₦airaland Forum

Tajbol4splend:
You can't understand my point, I get it, it's beyond you,.so you had to think it's stupid, but the people who do, do

And again pretend to be smart

LOVEGINO:
Based on the interview from the horses mouth on INVICTA FM. The so call lady went there with her friend and the guys asked her friend to go and come back later. To me oooo, d babe just wan try something new.

Adventurous girl has gotten more than what she wanted /bargained for

middlebelter:
What an argument. In elementary geography there is what is called the pull and push factor for population? The pull factors such as economic attractiveness, peace, infrastructure are not as much in the other Yoruba lands as Lagos, nevertheless you go to nearby Ogun state which is not Federal project as alleged by you and tell me if there are no considerable Igbo population as you claim.
Now, imagine if they stop selling land to your people because of such comment as yours, you will be the first to run outside shout marginalisation. Let us put behind us all these unprofessional sentiments and move forward.

They need the 'Igbo's ' money.. They can't just stop selling their lands cos they sell expensive to the igbos

membranus:
Did you go to Ibadan and find Ibo missing there?

Have you visited Dugbe, Mokola, Ring Road, Challenge and did not see Ibo people selling their fashion wares and motor parts, or at Gates, selling their building materials?

Where are the Yorubas and the Hausas given the same liberty to sell in Enugu and Onitsha? If they try it, overnight all their stores will be looted by robbers supported by the whole indigenes.

Ibos want access to other people's lands while they are denying other tribes access to their own lands.

Very soon, it wiil be "back to your tents O Isreal" and then we will see who will be the ultimate losers.

LIAR like you.. Who has looted any of your wares in the east. Such a BLOODY LIAR

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Tajbol4splend:
Lagos built Nigeria brut Nigeria built Abuja

Pls pretend to be smart

Angelfrost:
It's as well she deletes them all... She probably senses you would be a nosy, distrustful spy (a very childish and petty behavior)!!!

Married or not, everyone has a right to privacy, especially phone privacy... Going through a person's messages without permission is WRONG!!!

PRIVACY my foot

MichealKin50:
This is the same girl December last year before proposing to her, I asked her if she has cheated on me before. To get the truth from her, I lied to her that I've cheated on her she also told me she has cheated on me. When I finally told her that I was lying about cheating on her that since we met I've never seen another girl she also told me that she was lying too about cheating on me. When I told her to swear with the Holy Bible she refused to swear. I went ahead and proposed to her on 31st December hoping to marry her before end of this year.

SHE IS A CHEAT.. But you dont need the bible swearing . do you?

Poloyanabo1:
The most incompetent, clueless, and useless governor to have ruled rivers state.
under him port harcourt is very dirty and has become an eyesore,
Timariv disbanded and thousands lost their job, all scholarship boards have been scrapped, no new school has been built,
no new job has been created, no people oriented scheme, no support for farmers hence the inability of rivers state to feed itself, nepotistic and tribalistic government, pensioners have not been paid.
I can go on and on...
Wike is worse off than buhari.
Affliction shall not rise a second time, may God save us from wike!

LIAR !!!LIAR!!!LIAR

etiumo:
ADVICE FROM A FOREX TRADER PERSPECTIVE: FOLLOW YOUR MIND. In business, you dont put all your eggs into one basket. Every business is risky be it farming, transport, bet9ja, forex or any kind of business. So, MBA is not immune to risk. Invest with amount that if you loss, your life will still continue. However, as long as MBA makes its money from forex trading, it will survive and continue to survive. This is because in forex we make money when the price of currency goes up and when the price comes down. Note that COVID 19 has already killed a lot of businesses. Yet MBA is still standing. To play safe you can invest just 50% of the intended amount on MBA

WISDOM

KayMan05:
Could you please mention one ponzi scheme with legally binding Contractual Agreement with its clients?
It is evident, even to the blind,that MBA Forex is in business and will remain in business as long as her business model works.
I HOPE YOU WILL BOW OUT IN SHAME WHEN YOUR JUNE 1ST DOOMSDAY PROPHECY FAILS.

Take your risk as you have being doing. But as for that paper you call MOU, NEVER you bank on that. Okay? I have seen lots come and go even with MOU

[quote author=henry4lov1 post=89223083]Congrats bro, achieve alot physically so that when she sees how far u have become she will see what she has lost [/quote


Are you for real? Do you live your life this way? And what makes you feel the girl hasnt got a richer catch? Abeg focus in your life and stop reasoning and acting that way.. TOO LOW AND IMMATURE

Farki:
I used to think like him though, that real men support their women regardless of what they bring to the table. It could be down to lack of experience and Nigerian culture of being a male provider.

After hearing some women around me brag about using men's affection to their advantage my mind completely changed.

It's a good thing he has learnt his lesson on time.

