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Lawd have mercy.

LordReed:
Lucky you, I'm still in season 3

You'll get there..

smileysmiley:
one answer to your question... ladies are expected to get married in their early twenties, once she clocks 25, the 'go and marry' crew will attack but a guy in his early twenties has little or no responsibility so what is stopping him from going out there to hustle and make a living for his future family... mind you, once the lady gets married, she is expected to start bearing children which might affect her future dreams... To all the ladies out there looking for a guy that can give you a comfortable life, you are not gold diggers at all, these guys are just getting too lazy these days.

'Expected' by who?

This is one of the low-life excuses these lot carry around to save face and jump into marriage then cry foul when those men treat them like trash.

Who send them message? Don't they have brain of their own to make their own decisions??

Please stop preaching tu-sh, we don't want new generations thinking it's true.

LordReed:
Oh men I am so behind!

Only 2 episodes gone, found out when I checked my dvr last week , gosh! every scene is a nail-biter.

Apparently some of us are almighty Marvel comic characters.

Obviously

paullo240:
please I want to know if full grown can use baby creams, and don't cause pimple.

It depends on your skin type. Baby lotions are basically for suppleness of baby's soft skin. So that shouldn't be a problem.

You don't plan on applying that on your face do you?

YourCoffin:
Which is why it should be stripped and exposed for what it's trully is. A battle front where there's constant power play. Why desire to keep fighting a battle till one dies?

Sorry bro.. Sad but true , life's a battle as a whole. There're constant power plays , competitors , obstacles, or just random beefers whom loathe at your happiness. You just don't sit there, you FIGHT. (not literally )

Except you enjoy your status quo and don't have the desire to move up in life. Then no worries.

Hope you realize I'm not only making reference to marriage alone.

LordReed:
I am Specter, Lit ain't got nothing on me.

Harvey ALMIGHTY sef is currently in distress (FBI web) and 'working hard' to keep his seal or whatever.

Behind every successful story is Hardwork and perseverance- FACT.

taryour:
LOBATAN. Ewuro4 biko bia, is that the woman in the picture? What a life.

How are you dear and all yours?

We thank God dear thanks. Hope you are all doing alright too.

Na so I see am oh my sister thought I could share. in fact the story came with an interview video. I'll look for the link though.

http://www.wetpaint.com/wife-alive-funeral-husband-ordered-murder-1471157/?

edwife:
Awww you will be fine, i will pray for you.

All is well with you.

Aww see my person , thanks ma'am . Amen.

Timbuktou:
Pele. I know the feeling and I'm sure you'll be alright. I'm taking your name to Baba tomorrow, we will commit your ways to the gods.
Little Tim's doing great. Growing like grass too.

Thanks buddy. glad little man's doing great, can't imagine how big he's grown now. Ciao!

No excuses for unacceptable behaviour against humanity.

Any man/woman that failed to verberlly express themselves whenever they are frustrated needs serious help before they claim an innocent life.

Inflicting pain on another human being for ANY reason whatsoever is NOT ACCEPTABLE and should be rightfully dealt with.

Move over, Haley Joel Osment — you’re not the only one seeing dead people.

A woman showed up to her own funeral to confront her husband after he hired hitmen to kill her while she was visiting her home country of Burundi.

According to the jaw-dropping story, Noela Rukundo and her husband had to travel from their adopted home of Australia after a family tragedy — but only one of them was supposed to return.

Noela’s husband, Balenga Kalala, hired several gang members to kidnap and kill his wife, whom he suspected of infidelity.

Balenga set up his wife to be kidnapped after the family funeral by advising her to step outside for fresh air as she was still distraught over the death of her step-mother. That’s when the mother of eight was abducted and taken to an abandoned building and tied to a chair.

When her kidnappers told her what happened and asked why her husband would want her dead, she was in total disbelief — until the men made her listen to her hubby say “kill her” over the phone.

Luckily for Noela, the men did not believe in killing a woman and were also acquainted with her brother.

