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Put the wedding on hold, until you are sure what you are doing. Marriage is no joke.

@op, a cheating wife is a life threat to her husband, so you should not mind your business in this if you care about your brother's interest at all. That being said, your cousin being in the mix makes it very tricky, and if not handled properly could burn down the whole family. I hope you handle this well and I hope you have all those chats and pics between them as evidence.

Maybe other posters will tell you just how to approach it. Good luck.

I agree with all, but no 14. It's a big LIE. YOU ARE YOUR THOUGHTS. Your dominant thoughts form or destroy your life. They win out ultimately.

The cousin has done something very good, albeit inadvertently, by posting the story and pictures on social media. Now the media, women and child protection groups will mount pressures on the government to act and take away the child from him.

Stupid paedophiles.

aubventure:
All your points are correct except 4?

What is wrong with the 4

aubventure:
All your points are correct except 4

What is wrong with the 4

Origin:
This is good. Gas flaring cant be stopped, court cant enforce, minister of oil cant enforce. Na all of us go die from this foolishness.

Gas flaring that is against the law globally cannot be stopped in Nigeria. Carry go, shebi you people have separate air you are breathing.

Funny, @Origin. I said it before that the only thing that will make the government act on this is the fact that they and their relatives breath the same air with the rest of the poeple.

EmilyShoton:
Dont mind my words, I have no clue what black soot does am an economist. But one thing I know is that you should leave that area as soon as possible. Too much intake of that might not be too good for your health in the future.

It doesn't matter that you are an economist, you said the truth. Even though, it might not liquify the brain, it would surely result in some kind of cancer in the long run if nothing is done about it urgently. The question is, how do we all leave the city? It's serious

Okay. Hope they do a thorough job.

EmilyShoton:
carbon IV trioxymercury oxalate aka black soot. It intoxicate humans slowly and affects the brain fluid by liquifying the brain in few years to come. Advice, get your stuffs and get out of there asap.

Liquifying the brain? Hmmmm. I have thought of leaving the city, but how about our jobs? Move to where? Trans Amadi, Woji and all the neighbourhoods around them are saturated with these soots. God help us.

whyteboyz03:
My brother, the state government will only try to help if they know that they can make money from it. See the ministries of health and environment in rivers state, they only go to bars, restaurants and companies to collect dues . They don't care about the people suffering from their incompetence and negligence

Yes. You are right, yet they should have conscience as human beings. Good enough they and their relatives also breath in this same air. Maybe, that will make them act and not release a useless statement telling us that they are aware of it.

Thanks very much, @Nnemuka. I thought I'd do a thread on this today, but you already did it. Thanks again.

To the subject on ground. It is horrible right now. Those who stay outside Port Harcourt won't really understand what we are talking about. If this continues for a long time, I am afraid, it won't be well with PH residents healthwise years down the line. It is no joke at all. I feel scared because we can't do anything about it by ourselves and to think that we have little children breathing in this polluted air everyday?

Please, the government should wake up and do something really serious about this and not just tell us that they are aware of it.

Truth that is hidden from the indomie generation.

@Rockstation and @farano, come in and do justice to this thread, for it might save a marriage from hitting the rocks this week.

And what will you do when you find out that your vehicle number plate is fake, after going through the normal procedure to get it from FRSC?

Please repost this thread in the Family Section if you want to be advised properly.

@farano, you may also help op move it to Family Section.

@op, put the travelling to South Africa on hold and sort out your issue first. Wish you luck.

Tiny23:
shut up!

Your brain must be schizophrenic for telling @gg2012 to shut up. It's sad that nairaland is faceless and and teenagers like you can just come here and tell a woman who is probably older than your mother to shut up, when she even said the obvious.

Now repeat after me. Hijab is for the poor, not for the likes of Zahra and other rich kids.

As for me, I have decided never to mind my business wherever I see a defenceless child abused routinely. That child woudn't have died if the people just managed to care a little, but they all minded their kind of business that people preach on NL these days

As for me, I have decided never to mind my business wherever I see a defenceless child abused routinely.

Hahahahahaha. Mercy, sorry you hear. Dem done show you your size.

And how many years imprisonment for stealing upwards of N1bn?

Steal billions of naira. Settle judges with some millions and escape justice. Steal N20k and have nothing to settle the judge with and spend a very long time in jail. That is the construct.

The other time, a judge in Ebonyi kept a woman in jail for over two(2) years for stealing N400 worth of cocoyam. Evil judges.


N/B: Not justifying stealing though.

progress69:
It is still a stupid story

I got your point now. Crazy things happening frequently nowadays.

