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RomanceRe: The Attachment Of Ex-lover by fajani(m): 10:27pm On Dec 14, 2015
if another door of happiness opened for me, I Dnt stare at d closed door
RomanceRe: Lalasticlala, None Of My Thread Have Ever Reached FP, Why? >:( by fajani(m): 10:23pm On Dec 14, 2015
bro me self tire for that guy ooooo
RomanceRe: If You Were The One, What Would You Do To This Girl? by fajani(m): 10:10pm On Dec 14, 2015
Fvck like tomorrow no dey and seize the bag....
MrBasketball:
After that, what will now happen?
RomanceRe: If You Were The One, What Would You Do To This Girl? by fajani(m): 10:09pm On Dec 14, 2015
Na only that? I am sure she will come with d bag.... na only her go reach house
mascot87:
And you will fu*k the hell out of her
RomanceRe: Guys Over To You by fajani(m): 9:55pm On Dec 14, 2015
I Dont do mine that same day
Yewandequeen:
I have been pondering over this for long.

I don't know Why GUYS believe when they take a lady out they either end up on the bed in his place or her place.

What is the cause of this?

Not the I never chop ladies oooooo,ladies they themselves know they can foot the bill.

GUYS over to u
RomanceRe: If You Were The One, What Would You Do To This Girl? by fajani(m): 9:50pm On Dec 14, 2015
I will call her that she should come for the rest 80,000.....story cont
RomanceRe: Differences Between Love And True Love by fajani(m): 9:47pm On Dec 14, 2015
no true but there is true marriage
sisipelebe:
Sometimes true love finds you when you
least expect it; other times, you look
everywhere for it, and it cannot be found.
Whether it be now or in the future, you
will find yourself in a romantic
relationship. When you are in
this relationship, you may question if it is
love, infatuation, lust, or true love. How
are you supposed to know the difference?
Here are five ways to distinguish love
from true love.
1. With True Love, You Don’t Ask Others
For Their Approval. With Love, You Do.
You don’t need to ask those close to you
what they think of your love interest or
your relationship. You don’t need
reassurance because you already
know. When you are infatuated or falling
in love with a person you may question
how they really feel, or even, how you
really feel. You might feel the need to
discuss all your fears and thoughts with
others to get their input on your
relationship. When you find true love, you
won’t have those questions or need that
reassurance. You will feel comfortable in
how you feel and you won’t feel the need
to analyze it.
2. With True Love, You Truly Like Each
Other. With Love, You Might Like Them In
A More Superficial Way
When you are in love or in lust, the pure
physical attraction can be so amazing
that you don’t really stop and think if you
actually like the person. True love is
lasting and it is really important to like the
person in and out of the bedroom.
Physical attraction is important, but at the
end of the day you want to like the person
you are sharing your life with. And, of
course, you want to know they like you as
well.
3. With True Love, You Trust Each Other.
With Love, There Can Be Doubts.
When you find true love, you also find
trust. You don’t worry your partner will be
disloyal, and you know you won’t as well.
You know you have each other’s back.
You trust you will be there for each other.
Just as you know a best friend or close
family member wouldn’t lie to you or treat
you badly, you know your true love
wouldn’t do that either. You also know
you wouldn’t lie, cheat, or mistreat your
true love. There is mutual trust, affection,
and honesty.
4. With True Love, Life Becomes Richer.
With Love, It Can Become Harder.
True love enriches your life. Your life
should become easier, not harder.
Relationships built on lust and infatuation
can be thrilling, exciting, and time
consuming at the same time. The
constant push and pull of this kind of
love can make life rockier. There is a
steadiness, comfort, and assurance that
comes from finding your true love. Your
life is fuller, more wonderful with this
person in it.
5. With True Love, You Picture a Future
Together. With Love, You’re Not Quite
Sure.
Sometimes it is easy to picture a life
together based on your unrealistic
expectations or your idealistic way of
viewing things. If you try hard enough,
you can kind of see how you might have a
future together. Or, you might be in love
or infatuated with someone and thinking
of a future together scares you. When you
find true love, it feels natural to picture a
future together. You can’t imagine not
being together. You know this is the
person you want by your side as you go
through life.
When you find true love, it feels right.
There is a certainty that resides in you.
You don’t feel the need to talk about your
relationship with others to get their
feedback. You truly enjoy each other’s
company. You honestly like the other
person, and they like you. There is mutual
trust. Your life becomes better, not
harder. It’s not hard to picture a future
together. You can’t imagine a life without
this person in it. You realize that true love
doesn’t take time, but it stands the test of
time.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Guy Busts Girlfriend Who Tried To Con Him Of N50,000 Wit Fake Pregnancy by fajani(m): 9:41pm On Dec 14, 2015
[size=30pt]SHAME ON WOMEN. THEY ARE ALL FVCING THE SAME[/size]
RomanceRe: 8 Advantages Of Being Stingy To Ladies by fajani(m): 9:31pm On Dec 14, 2015
it is high time I learn Hw to be stingy
RomanceRe: 8 Advantages Of Being Stingy To Ladies by fajani(m): 9:26pm On Dec 14, 2015
I fear you Ladies
dachaste:


