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Jeweltz:
Good afternoon my fellow women,

This is going to be a long Post

Kindly be reminded that I don't need insultive commentaries as I'm already hurt by the narratives I'm about to share . I only need an advise. Google search lead me to this website few hours ago.

I have been into many relationship in the past with guys that their behaviour and way of life are nothing to write home about. The last straw that had the camel's back was the one that made me gave up on men to focus solely on my career. I was disvirgined at the age of 22 by a guy who I gave 100% love to.

It happened;

Sometimes around last year, a friend of mine was having her birthday. She was a colleague from work. I work in an audit firm in Lagos, VI( identity witheld). I didn't plan to spend the night there, but as it happened to be on a Saturday, I didn't have any objection when she asked me to spend the night in her place.

About 7pm in the evening, we decided to go out and chill which will be funded by her boyfriend. It was there I met this guy, which was a friend of the said boyfriend. Talks run into talks, he seemed like a perfect match for me and I was already getting used to him. I liked him.

Few days after,he asked me out which I found nice and cool.

Later, I got to know he has no job and has been into some side hustling all the while. I had no problem with this.

Months later , he started requesting money from me which he claimed went into settling some debts. There was a time I collected salary, said he needed 130k, it was so hard but I had to give him. All that I wanted is his happiness as he claimed he needed money for some hustles.

To cut the story short;

He told me his Love for Virgin girl and how he can Never marry a girl that's not a virgin. I asked him what if I'm not a virgin, he responded in the negative and I started getting nervous about us. I knew I'm not a virgin but ..........

He has been pestering me for sex, which I understand it's not a big deal. But the conversation we had about virginity has been making me scared of losing him. What if he dump after sex Just because I'm not a virgin. My mistake was that I had lied that I am Virgin. Didn't know why I had to .

I have resist all his attempts to have sex with me. Few days ago, I saw his chat with a girl which he's been going out. He had sex with her. I confronted him and he denied. This has make him to be ignoring me. He's not picking my calls, barely reply my text and if he ever, it's only one word and boring. But anytime he needs money from me, he call me.

Last week, he told me he needed money but I refused him. He started cursing me on the phone and vow to call it quit with me. he's still yet to respond to all my pleas.

Ladies in the house, what have I done wrong??

charles009:
Hello Folks, it been a cold morning over here in canada, so after a cup of hot tea and some pieces of akara, I decided to share a story that could possibly help the young people questing endlessly for a job.

Sometime in February 2010, after countless submission of CVs and trekking virtually the entire Nigeria, I was lucky to meet a man who knows the MD of a certain multinational coy in lagos, an interview was scheduled, the first ever interview in my relatively young life. When I got home, I quickly shaved off my bears, and started reading up interview questions/salary negotiation lol. Person wey get zero job experience dey eye fat salary lol.

On the D day, I arrived to behold the most beautify edifice I ever walked into since my life, I had to countlessly remind myself that I was gonna nail this, I called over 10 pastors to pray for me. The ambience was extremely wow, I checked out the car pack, dress code of the employees, I knew I was in for something very big.

After a brief intro with the gorgeously looking big bum secretary, I was asked to move into a smaller office while I wait for the MD to call me, in fact I hurriedly balanced on the couch and asked a certain guy to give me some clean shots. If atall , make I see pic upload for facebook.

After like 30mins, a lady walked up to me and said, you are next. Again I quickly readjusted my okirika shirt and my faded black trousers and an icing of my aboki perf and quickly moved in. I met a graciously looking man, oh my God, I reiterated money good. On the corner i saw a TV, so this man actually saw me posing recklessly on his lobby, any ancentral demon/village people, die by fire.
He asked a few questions and then he said. Wait more outside please.

Ladies and gentlemen, 10mins later, the lady worked up and gave me a letter that literally shaped my life forever, pls read through and let us know if you accept the terms she said. Nwanne, for the first time in my life, I erupted in wild joy, I couldn't control the joy, infact I wept profusely, pay was over 300k plus including others. I quickly signed off and asked if I could see the MD. She obliged, I walked in knelt down and thanked him, his only response to me , you need to get married immediately son.

