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firstking01:
For the records, the lesukaa events center i know is @Dr peter odili Road @trans-amadi closed to amadi round about....or e get another one for GRA?, and if yes, is it phase 1, 2 or 3....give us the full location and adress...me and joliyp and sinaj fit show

I expected to see you on this thread and you didn't disappoint me.

I was going to call you out to come and see a guy who said Lesuka is at GRA. Good a thing, he has corrected himself after receiving sticks.

emekamigo:
Never you trust anybody that does not share same blood with you to an extent.You can trust your children better than your wife-

Hmmmm. Hard talk.

Thanks, dude.

emekamigo:
Married but can only trust my mum-

How do you live with a wife you can't trust? I find that true relationships only exist when there is trust.

grad2012:
Aint noting wrong with trusting a good woman.

No. Nothing wrong, but unfortunately the good women are in a small minority

firstking01:
i'm into one already

Okay. Give it your best shot and don't worry about free sex from married women, because in the end, nothing is free. You pay a dear price for it.

firstking01:
i stayed in rumoumasi for more than 20years...i did my primary school @st. Michaels primary school and my sec school @oginigba...i'm currently in rivpoly

You are an area boy then. I grew up in P town and still stay here too. But you have an abundance of "manchis" at school now . So why don't you start from there? Original love ooo.

firstking01:
Rumoumasi?, which part of rumoumasi..omasi, bende, market road?, uyo street??

I knew you would ask. She stays at Bende Street. But the point here is : Backyard love is forbidden.

firstking01:
Mehnn, some guys are just luck personified ...see awoof...my brother no dull for the money o...i wonder why we cnt find such women in ph...golddiggers erri'wer

A woman at Rumuomasi is on my neck, as I type this. She called me just about 2 hours ago and I am standing my ground. She has been pestering me for about two weeks now and my answer remains, NO. She has tried all she could to trace where I stay without success. CORRECT BOBOS NO GET TIME FOR CORNER CORNER LOVE.

Kikikikikiki. See me see wahala ooo. All the posters above me are begging the op to finish the post. You want to learn those tricks for free, abi?

MrCork:
..well I ate ground nut by mistake for the first time in my life hear in London cozz I was mistakenly hungry & .. I beleave my reputation as a plaYa is on the line?

Ladies..we need your help on this serrrreious issue..please advise!

I no fit laugh ooo. Victim of Mad Cow Disease for life.

onoerime:
maybe you think i am baby. I am 45yrs of age. This has nothing to do with lust. I have seen and date various ladies more than you do

Take a chill pill, @op. You are here for advice. So don't fight with anyone or things will turn sour for you this afternoon.

@op, the posters above me have all advised you rightly. So summon the courage to do the needful.

[quote author=Softy0709 post=44483834]Hello good people, please i need ur candid advice, I have been in this relationship for 5yrs now, but there has always been a major problem, my boyfriend cages me, Anytime I tell him I'm going for an occassion(weddings,birthdays,e.t.c)or to my family members place he always insists I should not go and when I ask why he will always scold me and tell me I have no right to 'ask him why'. Normally I'm an introvert, but he makes matters worse, I have no friends, nobody at all. I'm at the verge of leaving that relationship. He even tells me sometimes that when we get married, I wouldn't work, when anybody calls me on phone he will tell me to put the call on loudspeaker, he is hot tempered, I don't even know how I survived 5yrs with him. Currently we are not in talking terms because I violated his order by going out for a training and not coming back home at the time he said I should. Please i just need your advice because I don't even have anybody to talk to. Thanks and have a Blessed day!

OP, the sad truth about your story is that you stopped living completing for the sake of keeping a boyfriend, who is even more or less an enemy.

You have wasted five full years, suffering loss of freedom, mental and emotion abuse and violence when you are not even married to him.

Everything about what you just discribed here is wrong and can't be called a relationship, not to talk about even contemplating marriage with him. He has kept you away from family and friends so that it will be easy for him to destroy you. He is a beast.

So leave him and don't listen to his pleas, if he decides to plead with you, because, he will grow worse in the future.

@Op, there is eternal wisdom in the saying: First thing, first.

And @Vishnu insisted that guys with no car and house of their own (bought or built) should not get married and many of her gender on that thread agreed with her?