See dis op oooooh, who told u it guarantees love?




D babe might be there just cos u sex her well




Meanwhile she's busy milking one old dirty rich fool dry.

RomanceRe: She Doesnt Want To Change Her Surname After Marriage by fajani(m): 9:23pm On Dec 14, 2015
Wow this ladies is pretty
saraphina:
your brother or u?but seriously itz no big deal sha.
RomanceRe: How Long Do You Date Before You Allow Or Ask For Sex? by fajani(m): 9:22pm On Dec 14, 2015
5yrs
MrImole:
How long do you date before you allow or ask for sex?

Weeks?
Months?

For how long is it normal to have sex?
RomanceRe: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Mix Work With Pleasure? by fajani(m): 9:20pm On Dec 14, 2015
Fipa
quiinnBee:
yes they do same to us.
but we dont go around announcing it
RomanceRe: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Mix Work With Pleasure? by fajani(m): 9:18pm On Dec 14, 2015
makes Michellla a dull girl
Michellla:
all work and no play....complete it
RomanceRe: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Mix Work With Pleasure? by fajani(m): 9:16pm On Dec 14, 2015
framed right up
sugarberrycakes:
This question has been on my mind for sometime now and I just thought I should put it out to see what y'all think.

Having spent most of my adult life abroad, I returned to Nigeria a few years back. Right from the airport, one thing I noticed was that guys here just don't know when and when not to flirt with a lady.

You walk into an office and the man on seat starts asking for your number (whilst on duty?) I've had to change my dentist twice, the first one kept asking about my sexual history like it's got anything to do with my teeth... This new one keeps staring at my boobs each time I go for a checkup. Like seriouslyhuh?

Most times, I walk into a bank and the cashier starts hitting on me. In all this, I try to be as polite as possible even though it makes me so uncomfortable.

I don't have anything against a man approaching a lady but I think it should be done in the right environment.

Ladies, have u had a similar experience? And guys, why do u act like that? Isn't that unprofessionalism?