Good. No one says being nice is out of place. But why kill or stress yourself over a lady or guy that brings little or nothing to the table? He or she has got nothing to lose should the relationship go south. So painful to see such person walk away with ease

Farki:
Wait something is very strange about this story. You were working another job on top of your regular work to pay her bills!

What was she doing with her life? She didn't have a job or her own side hustle, did her family abandon her?

You should be very grateful that you were able to get rid of the parasite before she sucked you dry.

Why blame the girl? Blame Op that was ready to be her SLAVE.

Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless

You knew she was a money monger ,yet you continued. God saved you the day she saw your payment voucher ..if not that your 360k won't have even been enough for upkeep in the house. I dont still understand why you guys kill yourself just to impress someone. Is it inferiority complex or what?

It took the lady leaving for the scales in your eyes to fall off. It's well with you.. Bragging about spending or should I say wasting money on someone just to be her 'slave'.

Chosen1984:
Look within.. Nigeria has the Cure..
Ezekil 47:12, Revelation 22:2

we need to Prayerfully look Within!

Have u had Of Siamweed?

Siamweed.. Reminds me of agricultural science in secondary school

NLReposter:
The first one you sent can't be accounted for

you are sending another?

That is so selfless of you Mr Jack

Selfless indeed

bukatyne:
I believe at this stage, the siblings should step in if she lets them to.

But the wasted years......

That ll only happen if they have nt moved on with their lives having other things and happenings taking their time. Let's all know that people might NEVER have all the time to wait till foolish person comes to his or her senses.. Not that they might not want to help but they might be so occupied with other issues that no time to spare ...

I DONT WAIT FOR ANYONE. I RATHER MOVE AND YOU CATCH UP WITH ME IF AND WHENEVER YOU COME TO YOUR RIGHT
SENSES.. NO TIME TO CHECK TIME

Bahamas95:
Exactly, our father made us tough because we forgot about him completely. My younger sister who is the last among us now reasons like a full grown woman, nothing moves her. She sees every challenge as a stepping stone. She will be graduating this year without any assistance from a useless father, uncles/aunties....We have been taking care of ourselves from day one. Even when he dies today am not sure any of us will attend his burial. What's on my mind now is how to complete my programme and get married in not too distant future and be a responsible husband/father. I will shower my children with the fatherly love our father deprived us.

Baba God please bless me with a virtuous woman when the time comes.

Sure HE ll. God's Grace keep you safe and sound..

uuzba:
Are you in their house? Who made you judge?
You only heard one child's story
Do you even know the one the child does?.
What concerns you with trying to separate their family now?
Go and marry your own and let the complaining kid go and marry his own.
Leave the mum and dad to take care of each other

WICKED BEING. WE KNOW YOUR TYPE.

WaffenSS:
Don't worry he's not gonna last long. He's eating himself to an early death.

Sorry to burst your bubbles. Funny enough people like Op's dad last so so long and the woman dies

Bahamas95:
OP your story dey learn work for where my own dey. My siblings and I didn't enjoy fatherly love when we were kids even though our dad was rich but today levels don change. We left him and his money to find peace though it wasn't easy but no regrets. If I start typing to narrate what happened Oga Seun fit vex pursue me from Nairaland because the story long pass 4 Indian movies.




Just move on with your life and God will help you guys.

I live this and I believe this should be Op"s last resort should his mum refuse to move or keeps going back to her husband.

JUST MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE,Op. LEARN TO BE SELFISH AT THIS POINT. NO TIME TO WASTE AMD LEARN TO TAKE DECISIONS WITH LITTLE OR NO EMOTIONS ATTACHED.

jimharry21:
As far as I sympathize with your mum and you kids, I will honestly advice you not to hate or condemn your Father yet, it's only God Who knows the genesis of their problem visa-vis his anger. Your Father may actually be the victim here but decided to bear it on his own. If you eventually make it, take care of your mother as much as you take care of your Father.

REALLY? Victim indeed

Nekky5:
That kind of man would still pack down to the village if he hears they are there. It's such an unfortunate situation.

True talk. They are still respecting the man that isn't ready to be respected.. RESPECT IS EARNED AND NOT GIVEN.. Give it to him HOT HOT. Cut every ties with him right in his face and then abandon him. Fear no go let am find una come..I no go add shame cos the man no get shame at all..

busar:
Have you spoken with your dad? Call him perhaps in the middle of the night. Have a father to son conversation in a respectful manner. And let's see the outcome..

Story..

