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bukatyne:
I bet you mean 'Nigerian men'

And not all men lack self control

Lol. Sis. Don't you just find his assertion amazingly ridiculous?

boynigeria:
For instance
4. Keep conversation general and professional
i personally dont kn how to do that, and i kn wen im married i cant, if u are my friend i get personal with u except we are just acquitances. and i work with friends thats how best u can work
i simply kn when to draw the line

Nope! That is NOT the best way to work.

In an official environment, the best way to go is: be friendly with everyone but don't be friends. There is a difference.

When you are friendly, you are approachable, easy to work with and can blend in a team.
When you are friends, it is difficult for you to be professional because you would put sentiments and emotions before business. Except, all parties have really great work ethics, which is usually not the case, work will always suffer.

Back to topic, the office is not a place to "get personal" but a place to "get professional"

fuzzywuzzy:
What he is trying to tell you is that men cannot be faithful after marriage. Don't expect fidelity from them because they are barely capable of it.
The 'faithful' are either too poor to keep a girlfriend/clean prostitute or have embarrassingly small joysticks they are ashamed to work with.

what a hilarious assumption.
Are you married?
How did you arrive at this?

boynigeria:
I JUST CHECKED NOW, AND IT SAYS URE FEMALE AND U WROTE IT
STOP MAKING UP ALL THESE FUNNY GUIDELINES BECAUSE U PICTURE UR IDEAL MAN TO BE LIKE THIS
ITS AS SIMPLE AS A GOOD HUSBAND WONT CHEAT ON U
BECAUSE THINGS STILL HAPPENS EVEN WITH ALL THE EPISTLE

boynigeria:
I BET A LADY WROTE THIS

You lost the bet.

A married man wrote the piece. You should be able to tell, if you actually read the piece.

Even without conducting any verification, I can tell the scam is being pulled by a semi-literate individual. How can a barrister have such poor writing skills?

Silly people.

JustCurious:
You are so right. People need to understand that protocols don't exist in an atmosphere of God-driven favour. It's beyond physical comprehension. Illogical. When God says YES, thatzall. I could relate to your testimony. Congratulations, BTW.

May we experience more of His favour in Jesus name.

Amen gurl, Amen

mrking3:
As much as I would like to believe this story, it sounds more like a FICTION to me. Firstly, the interview you gate crashed wasn't even the first stage! So I wonder how your name was smuggled in almost at the tail end of the Recruitment exercise. If it were to be a government firm, I wouldn't have been surprised! coz there're loads of Ghost workers in there. Secondly, INDUCTION is the last thing after certificate verification and upon acceptance of employment. So wondering which firm or organisation would Induct their staff before verification of document? Bros!! I wish you Goodluck in your FRONT PAGE bid.

God is no respecter of persons. He can break any protocol to favor the one He chooses.

I am starting a new job with an international organization in March. God did the same thing, He broke protocols for me. Candidates wrote gmat and went through two stages of interview, while I only attended the final stage. I don't know any man in that organization. Infact, a top recruitment firm handled the recruitment process. I only interviewed with the Management.

I have done medicals and received my offer of engagement letter. The favour of God I experienced stunned me into immense gratitude.

I don't understand.

Don't you have an office assistant that ought to take care of tasks like that?

Also, you need to CUT OFF the overly friendliness and familiarization with the "oldie". He is being a bully and that is unacceptable! Let the ONLY thing that brings in contact with him be work. Don't so much as crack a smile at his jokes, be stern and very official with him. But, please make sure you are really good at your job.

If he yells at you, stay calm and tell him whilst staring directly in his eye, " Mr...this is an official environment, please conduct yourself in a civil manner". Then ignore him! Don't EVER reduce yourself to arguing with him and don't you dare yield to his bully by running, cowering or showing fear.

The next time he pulls a silly stunt like that, tell him calmly, l am really busy at the moment, then ignore him. Let's see if he will lay a finger on you.

firstEVA:
Evina thats the news making the rounds, you can see he has started growing his hair, he has injected his lips to make it full, his boobs are bigger, etc, i saw this news today. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2937907/I-never-proud-Bruce-Jenner-s-mother-confirms-reality-TV-star-transitioning-woman.html .