I will stop here for now, wify just served rice and banga stew.

Ekeletu:
Happy weekend my beautiful people. Please there's something bothering me and I think I should share it here.
I will be very brief.

In 2012 I met a girl and we started dating. One year later, she cheated with a guy and got pregnant. Gave birth to a still child. Because of the love I had for her I forgave her and we continue dating.

In 2015 she cheated again and got pregnant for a guy and aborted it. I called her one day and told her that I can't continue with a cheating partner so we broke up.

After breaking up I became bitter towards women and vow never to be in a relationship again.
During this time of breakup with my ex, we continue communicating and we were just friends. She got into a new relationship which she told me and she advice me to find a girl and love not to stay single and I told her I can't.

After a while we spoke and I asked her about her man she told me that she is with a new guy that the old one left. I asked her why he left she said there was no problem. they just decided to end it.

I added her ex on facebook and chated. I asked him why he broke up with his woman, if she cheated. He told me she didn't, that he has a serious relationship with his hometown girl and his parents want him to marry that his hometown girl, so instead of wasting this other girl's time he had to end it. He began telling me how good this girl was during their time together.

This my ex, since breakup we have been good friends. We seek for advice from one another and help.
She is always coming to me for monetary assistance and when I have I do help. Sometime ago, I lend her 200k to setup a business and when I discovered that the business wasn't moving well I told her not to bother about refund.

Last month I when to visit my people so I branch her shop. Getting there I saw her using a phone and it seems the phone was giving her issues so last week I ordered 52k phone and send to her. She was very happy.

Three days ago she sent me a text that she want us to date again and she vowed she will never cheat again.
I still like this girl but my mind is numb for a relationship. I told her I can't date again that even if I do, I won't love that person like I should.

She keeps on begging me. Today her message woke me up.

Now I don't know why she wants to return back. Is it the goodies she has been getting from me or is it love?
I don't trust women again.

State001:
Lolz. Sorry sir. But not against the "rules"

VicThory:
Some of the rich Nigerian states
have become main industrial
centres in the country, boosting
major sectors of the nigerian
economy thereby putting the
nation among the leading
commercial countries in the map
of the world.








Although, there are 36 states in
the federation, we list out the
top 10 major industrial zones in
Nigeria that have many
investment opportunities to
boost the country economically.


#1. Lagos State
Lagos stands out as the most
economically and industrialized
state in Nigeria with virtually all
top companies having their
headquarters there.
You can find various industries
in Lagos which contributed
greatly to her internal generated
revenue (IGR). The state is also
leading in IT innovation and is
the richest state in the country.
According to an online report,
the Lekki Free Trade Zone in
Lagos which was started during
the administration of Bola
Ahmed Tinubu is an area were
goods may be landed, handled,
manufactured or reconfigured,
and re-exported without the
intervention of custom
authorities.
It is a region where a group of
countries have agreed to reduce
or eliminate trade barriers, the
basic objective being to enhance
foreign exchange earnings,
develop export-oriented
industries and generate
employment opportunities for
the host country.


#2. Ogun state
Another industrialized centres in
Nigeria is Ogun whose slogan is
“Gateway to Nigeria”. Just like
Lagos, you can find top
manufacturing companies like
Gee-pee tank, Apex paints ltd,
Drury industries limited, etc.
On the map of the country, you
would notice that both Lagos
and Ogun state are located in
south-west Geo-political zone in
Nigeria.


#3. Rivers state
Rivers state is also one of the
most industrialized states in the
country. Located in the South-
south region on the map, Rivers
is an oil producing state with an
IGR only bettered by Lagos.
Its capital is Port-Harcourt which
houses most of the major oil
companies in the country like
Shell, Total PLC, Chevron, Oando,
etc. This shows that Rivers is a
major stakeholder in the oil and
gas industry in Nigeria. It is also
on record that the due to the
number of plants in the state,
Rivers state remain the highest
consumer of electricity in the
country.