Lekan239:
uncles from my dad's don't Care I.e even if they are okay themselves. Father's mother is in the village sufferin. The only family who is a little bit okay, promise me and abandoned. My mom's family are always ready to help her out, but she won't ask for help, in fact they don't even know what she passing through

Oga your mum's siblings know what she is passing through. Ask your mum to tell you what actually happened. They have simply left her to her fate. And I pray she doesnt die in her 'FOOLISHNESS' (So sorry for using such word. But thats exactly the right word for her action). I have had elderly friends that acted like your mum. One was a delta lady that was my hairdresser while I was growing up. I was very close to her.. She worked out her life . bought land,built ,trained their 4 kids (3 boys and 1 girl). But she never enjoyed the fruits of her labor. I came home recentlly and really wanted to go see her just for some old time gist after more than 20years. Only for my mum to tell me she had died due to health complications caused by accumulated stress and her LAZY husband cruising around in different cars and looking so young and fresh courtesy of the children he didnt train..


MY DEAR HAVE NO PLACE IN YOUR HEART FOR YOUR DAD.. JUST MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND ASSUME HE NEVER EXISTED.

.RUBBISH.. Naaso mama maigwe just died like that..

Lekan239:
thanks very much. I'm doing everything in my power and waiting patiently for this lockdown of a thing to be over. My days in school are numbered that I surely know off all I'm just thinking about is getting a petty job which I could engage in after I withdraw. As for my dad, I will follow your advice

PLS ABANDON YOUR FATHER FOR NOW IF NOT FOREVER AND USE THE SCARCE RESOURCES YOU HAVE FOR YOUR MUM AND SIBLINGS. I TELL YOU, YOUR DAD LL REMAIN A COST CENTER /SHELL PIPE THAT HE HAS ALWAYS BEING. TRUST ME YOU LL FEEL USED WHEN AND IF THINGS TURN AROUND IN HIS FAVOR.

HE CANT AND WONT CHANGE. WAYWARD LIFESTYLE DON ENTER HIM BODY. SO DONT EVEN BOTHER YOURSELF WITH SUCH UNNECESSARY BURDEN..

People like him dont understand or feel any form of remorse for their actions. They believe they are simply doing you favour. And so treat them they way they ought to be treated like 'TRASH' Then only ll they return to their senses if they actually ll and as for you , emotional hurt ll sieze.

NO HARD FEELINGS. THAT'S LIFE. Goodluck

Femsyn:
This is a very typical story of many Nigerian homes. Later in the man's old age, when children and wife ignore and treat him like trash, one stranger, in the name of a fiance, who has no idea of their history, will become judgmental and share blames.

Another uncle will encourage other women to endure abuse, just because his own mother barely survived a marriage with an egotistical and insensitive man.

How you treat this man later is completely up to you and your siblings, as we all have different tolerance levels, and no one has any right to question your decision. Good or bad. However, I will suggest not to pay evil with evil, as these people have a way of getting hooked in our conscience, especially after they die.

In cases like this, I wonder if women deny their own families, as soon as they get married.

OP, where are your uncles, aunties and grandparents?

Trust me they must have warned her but she refused to listen.

bukatyne:
What of your mother's siblings?

And have you engaged her why she keeps putting up with your dad? I think you need that answer to intelligently take a step.

Maybe her siblings cautioned her earlier. But she didnt listen and so they have left her to her fate . And they did just the right thing.. Maybe she wants to learn the hard way

TheGreatIYANU:
Just focus on getting your mum into full recovery. Do whatever you must, as far as it is legal and godly.

Dont be ashamed to hustle right now... carry block if you must.

Once she is better you and all your siblings should really round and take her (forcefully if needed) to her peoples place pending when one of you can get a place.

Dont completely abandon your father, cater for him to the best of your ability but ensure your mother is fine.

That should be your sole singular focus right now.

Cater for which father? Pls Op shouldn't waste a single dime on him or else he ll SURELY regret it.. THEIR LITTLE RESOURCES SHOULD BE USED WISELY AND NOT ON A WAYWARD MAN THAT LL THROW THAT RESOURCES ON THE NEXT AVAILABLE GIRL RIGHT INFRONT OF THEM.

MEN LIKE THAT ARE EVERYWHERE IN PH..

24SEVEN:
NGpatriot, you are one of those Nigerians who fail to understand realities. If Oil is to become worthless, whatever IGR you feel Lagos has will crumble in your very before.. Do you know the sheer number of other businesses and financial transactions/obligations hinged solely on oil business. If oil fails, they fail.

FYI, Gas industry is the next big thing. Rivers is primely positioned to it's fullest advantages. I've said it severally in this forum that Lagos has nothing on Rivers, except hype. When shit hits the fan, Rivers will stand strong. We got Seaports, NLNG, petrochemical facilities, Airports, Refineries, landmass etc. We can only get better. Our first step to getting there is right leadership.. People/businesses will always follow the money, and the money is in Rivers state.


for example if Nigeria should split now, what will sustain Lagos?? You people should think objectively. Lagos is just an example of living a fake life with someone else's resources. A day of reckoning always awaits.

EXACTLY

Lol.. Clown of the century..

timesup234:
The United states is the biggest fraud and criminal entity ever known to mankind. America is the definition of thievery

Then your beloved Nigeria is what?