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FamilyRe: How Do I Make My New Business Office Lively And Motivating ? by Evina(f): 8:51am On Feb 21, 2015
Empero1:
Thanks for your concern . However , if you had read my message well , you ought to have noticed where I said the situation is " ineffable " to me , thus the reason why my expression may not have appeared inarticulate articulate to you , that is understandable . Also , for the fact that I asked " What kind of emotional food could I possibly be lacking ? " , should be a pointer for you to understand that I am talking about internal problem ... To your question , mine is a diversified business conglomerate .
You stated the highlighted as a problem yes. But your opening sentence suggests an external problem, hence the question.

You are not even able to state WHAT EXACTLY IT IS YOU DO. huh

Well, let's hope a psychic will visit your thread and solve the puzzle.

Cheers.
FamilyRe: How Do I Make My New Business Office Lively And Motivating ? by Evina(f): 8:25am On Feb 21, 2015
Honestly sir, your post is quite confusing. You have failed to properly articulate your exact challenges.

Is your problem external? ( the office environment) or internal? ( your lack of inner joy)
Also, what line if business do you operate in?
FamilyRe: Is This Enough Reason, why she filed for a divorce *screen Shot* by Evina(f): 9:50pm On Feb 20, 2015
I think what hurt your wife most was the fact that you are cheating on her with a baby that went to one of these "almajiri" (or whatever they are called) schools.

Choi! "Am really tire, really sick n tire" cheesy
FamilyRe: "My Wife Wears Sexy Dresses..but Wouldn't Let Me Touch Her" A Husband by Evina(f): 6:48pm On Feb 19, 2015
GentleToks:
Lol!! It's well with you. Do have a wonderful evening with him and remain blessed.
smiley
FamilyRe: "My Wife Wears Sexy Dresses..but Wouldn't Let Me Touch Her" A Husband by Evina(f): 4:41pm On Feb 19, 2015
GentleToks:
[s]
Henhen!!!! May God forgive you for leading that ggentleman into your worldly thing.[/s] wink
May God bless you for bringing so much joy into the life of that gentleman. smiley indeed, he is truly blessed to have you. wink
RomanceRe: 8 Signs Of A Husband Material by Evina(f): 12:28pm On Feb 19, 2015
emusmith:
Hmm...Power Oil! Sorry Power Points! wow!

# picks pen and paper # cheesy
cheesy cheesy grin
RomanceRe: 8 Signs Of A Husband Material by Evina(f): 12:18pm On Feb 19, 2015
9) He is purposeful and courageous enough to lead the direction of his life and yours wink : he doesn't just have lofty dreams whose height cannot be attained. cheesy

10) He protects and defends your honor:
he stands up for you when his family and friends are displeased with you.
FamilyRe: "My Wife Wears Sexy Dresses..but Wouldn't Let Me Touch Her" A Husband by Evina(f): 12:06pm On Feb 19, 2015
GentleToks:
Hmmmmm!!!! How i wish you are left in my care, I ll just take you to Seminary where u ll remain as virgin; no access to things of the world. I hate things of d world :- cry
cheesy bros, what are you doing using the internet? And the smart device you currently use?

Please it is not my calling to be in the seminary. smiley I have been called amongst other things, to satisfy my husband with my borri wink
FamilyRe: "My Wife Wears Sexy Dresses..but Wouldn't Let Me Touch Her" A Husband by Evina(f): 11:57am On Feb 19, 2015
Truckpusher:
Are you a machine? cheesy
cheesy No! I am a virtuous woman.

But seriously, sex is very therapeutic. wink after a really stressful day ( that kind of stress that leaves you with a banging headache and body pains) just one good round will send you to the land of pleasant dreams wink

*disclaimer*
The above suggestion is only for the married. cool
FamilyRe: "My Wife Wears Sexy Dresses..but Wouldn't Let Me Touch Her" A Husband by Evina(f): 11:49am On Feb 19, 2015
DonaldGenes:
Punish how? You mean as pee Konji
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
FamilyRe: "My Wife Wears Sexy Dresses..but Wouldn't Let Me Touch Her" A Husband by Evina(f): 11:44am On Feb 19, 2015
AmberQueen:
U garrit on point wink cheesy
cheesy you know wink
FamilyRe: "My Wife Wears Sexy Dresses..but Wouldn't Let Me Touch Her" A Husband by Evina(f): 11:41am On Feb 19, 2015
GentleToks:
Hmmmmm!!!! Chai!!! Your hubby is in trouble
cheesy he enjoys being in such trouble. wink
FamilyRe: "My Wife Wears Sexy Dresses..but Wouldn't Let Me Touch Her" A Husband by Evina(f): 4:18pm On Feb 18, 2015
Sweetmarriage:
On our page, one woman said she does it sometimes, because it would make the man longs for his wife.
But it shouldn't become a habit. She ought to give in after all the teasing.
FamilyRe: Separated After 3 Months, Divorced 2 Years Later! by Evina(f): 4:11pm On Feb 18, 2015
mutter:
Anyway why should someone wuit his job before getting a visa!
INFACT before even ginig to the UK to see if he can imagine living there?