And I never really believed the stories. At that age?! Gosh.

firstEVA:
My dear don't mind them, Kim is a model and an entrepreneur, i wonder why that idioot said she's famous for nothing.

The blabber mouth came back to correct himself. I just find it so amusing that those who hate on her are the ones who stalk her and also the first to view her unclad pics. Talk about hypocrisy at its most pathetic state. Anyways, her lifestyle isn't my business, I just don't agree that she has no skill or talent.

FirstEva babes

I like the kardashian television series. They know how to put a good show together.

I get tired of hearing people make that ignorant statement, "famous for nothing". People actually picked that statement after that arrogant, annoying British television personality that got fired from the Larry king show cos he couldn't offer anything fresh; what's his name again? Made the misinformed statement on Tv. Anyways, the guy has since corrected his ignorance.

But really, is Bruce really transitioning into a woman? I was always irritated by how petty he got though.

AgapeCharis:
Happy new month! I wish you heaven's best this month...
Cc:
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Evina

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Thank you. Wish you the best this month has to offer.

A wise man once told me that when I find myself around single women, especially when I find them attractive or interesting, I should mention my wife and family early in the conversation. I have found this advice to be very useful on many occasions.

Fellow husbands, I have found the above advice and the other tips at the bottom to be essential in keeping my marriage healthy and strong. I want my marriage to be strong and healthy, and so should you! In fact, it’s one of the biggest responsibilities in your marriage.
So let’s dig deeper into this subject. Where are some common places that you might run into this scenario? For many of you, it could easily happen at work. You could be starting a new job and find yourself around a lot of nice, new women. When this happens, you have to make the choice to embrace their attention or extinguish it in a friendly way by mentioning your beautiful wife and family.

For some of you, you have been working around the same women for some time. You might have chosen many times to engage in flirty conversation or to go out with co-workers after work. If this is you and your wife is at home waiting for you, then it’s time to step back and assess your position as the husband and leader. Take the necessary steps to make your relationship with your wife the most important one again and don’t forget it. Lead, gentlemen, lead!
Even though those were only a couple of quick examples, I know there are a few of you out there who need to step up your role as a husband. Those examples don’t apply to you? Then consider who you know and talk to at your gym, the grocery store, the local hangout or wherever. These “simple” places could produce difficult relationships that will harm your relationship and love with your wife. Man up and do what needs to be done for your marriage!

Now that I have your attention, here are five things every married man should do around single women:

1. Keep your ring on. There are very few exceptions for when that ring needs to be off, like when operating heavy machinery, swimming in shark-infested waters and the like. If you are about to enter a situation that makes you look at your ring and consider if you need it on or not, leave! Run! Get away from there! Seriously, get out of that situation; your vows, marriage, children and more depend on those important decisions. (Read Luke 16:10.)

2. Hang up pictures of your wife at work. A married man in this position would be wise to pick out a couple of great and fun photos of him and his wife and keep them displayed at his office or place of work. Pick a time that was fun for two reasons: It will remind you why you love her so much, and it will make for a great conversation tool when others, especially women, ask about it. Update the image as needed to keep the people around you knowing your relationship is continuing to grow. Get that picture up this week and extinguish those flames. (Read Psalm 119:37.)

3. Keep eye contact simple and short. Don’t read this the wrong way; I’m not saying to be rude. I’m saying to be careful where your eyes travel and how long they travel when you are in the presence of an attractive single woman. You know that once you engage in the first serious look, you have signed the dotted line for more eye trouble. (Read more about that “first look” here.) Keep it short, keep it decisive, and move on. Get back to that image posted at your desk. Go! (Read Matthew 5:28.)

4. Keep conversation general and professional. If you work around single women, there is no question that conversation will come up. It’s up to you on how you decide to speak with her. You can choose to keep it short and general, you can choose to keep it professional, or you can choose to keep it off of those and allow it go places it shouldn't. Be polite but very intentional in your conversations. If needed, again, always be ready to bring up something about your wife or family. Pull the pin, aim, and extinguish. Safety first. (Read Romans 6:13.)

