You guys would have been better off if you had channelled all that energy into something more productive.

You don't need to fight for a man, be the gold you want to marry

What is relationship without communication?

Have you tried to find out why she takes time to reply you on social media?
Sit her down and talk to her about it
Her response will answer your question

You have noticed its getting wide "day by day", meaning you go there
"day by day"
So Op, let's be honest, who is actually doing the digging?

You have only encountered one lady, and her attitude is about to make you believe that ladies are confused and don't know what they want?

Not all ladies are confused. There are thousands of ladies out there, you have only encountered one!

person daughter, future wife and mother

Say no to irresponsible drinking!

aaronson:
I understand you bro and it's normal to feel that way but it's takes conscious effort to acting go out there and find her or being active in social media more, she probably somewhere feeling lonely as well and wishing for a man like you to come along.

Relationship isn't all that easy either to keep as some people in it already wanting out however, it gives you every reason to smile when you find that right partner.

This whole idea points you to a direction being more out going, hang out for no reason and be on your best behavior when out, keep a smile and be ready to help strangers in public with the least and interact more with them, Go to recreational spots, bars and social gathering with females in attendance and interact with some and ensure you leave with at least thier contact. The easiest way to go around that is feign being a first timer and get them to teach you stuff as a first timer, that way you forming a bond already.

Be active on social media such as facebook, Twitter and IG then comment intelligently on posts, Target females who reacts or comment on your comment, shoot them a comprehensive and a little bit long DM, Do not ask for phone number at first, discuss on the same topic right on that initial comment you had posted with her and request her number afterwards.

Be consistent with the above and you would get girls because they really waiting to be talk to, trust me bro. A wise woman once told me "Don't expect Womanliness to fall on you like some manner from heaven, you gotta stand up and go talk to them."....Brandy

This sounds cool
Thumbs up

Why is cough and catarrh everywhere this season

Things some ladies do just to get noticed, smh

You have not been able to get that line off your mind huh?
To knack am dey hungry you abi
If not, take your mind off it, simple

ndi mkpotu

I know the old woman in that picture, God bless ugwuanyi!

ahahnow:
I want to take medicine ( voltaren 100mg diclofenac.natr) for my period cramps but I am taking malaria medicine(Lonart-DS) and vitamin B. Is it ok for me to take them? Its not all at once though. Thank you

Yes, you can take diclofenac for your cramps. Be sure to take diclofenac with FOOD.

Yes you can, use artemether

Acidosis:


What is the assurance that you will attain financial stability in your 40s, 50s?

That you're postponing your marriage doesn't guarantee anything. You can be poor today and still be poor tomorrow.

Know your worth, work within your budget and evaluate your spouse whether or not she fits into your lifestyle. You guys can grow. A relationship that survived 4 years can survive 8 years in marriage. Same stuffs you both have been eating for four years are what married people eat.

Do not joke with a 4 year relationship, especially one that's filled with sweet memories. Many boyfriend/girlfriend relationships don't last one year, even with money.

You deserve some accolades, thumbs up!

Op
1. Your mum does not like the girl, mother in-law/daughter in-law brouhaha loading - RED FLAG
2. Your mum does not have a good relationship with the girl's family, that explains why she has been reluctant to meet with them concerning the date - RED FLAG
3. Her old self keeps coming back, believe it or not, that is who she really is. She is just trying to keep the relationship going. Marriage will open the parcel well - RED FLAG
4. If something like wedding date can make her threaten to call the marriage off, biko what would happen when bigger Storms in marriage appear? - RED FLAG
5. You are not in charge here, your fiancee, mother and in-laws are the ones behind the wheels, you are just their passenger - RED FLAG

Because you are going to live with your fiancee not your mum or in-laws, you have to consider this

Can you in the long run accommodate and tolerate that attitude of hers in marriage?

Believe me, if you settle every other thing without this one, your marriage may not be successful.
My 2 cents

warrisdis?

Must everything be on social media?