Also would like to know how your frined thinks he can contest a divirce.
She does nto want again. That is the end of the story.

Yes the lady probably got pregnant for someone who abandoned her, that is common in the UK but children are a gift from God.
The stupidity of the lady is baffling!
FamilyRe: Separated After 3 Months, Divorced 2 Years Later! by Evina(f): 4:09pm On Feb 18, 2015
jaybee3:
UK is like home. It's highly diversed and racism is not as much compared to other developed countries.
It's also viewed as a next door neighbour since it's just a lil over 6 hours flying time
I feel racism is worse in the UK, in comparison to the US, Canada, the Netherlands and even Dubai. I just don't like the UK AT ALL. But, to each his own.
FamilyRe: Looking For People Who Overcame Incredible Challenges To Succeed by Evina(f): 4:00pm On Feb 18, 2015
coogar:
how much will they pay? grin
My thoughts exactly :DD
This is some serious research and development work the op is asking from us. tongue
FamilyRe: Separated After 3 Months, Divorced 2 Years Later! by Evina(f): 3:54pm On Feb 18, 2015
chaircover:
My dear its possible
I know of someone whose sister came to the UK to have her baby
She refused to go back to Nigeria after the birth
She kept on giving her hubby one story after another. Her sister too was fed up of telling her to go back home.
She left her hubby and other children back in Nigeria
They were not poor & her hubby has no intention of leaving Nigeria to come and live in the UK
I dont know what happened to the family after that.
She may still be here with the kid for all I know.
:oo
I don't even know why Nigerians love the UK that bad. How can one leave a really good job in Nigeria and relocate to the UK? I just don't get it. With all the crazy taxes! I even prefer Canada to the UK.
RomanceRe: Will You Continue The Relationship With Him/her? by Evina(f): 3:45pm On Feb 18, 2015
Segeggs:
why? Remember the man is rich and connected grin
So am I wink cool
RomanceRe: Will You Continue The Relationship With Him/her? by Evina(f): 3:32pm On Feb 18, 2015
No
FamilyRe: Separated After 3 Months, Divorced 2 Years Later! by Evina(f): 3:27pm On Feb 18, 2015
Kimoni:
I got some issues with this post -

1. Why would the man resign when his visa application has not been granted? Who does that in this age? Even the embassy will tell you not to buy your ticket until your visa is approved.

2. Why would the girl, as smart as she is supposed to be, tell lies that carry no weight and can be easily verified? The one that baffles me most is saying you came to Nigeria to look for him but he had relocated. Isn't that easily verifiable from her passport??

Finding it hard to believe this story!
Honestly! The story seems like a poorly written script for the home video Osuofia in London part 3.
FamilyRe: How Marriage Has Become A Luxury In Nigeria by Evina(f): 2:58pm On Feb 18, 2015
Rapmoney:
God bless you. You are very correct! Most of our people think that white wedding is Christian. It is not. I don't even see any need for it because it contributes to the financial burden placed on Africans!
Lol. Trust Africans and their discipleship mentality. All things copied from the westerners are good. That is so pathetic!
FamilyRe: "My Wife Wears Sexy Dresses..but Wouldn't Let Me Touch Her" A Husband by Evina(f): 2:54pm On Feb 18, 2015
She is punishing the man.

I don't know how people are too tired to indulge in an activity that guarantees absolute relaxation. wink
FamilyRe: To All Dear Ladies by Evina(f): 2:51pm On Feb 18, 2015
bukatyne:
Very True

@Item 7, will ask Seun grin
grin na voicemail tinz be that oh. cheesy
FamilyRe: To All Dear Ladies by Evina(f): 2:42pm On Feb 18, 2015
bukatyne:
Thanks

The OP was more on characteristics women should have... irrespective of their status (single or double) cheesy

Welcome to the thread
Thank you wink I hope item 7 will be made available?

