Crime › Re: Ugandan Maid Caught On Camera Suffocating Employer’s Child (Disturbing Video) by Fadamant: 11:19am On Oct 04, 2016 |
bumi10: you left out "wife" Hahahahaha. What did "wife" do? |
Crime › Re: Is It Proper To Keep Some Cash Always At Home In Case Robbers Visit? by Fadamant: 11:12am On Oct 04, 2016 |
byna: Hello Pals,
Recently I had a friend advising to always ensure I have some amount of cash at home in case the unexpected thieves invade.
I want to know if this is against having faith in God as it partains expecting evil.
I have never had a robbery incident but learnt you will be more sorry if you are caught cashless.
Please useful advice only. I almost slashed you before reading the post. Delibrately keeping cash for armed robbers amounts to having negative faith and attracting them by your expectancy. By keeping cash for that purpose, you are impressing your subconscious mind with the belief of being robbed and your subconscious will work to make it happen to you again and again. |
Crime › Re: Man Burns 8-Year-Old Stepson's Hand For Stealing N200 In Rivers State (Photos) by Fadamant: 9:59am On Oct 04, 2016 |
imiski: but we are made in Gods image and likeness Can you do that to your brother for stealing #50 from you? God does not punish a man without making provision for the man to live right. So you have no morality to impose penalty on another when you have not fulfilled your responsibility towards him. |
Crime › Re: Man Burns 8-Year-Old Stepson's Hand For Stealing N200 In Rivers State (Photos) by Fadamant: 8:50am On Oct 04, 2016 |
imiski: it amuses me how Pple are quick to condemned did man(I don't support wat he did) but d same Pple believed dat God would punish Pple in eternal fire for even smaller crimes...*runs out The man is not God. He is a human being and should have the conscience that you don't have. How do you punish your child for stealing when you have kept him starving? He is 8-yr-old, mind. |
Crime › Re: Man Burns 8-Year-Old Stepson's Hand For Stealing N200 In Rivers State (Photos) by Fadamant: 8:45am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Those of you saying the boy will not steal again because he has been punished are daft for not getting the gist.
How do you punish your child of 8 year old for stealing when you fail to feed and take care of him?
@Op, please go back to that facebook page and impress it on the poster to do something about the boy. He can start by rallying his neighbours against that couple or call in the police. |
Family › Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Fadamant: 8:49pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Chubhie: Sorry for the rude shock.You feel cheated right now that your wife over packaged and sold above the market value for her age?
You thought you were smart?Got outsmarted by the assumed weaker vessel?
I can tell you your wife is not proud that her sins has found her out this very moment.granted,she was over the moon when her dummy was sold at the beginning.
How is the body language of your wife with this discovery? Reassure her and give her genuine reasons not to further lie to you cos it insults your intelligence.
You must induce her to come clean and also spill any other best secrets of her.If you can get her to this state,you would have my respects.
Divorce shouldn't be an option.Manage this well as the man of the house.Be strong for her and the kids.
Passing shot......You could hear her burdens and stuffs that could break you and that marriage if your shock absorbers ain't strong.Dont judge her but try and understand her.
She would be lighter,more trusting and a better wife once you midwife her through this process.
Are you man enough? |
Family › Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Fadamant: 6:15pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
nickxtra: My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.
Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs. I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.
My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.
I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this. Thanks very much@chuskbogus2001. The op, has an issue and is seeking for advice. Instead of providing advice the alphas and omegas in relationship matters on nairaland are calling the op names for discovering and feeling bad about the lie his wife told him. Lies on any grounds in marriage are bound to erode trust between couples and eventually destroy any marriage's foundation. @Op, please forgive your wife. Calm yourself down and have a tete-a-tete with your wife, stating how you feel about it. You cannot throw away a marriage that has been going on fine before the issue of age came up because of age. Moreso, marriage is more than age. So forgive her and shelve the idea of divorce. |
Family › Re: Safety Tips For Households On Fire Incidents by Fadamant: 2:16pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
May God help us all to put these information to good use and be able to remember the tips in case of an outbreak, because knowing these things and staying composed to act right in case of fire are two different things. |
Romance › Re: 7 Types Of Girls You Shouldn’t Date If You Don’t Want To Die by Fadamant: 3:31pm On Aug 22, 2016 |
FreshBoiy:
Nice write up... I have my reservations about number 1 and 6 tho. 
