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Please let her keep the baby. It may be a setback to the furtherance of her education, but it certainly isn't an end.

Let her inform the boy's family too, they may find solace in the baby, as they should be grief stricken.

Things will be tough but she will find joy in knowing she made the right decision.

Would you rather end it now or fake it, only to eventually end it when you are married, miserable and bitter?

AgapeCharis:
Ma'am Evina
Howdy?


HFOG ur diary was worth the read

Agape.

NinoBrown888:
You said 'i' ..your bf should have used letter 'j'
and the recitation of Alphabeth goes on...

Hi

Prexxy1:
Thanks alot

Always welcome.

What is I? Didn't even know you meant it as salutation, until I saw the howdy part.

Please learn to write well. It will affect your ability to communicate in writing, in the future especially in corporate settings.

Back to topic. Maybe he was irritated with the poor use of grammar, it ought to be "hi". Or maybe he feels the use of the word is belittling. I know the second reason may seem silly but some people find words like "hi, and how are you", rude when it is spoken by a younger person.

When she matures and recalls this attitude of hers, she will laugh at how immature she was.

edwife:
Thank you,come and read what she is now saying on the other thread.

You sure say the OP no be MENTUS?

Too many loopholes in the letter.
What sort of argument would drive a wife to attempt suicide? More than once?

Also he claimed to scrub his own floor in the presence of younger people, who happen to be his wife, her sister and his own younger sister. How come his own sister did not offer to help? Yet he accuses another of the very same rude act his own sister is guilty of.

Not buying that biased letter. Let us hear his wife's story.

laykhorn:
LOL! glad you finally flowing with me.
Wait o! Are you hearing from ur sweety will1am? It been a while.

I am glad too.

Who is Will1am?

Op, you created this same topic earlier on this section. In that post, you claimed it was your friend who thinks he wants to dump you. Why the inconsistencies? Is your name LIENA LINUS?

AgapeCharis:
hahahahahahahaaa
Ole!!

You see how ungrateful you are acting?
I have offered to alleviate your confusion and what do I get in return?

Dear OP,

Please don't give yourself a headache, running stomach and undue stress because you are trying to figure an answer you can get by simply asking questions.

Just ask him, where that decision of his leaves you both. Ask questions about your future to avoid wasting your time. Don't be afraid to. This is the mistake many ladies make, they assume they will come off as desperate If they ask such questions. No dear! It shows you are a serious lady who knows where she is going and wants to be sure she is on the right ship, with the right captain.

AgapeCharis:
Hi guys
Hw y'all doing? Hope u had a great day?

I need y'all to help me on something

Right now I have in my possession different clothing materials n I don't know what to sew with dem. If u have pictures of some cool styles i can sew pls post dem here n bring me out of my seeming confusion.

Thanks

You don't have to be confused dear.
Just send them to me through God is good motors.
I go snap n post pictures when I have made clothes out of em.

laykhorn:
why would your mail bounce, I am sure you must have mis-spelt something somewhere. That is the email that Michelle Obama, Patience Jonathan, Diezani Alison-Maduekwe and Stella Oduah send their messages to me and it has always been safe. My Cheques dont bounce except maybe If I seal it inside a ball. The sight of my name is enough to order multiples of the amount written on the cheque. Now Imagine Aliko my PA name on a cheque or Billy, that my stubborn spending manager name on a cheque.
Do you even know who ayam
I am the Igwe Iwunayanwu of Matongoland and Cheif Balogun agba akapo saala patapata of Ile-Olowo. What more can a human want in a lifetime?

you so funny.

But seriously, see titles reespeck!

jnrbayano:
What exactly is/are your reason(s) for giving breaking up with your girl a thought?

Is it because she played a prank on you or/and
she is an only daughter
or/and
her father is a colonel?

Good questions.

You should take the new Job, not just because of the obvious reason (cash incentive), but for the future.

I mean, you will be working on a project with a reputable firm. Don't you know the booster that will give to your resume? As opposed to working with a relatively small, unknown company?

Guy, don't even think twice. This is a great opportunity.

laykhorn:
Haha! Hemmn baby! Ayamu not scared at all o. Why would I fear a lady, I cant lie for you, one of my 780 containers would take care of you and five others. So come and bring five or even more of your friends. Send address, date, time and venue to my email.
Igwe-laykhorn@moneyspeaking.com

Hahahahaha
Oga, that email no dey work. My message was bounced. Please I hope your cheques won't act like your email oh.

What?!
Honestly, this makes absolutely no sense to me. The dad is a control freak, who doesn't want to accept that his little boy is now a man. He must learn to stand up for himself. Subtly but firm.

Is he the only child?

laykhorn:
. Evina! Yoy scared me with that o. How is ur day going?

Bet oga, why are you scared? Ain't you a big man? Big men don't fear ladies, they pamper us. Oya please do as your name suggests.

laykhorn:
Dear Evina,
I hope one day, you will start to see the humor in my dry jokes. I hope you take thing as fun too. I'm everything but a proud man. I am not a big man and you're not an ordinary person too. It was meant to start a fuss, and I expected you to reciprocate the that by stating how you are the big mama and I am the boy or maybe the 'laykorn proclaimed gardener'. You should not take it to the 'vex zone' as AgapeCharis said. I didnt expect you to take it as you did. Your portrayal of the bolded just caught me by storm and that only meant we werent flowing.
You remind me of ShollyPopz who used to take every chance to e-fight me. I dont want to make another e-enemy o. Sorry! It wasnt like I ignored your mention, I just saw it now. Thanks
.
Regards,
Laykhorn with Love

Lol.
Ehen...
Okay.

MizMyColi:

And I'm Happy!

Thank You Ma'am.

Awwwwww.
It surely is a wonderful season.

Slyder:
Thanks Maam.

Always welcome.

Slyder:
I don't think you're getting the purpose of the thread. Even as I've had ladies showing interest, I haven't been able to approach them. Though a lady have approached me before, I didn't like her and I told her things the way they where. 'I don't buy the frnds match making stuff, it doesn't sound secure to me.

I totally get it.
It is just that everyone knows that in this age, you really don't have to "walk up to/approach a girl".

Friendships can start at any place/time. You don't have to start saying "I like you" when you only just met. Let your actions speak.

MizMyColi:
Ideally, a man's poor financial status shouldn't define him, thus making society look down on him as less.

Whether broke or loaded, only go into a romantic relationship, if you're sure that to a large extent --- you are emotionally and psychologically ready.

Sweetie congratulations.
So glad you have been Ennylized.

Slyder:
Read my original post again. Though red flagged dating while I was in school, it helped me focus.

Do you socialize at all?
Maybe you should ask your friends to have you match made.
So you mean no girl has flashed you green light? Even lemon green?

Slyder:
No I haven't.

Why?

Have you dated before?

Well, it's not really a case of not wishing him well. It is more of a selfish, subtle pay back kinda thing. Especially if the guy initiated the break up. It is a case of, " I will show you that I can do better than you and you will never find any as good as me".

AgapeCharis:
vexing mood activated
Calm down jhr

So asking for a confusing post to be properly clarified equals "vexing"?
No just make me vex this morning.

Laykhorn, I asked you a question which you conveniently ignored. I hope you know that is very rude? "big man".

libertyfather:
Side chic dunt mention names....u wnt her ass get blown up?

She is not a side chic.

laykhorn:
welldone! so you even sing the chorus finish for me. clap for yourself?
.
See wetin Omawumi cause with her mgbeke song nao? People like Evina can have a swipe on big man like me for asking simple question.

What does the highlighted mean?
I mean, what exactly were you attempting to communicate?