorts herself with her family members, the unborn child's family and father. When they are all done, then you ll know your stand

Tankunland:
Nairaland you guys are so kind. You guys are my family, my father and mother God I can't believe this.

Someone called me and just prayed with me, someone called and just send me motivational videos, someone send me10k my God for lockdown. God bless you all. I just was missing her and that's why I wrote this thread but you guys have so supported me and encourage me like that day.

Please if you know you are hungry and 1k would be enough for you please send me your account number and I would send 1k to 2 people right now to eat and send some to my kid also. God bless you all and goodnight
He didn't even tell me his name. God of heaven. God bless you NIGERIANS

It's very obvious you love sharing.. Gush!!! You have got so much love in your heart to give..So much.. I pray that God keeps and guides your heart from wrongs / contaminations. Amen

Vavevivo:
Op thanks for sharing. Your story has given me hope. I contemplated on ending my life today because everything seems to have fallen apart.
My wife will put to birth this month and I have not registered her in any hospital because no money. I sold my laptop two weeks ago just to get us food for the lockdown and my rent will expire on the 17th next month. I’m just hoping for a miracle

So sorry for your predicament. But why dont we learn to plan our lives within our strength? See all of them hitting you at the same time..it's well with you.

Chi59:
They've been friends for 3 years, she was catching feelings, guy was not feeling the same way Overall he had to travel abroad to pursue his career. Lady blocks him as a way of dealing with rejection He comes to whine and give useless advice on nairaland.
How can you in all honesty say you're a friend to a lady who is over ripe for marriage? And for 3 solid years, you wasted her time hanging around her life. Now she's trying to piece herself together THE ONLY WAY SHE KNOWS by cutting off all memory of you you're complaining. You want your career, you want her affection. You have nothing to give in return. Yet you say he's not trying to eat his cake and have it.

My dear , Op is very very SELFISH

tiwiex:
I think he was sharing a strange behavior. It didn't sound like he was bothered. If he thought she was worth the trouble, they would have done something. I suspect his sixth sense suspected she had some weird behaviors that should be avoided. If they had dated and he was serious, this lady would have done the same oh and that would shatter any man. It's a pattern.

Really? Op is really bothered and heart broken. Thats the truth

DNSPro:
which feelings. Do you have comprehension problem? Who is catching feeling between op and the lady in question?

Op has feelings for her.. Just forget all this wrote up here.. HE IS PAINED THAT SHE HAS MOVED ON FASTER THAN HE THOUGHT LEAVING HIM..

DNSPro:
he is very right.

Not at all

israelmao:
Your dream couldn't be combined with the lady you described as comfortable,well travelled and beautiful even after your first degree?She saw you as someone who was not ready to give her the attention she wanted.

Thanks

PrimadonnaO:
So spinsters should be avoided?

The real issue here should be setting boundaries and properly defining association so no one gets funny ideas. Not that people should be careful being friends with ladies of marriageable age. What's to be careful about if it's a completely ordinary friendship?

Thanks for this. Op wanted an open ended relationship and the sharp babe ended it faster than he thought. Hence his whining here.. I really dont understand what he wanted from her.. He doesnt want any serious relationship with her but wants her attention, time and space.. SELFISH LOT

Zico5:
Before nko. Everyone is aware of the happenings in this government. Even sarrki knows he made a mistake in defending the ineptitude of this government. What baffled most is the silence of the vice president who everybody respect so much as a man of God. Could this be Buhari that promised heaven and earth? Something strange is going on in that presidency. Truth shall prevail soon.

Why not pity the VP? You should know that he is overwhelmed at and by all these happenings around him.. Dont you think he has been RELEGATED and EMBARRASSED enough?

Haaabaa!!! Let him be for now.. He has got enough wounds to nurse plss.

realestate99:
our people will say "someone that has a kid for you can not be called a concubine again". in as much your story is very touching, I am not comfortable with your shola going back to her baby daddy, I think there is always this bond that can't be explained between two ex lovers with a kid from their union. In all sincerity, it takes huge maturity to be in a relationship with a baby mama.

You are so so right. I have realized that the earlier one topped being UNNECESSARILY EMOTIONAL in decision making, the best for his or her future, peace and well being