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SAMBARRY:
gbam.asides that the necklaces I'm seeing will be worth around 400k if they put it on scale. If she wear that thing to certain palaces in Lagos them go drag among Comot for her neck at gun point

Real Gobe I tell you.

Best to go with beads to any Naija party if person want to eat the fruit of one's labour in good shape.

SAMBARRY:
lady in purple ke?
iya provoked yen.

Nooo

Bet tearoses why you no Invite me to pati make I dance "eying aye Elenu rasor o.wonle sonto wun won o.Sheboygan olorun oba ni.kimon

Ha. I miss.I miss.I miss

Kai Kai sambarry party don enter your bone marrow

Tearoses please hola when you're around my hood (North America) , lemme take you to owanbe & show you how we rock it.

tearoses:
Kai
Where did these ladies get these necklaces from?
Sambarry you dey sell this type?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_FAhtY1Ep6c

Sis those are what we call 'undiluted' 80/100G 18k Saudi gold, like sambarry said , that's how real and gbekugbeku madam is distinguished at parties if you're in Naija, don't bother going home with it, just call up your bank manager to open up your safe deposit box to keep them. Otherwise Na gobe oh

tearoses:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KfFQGb0I_dM

BTW thats Naijababe and idowu dancing in the video
Naijababe is the lady in shorts at 5.50
sambarry is the lady in the purple gele dancing azonto

Afi Mr.Solek Na just spray the keyboard and do azonto on top , Na UK guy?

tearoses:
What kind of party is this?
The DJ/Band should be fined for playing bad music
Where do you have chance to discuss at party's
Mo je ri Mr Solek
The next thing is to go home and soak in bubble bath and ask oga to rub your leg with aboniki

Who's this Mr.Solek you always mention sef?

'Twas just a mellow party. You let your hair down and group chat kinda.

babythug:
It may not have been an equality battle. She probably isn't/wasn't too familiar with the other wives/women/girlfriends so she just stayed put next to her man. Her man could have kinda hooked her up with one of the other wives/chicks to ease her into the clique.
Maybe she's a new wife/chick and still on the *my husband my husband* phase LOL

She's very familiar with all of us my dear , she openly expressed her opinion immediately she saw the setting, she even asked 'why is everybody not sitting together' ? (we all stared her down as in ) I don't want to listen to men yelling in my ears all night when I could have a warm and interesting discussion with ladies like myself.
I'm not a new wife and still do attaché with my hubby oh But I believe there's a place and time for everything.

We just found her attitude kinda annoying that's all.

Damiso long time sis. How's Kumon going hahaha, Jesu lo ni emi mi

So I don't want to open a thread but want to discuss regarding our sisters and thirst for equality in EVERY AREAS and I mean every gaddam aspects in everyday lives.. ARE WE TAKING IT TOO FAR?? Mmm

At a Nigerian party, so men are somewhere screaming their heads off while discussing Buhari and Mesi or whatever that soccer guy's name was. While the ladies were somewhere else all caught up in fashion/kids/work/recipie discussions (which was indeed very interesting) .. this particular lady on the other hand was hell bent on staying with her man all night, grinning(fake) at every noise made by these group of men... Guessing she eventually stayed true to herself and left the men with a frown. So after several persuasion from her to leave with her man, he said no. So she left.

What do you make of this?


Some people have this assertiveness when it comes to this Equalty thingy, some of us live our lives like every average joe.. So gotta ask for clarification, Do you find the above party/gathering setting BELLITLING ?

My Role in my area? .... Lots.. but like Yoruba adage says; only God will reward my silent effort. And one good deserves another. Ma jere ohun ti moba fowomishe (pardon me)

Well as y'all aware how incriminating divorce is veiwed in our society & how the abused-turned-single -parents are segregated in churches especially coz 'God hates divorce'... we (women) designed a silent group as a medium to include single parents to be part of church members as opposed to just invite them over which they always decline to avoid malicious questions from the crowd.

.....

I went through many posts and all I can say is 'she/he who wears the shoes knows where it pinch', so , deliberations as to who, where how and what, precipitates abuse in a relationship cannot be pinpoint. It's not black and white as we all think.

My prayer is that, God should have mercy on them and give them that wisdom and swift sense , open their blurred eyes to be able to leave when the situation becomes unbearable before it's too late.

FriedPlantain:
That stuff in between the turkey's legs.... .. ... is that the turkey's poop or something?

dodo .. Thats 'Stuffing' , (seasoned bread crumbs& cranberries) yummy.

Dyt:
NLers and bad fingers

They have finished these guys

Too mean

Idowuogbo:


Dagbororu tinz...

Make oga see you and be ready to attack better soup.

Obeeeeeeeeee!!!

Gbabe jare .. Obe todun, better accesories lopa jor.

Idowuogbo:
Lmao! Serious ibinu o!!! Ishe lati badt mehn....e gba yi

When you finish there,you for enter Vivienne Westwood go buy shirt wey you go use knack the denim then you go complete am with red bottoms. GO-Slow must happen ke...badosky lo'mon je.

Badooo!! Chop nuckles

tearoses:
Please this girl is only 11
I have a 12 year old daughter too so I know exactly what they can and cannot do
You are expecting her to reason like an adult . . .she is a kid

By the grace of God, you will have your own kids too and one day when that girl is 11, you will look back and say, so my own child can do this

Start again please
You sound like you really want to make a positive difference in this kids life
You need to be the adult here
You pull small, you push small
I go to my daughters room and lie on her bed and we both watch tv together . . .at the same time I am telling her that her room is untidy and where to place things.
Kids need Love, direction and firmness.
The adult needs to balance it
The adult also has to remember that they are dealing with a kid whose brain and physical features are still in development. There is no way my daughter can clean dishes as well as I can. Her hands are much smaller for a start and the sink is much higher for her (most probably more uncomfortable) than it is for me
shey you get what I am saying

Hehe I didn't read this before.. Thanks sis for the kind words. It can be frustrating but raising a twin/teen requires a truckload of patience.

