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the deed has been done Then what to do ?

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If na you disvirgin your wife ,my bro na option C you go carry abi you wan tell me another thing

Do much of walking ,listening to music is adviceable during that period.

There was a time in life when things didn’t quite add up—emotionally, mentally, even spiritually. I began searching for answers beyond the surface, beyond the usual. That search led me to numerology and astrology.

At first, I was skeptical. But the more I learned, the more things started making sense—patterns, energies, life cycles. It wasn’t about predicting the future; it was about understanding myself and the paths I’ve walked.

This journey wasn’t just curiosity—it became clarity. It helped me heal, reflect, and grow.

Everyone has their own path.

Why I Dived Deeper Into Numerology and Astrology

At some point in life, we all search for answers—especially when things don’t go as expected. For me, that moment came when I kept hitting walls I couldn’t explain. Life felt off, confusing, and I was tired of surface-level solutions.

That’s when I found myself drawn to numerology and astrology.

At first, it was just curiosity. I had heard people talk about life path numbers, zodiac signs, birth charts… but I didn’t think much of it. Until I began reading, learning, and connecting the dots in my own life.

I realized that these weren’t just random concepts. They were mirrors—tools that helped me reflect, understand, and heal. Numerology gave me insight into patterns I’d been living unknowingly. Astrology helped me make sense of certain phases and internal struggles I couldn’t quite put into words before.

Was it about predicting the future? Not at all. It was more about understanding my present—who I am, how I react, what I need to grow.

And the more I leaned into it, the more I saw changes. In how I thought, how I made decisions, and how I connected with others.

This journey is still unfolding. But one thing is certain: I’ve found something that gives me peace and direction in a world that often feels chaotic.

If you've ever felt the same pull, don’t ignore it. Sometimes, the answers you’re looking for lie beyond what you’ve been taught to believe.

Pls let them know before signing the agreement

"I truly hope that you have moved on from her in your heart, not just through words or writing. I don't want to hear later that when you visited her place, she was wearing a towel, or that you felt unable to resist when she touched you, leading to something happening between you again. I need to know that your commitment is genuine and that you have the strength to stay true to ur words

pls let me know if this is still available?am closer and nearer to u

ur mind has taken over

Ikenne Community High School -Remo

I must seek justice.....

"This marks my sixth year working for a prominent multinational corporation in Lagos. Interestingly, I've observed a recurring pattern in my professional journey – mistakes always seem to find their way into my day-to-day activities. To illustrate this, allow me to take you back to my initial role as a receptionist during my first two years with the company.

During that period, I encountered a particularly challenging situation involving a customer that eventually escalated to a visit to the local police station. The issue arose when a customer accused me of mishandling their Bitcoin transaction over the phone. This incident snowballed, resulting in a prolonged legal dispute. Subsequently, I made a significant decision to change departments within the company.

Upon transitioning to my new department, I soon realized that my propensity for making mistakes extended beyond that isolated incident. It seemed impossible for me to complete a task without some form of error creeping in. This trend led to conflicts with my superiors, and in one instance, my boss decided to leave her position due to our differences. As a consequence, I found myself yet again relocated, this time to another department within the same organization.


"Incredibly, this marks my third department transfer within my six years at the company. What's striking is that mistakes have consistently marred my performance. I find myself frequently stumbling, and it's becoming increasingly difficult to discern the root cause of these issues. I'm left pondering whether I'm in the right place, or if there might be a deeper, perhaps even spiritual, aspect at play. What could be amiss with me? Your insights would be greatly appreciated as I grapple with the question of whether this job is truly meant for me."

Firstly what is the progress of her business, apart from funding her business what challenges did u think she might be having in the business, is she getting a new client or she is still dealing with the existing client, sales progression is what percentage, the achievement rate since when she started the business is ,i think u need to ask her all this to know how she is fairing in the business[i][/i][color=#000000][/color]

Landed property

To me white collar job especially where u have the opportunity to steal money, where u acquire ur wealth very fast....Nigeria mindset

Pls tell me more about the business?i need a business i can do online

am building up with my man but beleive me its not easy ,sometimes i even wear patch cloth to summit contract,i know and beleive there is Light at the End of the Tunnel.[color=#006600][/color]

you can always revert back to your employment lettter it has answer to your question because there is a contract sign between you and your employer

Remember this quote"never leave a good woman with a good heart becuse you might never come accross such"

what is your reason for going back to school?
what is the reason of going to school if not to be knowledgeable,exposure and make money,going to school presently when u are not yet finally buoyant is a no option for me,my best advice is to go out there hustle then when u finacially okay then you can always fullfilled what u wanted for urself,even at 50 u can always go to school.u can always find ur purpose on the street

spice123:
Let me give you a candid advice as a married man:
1. Maintain your teaching job. You are a mother with two lovely kids. Don't let those children suffer for your careless mistake.

2. Talk to him to move to Abuja with you. You are already settled with a job and stable so he too needs to support you by joining you to start looking for job opportunities at Abuja.

3. If he insists in staying in his comfort zone (Zaria) without making effort to get a job, please leave him and go back to Abuja and continue your job.

4. A man cannot be talking of marriage when he does not have a stable income. I was a teacher earning 30k in the east when I met my wife in Lagos. My wife was earning twice my salary. I had move down to Lagos because we wanted to get married. We postponed our wedding by 3 months until I got another job that was paying 45k. That was 8 years ago. No matter how little the salary is, let your man have something doing.

My one piece advice.

well said ,more knowledge unto u

Am a lagos based , i served in benin that was year 2016 recently i visited benin for a business trip ,well let me share my experience and air my opinion. people living in benin can aslo witness that the cost of living in benin is quiet expensive base on the feeding espect compared to lagos,90% of your salary will be spend more on feeding

when you got married to a soulmate that u both share the same vision and mission,you see that even when you dont have much it will seem as if u have millions....planning

seriously u dey dull the girl ,you dont need to think just act,then feel free to share the after maths experience.

i dont think HIV an be transmitted from spit, to be on a safe side u can always get tested

with this i realise that there is nothing to life than to stay humble and keep that arrogant shoulder down.

I need a president who have the love of people at heart....

How well are you good in tailoring,let work together I based in lagos