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Am just watching the drama unfold...
2019...

Boscojugunu:
Hello nairalanders.... I have been batling emotional heartbreak for weeks and it has refused to go.... I have done so many things like going out, talking to people and also getting myself in some other activities, but this thing won't leave. I cant just get over her...

What can I do again!!!

Get busy!
Trust me it works
With time, you would go for days, months without her thought crossing your mind

francis247:
Ehe. Una don cum again. Sex is meant to be enjoyed between two consenting adults whether single or married. If you're not 18+, please Waka pass.

Brother I no mention you o
Besides I was tryna pull some kinda stunt

Someone told you to keep her and continue having sex with her
Weldone o

If you are not married
Close your eyes and pass o

Sorry to say but they look dirty

I wonder why these oyibo women never learn, they keep falling for the same old trick.

that face can make a baby convulse

$30 USA PayPal needed at #330/$
Kaboninc abeg help my life o

nineone:
you need to change your loser mentality. It's very important that you do this. Although life is full of dishonest people, but in all my business dealings on nairaland, nobody has ever been duped or scammed by me. What's yeye about charging a fee for your service? My comment on this post is very blunt and honest and I didn't make any dishonest claim. I didn't even have any motive before making that comment. I was surprised at the number of engagement it had. $100 is just a token compared to the time and effort I will put into making an efficient and effective course and the duration of the course run continuously until you've learned all the required skills to make you a proficient online dealer/merchant/trader/businessman. In any online business, making money is not the most important thing. The most important thing is having the required skills and mastering it. Without having this mindset of putting all your focus on learning the skills ahead of how much money you're spending to acquire it or how long you have to learn it without starting to make millions, then online business, or any business as a matter of fact is not for you.

Come to think of it, most persons here begging to be mentored don't have that kind of money.
35k($100) × 50 people = #1,750,000
I know mentorship consumes time and energy but please consider the plight of people who can't afford that MUCH.
you can as well pick just 5-10 persons and mentor, its a way of giving back to humanity and God will continually bless you. We rise by lifting others.

Mystic1:
Alright let's make this work. I've gone through the thread from the first page to the last page and I'm honestly inspired learning how people came across their fortune. I've also shared mine, became a millionaire at 23 (cryptocurrency investments and trading). 2019 is going to be a massive year for me and I'm opening up an opportunity to a few of you on here. I need dedicated people who can work. Yeah I know you all feel inspired but behind these millions are serious work. I don't want someone coming to me to beg for money, there's no free money anywhere and I honestly don't have money to dash out, but the little I have I shall give, which is pointing you to the way to make your first million next year legitimately.

To qualify, you must be in atleast one of these categories:
*You should be a graduate currently serving(preferably in schools)
*An undergraduate.
*Determined to work hard and be goal oriented.
*Ready to use your brain because this is going to be very tasking but pay will be worth the work and I guarantee you 1million by this time next year.

Please I'll repeat again, I am not giving out free money. I will only furnish you with every information you need and give you clues on how to fish then the ball will be in your court.
Interested people should drop their email, and I'll email you my contact. Thanks

ugofaith64@gmail.com

OP, time heals
I repeat, Time heals almost anything!
Right now, it feels like you can't go on
You feel the pain of loosing her Piercing through the deepest part of your heart, breaking you to pieces
And you wonder if you are ever gona find someone like her
You wonder if you ever gona love that much again

Give it time, give it time and all your broken pieces will come together again.
Trust me, a time would come when you would go for days, weeks and months without her thought crossing your mind, just give it TIME.

For the time being, get busy!
Instead of spending time and energy thinking about ...
Channel that energy and time into something productive
Lesson learnt the hard way, so work on becoming better
Spend time with family and friends
Go out and have fun (in a good way o)
Being idle would make you hurt the more.

Be strong, its not gona be easy
But be determined to push through
And remember you have to let your Ishmael go, so your Isaac can come, a better woman is coming
My 2 cents.