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RomanceRe: Sagging Boobs. Whats Ur Opinion? by fajani(m): 7:56pm On Dec 19, 2015
doveda:
You cannot know better than science, can you?

There are several virgins out there who have never been fondled yet have saggy breasts. How would you explain their situation?
you are ryt... Just like my gal.. I disflowered her but her breast is saggy, so I was wondering the cause
FoodRe: Why Do We Eat Chicken On Christmas Day? by fajani(m): 4:48pm On Dec 19, 2015
softappless:
for years now i have been wondering why Nigerians always connect christmas with eating of chicken, as in whether you have been eating it everyday does not matter but what matters is that on that 25th of december a fowl must be killed, so guys why do we eat chicken on christmas day?
cc lalasticlala, dominique
sorry why nt ask ur dad
RomanceRe: Ladies And Gentle Men, Do You Agree With This Illustration. Picture by fajani(op): 4:36pm On Dec 19, 2015
dachaste:
Choi. Gals I have suffered
grin
RomanceRe: My Heart Desire Is To Marry A Rich Man by fajani(m): 7:13am On Dec 19, 2015
lifeisabitch:
ugly stalker, ur death lurks.
we don see ur manner
FamilyRe: "I Only Married And Stays With You Because Of The Way You Bang Me" -says My Wife by fajani(m): 10:55pm On Dec 18, 2015
Everest880:
Mtcheeew.
Must You carry Ur Family Problem Over To NL.
When will all this yoruba men Be wise?
I Guess after Buhari death
who tell u he is Yoruba.... I distribe him....
FamilyRe: "I Only Married And Stays With You Because Of The Way You Bang Me" -says My Wife by fajani(m): 10:49pm On Dec 18, 2015
This should be moved to romance section with immediate effect..
CelebritiesRe: Davido, B-Red And Trey Songz Strike A Pose by fajani(m): 10:39pm On Dec 18, 2015
Adaure4ever:
wow, tankz dear
do you have to wait for people to acknowledge you that u are beautiful... Beauty is ur name
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh's Husband Buys Her A Jeep For Christmas (photo) by fajani(m): 10:30pm On Dec 18, 2015
NanciaKay:
smileySo happy for Tonto. Never thought she will be this blessed. Congrat! smiley
are u a reader
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh's Husband Buys Her A Jeep For Christmas (photo) by fajani(m): 10:26pm On Dec 18, 2015
ladycomfort:
. Yes. Ooooo husband buying a ride worth millions of naira as christmas gift. Husband material leleyi not some fooliish husband dat will be beating their wife and refusing her money.
fingers are nt equal
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh's Husband Buys Her A Jeep For Christmas (photo) by fajani(m): 10:24pm On Dec 18, 2015
He is really a kingkong... I am sure the guy is ugly
CelebritiesRe: Agbani Darego Still Showing Bikini Body In China (Photos) by fajani(m): 10:16pm On Dec 18, 2015
Michellla:
all bones
you make sense pass her
CelebritiesRe: Agbani Darego Still Showing Bikini Body In China (Photos) by fajani(m): 10:14pm On Dec 18, 2015
Nigeria situation is worsen you dey there dey flaunt bikini body
RomanceRe: ii by fajani(m): 10:07pm On Dec 18, 2015
STFUareyouGod:
the combo make sens
uhm smiley really? Left for the girl to accept
RomanceRe: 99.9% Of Ladies Are Guilty Of This Act (photo) by fajani(m): 10:05pm On Dec 18, 2015
EroticAngelina:
when u guys finally have sense and patience.

we are trying to look good for u!! can't y'all be fvcking patient!?! we ladies, its wat we're known for.

if we don't look good, you guys complain! if we look good, u guys still complain! abeg free us angry
must u make up b4 u are gud looking.. I hate a make up girl
RomanceRe: ii by fajani(m): 10:00pm On Dec 18, 2015
STFUareyouGod:
wetin man no go see for NL sef. Hehehehe
Nothing
RomanceRe: My Heart Desire Is To Marry A Rich Man by fajani(m): 9:59pm On Dec 18, 2015
lifeisabitch:
thats the easiest part, I am well mannered, pretty, intelligent. I deserve to marry a rich man.
fool. Leyz see if u are mana
RomanceRe: I Seriously Need Your Help Nairalanders by fajani(m): 9:52pm On Dec 18, 2015
MelancholicGuy:
I don't know what's wrong with me, but I'm always sad, depressed, frustrated and angry at the world for being the way I'm. Sometimes my mood lightens up when I 'see something'/get into an activity' that peaks my interest yet, almost again, I'm withdrawing back to my zero state of acute sorrowfulness.
Please nairalanders, I really need your help
guy it is your temperament at work.....
RomanceRe: ii by fajani(m): 9:44pm On Dec 18, 2015
Romanciella:
Lol so m bored and I decided to do what I know how to do best...






Yea enjoy
it seems we match

RomanceRe: ii by fajani(m): 9:39pm On Dec 18, 2015
Romanciella:
Lol so m bored and I decided to do what I know how to do best...