So, after three days, the kidnappers turned her loose, but not without a treasure trove of evidence against her husband, including the $7,000 payment for her death and recorded conversations orchestrating the hit.

“We just want you to go back, to tell other stupid women like you what happened,” the men told her.

With the help of her pastor in Australia, Noela was able to quietly re-enter the country and stay with a neighbor until the perfect opportunity presented itself: her funeral.

As mourning guests left the home she used to shared with her husband, Noela approached him and said, “Surprise! I’m still alive!.”

“Is it my eyes?” the terrified husband asked. “Is it a ghost?” He then started screaming and asked for his wife’s forgiveness.

Though he initially denied having any connection to the plot, Balanga eventually confessed to hiring the men to kill his wife. He has since been arrested and sentenced to nine years in prison for incitement to murder.

Credit:Washington post.

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Ta Lon fe fi Jo ( who dem wan take am resemble , me or dem papa?)

Definitely not these wide-eyed-over achieving ones we are raising now... Times have changed , give another decade and these ye ye bad examples to wipe off the rader for good.

I always say everyone's environment and experience shapes their thinking and perception in life. Though we've seen girls from hardworking moms practice money-mongering but always seems to be in minority. You barely see kids whose parents aren't goody two shoes and had good upbringing lax around in guise of long thro-ating.

Time , Time... Can't wait!

Timbuktou:
Hey, you. Thought you joined the spaceship to Mars. Happy new year.

Happy New year bro... How's little Tim doing?

Hmm... My schedule is a total disaster. I'm literally spent!

But I won't give in till I figure it out my way out this mess.

Pray for me Tim , I need it.

gawd dey.

Mom

Was she really? (the Legal wife??)

How bout Ojukwu's first wife (older children's mom) ??

Na wa oh , can't phantom this atall.

buoye1:
Lol.... She's calling Lalasticlala as if he's the one that impregnated her.....

Lolz ...

Location

Companionship: Someone to grow old with.

Sex

Procreate

bebe2:
Yes oo,

There is a thread I want u to weigh in.

Am sure ur contribution will go along way in doing some good.

Trying to tag some sensible pple here but can't remember their monikers , lol

It's been a while

Hmm thanks sis, I ready commented on it. Very touching. Thanks for tagging me.

Aunty Bebe thanks for sharing this and giving us another life lesson to learn.

I work in a Palative Unit where terminally ill patients are being comforted till their last day . So I get it. But like Tearoses emphasized, it's a culture thing, I tried to let people understand this fact but we have a long way to go.

I read about a UK doctor this morning, that was fired because he kept referring his terminally ill patients to TB Joshua for 'permanent healing'

What they don't understand is that when Death comes knocking , there's no going back, fact but very true.

May God help us all.

bebe2:
i forgot to add, most people here get cremated, dont really know why , i guess its becos of the land shortage.

That is my request- Cremation. It has nothing to do with land shortage.

Then spread my ashes to ogunpa river so my enemies can sniff it in their brains. Hehe hehe

bebe2:
Ahhh, we are fine oo

How ur side?
na wa oo long time

We dey my dear, Na work and family ohh , long time indeed

reminds me of Jennykadry

By the way, Never heard of state of origin, only country of birth (Passport , health cards, Credit card applications, kids birth certificates)

Arguing over an oblivious q is synonymous to hitting a non existent piñata, blindfolded

bebe2:
Serving nigeria is a waste talent

Some Nigerians here are running their mouth during a discourse about another Nigerian Family's son who chose to play for Canada instead of Nigeria. I asked them, was it Nigerian government that trained him? Yeye folks, funny they'll do exactly same if in their shoes.

How are you and fam Aunty bebe..

TV01:
I am not one to gainsay anybody' testimony, so I'm wishing them all the best and celebrate a prosperous union with them. That is always a joy to me.

And it must be said, Madam has a simple and elegant beauty that has aged really well. I salute the man for his efforts in cherishing and honouring her.