#4. Anambra state
Anambra state is also a major
industrial centre located in
South-Eastern Nigeria. In fact,
you will find the largest private
indigenous oil refinery in the
country in this state which is
Orient Petroleum Refinery.
Aside that, it is documented that
Anambra state has one of the
biggest oil and gas exploration
areas in Nigeria with so many
natural resources. Some of the
mineral resources found in
Anambra include: crude oil and
natural gas, ceramic, bauxite, etc.


#5. Abia state
Abia state is another South
Eastern state in Nigeria with Aba
as its industrial centre. When it
comes to commerce and
business in Igboland, you can
count Aba among the top
business cities to start a
profitable venture in the
country.
Historically, Abia was created in
1991 and like Anambra above,
oil and gas production industries
can be found there. You can also
find prominent industries in the
South East in this state.
Although, the agricultural sector
in the state is what brings most
of its Internally Generated
Revenue as about 50% of its
workforce are farmers, you
would still see several industries
like the cosmetics industry,
footwear industry, cement
industry, рharmaceutical
industry and even textile
industry.


#6. Oyo state
Oyo state has one of the largest
agricultural centers in the
country that the first skyscraper
to be built in Africa, i.e the Cocoa
house is located in the state.
Also the largest tobacco
companies in the country, Flour
Mill of Nigeria and Seven Up
Bottling Company are some of
the popular companies in Nigeria
are all located in Oyo state.


#7. Kano state
This is the most industrialized
state in Northern Nigeria having
over a hundred different
industries within its territorial
space. Some include: diary
products, animal feed, vegetable
oil, soft drinks, food, furniture,
footwears, ceramics,
рharmaceuticals, plastics,
footwears, textiles, and
cosmetics industries
respectively.
Even though the agricultural
sector is booming in this state
with abundance of cash crops,
the popular industry in Kano is
the tie and dye industry. The
Kurmi Market which serves as
the most popular market in
Northern Nigeria is known for
selling traditional artifacts such
as ancient carvings, jewelries,
calabashes, pottery products, etc.
Some of the industries located in
Kano state include: Royal Foam
Products Ltd, Unifoam Group,
Asada Plastic, Eva Rubber and
Plastic Products Ltd, Jaykay
Carpet Industries Ltd, Lakhi
Textile Industries Ltd.


#8. Akwa Ibom state
Akwa Ibom ranks as the highest
oil and gas producing state in
the country which is located in
the coastal geographical region
of southern Nigeria. For the
records, the state has an airport
and two major seaports.
Carved out from Cross River
State in 1987, the first Electric
Metering Industry in Nigeria was
launched in the state.


#9. Imo state
Imo is an industrialized state in
Nigera that is good for business.
Owerri is its capital and can be
seen as one of the hub of
commercial activities in South
Eastern Nigeria. With practically
over 170 oil wells owned by the
major players in the oil and gas
industry such as Royal Dutch
Shell, Chevron, Agip and Addax
Petroleum, Imo state is a chief
contributor to Nigeria’s
economy.
Massive investment
opportunities exist in the state.
Some include opportunities in oil
and gas exploration, chemical
plants, hydroelectric plants,
brewery plants, gas-fired power
plants, starch production, grain
mills, cashews, juice concentrate
production, fruit and vegetable,
integrated multi-oil seed
processing plants, Inland
Waterway Transport, ceramics,
and Integrated Palm Produce
Industry.
Due to the federal presence Imo
state enjoys, the FG recently
launched the rice and cassava
industry to boost the agricultural
sector as it started developing
two rice plants, one cassava
processing plant and one palm
oil plant in Ehime Mbano LGA of
Imo State.


#10. Osun state
Osun state is also on the list of
major industrial zones in Nigeria
that has business potential that
can boost the country’s
economy. Vegetation thrives in
this area as the agricultural
sector thrives better in Osun. The
state is highly industrialized with
companies like the Criss Cross
Integrated Services, Samtop Paint
Chemical Industries, Webring
Integrated Services Limited, etc.
The presence of the Cocoa
processing Industry, which
produces over 19,000 tonnes of
cocoa daily has helped curb
unemployment in the country.
We believe that if the federal
government imports the right
equipment backed with the right
management of this industry, an
increase in production should be
made possible in the shortest
possible time.