Going back to an Ex isn't totally a bad idea, it only depends on the circumstance surrounding the initial breakup. Forget proverbial cliches, they are most times based on logical reasoning and not always true.
If for example you breakup with a lady because you were not mature at the time to handle the relationship and after a couple of years you have become a more refined and better person and you realize what you lost looking back at that relationship with your ex, then if life gives you an opportunity to get back with her don't go hinging your decision on some proverb just because it sounds rational.
I am pretty sure 2face and Annie probably broke up a couple of times but Annie wasn't deterred by his infidelity. They have known each other for over two decades and their love story is simply amazing. |
Romance › Re: Abeg Which Kind Cloth Is This.(18+) by Fadamant: 3:56pm On Aug 16, 2016 |
Tolu, you are still asking when she is already dressed and set to go out? |
Family › Re: Suggest A Good Primary School In PH Around Trans Amadi Area by Fadamant: 3:54pm On Aug 10, 2016 |
Check Eni's Treasure School around Danjuma Drive axis. But I suggest that you move around and make proper inquiries and vet a number of schools, to detemine which school would suit your child very well, as there are many of them. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Zambian: I Have Sex With My Son Every Wednesday To Maintain His Riches by Fadamant: 10:30am On Aug 10, 2016 |
Sunnycliff: Africans, if one say we are monkeys, another while scream racism!
#tufiakwa Guy chill. This does not make us monkeys. Incest is far worse among white races. |
Romance › Re: How To Know Someone's Age by Fadamant: 2:37pm On Aug 08, 2016 |
Unnecessary calculations. Date of birth already tells the age, even without phone number. |
Romance › Re: My Photo File by Fadamant: 10:47am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Hmmm. @Janeify. Wonderful! How did you come by all these? Will like to get a link to your source. Thanks. |
Family › Re: Why Do Babies Cry When They Are Just Born? by Fadamant: 8:11pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
MrPresident1: Actually, the first intake of oxygen oxidises the delicate linings of their respiratory apparatus, so the impulse reaction is to cry at the pain of the slight burning , which does not last long but normalises shortly afterwards. Meet the scientist. |
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Career › Re: Now I Really Need Ur Help Cus Am Burning Inside.. by Fadamant: 4:50pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
timsonpreye: romancelanders I need ur advice on what to do cuz its really getting me crazy... I work in a company (not a big one tho it's jst too pass time) were we do sell our product to ppls, in the company we have a director (male) manger (female) and supervisor (also female) I have been in this company for getting to three years and I have seen so many ppls come n go, some being sack while some resigned by them say and I still remains becus of the grace of God but now my problem is the new supervisor that was transferred to our station have been giving me hard time, from the very day she came in I have bn Gud and obedience to her no matter am her serious in terms of age, but she keep talking to me any how as if she's my elder, what my junior SIS can't even try doing, Wat pains me d most is that am the only guy she dose that to, I guess it was becus the other guys didn't give her face when she came in, the director n manger are also in support of her bcus she help dem cover some of their sins, so they are really to sack for her, she (supervisor) and some other gal's in the company keep telling me words that hurts me ,some times I do think of beating the hell out of her and resigning or better still get sacked but the economy is hard,i believe u know what I mean..... pls I need ur advice on what to do Note: for the English professors here forgive my English if it's somehow bad, got 3bars left got to type fast to deliver... cc: smellymouth, misshatey, mimzy, refiner, naughtynaughty, vizik n other of my pals I didn't mention.. Please, move this post to family and jobs sections where you can get better advice from experienced people who are working like you. Most people you see on romanceland are young people who don't have an idea what you are talking about. |
Politics › Re: Blaise Campaore: From Grace To Grass by Fadamant: 11:33am On Jul 20, 2016 |
Hahahahaha. I laugh in French. @Cynthia123, where did you see Uncle Compaore drinking fanta and eating puff puff?
