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Family › Re: The Evil Of Bet9ja. by Fadamant: 5:57pm On Mar 10, 2018

christtax:
Lost 600k again

Take it from me. Nobody becomes rich by gambling, unless he is the game master, hence the old axiom, the house always wins. So it becomes pretty foolish to engage in a game where the odds are stacked against you.

In 2016, when you made this post you were adviced to seek spiritual counselling, but you apparently ignored that advice.

Again, if you are really serious about freeing yourself from the bondage of gambling, I advice that you pray and talk to a genuine christian you know around you who will counsel you. Truth is, salvation and a definite encounter with Jesus will change your life completely. So give your life to Jesus.

Don't try to manage your situation from the outside. It will never work.

Family › Re: I Am So Ashamed Of My Life Please Help Me by Fadamant: 5:42pm On Feb 21, 2018

All our experiences, family background, level of education, and other environmental factors matter. But full 60% of what your life becomes is determined by the decisions and actions your take.

To have new pleasant and different results in your life, you must change first. The things that you did that brought you your unpleasant results must be stopped. Don't focus on your negative realities. Dwelling on them is looking for excuses for non performance.

Focus on one thing you know will bring you success over time. Make it your priority. Pay the sweat equity for it, and things will change for you after you have paid the price in full. This process might be hard and painful, but if you really want great success you will keep to it and great success will surely show up.

Good luck.

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Family › Re: S.o.s by Fadamant: 2:54pm On Feb 20, 2018*

Pidgin2:
Dearest sis, I'm fine but quite busy atm and how are you?

I can imagine. I am good too. I'm a guy. Thanks

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Family › Re: S.o.s by Fadamant: 12:55pm On Feb 19, 2018

Pidgin2:
If you are a parent or have children/youth under you try your possible best to ensure that they don't view Big Brother Nigeria, it will corrupt them for sure

That show was created to promote formication, promiscuity and drunkenness even you as an adult are not safe watching it. It is a porn show to be candid

#WE THE SANE NIGERIANS REJECT BBN

Long time, Sis. How have you been?

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Family › Re: If You Are Not Married Ensure You See This by Fadamant: 3:17pm On Jan 05, 2018

I just finished reading a thread by @kunleajaye, and it underscores the number one point of this thread. Never get married to someone you don't agree with. Marrying someone you are not compatible with, for any other reason is issuing a special invitation to disaster.

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Family › Re: Why Are Some Some People Like This?? by Fadamant: 3:28pm On Dec 06, 2017

Pidgin2:
Alchatraz005 so because you are suffering means all Nigerians are doing same? The problem in this country is that we have a lot of dull people who think everyone else is just as dull.

I don't know who you are or where you are from but I want you to know that your circumstance is not what everyone will experience, get lost.

Hey, Girl!

Please, cut that guy some slacks. You were too harsh with him. What people say is a product of their reasoning. So excuse them, and don't respond in kind.

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Family › Re: How To Escape Incidence Like That Of Ex_pdp Chairman's Son by Fadamant: 2:56pm On Nov 22, 2017*

As a mad man casteth firebrands, arrows and death; So is the man that deceiveth his neighbour and saith, Am not I in sport?(Pro. 26:18,19)

Foreign Affairs › Re: Zimbabwe Crisis: Army Takes Over; Finance Minister Ignatius Chombo Detained by Fadamant: 11:04am On Nov 15, 2017

I've waited very long for this day. The reluctant khaki boys in Zim finally did what they should've done long ago.

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Politics › Re: Black Soot is Back In Port Harcourt! by Fadamant: 8:59pm On Nov 10, 2017

I talked about it this morning at the office, because I noticed that my nose has been producing black dirts over the past week.

Family › Re: Beware Of Women by Fadamant: 3:20pm On Nov 08, 2017

Ishilove:
It is Onitsha market literature so it has probably been out of print ages ago. I however judged it by it's title and foreword and returned a verdict of "HORSESHIT".

How about letting us in on any of it's subjects, so we make the deductions or conclusions by ourselves?

Family › Re: Nigeria Parent Are Losing It For Familiarising With Their Kids by Fadamant: 12:01pm On Nov 06, 2017

bebe2:
Abeg remove your rose tinted glasses �

Where are the cultured respectful kids??

These wayward, kidnappers, yahoo ers, prostitutes in the name of runs, armed robbers hired killers , cheats and immoral jungle justice performers?? :

Are you suggesting that the children of this age are better trained than those of yore?

Family › Re: Nigeria Parent Are Losing It For Familiarising With Their Kids by Fadamant: 11:53am On Nov 06, 2017

kennygee:
And the culture brought about respectful and cultured kids.

