₦airaland Forum

uuzba:
Are you in their house? Who made you judge?
You only heard one child's story
Do you even know the one the child does?.
What concerns you with trying to separate their family now?
Go and marry your own and let the complaining kid go and marry his own.
Leave the mum and dad to take care of each other

WICKED BEING. WE KNOW YOUR TYPE.

WaffenSS:
Don't worry he's not gonna last long. He's eating himself to an early death.

Sorry to burst your bubbles. Funny enough people like Op's dad last so so long and the woman dies

Bahamas95:
OP your story dey learn work for where my own dey. My siblings and I didn't enjoy fatherly love when we were kids even though our dad was rich but today levels don change. We left him and his money to find peace though it wasn't easy but no regrets. If I start typing to narrate what happened Oga Seun fit vex pursue me from Nairaland because the story long pass 4 Indian movies.




Just move on with your life and God will help you guys.

I live this and I believe this should be Op"s last resort should his mum refuse to move or keeps going back to her husband.

JUST MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE,Op. LEARN TO BE SELFISH AT THIS POINT. NO TIME TO WASTE AMD LEARN TO TAKE DECISIONS WITH LITTLE OR NO EMOTIONS ATTACHED.

jimharry21:
As far as I sympathize with your mum and you kids, I will honestly advice you not to hate or condemn your Father yet, it's only God Who knows the genesis of their problem visa-vis his anger. Your Father may actually be the victim here but decided to bear it on his own. If you eventually make it, take care of your mother as much as you take care of your Father.

REALLY? Victim indeed

Nekky5:
That kind of man would still pack down to the village if he hears they are there. It's such an unfortunate situation.

True talk. They are still respecting the man that isn't ready to be respected.. RESPECT IS EARNED AND NOT GIVEN.. Give it to him HOT HOT. Cut every ties with him right in his face and then abandon him. Fear no go let am find una come..I no go add shame cos the man no get shame at all..

busar:
Have you spoken with your dad? Call him perhaps in the middle of the night. Have a father to son conversation in a respectful manner. And let's see the outcome..

Story..

Lekan239:
uncles from my dad's don't Care I.e even if they are okay themselves. Father's mother is in the village sufferin. The only family who is a little bit okay, promise me and abandoned. My mom's family are always ready to help her out, but she won't ask for help, in fact they don't even know what she passing through

Oga your mum's siblings know what she is passing through. Ask your mum to tell you what actually happened. They have simply left her to her fate. And I pray she doesnt die in her 'FOOLISHNESS' (So sorry for using such word. But thats exactly the right word for her action). I have had elderly friends that acted like your mum. One was a delta lady that was my hairdresser while I was growing up. I was very close to her.. She worked out her life . bought land,built ,trained their 4 kids (3 boys and 1 girl). But she never enjoyed the fruits of her labor. I came home recentlly and really wanted to go see her just for some old time gist after more than 20years. Only for my mum to tell me she had died due to health complications caused by accumulated stress and her LAZY husband cruising around in different cars and looking so young and fresh courtesy of the children he didnt train..


MY DEAR HAVE NO PLACE IN YOUR HEART FOR YOUR DAD.. JUST MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND ASSUME HE NEVER EXISTED.

.RUBBISH.. Naaso mama maigwe just died like that..

Lekan239:
thanks very much. I'm doing everything in my power and waiting patiently for this lockdown of a thing to be over. My days in school are numbered that I surely know off all I'm just thinking about is getting a petty job which I could engage in after I withdraw. As for my dad, I will follow your advice

PLS ABANDON YOUR FATHER FOR NOW IF NOT FOREVER AND USE THE SCARCE RESOURCES YOU HAVE FOR YOUR MUM AND SIBLINGS. I TELL YOU, YOUR DAD LL REMAIN A COST CENTER /SHELL PIPE THAT HE HAS ALWAYS BEING. TRUST ME YOU LL FEEL USED WHEN AND IF THINGS TURN AROUND IN HIS FAVOR.

HE CANT AND WONT CHANGE. WAYWARD LIFESTYLE DON ENTER HIM BODY. SO DONT EVEN BOTHER YOURSELF WITH SUCH UNNECESSARY BURDEN..

People like him dont understand or feel any form of remorse for their actions. They believe they are simply doing you favour. And so treat them they way they ought to be treated like 'TRASH' Then only ll they return to their senses if they actually ll and as for you , emotional hurt ll sieze.

NO HARD FEELINGS. THAT'S LIFE. Goodluck

Femsyn:
This is a very typical story of many Nigerian homes. Later in the man's old age, when children and wife ignore and treat him like trash, one stranger, in the name of a fiance, who has no idea of their history, will become judgmental and share blames.

