₦airaland Forum

bellong:
So the parents of your girlfriend refused you to marry her because you are poor?

Guy, don't throw tantrum if they say no, find another better chic that wouldn't discriminate you based on your financial situation or others.

Simple abi na by force.

And OP you sound canterkarous for a good suitor.... Please don't come near my abode.

NigerianBelle:
It's not a reaction to me, but how they interact with one another that I have observed. Besides, I'm not asking about women in Nigeria, since I've never been there. To say that it is an influence of the culture they have immersed themselves in is a fair argument.

All my Canadian born & bred friends & neighbours have a walk in closet full of clothes and assesories. My mother used a Trinket box. here, they have a jewelry closet , shoes racks nko? Go to ikea and see variety designs of clothes closets . you'll start drooling.

What is wrong with you people?

These women work their azzes off , pacify themselves with the finest and suddenly now shallow & vein , because they aren't exchanging book authors?

What is your problem when it comes to Nigerian women and how EXPENSIVE AND DECKED/ACCESSORIZED they present themselves in public?

What do you expect them talk about in public places besides family & wellbeing?

Do you watch the 'real housewives of every county , Mob wives, wives of rock and Ladies of London' ? What do they talk about besides throwing fists?

If you want some just politely ask and it shall be given to you.

Stop hating.

pickabeau1:
Cool

But why make her exes look bad so she looks clean when she is also paranoid

Simple really: She's the greatest HB of all time, she's publicly loved and believable. She will get away with almost everything because she can. Need I say more?

armyofone:
@ Ewuro4
You are right, she has very high standard. Who wouldn't when you are beautiful and rich....ain't gonna take less from any son of Adam. I really don't know what Martinez did...the attacking of someone at the airport? There maybe more to what went wrong. I hope she finds a good bed mate and confidant not husband. Not necessary anymore .

Crying over spilled milk.. These men beat themselves up after all the ridicule she puts them through during courtships hence the rants, none of them have good things to say than there's more to what meets the eye in regards to HB's real character , imagine talking a man to hang himself for what he didn't do? That's some real sh&$ right there. It's like being Pope'd or s'tin ...

Some women don't need ONE man to be fulfilled... Jlo & Madonna are the greatest samplers of all time

@domesticV , I love how the David J said it ... 'Back then it didn't matter but NOT ANYMORE'. Now that's GOLDEN.

Night folks

pickabeau1:
So is Halle Berry not the angel as purported by people but a real harridanish drama queen

Opinions?

Well for one, the babe's got very high standard and expectations. She started her career way at the top , it got into her head and affected her love life ,pronto. She couldn't withstand any flaw from men and judged all mistakes for abuse or being taken advantaged.

I don't blame her, experience they say is the best teacher as per her childhood experience (which can make or mar) ... Her mother literally asked Eric to summon himself into a sex rehab when Haley accused him of cheating. And according to him, he cheated on her when they were already separated & was never a sex addict . Eric's music career nosedived after that dumb move he made(rehab).... Haley eventually dumped his azz issuing that press conference-ish statement.

I nursed a silly thought that she had a BD. who knows , being in a public eye ain't no joke.

Stopped following her story after Eric's drama and only focused on her achievements as an INDEPENDENT SUCCESSFUL BLACK WOMAN. That's my forte.

So to your Q, a saint? hell no . but she ain't stupid.

Brandnew2:
Enjoying life simple means doing what pleases you even if it means jumping off a cliff.
So it's relative and varies from one individual to another.

Succinctly put.

OP is saddist.

So what if those people attribute LIVIING to getting laid , beer&pepper-soup every night, How the fûck is that his business. Must we all make similar life choices??

Timbuktou:
Don't tell me you didn't suspect a thing.

Nothing, Ayam innocent

FriedPlantain:
Happy new month grandma.

Thank you booboo... Dodo help me up jare.. I heard a crack

naijababe:
there is a recommendation for you babe

Thanks boo

Timbuktou:
Hehehe. Ada, you go tey for dat one o. Who no sabi say I be misogynist?

Hehehe oh boy

naijababe:
I am looking for this movie as I just need to laugh scatter this afternoon. The trailer sef na die

# tearoses, edwife, sambarry & Ewuro4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8mB7RYeoVs

Lmao 'eku standing up oh' ... Funny as heck,

I subscribe iroko TV but never use that thing, na Edwife 's fault, she encouraged me and stopped recommending interesting movies.

MusingsOfALady:
People like me? What art thou afraid of?

As per judgmental folks sneering, well any lady who plans to spend her latter years screwing younger lads should grow a thick skin.

Still Classified

Why grow a thick skin for useless scrutiny after the whole sham has finally fallen on its face and both parties gone their ways ALIVE?

What's wrong with screwing younger lads @ 55, Seems that part really is a bother?

Pain am

bellong:
Are you sure it was his sister that called or he saved the number with my sister...

Hmm

Heard this is the fad (via nollywood).. Saving ones cumcubines # w close relatives names.

@OP yes you're overreacting? Peeping is prohibited in my court of law.

