DELSEY:
the uk has stopped recruitment of Nurses from developing countries. But if you feel you still want to work in the uk you can apply directly to the hospitals in person

meaning we cannot use agencies anymore?

Thank you very much

DELSEY:
u can apply personally

Please shed more light on this

Does anyone know where I can get this?

bignero:


Wow

Sister.. Sincerely i was tired of reading.

But please learn.. If a human being man or woman boy or girl say "you arr not serious is an insult".. Please respect their wishes, you didn't grow up together and every ones back ground and growing up is different, stop forcing what you think is right on another.. Besides that, if you love some one, how hard is it to not use certain words that make them uncomfortable? Simply you don't love this guy.. Hes sensitive to the way you talk and your attitude to that is take it like that.. Which is wrong,


There tooo many did you tell them etc.. You're storing up too many things to come fight this guy.. And sincerely a lot of things you wrote are in consequential.. I didn't finish reading please.. Ill read and edit if necessary..

Long story short, you don't love the guy, you guys should go your separate ways..

Edited and read to the end..
He bought car same price for what he could have gotten from America, i want quality blender etc, bla bla bla.. The guy isn't perfect.. But you're petty and self centered sister. End of discussion

This is not how to judge a matter, so the guy does not have any fault in all this? Learn not to be partial.

If you read through the whole thread, you will see that the OP and his fiancee are just acting immature and not compatible. They better go their separate ways and asides that, they need to work on themselves. There are traits in them that would bring even their next relationships down if not taken care of. I rest my case

kingk:


I don't sell but I can direct you.

Wholesale?
Please kindly direct me

You sound too angry. Trust me, you will not achieve the result you desire if you keep treating her the way you do. You are the first and she is the second, you are quite young too and training an adolescent is no small job. I expect your mum to be doing that job instead.

Anyways, change your approach. She should see you as a friend not a threat.
Stop destroying her phone
Stop reading her chats
Do not hit her
Control your temper towards her

You want the best for her but if you do not do it the right way, you will end up pushing her into same pit you are trying to save her from. Goodluck!

This is very sad
Life is shorter than we all can imagine
Live each day as if it is your last

May God rest her soul

May God rest their souls

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Nne you are stronger than what you are passing through. There are persons with stories ten times worse than yours, today, they are standing tall... Do not do it... Do not do it... Listen to the voice of reason

Stateoforigin:


I pray that good man turns out to be your loving brother. I'm very sure you'll be happy for your brother when (not if) he brings a girl that has committed six abortions home as a potential wife. God will do it for him and your wonderful family.

Please attack the guy that also supported the numerous abortions. He deserves better right? Channel your anger properly.

Sorry to say, but you are selfish. You are the architect of your own problems. You already have a good woman but decided to get things complicated all in the name of "fun" and "greener pasture". You do not deserve any of those ladies. I pray God settles your first girlfriend with a good man.

You want to monitor someone when you sef need monitoring?

See ehn, the two of you are too young for whatever it is that you are doing

Happy2020:
See how stupid these Nigerian women are? Especially the OP Smdh.
I pity her man or
Possible man.

Before calling women stupid, did you take your time to even read through? If you did, you would discover that the OP is a MAN and not a woman.

Why are you copying stories from Joro on Instagram?

Interestedhere2:
sent you #7500 sir

God bless you Sir
You touch a lot of lives here

The breasts become bigger when a lady is pregnant and this is mostly because of hormonal changes. Once the pregnancy is terminated, the hormones go back to their normal levels and this increase in the breast size goes away.
Only foolish girls would use pregnancy and abortion as a means to get bigger breasts.

How would you feel if someone somewhere refuses to help you because of what he/she thinks of your gender?

That was immaturity

Deep down, I pray the "people in need" will not outnumber the "helpers" in this thread.

Please only ask if you really need help.

Valid argument

Even the elites in Nigeria, with all the money they make here, still travel out for education and healthcare. It should tell you that not earning millions in Nigeria is not the major reason why most people japa.
Most persons just prefer to raise their kids in saner climes, places with active government and working systems.
Better to stay in a place where human lives are valued o. Na person wey dey alive dey chop money.

If only Nigeria is as great as this remix

You copied this
Why not acknowledge the original author?

Gayatri:
I do not know how to start this but i will write as it comes... I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in march this year.. I was so commited in it like naturally when im dating, i DO NOT notice other guys and i DO NOT ask my boyfriend for financial assistance because i feel im not his responsibility,, what i do appreciate mostly were little things like, chatting, kindness, hugs, opening and closing of doors for me,, just little things, coz i adore them so much.. But anyway it ended.. And i vowed never to date again come what may.. During the break up process, all my friends (guys, hardly have a girlfriend) were there to help me pull through.. Calls and texts constantly because, according to them, they knew my type, thus the help.. Funny enough, i never got attracted to any of them (even the ones that initially asked me out when my friendship with them was fresh) and im not the sex sex type to just fall for any to satisfy my desire.. Though i got advice from neighbours to find someone else than staying alone, i said no especially as i am a loner but a happy loner.. I keep myself busy with work or any stuff that makes me happy.

Fine, two months later (june), some guy reached out to me even as he knew he's got a girlfriend, whixh according to him later, they were in an open relationship.. He stays in oshogbo, his girl stays in kaduna while im in sagamu..Before then, he reached out online by first stalking me on facebook (even though we did same online business), after a while he got talking with me.. At first, i was harsh, very harsh to him but he never minded.. At a point i stopped talking to him.. A month later he reached out again, asking if we were still friends.. I was like yeah, not nice to him at all but he was patient with me..