Evil African leaders. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Appoints A.O. Folorunsho As Commandant For Nigerian Army School Infantry by Fadamant: 10:58am On Jul 20, 2016 |
TonyeBarcanista: Why am I having the feeling that some people only came to check name?
Truth be told. I came to check name, just like everyone else in this thread. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Turkey Coup Plotter’ Gulen: Failed Uprising Could Have Been ‘staged’ By Erdogan by Fadamant: 8:45am On Jul 20, 2016 |
vedaxcool: I demand you stop leasing your cranium to the other people and put it to good use. A dictator yet the court easily executes its own decision free from fear and intimidation and rules against the govt? So erdogan convinced all his enemies to plot a coup and then decided to arrested them afterwards? What weed are you and gulen smoking? Erdogan then decide to bomb the hotel he was in minutes after he left the place? People died opposing a coup that sought to rob them of democracy and all you can say here is he staged manage a coup that his enemies willingly participated in and even killed to sustain... you guys are just not it at all As of this morning, over 58000 people have either been detained, sacked or suspended from work. Apart from the soldiers, policemen and judges: 15200 ministry of education officials have been sacked; 21000 teachers have had their liscences revoked; 1577 university professors(faculty deans) have been asked to resign; 1500 finance ministry officials have been sacked; 393 social policy ministry officials have been sacked; 24 Radio and TV stations have been closed down, and on and on. Now tell me what these group of people know about coup if this is not a purge that is premeditated. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Failed Coup: Turkish Soldiers Bound And Unclad by Fadamant: 10:24pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
dalaman: They had already lined up about 3000 judges that had been blocking Erdogan and rounded them up. The judges have been purged from the system. A lot of the soldiers said they were just told they were to go for military maneuvers on the bridge and and some strategic positions. They didn't even know they were part of any coup and I truly believe them. They soldiers weren't hostile to the civilians they very easily surrenderd without any resistence at all. If they were truly part of the coup they would have shot at the civilians that attacked them or resisted fiercely but no they just gave in with shock written all over their faces. What kind of coup is this that no body is claiming responsibility? Everybody is just denying his involvement. Even the government is still speculating on who the master minder might be. They themselves can not pin the coup on anybody. It's a farce. Erdogan was behind it. Thank you. You sure know what we are talking about here. If at all there was a coup. Were the soldiers so daft to know that they must lock down Ankara and Istanbul airports. From where did Erdogan get his boldness from to fly into Istanbul airport and make broadcast right away. How did they come up with who to arrest almost immediately after his arrival. Initially, they pointed fingers at Gulen, but he and America have rejected their accusation. Now they are holding former Airforce chief, Gen. Ozturk. State media says, he has admitted guilt, but private media says the opposite. Nobody is behind this fake coup but Erdogan. It is a false flag. There is no soldier who plans a coup and denies his involvement afterwards. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Turkey Coup Plotter’ Gulen: Failed Uprising Could Have Been ‘staged’ By Erdogan by Fadamant: 9:14pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
nwaanambra1: he is not just whipping out any military officer that he feels will oppose his power drunk moves, he is also cleaning out all the major heads in the judiciary!
tell me a coup that count succeed with the support of more than 6000 soldiers and judiciary combined!
the man faked the coup! simple! its a broad day light false flag!
erdogan is a power drunk criminal - an underdog! He will soon exterminate the foolish prime minsters and blame his death on enemies of the state, then he will declare himself as a supreme leader in turkey!