Another uncle will encourage other women to endure abuse, just because his own mother barely survived a marriage with an egotistical and insensitive man.

How you treat this man later is completely up to you and your siblings, as we all have different tolerance levels, and no one has any right to question your decision. Good or bad. However, I will suggest not to pay evil with evil, as these people have a way of getting hooked in our conscience, especially after they die.

In cases like this, I wonder if women deny their own families, as soon as they get married.

OP, where are your uncles, aunties and grandparents?

Trust me they must have warned her but she refused to listen.

bukatyne:
What of your mother's siblings?

And have you engaged her why she keeps putting up with your dad? I think you need that answer to intelligently take a step.

Maybe her siblings cautioned her earlier. But she didnt listen and so they have left her to her fate . And they did just the right thing.. Maybe she wants to learn the hard way

TheGreatIYANU:
Just focus on getting your mum into full recovery. Do whatever you must, as far as it is legal and godly.

Dont be ashamed to hustle right now... carry block if you must.

Once she is better you and all your siblings should really round and take her (forcefully if needed) to her peoples place pending when one of you can get a place.

Dont completely abandon your father, cater for him to the best of your ability but ensure your mother is fine.

That should be your sole singular focus right now.

Cater for which father? Pls Op shouldn't waste a single dime on him or else he ll SURELY regret it.. THEIR LITTLE RESOURCES SHOULD BE USED WISELY AND NOT ON A WAYWARD MAN THAT LL THROW THAT RESOURCES ON THE NEXT AVAILABLE GIRL RIGHT INFRONT OF THEM.

MEN LIKE THAT ARE EVERYWHERE IN PH..

24SEVEN:
NGpatriot, you are one of those Nigerians who fail to understand realities. If Oil is to become worthless, whatever IGR you feel Lagos has will crumble in your very before.. Do you know the sheer number of other businesses and financial transactions/obligations hinged solely on oil business. If oil fails, they fail.

FYI, Gas industry is the next big thing. Rivers is primely positioned to it's fullest advantages. I've said it severally in this forum that Lagos has nothing on Rivers, except hype. When shit hits the fan, Rivers will stand strong. We got Seaports, NLNG, petrochemical facilities, Airports, Refineries, landmass etc. We can only get better. Our first step to getting there is right leadership.. People/businesses will always follow the money, and the money is in Rivers state.


for example if Nigeria should split now, what will sustain Lagos?? You people should think objectively. Lagos is just an example of living a fake life with someone else's resources. A day of reckoning always awaits.

EXACTLY

Lol.. Clown of the century..

timesup234:
The United states is the biggest fraud and criminal entity ever known to mankind. America is the definition of thievery

Then your beloved Nigeria is what?

GamalNasser:
Hmmm just yesterday I was saying to a friend that I suspect they will close a diamond bank in my estate and I was right , looks they are closing diamond bank branches in areas where they already had Access branches , Methinks Herbert Wigwe is just using COVID crunch as an excuse to ditch Diamond bank staff he inherited in the acquisition

Very true

luvluvluv:
Honestly eh, some advice I see here
In essence are u saying they should go ALL-IN to an investment they haven't tried before just because ur trying to underscore someone?

Who advises anyone to take a huge loan from a bank to start off a business? People should only take such loans for business continuity! That is, it's already established.

If u must invest, do it with what u are willing to lose. It's that simple. Let's stop mis informing others

Thanks for this..moreover which bank does such? Start up capital? Lol.. Maybe he doesnt know that the aim of banks requesting for collateral is never to sell but just to hold something that the customer is 'emotionally' tied to . so he ll always 'remember' to pay..

Zezit:
I don't get all this talk about "investing what you can afford to lose"

Yet when you about to start a business, you not only put in all your money, you take a bank loan in addition. Are you 100% sure that business will survive when statistics indicate that over 80% of new businesses collapse within the first 5 years.
Why don't you people also advise entrepreneurs to start business with only what they can afford to lose? Instead you unsolicited advisers flood the internet with "how to get bank loan using your collateral.", "how to borrow money from relatives ", "how to get interest free loans" etc. And then when the business fails, the bank comes for their properties and one is out in the streets if not careful.
Abeg ee

A quick one here. IT'S NEVER WISE TO BORROW JUST TO START UP A BUSINESS.. Pls try to avoid that..

ogwuche4u:
You are just a wannabe. If you truly know your onion, you no go spit this nonsense.