I think the earlier we develop the right attitude as women, the better. I mean, if a single woman has all of these, she will attract the right kind of man and will also be courageous enough to sieve the man from the boys grin

It is more work if she has already gotten a man based on her undeveloped character. Because, as she is evolving, she would also expect the man to. Except she is lucky to have nabbed a great guy, inspite of her limitations. cheesy
FamilyRe: How Marriage Has Become A Luxury In Nigeria by Evina(f): 2:33pm On Feb 18, 2015
Rapmoney:
I once argued why Africans engage in white wedding on this forum. I was almost consumed by e-warriors!
It is ignorance!
And they make you feel that if you don't go through the white wedding, you are not a Christian? Big lie!

Okay, why then wouldn't they wed you in church if you haven't done the traditional?

The white wedding is the culture of the westerners, just as the trad is our culture. What I know as a Christian is that God will endorse that wedding, so far parental consent has been given. And that dowry is the proof of parental consent.
FamilyRe: How Marriage Has Become A Luxury In Nigeria by Evina(f): 2:10pm On Feb 18, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Laughable! My dear, don't let any man push you around. C'mon, don't you read your bible? These are just mere human laws so don't let them bully you. I really don't understand what's happening in churches these days, we are just too lazy to read our bible .
Sweetie, when it comes to marriage, wisdom must be applied to the fullest. I can't insist on having my way because I am NOT getting married to myself. Especially in Nigeria where the wedding is not just about the couple but families as well.
FamilyRe: How Marriage Has Become A Luxury In Nigeria by Evina(f): 1:48pm On Feb 18, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Trash! White wedding is a waste of resources, it's not biblical. People need to be wise and stop chasing shadows. Paying of the woman's bride price is what expected of every male Christian to perform even the celebration after paying the dowry is a total waste, I don't subscribe to it. Any pastor that refuses to recognise a wedding done traditionally needs to be questioned if he truly understands the bible.
Ammyluv, if loving you will cost me 14 years in jail, I'd gladly pay the price. grin

Honestly! And you need to attend the marriage classes organized by some churches to see how the counsellors and pastors do shakara. They even told us we MUST specially feed the pastors and ALL the church unit members!

If I had my way, NO white wedding! angry I have even told my vineyard that there will be no bride's maids, groom's men and asoebi!

In fact, when he told me how much he intended to spend, I reduced the budget by 50% and told him we would use the rest to open an account for our children's education/welfare.

I am very irritated at the thought of spending so much for a ceremony that wouldn't last more than a few hours. All those talk of you only wed once don't move me. There is a life after the wedding!
FamilyRe: To All Dear Ladies by Evina(f): 1:27pm On Feb 18, 2015
bukatyne:
I understand you well that's why the thread is more about total outlook of ladies and not marriage

A lady who knows where she is going know the kind of man to roll with
kiss
The original post is a great piece. smiley
I really do not understand the fuss about the post being directed to ladies. huh I mean, the writer is a woman and if she wants to share some words of wisdom with mankind, it only makes sense for her to start with the women folk.

Besides, the bible talks about a WOMAN being responsible for either building her home or tearing it apart. So, if the women can get it right, the majority of the problem is solved.

To topic: a woman with 1, 5, 7 and 8 is awesome cool
HealthRe: A Fisherman Bitten By A Hippopotamus *pix by Evina(f): 1:05pm On Feb 18, 2015
Dexema:
Hello vinny,been a while.
smiley
FamilyRe: 5 Things Every Married Man Should Do Around Single Women by Evina(op): 9:56am On Feb 18, 2015
bukatyne:
It gets ridiculous by the day

If all men cheat, are they not cheating with women?

Then why should the same men still complain that women cheat more recently?

Why then would they tell a lady with a cheating bf to dump him since she would most likely face such when married?

And why do they vibrate when ladies say they are dogshuh
cheesy cheesy

Well, I don't believe cheating is the exclusive right of men. I don't believe it is an intrinsic trait and definitely don't believe it is ineradicable.

You'd be amazed how many people actually believe that silly line of thought. They say men are polygamous in nature. cheesy

You cheat because you lack discipline, period!
Besides, I personally know men with very high morals, so that excuse is just lame. tongue
HealthRe: A Fisherman Bitten By A Hippopotamus *pix by Evina(f): 9:37am On Feb 18, 2015
Dexema:
Hippos are generally moody and territorial animals especially the females.
For those who think hippos are extinct a visit to the kainji lake reserve in the morning or cool evenin could offer you a good view of them havin family time.
Farmers around dat axis also complain abt them destroyin their farms.

(Singing) H.I.p for the hip for the hipopo,
P.o.p.o for the hipopo........
Really?
And they sure look moody. grin

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