Having said that, I must be clear that although I have nothing against a woman marrying a man who is "situationally" or "presently" poor, she must have the expectation, demand even, that he is of high character, and has a commitment too, and plan for providing for his family.

I don't believe the message here is one of "just marry regardless". And although it all sounds very romantic, if you read the article "very well" (in my best Naija accent ), you will see where he clearly spoke of having a "vision".

So for me the message to women is/should be, don't focus on present or situational wealth alone, or be taken with with inordinate bragging or "flashing". Be more concerned about Character and commitment.

I could even question the example he gave of a woman changing her mind after a year of courtship and demanding certain answers from her intended, before ending it, when he did not answer to her satisfaction.

She shouldn't have had to ask. I'm not saying she wasn't wrongly focused, or that he wasn't better off without her, but it shouldn't be due to his "loose game".

I primarily direct my energies towards challenging and exhorting men, but here's one for the ladies. Many women marry, for all the wrong reasons, get frustrated and label men beasts when it all goes wrong.

But even if he is a good guy, being with someone who is wrong can bring out the worst in a man. Let alone if he's not a kosher fellow to begin with. Get it right going in, and you'll have very few worries. All the best as you establish and build your homes.


TV

I agree with this ^^ submission. Totally

You're on point about Character and commitment. In addition, going into relationship without zilch plans and financial security in this day and age is setting oneself for a long term misery. So that part when he told his wife never to invite the guest speaker to their relationship conferences again , beats me. Comparing all relationships to his is somewhat intimidating and not fair to women who for the right reasons- looking out for their future.

Anyway nuff said...

A serious man should at all points in a relationship be proactive in - appropriately and a timely manner - articulating what his plans and vision are for his family, starting with his courtship and wedding

That^ is the koko... I won't implore any right thinking lady to outrightly marry any man in Bamiloye's 1980s status, who has no cogent future plans in line besides Drama.

I didn't read the Vision part... Gotta ask TV , did you a have a vision about Mrs prior to proposal ?

^{...and I'm nothing like this guy. I didn't employ "jim-jim brother" style or false piety to win mamas heart. I just presented myself, gave her a taster, and asked if she wanted to be courted , Weak-kneed, she agreed, I then got to know her, did my due diligence and outlined my superior value mating proposition. How could she resist? Although I was living in a single room at the time sha}

You're nothing like him coz he was poor. You were gainfully employed and your fan head wasn't attached to your double bed. Like I said, posh-er version and more exposed brother (Kirk Franklin-like).

There goes the bravado again... which one is 'Jim-Jim brother style'.... Before nko. Superior value mating proposition? Hahah enu ni bi ajakara. Weak kneed kor.

How many ripe UK babe way them eye don tear pass ear, go marry a dude living in a single room?

By the way did you share a flat then or a bachelors suite?

*****
As you rightly observed , Madam is an epitome of beauty and elegance. I wish them well and use their marriage success as a point of contact to mine.

dangotesmummy:
and what's wrong with the picture?

Must Nigerians criticize everything. If na beyonce abi ciara do this one now we go say aww cute, aww this awww that. And not that we're even that moral sef.rubbishhh raised to the power of 5000000

There's nothing wrong with the picture, absolutely GORGEOUS!

You happy now?

ExAngel007:
ogogoro drivers

When did I follow this thread?

crackhaus:
Everything is for upload and publicity these days... WTH!!!

I don't even understand why these people do half this stuff, what are we supposed to do with pictures of your swollen belly for the love of Zachariah

A FB friend commented on similar pic so it appeared on my wall. Gosh I was terrified. Had to unfollow right away.

In what world's way is that picture edible to public eye?

Wyttcat:
I once saw an article about how many states move them to welfare/juvenile centers, but I didn't believe it, because I know this centers are some form of correctional/rehabilitation facilities for junior criminals. These are just orphans not criminals. Can anyone corroborate this?

Why should they move them to Juvies/group homes, Are all orphans classified Criminals/sickos?

Please paste that link to that article here.

Err , they live a normal life like you and me

What a question