Thank you Lord.

uboma:
My bro/sis,


Let's not delve into an argument about this please. I am not a Muslim but I admire Muslim men who keep only one wife. Men like our President MB and others (some friends and colleagues of mine).

However, for those who choose to marry more than one wife, Islam allows this practice.

That's the reason I asked the op what faith does her belong to? If the op's hubby is a Muslim, she has very little or nothing at all to do to dissuade him from marrying another woman.


But if he isn't one, then I see no reason why she should continue in the union.

You've got too much time in your hands...

wonyi:
Thanks, she is in her house warming up. Did u read her disobedience n disrespect attitude. Some 11 years old look after their siblings properly Check with some female children. When u beat ur child with cane or wire people call it discipline but a WARD it's called maltreatment . She leaks milk n milo. IMAGINE just two persons n it's not our regular breakfast yet the second container is down. I was grooming her to be organise but it seems I was. ...

I didn't read it and Infact I won't bother coz I understand your plight and intention.

@bold That's ^^ the thing, you made the right call, just send her back to her parents and help with whatever you can afford. It's best that way.

A distant relative visited for couple of months and insisted I cancel babysitter visit during her stay. I ended up throwing her out when she almost tranformed all my kids ears into a cinnamon twist. You can't raise/chastise another's child to their parents satisfaction.

How many times I've asked my own child of same thing over and over without result and numerous excuses .. 'It skipped my mind mom' or 'I don't know mom' OMG , it's like something entered her since she hit that two digit age. I'm taking it slow w her now coz I don't wanna die young.

firstEVA:
nice one, thanks for the education

you're a scream.

firstEVA:
why not name these so many methods, that's why we have a thread like this

Sorry, OP didn't ask for that.

But if you insist..

Get a high chair w tray, babies love to feed themselves .
finger food like : Boiled macaroni, ground beef, soft cut up chicken & hotdogs , dry cereals( Cheerios), boiled/steamed veggies (carrots, celery, turnips) & fruits. Etc

*Meal replacement is a good idea too, it's sweet, irresistible and most babies/kids looove it.

Babies don't need too much food at a time, their tummy is still growing .

I always tell my kids they don't have to finish their meals coz I serve healthy snack in between mealtimes.

*Taking Bigger kids grocery shopping to pick their own food choice is a great idea too.

FriedPlantain:
Stingy woman!
Why tag me when you knew you had already finished the food...... Why evils?

The same way you failed on your promise to give me my share of that Mayweather's bet. Stingy woman!

Lol @ evulz , thought I should share it because of my promise to babygirl

@Moneyweather's bet , that money was gone before dawn .. 2 Wii games, 4 Amibos and a trip to True Religion for ibinu pant , after all , a woman has to do fine girl now.

FriedPlantain:
I remember asking you for Thanksgiving food some days ago but you ignored my comment.

Anyways, I hope you still have some of that dodo left.... seeing the picture alone is making my stomach growl violently.

I kuku replied you with Kentukey Fried chicken pic (ordered in) but it was hidden. Sowie.

All gone, all I have left is Turkey carcasses i want to use for additional stock for Sunday fried rice .

twizzie:
My toddler is almost 30 months and a very picky eater... He is under weight as he is like in the 10th percentile in weight and height. He practically wants to live on fluids (Mostly milk) and sometimes cereal... He likes fries and pastries too but we all know that isn't really healthy... We have tried so many things with little result... He is presently on Well Baby Multivitamins...
Suggestions on fattening foods and recipes will help please.
Thanks!

All normal. And you're lucky he likes some food so make healthier version of them

Fries aren't bad, you may as well make homemade fries and some nuggets to go with that.

Read Jessica Seinfield's 'Deceptively Delicious' book and see how pastries are transformed into wholesome protein. It's worth the try.

In addition to multivitamins , add Pediasure (meal replacement) to his meals, it can be consumed alone as its fortified and considered a meal on its own. All my kids prefer this to whole milk for midday & bedtime snack.

Good luck mom.

* heavy sigh*

Happened this morning on our way back from church..

I tuned the radio to my fav station & Justin Beiber came on , my girls yelled NO at once , I asked why?

The eldest one said I should change the station that the dude's no good,

funny part; that Beiber has a parole officer following him around even to the loo.

FriedPlantain:
Choi! All these sweet sweet food?

What are they for?

Thanksgiving Na

kaziblake:
I just lost my dad this morning.He was just 55yrs old,you guys should console cos I can't stop crying

I sympathize with you hon. May his soul rest in peace and may the Lord comfort you and your family this difficult time.

It's okay to cry sweetie, the lord is your strength.

God knows best.

Are you Moslems?

armyofone:
When you first took her home, you should have bold typed or written down all the rules for her to read. Then you tell her that both of you would sit down and discuss/explain in depth on each rules...

Yimu

I stopped reading your post after first paragraph.

OP Sweetheart .. 11yrs old are mostly untidy so don't take it personal. thought I was doing something wrong as a parent until I approached other moms with similar age groups. It's a disaster I tell you. So you either live with her flaws and correct her with love until she outgrows it or just send her back to avoid losing it on her.

My throat hurts as I type you have no idea

firstEVA:
Some children will just not eat, mothers who practice this need to be careful sha to prevent choking the child.

Aren't you the same poster who made same statement on similar a thread in past?

Please we shouldn't encourage this practice, it's a dangerous form of restraint and should be abolished. There are many many methods of getting food into children without force.

NL & Drama

My own Thanksgiving Turkey Dinner

Becky G

Cranberry sauce, mash