Yes of course I do and thats why I said INVEST WHAT YOU CANT AFFORD TO LOSE. No hard feelings oga

brightk:
Who b dis one again

Naa me.. INVEST WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD TO LOSE

ogwuche4u:
What do you know about the fx market? It's people like you that lives with regret cos of your fickle mind. If you are scared of taking risk, go get a job and earn salary besides, that is what 95% of Nigerian youths know 'JOB'. And because of lack of job, they are always frustrated. How am I not sure you are? If you don't have The money to invest, save and join. Don't be bittered.

Oga know all, I hear you.. For your info I m an fx, and crpto investor.. INVEST WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD TO LOSE..

NOTHING LAST FOREVER.

DONT BE DECEIVED

Uchek:
"I have seen what is done to Yoruba entrepreneurs in Igboland"

Please educate me on what is done to Yoruba entrepreneurs?

No mind am. Liar like am

Hotfreezers:
All these Nyamiris and that Omo ale animals talking nonsense here are very lucky I didn't see these last 3 pages when the exchanges were hot. I would have made you deactivate your accounts.

As for that ignorant bastard claiming to be from Osun state, I actually don't care if you're from Ouagadougou or Fiji. If you talk like a bastard, think like a bastard, act like a bastard, you're a bastard and you should be sacrificed to appease Ogun.

Yorubas on commenting on Nairaland are very lucky. I have lived in Nyamiri land and done business there. I have seen Nyamiris hatred for Yorubas first hand. I have seen what is done to Yoruba entrepreneurs in Igboland.

Nyamiris shouldn't worry. Yorubas are now prepared to dish to them what they have been dishing to Yorubas.

You are a BLOODY LIAR.. which state did you do business? CHRONIC LIAR like you

ola6:
I no tell you?

2023 too is a done deal. See you in 2027...una go hear am igbos. Let Nnamdi and Omokri dey deceive una.

Lolzzz.. Who is better off now? Pls learn to see beyond your nose..

twinboyandgirl:
Firstly, MBA's current minimum investment is 1000 usd. I think they have stopped the investment below 1000 usd.

Secondly, I don't think its wise to go into any investment at this period. You don't know how the economy would be in a few months as a result of COVID-19 which may in turn affect any of these investments.

Just watch and act!

Wisdom

dogtails:
You are just a comedian plus ur ignorance is top notch..U have been seeing alerts flying but trust me,Dont let jealousy kill u one day

Seeing alerts and receiving payments doest guaranteed anything. PLS INVEST WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD TO LOSE..

bizgenera:
You fear is noted, but you need to know how money is made in the forex market before you rubbish the effort of this company.

I have been monitoring them for about two years now. I am a forex trader myself and I know that it is very possible for MBA to pay 15%.

Let me explain to you in lay man language how money is made in the forex market.

We speculate on the rise and fall of currency pairs exchange rates. With the right knowledge and tool (called strategy) and proper money management, if a trader is able to spot 10 entries in a month of trading and he gets 6 right and 4 wrong, such a trader will then be in good profit.

If each win brings time 3 based on his risk/reward target , it means his 6 wins will actually be18 wins (6 * 3) while his losses will be 4 (4 * 1).

This means he has a net win of 14 (18 - 4)

So, if He is managing N100,000 for instance and he is risking N3,000 on each trade, it means he would have been able to make a profit of N42,000 which is like 42% R.O.I. (14 wins x N3,000 risk per trade)

He can then pay his investor his 15k (15%) and he will still have 27k (27%) left as his profit.

If in the following month, the trader is able to make just 10% which is rare if he is a good trader, he can still take from his last months profit to pay his investor to maintain his integrity while he would hope for a better result in the next trading month. Etc

That is how this business works.

Now, MBA is a very big company in terms of the liquid cash they are controlling. These guys can afford to get the best of traders in the world or the best of fx robots in the world to grow their funds. All they need to do to sustain thier business is a regular monthly profit of 30% average and they can fulfil their obligations.

Forex trading is not for the faint hearted. It is not easy! But for those who know how to trade, it is a gold mine!

So, if MBA is telling you to fly on their wings, if they are willing to shoulder all the risk and pay a guaranteed return monthly and there are lots of people to testify to receiving alerts monthly, why should one worry about what is obtainable in America?

Do you know that food vendors and road side traders do make more than 100% turnover weekly? If you engage in any trading activity and you are very good at it, you can always make fantastic returns.

Your regular America and Nigeria's investment companies by law usually invest in treasury bills, bonds and other safe instruments with less than 20% returns annually that is why they cannot give their investors fantastic profit like MBA. They do not trade, they only buy safe instruments.