Divorce bawo?

naijababe:
ibi ti ama ri iwo si niyen. I cooked one ila asepo this evening sef, u go chop ?

MusingsOfALady:
Ok so how does the abandonment plan go?

Live with him in misery till 55 and then go screwing young boys around town

Isn't that a waste of life?

@bold. Actually It's best kept classified from people like you.

@ Red, like already outlined , you don't have to live in misery to live with the father of your children because you have a plan in place.

Some people only have one chance @ loving someone coz of the emotional process it entail , some have room for many chances and emotionally strong. Loving and dedication to sharing ones life with another person is an unconditional sarifice there is.

And no , it's not a waste of life. There's no such thing as such. Life's what you make of it. It's a choice. What people don't need is judgemental folks sneer at whatever life choices they make- Good or bad or screwing younger lads @55.

lilmax:
that kind thing na

You go come dey wonder if na two family section dey nairaland

As in , Abusive use of Pronouns. we we we

We wetin , who hin be sef, doesn't exist to me. Ego fanning butt licking stunt or what sef, I dey vex

Or on a lighter note, Maybe it's sacarsm.

naijababe:
Leave story o Dami, there is no way I will be in Surulere and I will not branch Shitta o of if I suddenly find myself in Ibadan, I will not head for Inastrate. Thunder fire washboard belle

Now you're talkin.

itstpia8:
as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord and dwell under the shadow of His wings always.

Me too .. In God we trust.

lilmax:
okay

Hehe

Dyt:
Iya idaya will even say 1700

... ' Kini, same material YK abass sells for 800 , no be Korea, 1k jale jor'

damiso:
And oloshious fellow

Dami is that you?

Mindfulness:

Mindfulness:
I am leaving now everyone. Have a lovely day, evening, night, morning - wherever you may be - and never forget that life is supposed to be FUN.
Have a blessed Sunday!

Fun fun fun!
You too dear.

MusingsOfALady:
This abandonment thing in my opinion is not a great idea, except you are like 2decades younger.

I mean you spend your youth suffering and smiling then when he is 60 and you are 55 you leave him and start life all over,?
Start living alone or being a burden to your kids.

If a woman wants to leave, leave now whole you have your youth.

My opinion though

Who told you :

1. she has to be suffering and smiling living with him?

2. She has to start living her life all over again?

And (3) Must be a burden to the society/kids coz she's alone @ 55? What else is she looking for, shrivelled blockoses around town?


@Bold , Phew!

damiso:
Abi o he wins

Bastardo.

SAMBARRY:
like this

Yeah just what I thought. But that lace/net has to match the Ankara used right ? And has to be lined too, to prevent hitching.

MusingsOfALady:
Am just imagining a lady planning to leave her husband dying just a year before her planned date. The husband them marries the mistress. That woman no go enjoy heaven o, she go just sey vex for the Angels.

Lol. Real vex . Dem go send am back.

SAMBARRY:
them go thief am.e go start with "fine girl i love your necklace. Let me help you wear it on your neck properly. Before you say Jack Robinson, them Don take off with the choker

Kuilye and naija thieves awon ole

Kids suppose stay with them parent/nanny @ parties no?

damiso:
Ewuro4 that abandonment plan na long ting o life is so uncertain ojare.who says it won't be the woman who will be ill or die first ?

If we are to measure coolness and the person who used to over stress themselves ,my dad would have 20 years over my mum meanwhile she is alive and kicking while he is the one who died young

True.

Ofcourse the 'old age Ab. analogy' excludes life uncertainties and leaves all 'plans' null and void. Lobatan case closed. He wins.

babygirlfl:
True and like I always say choice and worth is what I believe in.

Yeserie

Madam, this abandonment thing sha

[/quote]Lol.

Most folks don't know but It's a known and true fact (from real experiences) that men's worst nightmare is loneliness in their old age. That's why they are in their best behaviour and very respectful in their mid forties.

Ladies who are married to much older men will confirm this.

edwife:
I know,that has always been my mantra.Kids must look cute at all time.

Take 10 .

SAMBARRY:
choker jwelry for kiddies ke?

Don't you think that's too much

Nope. you're def thinking something else.

Burntpalace:
Had to take a break from NL. It was taking up too much of my time. I have to say it was worthwhile though I missed all you nlers, both naughty and nice.

Don't blame you coz I get it. Miss you too.

@naughty & nice.. Definately Naughty.

Now sisikill and busybody .. E bode oh

SAMBARRY:
the gown WIll be like a regular ball gown but short.it WIll be spagetti hand sewn with Ankara for the entire body.then the waist downwards Will be like Cinderella with the lace material north used.I've formatted my phone. I'll have posted the picture but hope you got my description

Kinda got it. Picture will help.

SAMBARRY:
jwelry ke? Stud is enough and a small hand chain

Stud yes for kids under 6 , drop earrings for my big girl. Choker jewelry with their initials/name pendants, bangles and ankle jewelries too.

Babe , I only face the merchant in market place , don't give ratz azz what people say. They're just jealous. Simple as that. People should do whatever suit themselves.