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This is a country where the youth are ready to die for the betterment of the masses,because African leaders don’t care.
Instead of raising taxes cut down your expenses and let the poor breathe.

I really want to thanks each and everyone here who gave their advice here to guide me on this crucial decision,those who advised in favor and those who are against.God bless you,am reflecting on every single piece you dropped here.
Spain is my home ,the people here ,are lovely,no other country in the world come close in terms of legalisation of immigrants status,the weather is perfect,the cities are beautiful ,the transport network is one of the best in the world ,cost of living is moderate.
But Spain the system is conservative ,there are lots of immigrants in Spain mostly from Latin countries and Morrocco who were born here,their fathers were brought here centuries ago,they schooled and strive here,but you rarely see them having a good job,there are some jobs here they tell you only for white Spanish,in my 19 years living here I have only seen one black bus driver I was shocked because it’s rare here.i had a Spanish gf some years ago she was one the bosses in a Bank,she came home one day telling me she saw a black girl in her place of work she was stunned,and the girl happened to be a Nigerian who lived studied in the Uk, got the job in the Uk transferred to Madrid.But in the Uk and other Anglophone countries this is so common,so my relocating is mainly because of my kids.

Wickedness of some women surpass the devil,the Government should please step into this matter.

ello nairaland Fam need you input on this.

I am a married man going to 3 years now.
I was scrolling on Facebook when a Saw a video of man exercising in a Gym.

This man wore a short nicker and you could see the shape of his joystick dangling. His thing was really big
The issue is that when I scrolled down the comment section I saw a comment from my wife since we are friends on FB and this is exactly what she said in verbatim (guess she is not so smart I would see her comments)

" tongue I love to eat this kind of Food" yea including the smiley face

From her profile pic you can clearly see she is a married woman even other people responded to her comment calling her all sort of names like Olosho and the rest, one even said I pity your Husband.


I saw this when I was in the Office and it clearly spoilt my day I could not concentrate at work anymore.
When I got home I challenged her regarding this comment and she said its nothing that its just a joke comment.

I have been angry as she seriously disrespected me and I am considering a divorce from the marriage.[color=#006600][/color]



That gym guy is already fucking your wife ,believe me.

[quote author=Usefulsense post=130612081]Please stay. You and your wife are already doing well in a well developed country like Spain.

Like people said up there, you can engage a private tutor to teach them English language.

Remember, most of us ran away from Nigeria because of the hopeless situation of the country. That cannot be said about Spain.

So, I advice you stay.



Thanks so much for your advice,the thing here is not only for my kids to know how to speak English,but the chances of them been accomplished in their chosen career is very slim here,in English Countries like the Uk,US,Canada,Ireland its possible but in Spain it’s almost not, there are certain jobs that you as a foreigner with Spanish nationality you can’t get.i don’t want my kids to be depending on my pension tomorrow.

[quote author=TheWinterBird post=130612964]It seems this your so-called friend doesn't want you to progress and is envious. I'm going to assume he's Nigerian? After 19-years in Spain, you should definitely move to a better country in Europe (e.g Ireland, like you've mentioned) if you will have better opportunities there and especially for the sake of your two little kids. The fact that you still told him weeks later means this is something that's in your heart to do and you will forever regret not doing this.

Idk why you can't go to the bigger boss (who is that?) yourself to get your payoff or whatever financial compensation you would be entitled to? What kinda job is this?! If you're legal there, you should know your rights. In any case, don't stay in Spain because of your friend enemy's envy and him wanting to keep you static. His response also shows he's not that good of a person nor someone you can trust if he doesn't want to give you whatever money you're entitled to. It's time to distance yourself from him because he's not your friend.

As long as you and your wife have planned your relocation, move! I know someone (a Pharmacist) who moved from Nigeria to Ireland about 7-years ago, found work soon after and has been thriving since.

Your friend is an enemy of progress. Anyone here telling you to stay in Spain would be an enemy of progress.

Go to Ireland. Great things awaits you and your family.

Let me finish with one of my favorite Bible verses (Joshua 1:9):

9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go".



Thanks so much,you could pass for a prophetess when you wrote you assume he could be Nigerian,yes he is,well am not giving up relocating for the sake of my kids to where they can get a reputatable career.

Dear beloved Nlander I need your candid advise because am in between two choices that might make or break me.
Iam in my very late 40s living in Spain for 19yrs am married with two toddlers 8 and 4,my wife and I have stable jobs I work during the week she works weekends with this time table we can take care of the kids.
Now for the sake of my kids I decided to relocate from Spain, because I want my kids to be English orientated because here in Spain the chances for them to succeed is slim ,first choice was Scotland but I ruled it out because of this brexit thing,so settled for Ireland because its the only English speaking country in the EU where I can easily settle and start work as European passport holder.
So early this year I spoke with my manager at work he is a very good friend he helped me to secure this job ,I told him am leaving in April this year,he told me to think about it very well because leaving where you are doing good for the unknown is scary,I told him Iknow ,he was right ,after some weeks again i told him I still want to leave I told him he should negotiate with the the bigger boss so I can get my payoff he flared and vowed I will never get nothing from the Company,my plan was that before I lay my hands on something in Ireland with my payoff at least I can sustain myself and my family.he told me I must not go.
So I paused the plan am thinking could God be using this guy to save me from a wrong move or the Devil using him to stop me from achieving God’s plan for me.