i know that's his target.
but unfortunately for him, the citizens of his country will soon wake up to realize that the coup is a false flag then turkey will be worst than Syria! Thank you, bro. Can you imagine that up till now Erdogan and his gang have not been able to definitely tell the world who was behind the coup. They pointed at Gulen at the beginning but he and the US rejected their accusation. Now they are holding former Airforce chief, with the national broadcaster saying he had admitted to being behing the coup, but private broadcasters are saying otherwise. Erdogan is just looking for who to hang it on. Thousands of soldiers are being detained and tortured and 3000 judges sacked. 9000 policemen have been suspended and they want us to believe that this is a coup. Baloney. This is definitely a false flag and Erdogan won't get away with it in the long run. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Turkey Coup Plotter’ Gulen: Failed Uprising Could Have Been ‘staged’ By Erdogan by Fadamant: 3:24pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
bonechamberlain: That man erdogan is a dictator, he has been looking for ways to have a firm grip on his country. This is the way he has chosen, stage a coup and use the failed coup to remove all opposing voices from govt or send them to jail or even murder them.
My greatest fear is that other dictators and authoritarians in various countries especially Africa might follow this erdogan pattern and become a Demi god in their various countries. Now you see that this is a false flag by Erdogan. He has staged a coup to cleanse the army of Gulen supporters and Kemalists. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Failed Coup: Turkish Soldiers Bound And Unclad by Fadamant: 3:18pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
BrainnewsNg: Hmmmmm
Can this be possible? Yes. It's possible. It is called false flag in security circles. Governments create fake security crisis situations to tighten control. How come nobody knows who is behind the coup uptil now? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Failed Coup: Turkish Soldiers Bound And Unclad by Fadamant: 3:17pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
BrainnewsNg: Hmmmmm
Can this be possible? Yes. It's possible. It is called false flag in security circles. Government create fake security crisis situations to tighten control. How come nobody knows who is behind the coup uptil now? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Failed Coup: Turkish Soldiers Bound And Unclad by Fadamant: 1:46pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
bonechamberlain: Criminal erdogan, he might have staged this coup to purge his opponent, which has already begun It looks like Erdogan staged this coup to ramp of security fears among the citizenry, purge his opponents in the army and politics and tighten control. Erdogan is a rogue. He has stayed in power for twelve years and is confiscating power more and more. |
Family › Re: My Wife's Lover Named Our Child by Fadamant: 8:16pm On Jul 15, 2016 |
Ioannes: And who told you the child is yours
Better go for DNA test and NDA test before you build a castle on somebody else's plot of land. Guy, abeg remind me. Which one be NDA test again? |
Romance › Re: Dating/marrying A Quiet Girl Vs A Noisy Girl, Which Do You Prefer? by Fadamant: 2:26pm On Jul 15, 2016 |
JustOzito: when I am with his friends or in a crowded environment I am usually quiet but when we are alone I am free and talk a lot. Wise girl, here. |
Romance › Re: What Does Uche No Dey Look Face Mean? by Fadamant: 3:07pm On Jun 29, 2016 |
I no dey look uche face. I don't give a damn. I don't care who you are. |
Politics › Re: My Encounter With A Destitute Woman With 2 Kids In Ikeja by Fadamant: 9:36am On Jun 29, 2016 |
God bless you and your team and bring you more resources. Do well to also post this thread in the family section. |
Family › Re: My Father Being Bullied by Fadamant: 5:17pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
Stiched brain. This is only the second time I would read your thread. I thought you had something serious to say, bringing your father into this, otherwise I would never click on your thread. Continue ooo. |
Agriculture › Re: Tomato Jos: Mira Metha, Harvard Graduate Who Is A Tomato Farmer In Nigeria by Fadamant: 1:25pm On Jun 21, 2016 |
Hmmmmmm.
Compelling food for thought. |