I am a forex trader and I once had MBA like vision years back. So, I can relate.They should be supported with prayers to succeed because the monies they are making in the 5 trillion dollar a day market is coming from abroad. They are not collecting from Peter to Pay Paul. The Forex trading market game is a worldwide game. Those with mediocre knowledge of it loses to those with the right skill. That is how it works.

I am not an employee of MBA neither have I been paid to write this. I am yet to invest because I trade my funds myself but they are not a Ponzi company.

And they are so smart that they have Aso rock and some big shorts in the Presidency backing them up. You needed to have been present at their gala events. These guys burn money to feed and host guests for free.

Spiritually, the M.D is connected to Pastor Chris and I think he is prominent at Christ Embassy. Would he want to tarnish his reputation in his church with him running a ponzi scheme?

Who would have the mind of creating a package to help people pay their rents,children's school fees, easy car ownership etc would that be an evil person? I see this as a calling for Mr. Maxwell. I pray he fulfils.

Pls make your points and keep the issue of his church out of this.. DEVIL DEY ALSO GO CHURCH.

hemanewton:
Men are investing big here oooo. Anyway life is actually in levels sha. Lol

PLS INVEST WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD TO LOSE. BIG MONEY BIG TEARS WHEN BUSINESS GO SOUTH REMEMBER

Fxmanager:
You should learn to differentiate between someone being bitter and someone asking questions that matters to investors, especially when investors are making payments into an investment company account that is not regulated by the government. Can you provide the answers to the questions about why MBA's twitter page is suspended and why answers to the reason for the suspension and regulations of MBA's activities is not provided by the owners to investors, even when they are mentioned on twitter?

Our mission as experience online investors is to educate gullible and naive investors in this forum, and nothing can stop that. My friend lost #16millions and his brother in an oil company lost #40millions to a forex ponzi scheme, due to their gullibility and naivety. We can't count the number of investors that has been calling us to invest in us, asking of our investment package, requesting for our account number to pay money into, we are talking about millions here. We let them know that they are opening up themselves to be defrauded by a scammer/scam scheme, and we also made a decision to educate gullible and naive investors of this forum and country, which no one can hinder us. Those payouts does not mean anything, there are simply baits to the promoters of the scheme, and you know it. Many investors are falling for it as we write, taking up loans, selling lands and properties to invest in the scheme, exactly what the promoters of the scheme wanted. Simple questions that an investor need to ask like what is our money used for, and can they prove beyond reasonable doubt? An investor can't ask.

Some investors in the scheme have decided to wickedly lured their gullible and naive neighbours into the scheme, even after knowing that the scheme is a ponzi scheme, so that their gullible neighbour's money was will be use to pay them. Will we hear another waves of stories of people being bathed with acid because they lured others into a scam/ponzi scheme, as we heard in the past? Is it because you have your money in the scheme or have recovered your money from the scheme, you now feel you can run amok luring others into the scheme, so that you can recover your money or make more money from the scheme, after knowing that the scheme is a scam waiting to happen. You said that we are bitter, what can you then say about the above described investors? An investor who knows the truth about an investment scheme as a scam/ponzi scheme, luring others into the scheme. Are they not wicked and heartless, with dead conscience? Be the judge.

Pls allow people learn their lessons the HARD WAY, THE ONLY WAY. You can't force your opinion on them.. Yes its for their good so they be guarded and guided but allow them take their risk foolishly or with wisdom.

Why take loans , sell properties etc just to invest? Thats a BIG NO NO.. But what do I know and say ? 'NAA THEIR (MY) MONEY'

PLS INVEST WISELY .INVEST WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD TO LOSE

KayMan05:
FYI MBA trading and Capital investment limited is being monitored by the Presidency which is a green flag for me:
https://www.today.ng/business/finance/presidency-moves-strengthen-fiscal-discipline-aso-rock-244280

ARE YOU A KID? OR ARE YOU JUST LOOKING FOR SOMETHING TO BELIEVE?

whirlout:
Lol..story loading

PLS HAVE SOME WORTH OR PRETEND TO IF YOU HAVE GOT NONE

tonysunkan:
If this is true, then the whole issue is politicised.

Is it all the bags of rice that are infested?

Why can't Oyo state simply destroy those that are bad?

Returning them is like paying back with contempt and having hearts filled with vindictiveness.

Why not listen to yourself before typing? Do you think everyone is that cheap? Some people have got some WORTH. Pls do have some

sapele914:
Shows how opaque your mind is, what do you really know, other than wailing? As if that useless former Ijo drunk President knew anything about governance?

Whatever 'the drunkard' did to make Nigeria better than what it is today was worth it.. Cos we all know that we have the worst government so far in history..