This is a very good deed,God bless King

Congratulations Great President

This man is thinking from his anus,The west used u as a clown that u are,now u are complaining,this is what you get when you are stupid.

I was Stranded in a remote town many years ago in Mauritania on an attempt to cross to Spain via Morocco, when night came I had no where to sleep and the weather was very cold then,I approached a shop keeper and explained my situation,he simply took me to a Mosque and told me this is God's house you can sleep here .
When I was held in deportation camp along side other nationalites in Morocco,lot of Moroccan women would lined up with food, clothes and money, begging the police men to allow them give us these things.
To be frank Moslems show love more than Christains

This is American Ukrainianjob ,and Ukrain will dearly pay for this,my heart weeps for Russia and her people,I stand with Russia i stand with Putin.

What a priceless treasure you have,so beautiful,I have 2 wonderful boys,but am dying to have a girl child.que niña mas guapa.

Please go learn Truck driving,companies will beg you to work for them.

Beloved Nlander please I need your opinion on this issue that is shaking my home,my wife and I belong to the Christian faith but we disagree in some things mostly speaking in tongues,I believe speaking in tongues most be influenced by the Holy Spirit not one just blabbing by oneself ,but she believe otherwise that you don’t have to wait for the Holy Spirit one just has to be saying words anyhow,she is that type that pray and fast often and listen and pray along side some pastors online,I don’t have issue with that,where the issue is now.
I told her when praying alongside these pastors and watching testimonies,she should not allow our 7years old son to be with her,she was surprised and angry ,she asked why,if I don’t want our son to know how to pray,and also hear testimonies of God’s miracles?I told her not that,i believe in prayers and miracles,4year ago I was hit by chronic disease,I prayed and I was healed,I mean I prayed myself not involving any Pastor,I told her the reason is the boy is too tender to be see some graphic pictures of ppl who say they had so so disease,later they received healing,and hearing name of diseases,problems and all that sort,and watching how these online Pastors praying ,saying one word and say ten unknown words ,children practise more of what they see than hear,Itold her I can’t withstand my 7years old mimicking the Holy Spirit because he watch a Pastor praying that way.she said there nothing wrong if the kid speaks in tongues I told her no,when the boy was 6 she said he is old enough to be baptised I said no .Now she sees me as a devil that I have been hindering her spiritual growth she regretted marrying me.please my ppl advise me.

Seun,please what happened to our beloved Nairaland,abi Wike and Sim fight na u go settle.
Thank god matter don settle.

The real leader with real balls,I love this man to the letter.

Congratulations Kiing David,we taking the treble home.

My candid advise don’t leave your family for abroad,reasons
1..your visa doesn’t permit you to work,once it expires you becomes Ilegal,unless you seek asylum
2,,,Getting documents in Europe legally takes time,even Spain and Portugal which are the easiest Europe countries to get documents will take you minimum of 5years if you are lucky,that mean you won’t see your family for at least 5years,3,,,Accommodation getting a place to stay is not easy,since you don’t have documents you can’t rent a flat,well you can rent a room from fellow Nigerians flat.please am not discouraging you ,me myself I live in Europe,I know how things are here,well the choice is yours.

It’s so strange that your wife could get visa and you and the baby are not included as dependant,I hope this not a scam.

I will advise you to accept the job in Nigeria with both hands,even traveling to Canadá on tourist visa it doesn’t guarantee you job immediately,it will take you some years to get the work and residence permit,well the choice is yours.

When Donald Trump kept calling CNN fake news carrier lot of people say he was crazy.

These Arabs went too far this time,the consequences of these acts will be very ugly.

This what you get when you seek favour from the devil

Sex is very important in marriage,even in the Bible,couples were instructed not to starve their partners of it,before I married my I compel her to sign an agreement that anytime I ask for it she must offer me except she is sick,seeing her period or very tired.
Bro,don’t divorce her unaware for the sake of your kids ,talk to her about it again if she acting the same way,then call a family meeting on the matter tell them if she continues like that you will get a second,I believe she will giving you like never before.

Beautiful place,I was there years ago not on vacation,but for Japa mission

Demons

A man with sense is talking now but the dafts wouldn’t listen

[quote author=depz post=122922777]So this one too dey collect digging? I pray she has miscarriage and losses that child. I also pray the first one dies in a car accident and after that, her husband divorces her and takes half of her riches. All these and many more i ask through the name of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ, Amen.



You are devil,your wish for her will return back to you.

Ucrain don buy better market,Putin will take out the puppet called Zelensky from the scene very soon.

Democrats are the APC of the US,the real Satan advocates.they are trying to bring this man down, because they are scared he will win and reclaim his stolen mandate next year.and expose their devilish agendas.
God bless Donald Trump
God bless America
God bless me

These people are mad,they judge situation in reverse mood,the culprits in this war are no.1Joe Biden,2 Zelensky,the EU and all that support the war.