₦airaland Forum

Cult related killings will gradually phase out with time.

But a man must dance the dance prevalent his time.

A very peaceful death I must say.

No Igbo man in the list , abi Forbes don rig that one too?

Ceasarceasar:
With how much person fit start this kind business

I am not in the business bro.
ask the op.

Cosmas399:
Na plenty money be this

wood business na oil money na.

GogetterMD:
Not my business though but I do have a question for the moderators: why is Aiye (bl^ck axe) censored while Eiye and other cult groups as a word are not individually censored? Just curious

The founder of this forum na aye man na. dem no tell you?

Racoon:
Abeg daddy stop giving Nigerians false illusory hope. You and Pastor Kumuyi have been making these kinds of statements since 2015 but nay, just dragging the name of the Lord into disrepute. Tinubu Akpabio, Gbajiamila, Gandollar are just the wrong corrupt kind of leaders Nigeria does not deserves @ present.

Prophet Elijah didn't gave Israel this kind of false hope during the satanic reigns of King Ahab and Queen Jezebel. Infact he was used of the Lord to execute judgement again that wicked government. Jehu faced the house of Ahab to do the damage. Enough said.

You appear educated but your education appears to be useless.

I would take this forecast more seriously if it were coming from the CBN.

Op, why ever would your friend love a girl that won't meet up with his sexual demands?

Zik betrayed Awolowo thinking a merger with Fulani/Hausa would favour him. Little did he know that he just relegated the entire Igbo nation to third class citizens.


I rest my case.

edoncast:
450k .ur brain should have told u that was an error .

Me dullard ?

If i am dull,i will not be an Accountant in 2 different places at a time .

You are just a jobless kid ,No need to reply u again.The funniest part is that i might be talking to a JAMBITE or a school DROP OUT .Faceless forum it is where someone living with his or her parent hurl insults at free will to someone old enough to be his or dad !!!


Bye .

Cry baby cry. Accountant you come dey make mistakes with figures. na your kind dey crash economy.
leave dat boy with him mama o, make you no carry your busybody spoil things.

edoncast:
Let me burst your brain,

I am doing well financially i am sure .If i am not doing well financially,i will not put together 4503k in 3 months .Just rest

And again,i typed those messages under emotional pain .Stop acting like a slowpoke if you cant advise me

4503k and you dey brag say you dey financially well of? Dey play..
Oboy, stop being emotional. You dullard no Sabi book. Q.E.D

op focus on improving yourself financially, educationally and, spiritually.
The Male Child is naturally attached to his mother. Even if you sacrifice your life for him, mama always has a spot in his heart.

And how in heaven do you plan to teach that boy when your spelling and grammar sucks.

Esope6320:
Tell me u kidding right

You think say na Jesus or Allah dem dey use rule you?

I seen politicians pound newborn babies in mortar and smear the meat on their naked bodies.

Barbiturate:
God cannot be mocked. You need to be careful of what you involve God's name, if you don't want his wrath!

Read your new testament. All leaders legal or illegal were allowed by God.

Jewessgratitud3:
Sure him for what? Did she not sign an undertaking?

The doctor was on his own.. he didn't force anybody to his theater Biko.

His job was not properly carried out.

ImDStar:
The illegitimate man must be ousted out.
Illegitimate person cannot birth legitimate government.
That's my own.

Na God put am there. There is nothing you and your tribe can do about it............... Except of course your usual wailings.

The doctor should be sued.

Thank you for sparing a thought for the poor masses.

Kobojunkie:
It shouldn't be "mind your own business!", or "let the family/elders settle it." Best option is to report to the authorities and allow them do their job.

Well, that is your opinion on this dicey situation.
Unless the girl is willing and determined to stop the nonsense, there is no other approach save my method.

Mind you a 17 year old girl is not a child.

Mindlog:
OP's obligation is to refer her allegation to relevant government agency (details I have earlier posted). If the young person recants the allegation before the officials of the agency who are better skilled to handle such as they are always aware relatives and perpetrators instill fear into victims, making them to recant then the OP losing the respect girl's mother will not affect him losing the capacity to take care of his own family as he can comfortably wash his hand off them.

OP is not trained on trauma-informed approach in working with a young person who is alleging sexual abuse, people are specially trained for that.

Not what you wrote interest me but how you wrote interest me..

Kobojunkie:
Yes, it was either "mind your own business" or "let the family/elders settle it". Both turned out disastrous decisions for all..

And what is the new workable approach?

Kobojunkie:
This is 2023. The old approach to dealing with crimes in our homes has woeful failed Nigerians.

Was there ever an approach to deal with domestic crimes?

Kobojunkie:
There is absolutely no truth to that claim. If the girl denies the claim, then regardless of the reaction from the girl or her family after all, OP can rest easy knowing he did what was right in the girl's case and can wash his hands off that family if he needs to. You don't because of want for attention and respect from others turn a blind eye to what is a crime. That is wickedness and one of the major reasons why Nigeria is the cesspool it is today.

The girl has opened up to him and what he needs do next is make sure that issue is reported to the authorities who can then do follow up investigation to find out fact from fiction. Op is not a mental health therapist nor a rape counselor to "strengthen" her as you suggest. It is not his job.

Sounds like we are both trying to find a way for op but from different angles.. I still maintain my idea is the best.

Kobojunkie:
No no read my response at all?

If the girl denies op, he is in deep shit. He loses respect from the girls mother, he becomes uncle's enemy, he becomes enemy with the girl.
Best he should do is talk to the girl and strengthen her all he can.

Kobojunkie:
So what if she denies it? So long as he heard it from the supposed victims mouth, OP'S duty is to inform the authorities of the potential crime and then allow them investigate. So long as OP has done his part, that is that. OP don't need to turn investigator or rape counselor when he is just a person who heard a story of a potential crime.

If it turns out the girl lied or she denies any such happened, that one no be OP headache. He heard of and reported a crime. Case closed!

You no Sabi book o, I say make op no report give any authority. The girl might lie to protect her family's image. E don happen before.

Hezzyluv:
Thanks.
But what I don't understand is her mum. I fear she might not like it (the disgrace and shame) she may like it treated in family way

Don't blow the issue out of proportion. The girl might deny she ever discussed such things with you.
If you have time with her again, discuss with her don't ask her questions, just talk, strengthen her emotionally, tell her she has the power to stop that rubbish. Tell her she has the power to stand up to her uncle. Tell her stories of girls her age who triumphed over similar situations.... (I don't know any 17 year old girl who triumphed over similar situations) but just cook up a story....

Jesus, did I proffer this wonderful advise?

We all owe God a death!!

Zxcvbnmghtr:
You not also a HE-GOAT too?

I go slap you o. You want use your elder catch cruise ba?

Zxcvbnmghtr:
so you are not one of those dogs?

Not at all.