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wirinet:
Been married 15 years. Have never verbally insulted my wife and she had never verbally insulted me. We do fight occasionally like every other couple but we know where not to cross the line.

Congratulations

The guy messed up big time. Totally immature of him. He should be arrested and prosecuted.

wirinet:
Couples fight, yes. BUT the verbal insults the OP used on his wife is not normal. Calling your wife useless, LovePeddler, mistake, stupid, etc, etc., just because you are quarrelling is not a normal relationship.

I hope you don't verbally abuse your wife just because you are quarrelling.

E be like say u never marry ... U r not getting me my point.

I wish them good luck as they find new path. Divorce is better than death.

mayor1814:
Tell us your facts. we are waiting Mr.Facts.

When Pele retired, maradona was just getting started. They never crossed path on the pitch. Never played against each other.

wirinet:
Which kind of love do upu show by raining insults on your wife everyday?

Which kind of love will make you tell your wife that she was the greatest mistake you ever made?

If that was the kind of love you showed your wife, I am sure she would not come back, except maybe to poison you.

Couple fight. It's normal. But a woman that can't say sorry shows pride, stubbornness.. My wife came back because she knows me Wella. I met her severally sick and married her that way . I stood by her all through dark times. If u are a good man even if you Insult her she no go leave u. So calm down and understand the game.i no be boy for dis marriage thing.

breakthrough22:
Tell me what you would have done if this happened to u .

I just want to learn from you .The fact that my wife is not someone who like saying sorry .

See ehn, ordinary SORRY would have saved all these dramas .She didn't accept she was wrong

A woman that can't say sorry need to be humbled. Don't touch her. Just ignore and be happy. Stop this depression thing.. if you die na u waste o.. ur parents & siblings would miss u n ur wife will be receiving serious doggy from another man. Be WISE

breakthrough22:
If she stays too long in her father house,I will never accept her back .

Seriously, I have missed my family but I am not accepting her back if she spend the remaining days in January in his dad house and I will never send a dime to them

U r now talking. See ehn from your narrative you love her so much which is good. Don't allow her use your son to torture u. She's playing emotional game well encouraged by her parents. My wife tried that once and moved with my kid. Her mom got her an apartment. After 8 months of ignoring, her brain began to reset. She told her parents ( divorced) that she was coming back to me. Today we are 8years in marriage going stronger and I love her die. Don't sell out yourself to your in- laws. Stand your ground.

Skyview01:
I love my wife so much but if she parks out of my house.

I am changing the keys and locks in the house immediately and it will be a long distance relationship until she request to come back.

Op, you have a lot of work to do on yourself and self esteem.

I dey gbadun guys like u. Oil dey ur head jare.

Op, I pity you.. If you begged her to come back, trust me,you will also beg her to remain in the marriage. Why did she disobey your instructions in first place? Did she apologize?So she honoured her people more than you.

Leave her jare.. by the time she hear am there her brain go reset. That's when she will value her husband house.

Jashub:
Op, forget her and move on . When hunger and shame torture her she'll come crawling back. Secondly , it won't be easy for her to find someone willing to marry her and bear the burden of carrying the financial responsibility of her son .

Lol...Infact , I pity this woman . She's deluded and doesn't know that being a single mother is the worst sentence a woman can give herself in this harsh economy.

Oil dey ur head bro.

Ulunne777:
You told her to go ,she obeyed her husband and you still came here to rant.

Let her go where she is valued.My ex had caustic mouth like you and I showed him my back.
Ppl like you kill self esteem until their partner hates their self and feels worthless

Tueh

U no tell full version o... May be he dumped u because of ur toxic character. By their fruits...

Kobojunkie:
Start by going for professional anger management counseling to at least deal with your anger and trust issues. You don't sound at all like a man in love but a man who has anger issues and trying to keep up an image at the same time but that hasn't been working well for you has it?

Give your wife and her family time to marinade in what has taken place and maybe decide on what could come next. You will only be a liar showing up to beg for her back at this point this since there is no way these problems only started back with the December 26th story you fed you here. Start asap by getting yourself help for your anger problems, and then when you go see her at her folk's place — when you receive permission to— you can at least show her you have made progress and will likely not panel beat her again.

You just spilled rubbish. Did u say When he received permission to get the woman she married legally back ? This how you turn men into mumu in the hands of in-laws. Her packing out was also encouraged by her parents. It means they have control over the marriage. I pity the woman who isn't wise enough to manage her home.

If you marry that girl You are COMPLETELY FINISHED.

Abegii.. if you like do more professional courses and add to your CV it is still about who you know. For big organization, forget your perfect cv.. even the recruiter has relatives who need jobs. Una go just dey frustrate people up n down.

Basically, work on yourself and talk to people that can assist you where they are established. They will give you information and guide your application, push it for you. This is what I have experienced.

Trust me, your guy knows what he is doing. Just be sure of his future plan with you. Do not present such matter . Don't do it.

God will do it soon . Do not loose heart. I m proud of u.

They paid costly for their selfish ambition. Do not collect things from men you know nothing will happen between two of you. This is not smartness. It is destruction.

Ezemarcel:
Hmmmm...so hausa girl do scam

Why the hajab .....

I wonder o. I will blame the girl's mother for the daughter's death. She was backing and encouraging her daughter to siphon the man for their selfish reasons giving the man false hope of marriage. I condemned the gruesome killing however she brought it on herself.
It's quite unfortunate she died that way.

May God continue to deliver us from untimely death. Congratulations to her.

mayor1814:
when Maradona was reigning, we all enjoyed football. it wasn't boring. wen PELE was reigning, they said they enjoyed football too. so MESSI reigning we are enjoying football. He doesn't even have any rival to start with.

Stop making blunder on social space. Get facts first before spilling.

mayor1814:
when Maradona was reigning, we all enjoyed football. it wasn't boring. wen PELE was reigning, they said they enjoyed football too. so MESSI reigning we are enjoying football. He doesn't even have any rival to start with.

Stop making blunder on social space. It is derogatory. Get facts.

My God! Why not just shoot them in skull one by one and bury them in shallow grave. Somebody will say they will need some Information from them.. what have they done with all the information so far?

It's done by default.

Moh247:



Na them go first attack... Give them a pinch of their attack then they start crying

Small neck pressing Ahmed Datti would start crying on National TV, small gbas gbos from Dino Melaye Nanu would get angry


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It was your bubu that first cried on national tv as if he meant well for Nigeria. With the disaster APC has brought upon the country, some people still want to vote the party.. kai

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Betanaija42moro:
Why will people be so convenient with hardship? I keep asking myself this question.

APC is a disaster.

I voted APC in 2015, but when I look back and see how worst things have gotten now, I feel like weeping.

I didn't vote apc 2015/2019 because I only saw hatred and bitterness in them. They are so power hungry but no vision for the country. Let's vote them out this time around.

Kingozymandias:
Baba has achieved all there is to achieve ...

Let him retire in the Saudi peacefully...

As Messi is retiring in France let Ronaldo to retire where he is peacefully.

No pressure no worries... Enough wealth .

It will be hard again to see two great players who have played competitively in their life time. Football would be boring if it was only messi reigning without rival so to speak. I personally like Ronaldo.

Acidosis:
Lol people were hoping to see an Igbo name abi??

What does that connote? Any way he is first of a Nigerian.

At the end they chop themselves like onions during clash

South- East is gone.

Think twice before we hear stories that touches.