5. Talk about your wife and family often. Did I mention anything about talking about your wife in conversation yet? I believe I did, but this last point brings the idea to a firm home. The single women you engage with each day, if you have to, should be no match to your wife and family. Your family should be your first priority wherever you are and with whomever you encounter each day. Yes, each and every day. Keep it short, keep it simple, and mention your beautiful wife. Now pat yourself on the back and keep it up. (Read Ephesians 5:25-33.)

Important note: No matter what you have done with your current relationships with single women, these steps can and should be started at anytime. Your wife’s feelings are and will always be more important than the woman you need to take these steps with. Get on it!

I challenge you to take these bold steps for you, your marriage and your family. Again, it’s your responsibility to lead!

List one of your own tips below, and let’s help out our fellow husbands.

Source: www.mydominioncity.com. By Israel Ndukwe Unya

Abdomox:
It's a simple test....sentence correction and spelling. Also, rules of letter writing. The best!

Wow Abdomox
I must thank you for posting the vacancy, for your encouragement and also your prompt response to questions.

The test was AWESOME! I totally enjoyed myself and even finished 10minutes early.

Thank God for His grace.

austine4real:
na yorubaenglish

Abdomox:
It's a simple test....sentence correction and spelling. Also, rules of letter writing. The best!

Thank you loads.

Abdomox:
Whatz d mail n call abt? cos I doubt if there's gonna be test, but if it's gonna hold, just prepare wt gmat. All the best!

Thank you.
The Human resources guy called from Lagos and said there was an opening in the Abuja office for contract sales...(didn't quite get the last bit of information). He asked if I was interested and also my availability on Monday. I said yes.

I then checked my mail and saw the details: an invitation for a business communication competency based test.

Any idea about this kind of test?
Thanks.

walexy14:
.What's the latest pls?

Have you heard from them yet?
I forwarded my cv today and got a call this evening. I also received an email. It is indeed a leading financial institution.
Abdomox, kindly share likely test questions. Gracias.

laykhorn:
Yes nao... Everyone just left the place like that.

Well...what can I say?

laykhorn:
Boss, I dey like dele o.
Long time indeed. All of una just leave that thread. Very bad, we were suppose to make that place a e-family chatroom. BTW, I'm not seeing Will1am around anymore.
CC: Laykorn, Will1am, Evina.

Awwwwwwwww.

Wow. You are just a lazy man with no care for his life, who unfortunately married an unwise woman. That is a wrong environment to raise a child.

So, for the sake of your child/future children, DISCOVER THE MAN within and LET HIM TAKE CHARGE!

What opinion do you need?
It is YOUR life! If you aren't comfortable with the situation, don't permit it.
You don't need people who haven't walked in your shoes, telling you what choices to make.

stepo707:
no one can really stop anyone from doing anything.You are always free to do what you want,but the consequence is what you cant choose.
Go to the website and see for yourself.I just have this feeling something is not right about the site.

The website is skeletal. It could mean they are new. Don't be quick to jump to uninformed conclusions.

I deduced they are a recruitment firm. I applied for the Marketing Exec. Post. I have been invited for an interview. I will post the update.

Op, you seem really confused. I not only wonder why, but I am also almost confused by your confusion.

You have a family.
You have a job offer outside Nigeria.
You have another within Nigeria.
You want to start your own firm.

What are you actually confused about?
Are both offers not in alignment with your career path?

You need to set your priorities right.
Is money the major motivation in deciding which offer to pick?

My advice.
Stay here, take the contract job and float that company now. You mentioned you have over 10 years professional experience. I would suppose that you have also been smart enough to build a worthy network?

Nadia6161:
Botox in action

Huh Botox? Increase size?
Never heard of that.

This guy has serious psychological issues. Always hooking up with older women with kids.

danaiks:
NEVER!!

Come on!!.... it is just a meal

danaiks:
Come on!!....that's just a cake

Right...can you eat pap and okro soup?

AgapeCharis:
Uwc
If you have any question u'r just a mention away and u'll get ur answer.

Hope to read posts from ur blog soonest

Thank you sooo much.