Try to have a heart to heart talk with her. Let her understand that the family can not shoulder the financial responsibility of another baby. Be polite and gentle with her. Let her feel that your decision is in the best interest of the family.

If after explaining to her and she is still being stubborn, you might want to involve someone that she listens to (can be her mum or a mentor).
May peace reign in your home.

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Why do you ladies do this? Can't you just take time in Reading what he is saying, or not comment at all if you don't have anything to say, not everything is a gender based war

It's either he is lying or he is just du*mb. People already answered that nobody gets appendix removed through the vee.

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Why do you ladies do this? Can't you just take time in Reading what he is saying, or not comment at all if you don't have anything to say, not everything is a gender based war

You chose to misinterpret my post. Read what he is writing, does it make sense? People already responded to his other thread and he is back with the same format

You are either chasing clout or just immature

Nothing important. You just want people to watch your video.

This is childish. No need showing the whole world her picture. Just learn your lessons and move on

Don't fall for any scam here
You described your fibroids as "big and multiple"
Your best bet is surgery

You obviously value your son more than this lady and your words and actions must have made that fact glaring to her. She feels worthless to you. She probably thinks you are still with her because of your son.
Again, better not listen to the persons here telling you she has a game plan. You will end up hurting yourself and the relationship more if you start to act on that.
Stop being emotional about all this.
Come home and set things in motion
Phone conversations sometimes are misleading. You need to look her in the eye and talk about all these. Trust me, you will get a clearer picture of the whole thing once you are home.
If after having that face to face talk with her and meeting some relevant persons, she is still bent on leaving, then let her go
However, if the case is insecurity, try to push things with her people, ensure you give her some form of security before leaving, even if it is a court wedding. Goodluck!

Give a man power and watch his real self unfold. Same social media he used for his election is now toxic.
He is scared the youths will soon start protesting for senate pay cut
Selfish lot!

Body odour can be controlled

Bathing two times or more daily
Not repeating clothes and underwears
Using very good deodorants/antiperspirants
Sun drying your clothes and underwears

For mouth odour, sometimes the problem is beyond oral hygiene. Personally I don't prefer this one

This is sad
Most deaths in Nigeria can actually be prevented

kenzysmith:
Good day fellow nairalanders, i went to stay in my brother house at the weekend and at night i bump into my brother in the bathroom washing his wife pants i pretend not to see anything i can see cheat stain in one of the undies. Am worried how can my senoir bro be washing a woman pant pls should i confront my bro about this disgracful act.

People who mind their business, live longer.
Keep your thoughts to yourself
It is your brother's marriage, not yours
Whatever rocks their boat!

Guys also chatted you up... You just don't know

Dear lord!

God help us

If you have not been in a relationship with at least 100 women, then your assumption is wrong.

I do not mean you should date 100 women, I'm only trying to say that it is wrong to judge other women because of your bitter experience with very few women. Everyone is not the same

mabeni:
I will surely go see her parents. Though, they aready know me and I am accepted into the family. But this new development, I don't know how to go about it. Will it make sense if I go with a friend or alone?

Leave friends out of this...
First explain the new development to your people, expect some tongue lashing though. Then let them go with you to meet her Parents. It will boost your confidence and also tell your prospective in-laws that you are serious about their daughter
Good luck!

mabeni:
thanks but can't we do whatever we should have done after given birth? Heard some people gets married even after given birth to 4 children

So you want to have your kids out of wedlock?
I don't know how it is done over there, but hope you are aware that the kids are not rightfully yours until you have paid the bride price of their mother?
Be a man, Go and see her people and take your wife home.

Take the first advice, go get married now, lesser expenses involved..
If you were man enough to have unprotected sex with her, you should be man enough to face her people. They can only talk not kill you.

Congratulations baba junior and safe delivery to Iya

Kimzo:
Please I need someone to really help me out with this, this should be the longest I have actually had to deal with a Sore throat, for more than a week now, I have used drungs, taken menthol sweets like Strepsils, gargle with warm water and salt, all just releive me for a while and then the sore throat is back again, there was a day I couldn't even swallow my saliva because trying to do so was not only causing pains to my throat but also my ear...

I hope someone is actually going to read this and hopefully help me out, thanks...The sore throat always comes with fever

Please go to the hospital and seek medical care. You have to undergo some investigations before treatment commences
Those investigations are not carried out on nairaland.

Circles people... The world runs in circles

Don't just come here to collect from others, give too, no matter how little

Ineedtoheal:

Maybe I forgot to add this, he said its a spiritual thing. That it didn't start with me.

Spiritual or physical, still take your leave. You are wasting your precious time with him. If you do not leave now, trust me, in five years time, you would look back and wish u left earlier

After 5 years?
Nne please find your square root
From your story, it is clear, even to the blind that he has no plans for you. Stop wasting your precious time with him, he is standing in the way of your blessings. Allow your Ishmael to go so your Isaac can come

My two cents!

barbie047:

Pls I need help interpreting this result. I did blood and urine test and tested positive. I went for abdominal and vagina scan and this was the result.

Good morning ma. Ma Zaynie is right. Ectopic pregnancy is suspected. You need to go and repeat the scan somewhere else for confirmation.

Fafesot:

I know most Igbo girls want money,
If things go south and nothing remains
They would even Bleep your friends..
That's it about them
Although that happens in every tribe buh that if Igbo women are colossal

How old are you again?
Grow up

Leave all these stories

DO NOT SLEEP WITH A WOMAN YOU CAN NOT GET MARRIED TO! FULL STOP

beyedew:
You are too faithful to fail me!
You are too consistent to disappoint me God.
It's a birth alert ooo.
My Ada Ezi is here fam, she found her way out by 10:40pm on 15/02/2020.
Tell the whole world that there is a God in heaven and He is the most powerful. He says whatever I hear you say, I will do!
Oshe Baba.

Lord be praised!
Lord be praised!!
Lord be praised!!!

Congratulations ma
May God bless and keep your new addition, Amen

Congratulations to everyone that got NNPC APL.
To those who did not, do not beat yourself too hard, It's not easy, yes but be strong, be courageous, this is not the end of the road for you. It is the beginning of another phase. With time, everything will be alright, keep moving, even if you are crawling, just keep moving, one day, it would rain for you and when it decides to rain, it's gonna pour

Kolasola:
Reading up about how hitting the vessels could lead to some form of paralysis makes me more scared

Who gave you the injection? A qualified health personnel? If yes, then you have nothing to worry about.
Every qualified health personnel ensures no vessel is hit before giving an injection.
Seeing blood after receiving an injection is not something you should panic over.
Some drugs leave you with funny feelings too, that is probably what you feel in the said leg.
So relax and just watch it, the feeling would go away in no time, but if it does not or you start to feel worse, please go to the hospital.
And op, stay away from google, the more you think of it, the more you feel what's not there

Save your unborn kids the trauma of having to live on drugs. If only you know what these warriors go through just to stay alive