Now we want our kids to be our friends. Your kids are not ur friends.

Foreign Affairs › Re: Secret Service Shares Rare Images How They Transport The President's Motorcade. by Fadamant: 4:04pm On Nov 05, 2017

Queenlovely:
A well coordinated Terrorist attack can cripple america. No security is fool proof.

The best way to cripple america is to hijack its education sector. He who controls the text book controls the people.

You have said enough already and that should be okay. While I like your intelligence, I think you are beginning to "over-express" yourself which makes me fear for you.

In this age, as in the past, NOBODY, is anonymous, not when you are on the internet and not to secret services. So take it easy, when you are online.

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Crime › Re: Lady Sent To Prison For Stealing One Month To Her Wedding by Fadamant: 11:20am On Oct 28, 2017

Pity!

It was just a test by Madam Rachael and her husband and she failed woefully. Mind, Madam Rachael purposefully told her brother to send Chioma to visit her.

Family › Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by Fadamant: 3:37pm On Oct 19, 2017

Hmmmmm. This one strong ooo.

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Family › Re: Please What Should I Do To These Boy???? Pics!! by Fadamant: 2:40pm On Sep 21, 2017

This might be funny, but bad parenting is on show here. The child is not properly monitored and objects that could cause harm are kept within reach.

What if that soup or stew was a chemical substance? Perish the thought, but you know the rest.

@op, please take no offence.

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Family › Re: See New Photos Of The Damages The Mudslide Caused And How It Left Many In Tears by Fadamant: 3:46pm On Aug 24, 2017

I feel so sad every time I remember this tragedy. I wonder how the victims will cope. May God help them all.

Romance › Re: Small Boy Marries An Old Grannie In Uganda by Fadamant: 1:41am On Aug 23, 2017

finnestdope:
The Lil boy married dt old momma

Still can't make sense of it.

The pictures say that that event happened in a town. The adults there all dressed modern, meaning that it's an African town, not an interior village. So they know about pedophilia. So how come a full grown ass woman is kissing a boy of about 6 years in public and all the adults there watched with interest. How come the police didn't hear nor act to arrest the woman and those behind this rubbish.

Can't make conclusions yet. Maybe, it's a movie, after all.

Family › Re: My Uncle Unknowingly Said He Has A Hand In My Father's Death by Fadamant: 6:52pm On Aug 22, 2017

You would have gotten more views by now if you posted this on the Family Section. The mods could help you with that though.

To the matter. Your uncle didn't say he had a hand in your dad's death, going by the statement you credited to him. We can only deduce that he survived a life threatening illness or accident, etc, long before he got married.

The best you can do for yourself, now that you are a graduate is to take responsiblity for yourself and your mom. Forget about your uncle, job or no job. You can achieve a whole lot and create a very beautiful life for youself if you focus on you, take responsibility and work real hard, while making sure you have God on your side. Good luck

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Romance › Re: Small Boy Marries An Old Grannie In Uganda by Fadamant: 6:16pm On Aug 22, 2017

I don't understand this story and the pictures are making my heart quake. Can someone please, explain to me what it's about, since the op failed to do so?

Family › Re: Letter To Madam Ifyalways And A Good Reading For Other Nairaland Scambusters. by Fadamant: 6:37pm On Aug 06, 2017

Ify you dey dodge your boy matter abi? You done dey pretend as though you no know say this thread na for you. Abeg say and do something. Your boy is waiting.

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Family › Re: War Room Movie: Not As 'perfect' As It Sounds? by Fadamant: 3:32pm On Aug 03, 2017

Pidgin2:
Both you and the original critic have the same line of thought if not why did you create this thread?

Imagine someone living in America saying women who work have committed a sin

I know that the devil and his accomplices will surely attack anything truth, so for the fact that the first point was even raised to criticize the lady, I already know where both of you are coming from

Give your life to Jesus, He is Lord!

I agree with your first paragraph, and I will go further. Bukatyne's assertion is that the movie is overhyped simply because it is a christian movie. Attack anything that supports the Bible. Pull down the church and Christianity. That is the construct.

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Family › Re: I'm Tired Of Living, I'm Burned Out, I've No Where To Turn To by Fadamant: 3:41pm On Jul 27, 2017

Austindumas1:
this bashing is really the reason I hate to speak up, I've seen people bashed when they complained, and they ended up committing suicide, anyway thanks for your time, I was wrong to make this post.
always remember we struggle differently, our reactions to pains also differs and we are different individuals.
thanks again

The bashing they are dishing out to you is being done in good faith. What they want you to do is to take responsibility for your good and that of your close relatives. They are saying that you have all it takes to succeed already, and I believe that. A person with OND, who can write well like you has got a good spring board to start from.