GOFRONT:
HIV AIDS ti take over... waz at the Haspirru Ystday to treat a Nephew's Ear infection....Mistakenly Joined the Wrong Queue. See Fresh pretty babes on that Queue...So Fresh n beautiful girls....But it waz the Queue of HIV Aids patients who came for Medication.....Then I said Nobody is safe. It is like a Wild fire....It spreads Like an Inferno Sprayed with Fuel....

Tens of Thousands of people gets infected a day...A second of unprotected S3x is Ok for it to migrate...It has Covered the largest portion of Nigeria...HIV Aids...To some people it has bcom A way of Life..

Som of them has set a target Sayin..."I want to Infect 10 partners a Month" They must go down wit me....Multiply by 12months...Multiply by 100 thousand infected pple in Nigeria....Yet we Become Hot immediately we sight a sexy Partner!!!...HIV AIDs has taken over, Yet S3X Goes ON all day All Nite, Every minute, every hour....God help us!!!

Hmmmm. A close friend of mine is HIV+, but you will never know unless she tells you. HIV no dey show for face.

progress69:
All these stupid stories cooked up for traffic for some useless bloga.
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You can get your hiv result in less than 30mins. Infact, u can know in just 15mins. Why do one have to go and come back, like its a swab test, or liver and kidneyfunction test you did.

The other day it was a story of Casanova infecting his wiife, and both dying with months of each other, like HIV causes sudden death in this era. Even if the man died of HIV, there is still ample time for the wife to start treatments.

People just cook up all sort of stories this days

Guy, it's not stupid story by a blogger ooo. It was Punch that did the interview. They published it on Sunday. They said the wedding actually took place at Lafia, Nasarawa State.

Joavid:
stranger things have happened in the name of love.

Go through the whole story again, especially the later part of it and you will find that it has nothing to do with love. Infact, I felt sick the first time I read it from the Punch. The guy is devilish and has changed the ladies life forever, but he will pay for his evilness soon enough.

LesbianBoy:
Lalasticlala Mynd44 you guys want to do like you are not seeing my mentions abi! Is this thread not educative than some of the threads on frontpage

Don't worry yourself. They have no choice. They must take it to front page.

koralink:
Easy Feed blog and Igbere TV which are the source of this fake news are off-shoot of Radio Biafra and this had made me to dismiss the information just by the wave of the hand.This is nothing but a thrash and it is meant for the dustbin.

Guy forget the sources. Even if, the BBC and the Punch were the sources of this poo, I will still know it's lie.

This story is lie (poo). Short and simple.

I once resigned from a job not long after a boss used bad language on me. It is shocking to think that you have read Robert Kiyosaki's Rich Dad Poor Dad and you still not know that you are a slave in the hand of that proprietress and need to quit that job and use your time and brain to do something more respectful.
How do you stay at a job in which you are daily subjected to inhuman and degrading treatments and expect to have high self worth and become successful.

My advice to you is to look for money to go into business with and leave that job, in case you are afraid of not getting another job. If you don't have money for business, then resign, and go looking for another teaching job. The fact that you got that job out of 50 who sat for the test, should tell you that you are good enough to get another one if you leave that one.

Don't accept anyone treating you like poo for the sake of money.

TheArchangel:
Trump and Clinton are being accused of something worse and they are still gunning for the most powerful post in the whole world, their crime wasn't committed in Nigeria. Rapist and murderers/kidnappers are everywhere. Detroit and Chicago is topping the list now as worlds's murder capital and they are not Nigerian cities
What am I saying? Naija suits this girl until she cries for mercy and write a letter of undertaking with police, vigilante and army join.

You are very funny. Undertaking not to do what?

omongbatim:
What if in Nigeria she's taken advantage off (e.g., raped, kidnapped, etc) which could happen due to several reasons such as (I) the general insecurity in Nigeria (2) the fact that she would immediately be different from other kids around her (with her American accent, etc) and (3) her attitude of always showing off and drawing attention to herself? I am sure the parents don't want to do something that they would eventually regret.

There are still very good high schools, with boarding facilities, in Nigeria where security is water tight. I think that doing her high school education in Nigeria will help a great deal. What you need to do is to look out for one that will suite her. A strict missionary school will not be out of place. She can go to the US on vacations.

victorvezx:
Lol, this is one of the things that will make me drop Christianity and become an atheist very soon. Useless pastors everywhere. All he is simply doing is providing excuses on why many of his prophesies did not come to pass. He thinks we are idiots.

Whether you believe in Christ or you become an atheist, it doesn't change who God is and the fact that God will judge you through Jesus, when your time is up. So your best bet is to truly accept Jesus as Lord and Saviour and repent from your sins, and stop worrying about Rev. Nwoko.

Largely true, and most of these quotes apply to the situation in Nigeria.