From mid-july we started talking well as friends, he was very open as i was to him. We flowed well that things were happening to us coincidentally.. Whenever he yawns, i do at my place, if im having a scratch, he does too.. There was just plenty of this connection that we never got tired of each other.. In the procesa of our been honest, he told me about his girl and how she was still keeping her ex and all whatnots... I didnt feel any iota of jealousy because i had not feelings for him yet.. I asked to talk things through with his girl and he says well if she gave the chance.. So laters, by august, september,october, feelings grew.. He got so fond of me... According to him, he has not seen my type before.. Fine! During my birthday, he wanted to do something for me, i said no, then two weeks to his birthday in nov, he asked that i visit him at their family house, that i did..

What struck me most was how the elder brother (married) took care of me... I was not allowed to do nothing.. The brother even cooked for me.. God, it made me fall more for the family.. The kind gestures i have never experienced in my life.. There are kindnesses but there is kindness, the real one.. I felt it.. Every thing that i want in a man, those little things, this guy has them all.. According to him, it baffles him that with the little he shows me, i do not take for granted even before he told me he's having a girl..

When i returned home, we continued our normal talks and he then said, that his girlfriend would be visiting during his birthday.. At that point i went silent.. (Meanwhile he met his girl this year but before me, also during her break up).. He was unhappy that i displayed this little jealousy.. So he says he has not broken up with his girl to start a new relationship and he is hurting that he is hurting me.. He's got feelings for me but he loves his girl.. So i said i was going walk, even though i never meant it, twas hard to even say that but i had to and he says no... That he's become so attached to me even his family thinks he's dating me.. That he controls his feelings for me, could i do same and i said no.. I could not be friends with him when i know that feelings are involved.. Finally, we came to terms to just flow with things since he was not engaged or married to her.. Even so, this guy just lost his job and he says unlike his girl, im the one pushing him to have something doing, he says i help him alot but i wouldnt know.. So we continued to let the whole feelings to flow until last week, when with my help, he was called for an interview in lagos..

As usual we talked and i wished him well.. I always pray for him.. In lagos, we talked well until the third day, our communication changed and before it did, my heart was literally aching, so i knew something was wrong.. I called to know why but he was telling me that he'd let me in when he got back to oshogbo, which he did.. He said his girlfriend who was having something to do with her ex, called him and wanted to settle things with him.. But the truth is, because this lady already had his facebook password when they were together in kadauna, she 3 days before her birthday on the 8th of this month wanted to know why her boyfriend was no longer perturbed over her behaviour, so she saw my chats with the guy and decided to do something,,, this now pushed to talk things out with the bf and apologise to him.. Then she asked him if anything was going on between is and he said no.. That we just friends,close friends.. He lied to her but opens up to me.. He says he doesnt want the girl to ask him to cut me off totally.. So the whole thing got him confused.. He says he's never double dated and he isnt happy that he's hurting me and im taking it... I asked him again if i should walk and he says no.. He does not want to lose me and i do not want to lose him either but i want to prove my love for him so that he one day sees that the girl, probably loves him but she's got no integrity.. And i purely love him.. But because i respect his relationship, i CAN NOT TELL HIM TO BREAK UP WITH HER but wanting him to see things himself but the question is for how long.. He says they are working things out now but he doesnt want to lose me esp as a friend... Difficult.. Out of God knows what, we agreed to let things flow since i will respect his relationship, like whenever his girl is around, i should make him believe that i will be fine.. Now, he isnt happy because he said if he hadnt met the gf, he'd have gone ahead to date me.. For me, i cannot sleep, ive been typing this since God knows when and this is 3:36am.. Since he is confused now, please people, friends, family, can i use love to make him see the difference between his girl and me.. He loves his girl, he is controlling his feelings for me and afraid to let it grow because he knows we'd bond, while my feelings toward him is real.. Money has not been involved in this.. We are 6months now.. I believe in true love and that it does not come easy.. Talk to me Y'll because i have no parents to talk to,, i would have talked to my mum now but she isnt here... I want to win with true love.. I turned 27 this past november and he turned 30 same november.. Thank You and God bless..

I sent you a PM, please reply

Zeecos:

For professions on the shortage list, an applicant can be paid lower as long as it is the ‘going rate’ for the profession. I guess pre-registered nurses fall under this.

Thank you

sweetmelanin:


Sorry babe.. I no longer have access to the email I used to register this account .. so it's not like I'm snubbing you or anyone who has tried to send me a PM

ok... How do I reach you please

I saw something online about the post brexit policy starting from January 1st. One of the criteria to gain points reads that your employer in the UK should be able to pay you about £25k/year

Will this policy also affect the migration of nurses to the UK? Because I do not think pre-registered nurses in the UK get paid that much

I may be totally wrong about the whole thing. I need clarifications please

Cc Barbie and anyone who is knowledgeable about this

sweetmelanin:


The West is definitely not a place one can find 'fulfillment'. It's cold, dark & gloomy over here .. the streets are quiet asf and people mind their business .. well, until it's time to call the police.. but that's story for another day

However one thing you are guaranteed is COMFORT .. that is, if you work smart and surround yourself with the right people.

My point is:
If you're looking for freedom and a full life, try any other developed country where majority of the population are people of colour...
But if you want easy access to jobs and financial security then 'the West' is your best bet.. however, be prepared to die of boredom esp in countries like Canada and Russia.

Having grown up in the UK myself, I know the ins and outs of this country and as much as I would choose the UK over Nigeria ten times over, I can't help but wonder if there are other places in this world where one can achieve a healthy balance of the two; the security, comfort and wealth of the West but the culture, fun and community lifestyle of the motherland. South America I guess

Good morning dear, I sent you a PM

TheRealProphet:
done that....will try talk to her when I get home.

modified... I added a suggestion