Be encouraged, determined to succeed and don't give in to self- pity, because you have all it takes to make it, if only you take responsiblity.

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Family › Re: I'm Tired Of Living, I'm Burned Out, I've No Where To Turn To by Fadamant: 2:47pm On Jul 27, 2017

Austin, the truth of the matter is that there are thousands of Nigerians and indeed Nairalanders that are struggling with life just the way you are doing now. The difference between them and you is that they have a broader outlook about life , whereas you have a narrow outlook.

Again, you and I know that life is unfair, but at the same time, life owes you nothing. Your parents, family and friend owe you nothing.

It is your responsibility to get up and create the kind of life that you desire by yourself, and the best place to start is changing your thinking that life owes you shit. I am saying that it is not about you. Stop focusing on yourself alone. Other people around you matter. Do something to make them happy and you will reap happiness and joy yourself. Go out and work to create the kind of life that you will be proud of, because you TRULY CAN. And you know what? You can start where you are now with, nothing but only your TIME and MIND, your most precious resources.

Think it. Make it. You can. You must.

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Family › Re: I'm Tired Of Living, I'm Burned Out, I've No Where To Turn To by Fadamant: 2:29pm On Jul 27, 2017*

Alexk2:
You have a browsing phone., data and can compose good english like the one up there and you qualify yourself as if you have nothing to thank God for...really? You need to visit an IDP camp or a specialist hospital.

I'll try to be real with you...you problem have a foundation in SELFISHNESS. Yes., i mean it., you're so selfish that you care-less about others and that makes you lie about no family and friends. Look., you better learn to care and show concern for others; life is not all about you only! The truth is real happiness in life can easily be found in making others smile through acts of kindness and appreciating the effort of others who are trying hard to help you...everybody have challenges; even dangote..yes., you heard me well...only those who are able to look beyond self enjoy a happy life.
You have all you need to pick your life up and be all you want to be if only you stop pitying yourself and get something meaningful doing.
This is my best advice for you!

I wish I could give you 1 million likes with this moniker. You just summarised the fact of op's life.

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Romance › Re: Feminists!! Food Is Ready.(absurd) by Fadamant: 7:59pm On Jul 23, 2017

Make I laugh abegiiiii. Bwahahahahaahaa. Recipe for collective suicide.

Politics › Re: Pictures Of Flooded Streets Of Port Harcourt After Yesterday’s Rain by Fadamant: 5:22pm On Jul 23, 2017

Nofuckgiven:
This is not Port Harcourt. All this liars that just want to hate on PH. Una plan don fail. Show a signboard with address or a popular landmass so we can know. I don't even recognise any building in those pictures.

Guy relax. You have just shown that you are not from and don't know Port Harcourt. The white and blue story buiding there is the FRSC building at CFC/Traffic Light Junction. It's flooded that way because it's by the Ntamogba Creek.

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Family › Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Fadamant: 5:16pm On Jul 22, 2017

sisisioge:

Actually, you are a busy body and you just got my body busy too. If he ever says anything to you about it, since he is your friend, tell him to get medical clarifications. Which kind insults be that? He might as well leave her children alone for her if they aren't his.She should park very well.

Yes, but the man does not need op to tell him what to do about it. At least he is not deaf and hears the woman repeat that trash again and again. So it is safe to conclude that he knows what he is doing and op should stir clear.

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Family › Re: Should I Tell My Neighbour To Go & Do DNA Test On His Kids? by Fadamant: 5:10pm On Jul 22, 2017*

elantraceey:
The man already knows the children aren't his..... He must have a reason for keeping them (the wife and children) in his house. I don't believe any sane man will hear those words and do nothing about it. There are things you don't know about .

This is the certain truth. Mind your business, every time the matter does not concern you, op. Don't give advice where your views are not sought, and be very careful even when thy are.

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Family › Re: Why Would A Child Do This? by Fadamant(op): 11:05pm On Jul 14, 2017

austine4real:
Things are happening. Oo

What is wrong wth our teenagers?

There's one also here that ran away since last month we've not seen nor heard anything from her.

Hmmm. My brother. No be small thing ooo. The kind of things these teenagers do these ehn! Pray, she returns home safely.

Family › Re: Why Would A Child Do This? by Fadamant(op): 8:23pm On Jul 14, 2017

Thanks very much, @Sterope. I will make sure to get her dad go through this thread. I've been away from work for some days, but hope to return next week, God willing.

@joyAA, many many thanks. You were so detailed in your analysis of the situation. Your post will come handy when I talk to him. Thanks again.

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