And pls, to address some of the comments. If u have lived in some countries, you would know it's actually wrong for a doctor to make sexual advances towards a patient. You could get fired if caught.
RomanceRe: I Am Really Confused. Nairalanders, I Need Answers by fajani(m): 9:14pm On Dec 14, 2015
do u have cut on ur dick
RomanceRe: Pls Can We Girls Stop This by fajani(m): 9:11pm On Dec 14, 2015
KO ni ragba fun e
Jolllyjoy:
it illitrate not illetrate.[b]it illitrate not illetrate.[/b]it illitrate not illetrate.
RomanceRe: Pls Can We Girls Stop This by fajani(m): 5:51pm On Dec 14, 2015
see stretch mark all over ur body. only God knows when last u wash that ur smelly pvssy
Jolllyjoy:
this one just murder english finishcheesycheesycheesycheesy
RomanceRe: Pls Can We Girls Stop This by fajani(m): 5:48pm On Dec 14, 2015
fool.. you this stack illetrate want to point out error in my sentence.. then go ahead correct the sentence if u can. OLODO OF D FIRST ORDER
Jolllyjoy:
this one just murder english finishcheesycheesycheesycheesy
RomanceRe: Pls Can We Girls Stop This by fajani(m): 3:21pm On Dec 14, 2015
jollyjoy
yorex2011:
E get one girl 4 dis thread wey i dey suspect get brain tumour
RomanceRe: Pls Can We Girls Stop This by fajani(m): 3:19pm On Dec 14, 2015
its true that u are nt wife materials.. I was so foolish for having a crush on such a disgusting fellow like you.... DIAMOND DIGGER
Jolllyjoy:
why not desist from quoting me when you know my post was beyond your comprehensive skill?
RomanceRe: Pls Can We Girls Stop This by fajani(m): 3:16pm On Dec 14, 2015
I have not been liking any girl on Nairaland but I can't just help it but to like you
esosa993:
note I am not trying to slight anygal, neither am I trying to make any guy like me,infact I don't want attention

girls pls am saying this because I myself am a girl ,pls stop spoiling the good names of other girls because of your gold digging nature, stop receiving stupid advise from your friend by trying to maga one poor guy, in fact it better to warn off a guy you don't like to stop disturbing you,than to keep begging a guy to take you put for lunch, this is embarrassing and annoying, where is our generation even learning all this from is it from the Bollywood films we watch or the upbringing, am tired, u don't have to beg for a guy to take u out ..... I don't even know where else to broadcast this lamentation, girls pls am sorry if this us harsh but I just needed to let out my fustration
RomanceRe: Advice Urgently Needed by fajani(m): 3:14pm On Dec 14, 2015
get hold of ur hatred
RomanceRe: When U Tell A UNILAG Babe U Taking Her To Dubai (pics) by fajani(m): 3:13pm On Dec 14, 2015
y u cover ur face
petkruz:
This is too funny!
RomanceRe: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by fajani(m): 3:05pm On Dec 14, 2015
what if it's not a barrier to d person
yilly:
how abt u confessed to someone close to u. It'll help u to stp.
RomanceRe: Please How can i stop Masturbation? by fajani(m): 3:05pm On Dec 14, 2015
1. Stop Porn
2. stop fantasizing
3. Never look a lady in a sexy way
4. Get control of your thought
5. Engage urself with something meaningful
6. Stop taking alcohol or Cannabis
7. get close to God..

Masturbation is the cause of low sperm count.. if you really think of ur future it is easy to stop...
211Observer:
...Is totally out of control now. I av read diff post on self-service method, blvn that it's only helping me to stop runnning after girls all in the name of sex.

often, some ppl just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is gud or bad. right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i dnt have girlfriend, nd I dnt care about it bcoz i always blv that girls has nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marraige soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many time I av vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I dnt want to blv that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might av once involve in this mess bfor, pls just tell me wat I need to know.
why I need to stop, nd how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!
RomanceRe: Very Unhappy by fajani(m): 2:55pm On Dec 14, 2015
the pleasure will all be mine. hope u are nt kidding
adasexie:
Lolz I would very much like to
RomanceRe: 14 by fajani(m): 2:48pm On Dec 14, 2015
then u are d gud cheater
Abbykem:
Well, I don't like d Op but I like the message he's passing across 29t. Guys are the worst cheaters
RomanceRe: Very Unhappy by fajani(m): 2:44pm On Dec 14, 2015
you can rely on me
adasexie:
when you expect too much from people..they just start messing up.
RomanceRe: Guys: handsome dudes, upload Your Pictures Here by fajani(m): 11:32am On Dec 14, 2015
ugly me

RomanceRe: Guys: handsome dudes, upload Your Pictures Here by fajani(m): 11:21am On Dec 14, 2015
do you want to do bend down select. oya select this
delectablegyal:
Jez feel like seeing handsome nairalanders today.

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