Yea enjoy
Do you born again or what?
RomanceRe: Ladies And Gentle Men, Do You Agree With This Illustration. Picture by fajani(op): 4:03pm On Dec 18, 2015
dachaste:
So using n dumping dem'll get em married?
just like Gambling
RomanceRe: That Moment When You Have To Woo A Lady In Pidgin Language. by fajani(m): 3:58pm On Dec 18, 2015
I believe there is different BTW bad vocabulary and mistake
RomanceRe: That Moment When You Have To Woo A Lady In Pidgin Language. by fajani(m): 3:56pm On Dec 18, 2015
Toks2008:
This convo ensued between a guy and a lady...

Guy: Are you shy?

Lady: Why shall i shy when im not a people and if i shall shy,shy ahy shy for you?
you got me laughing
RomanceRe: That Moment When You Have To Woo A Lady In Pidgin Language. by fajani(m): 3:53pm On Dec 18, 2015
Omotayor123:
Rotfl grin he be like say this thread go sweet...
Make I carry chair sit down tongue
Why not carry Mat
Nairaland GeneralRe: Yahoo Boy Runs Mad In Lagos; Jumps Out Of His Range Rover And Tears Clothes -Pic by fajani(m): 3:43pm On Dec 18, 2015
Were boy
cliffbecks:
There are two (2) things involved..

It's either he's truly mad or playing a Prank.

If it's a Prank, he's safe, but if he's truly mad, there are two (2) things involved..

It's either his time is up or he's on to a bigger deal ( Y'all should know how it goes)..

If he's onto tthe next one, good luck, but if his time is up, Toor! That means he's doomed.. *Clears throat ** That's all!
The world is full of mysteries. That is why there are two things involve.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Yahoo Boy Runs Mad In Lagos; Jumps Out Of His Range Rover And Tears Clothes -Pic by fajani(m): 3:41pm On Dec 18, 2015
I thank God for the penny I am receiving at my working place..... Sooner or later Miracle will happen .... I am not a lazy dude.....
FamilyRe: I Am In A Dilemma by fajani(m): 3:36pm On Dec 18, 2015
You know it urself that we can't advice you to go for the first girl nah... Your future with the first girl is at stake but d second girl is chosen for you from heaven.... Develop love for her... Back to d first girl, what u feel for her is nothing but infatuation may be she's beautiful more than d other girl.





I rest my case
idontaya:
Please guys come to my rescue....

This is centered around two female which i do not want to loose but have to select one to marry. Here goes...

I met these ladies around the same period, i asked Labake out and after the initial gra gra she accepted to date me. thing are getting serious now that i had to ask her certain questions... She has been into business for like 6 years and when i asked what was her savings from the biz she said NOTHING. I asked the reason and she said debts and some other excuses. In short she has no savings and told me to my face i am providing all she will be needing in marriage, relocating her shop from one town to where i am and other things even to her sanitary towels! What is annoying me is that have i now offended the gods that i want to marry her and there taking over her liabilities (her body being the only asset)! I do not have a problem meeting these needs but she has to meet up at some point which she cannot do! I just like/love her i dont know why despite these liability.

On the other hand, there is Shalewa, who is more than willing to meet my people, she has a job and even a business. She encourages me to be the best and all other positives. The problem here is that i dont have a feeling for her at all, but i dont want to let go. Mind you we have not had sex even with Labake

Guys please if you were in my shoes what would you do? Who will you take home to mamma. Cos i want to do that this december and wrap up marriage. But i am in a dilemma for nowQ

please advice maturedly
RomanceRe: When She Says "I Want A Man With Vision" by fajani(m): 3:30pm On Dec 18, 2015
[size=15pt]If it's possible to click on 1000 likes at d same time, I would have done so but I only click on one like... I hope the whole world read this tongue[/size]
Toks2008:
A man of vision is not necessarily a potentially rich man and a successful man is never the same as a rich man.

Often times when a lady says "I want a man with vision" what goes through her mind is that she wants a man that has good plans to make good money in the future.

Most ladies are fond of having a prototype figure of the type of man they want and in-fact when some ladies watch some accomplished guys on TV they just imagine their man could be who they are watching and some even develop hatred for their men wondering why his story is not like the rich men they read about or watch on TV but the hard fact of life is that every one of us have different scripts of life and we can never ever be the same.

Before you marry a man you must understand what he wants from life and trust me,some men have vision that has no affiliations to riches and you must also understand that no matter how dogged and resilient that guy may be in actualizing his dreams,some visions never come to pass and you must understand these facts and decide if you are still interested in being with him regardless and not frustrate his life if things do not turn out the way he planned.

Some guys have a vision to be good activists,caterers.teachers,missionaries,to serve someone,to be a dancer,sportsman,drummer and so on but the truth is that a man's vision is his vision so whenever ladies use these words "I want a man of vision" they must understand that some men don't even have vision to be rich but to be fulfilled and fulfillment in your career is never the same as riches.

People who changed the history of the world where not wealthy talking about

Jesus Christ
Muhamed.
Isaac newton,
Nelson Mandela,
christopher columbus,
The Buddha
Mikhail Gorbachev
Winston Churchill
Woodrow Wilson
William Shakespeare
Martin Luther King
...

I can only imagine if Jesus happens to have a lady he was planning to marry and he tells the lady that his vision is to die for the world,will she still stand by him and marry him?

So when next a lady says "she wants a man with vision" Please don't think that every visionary man is keen on riches so ask that guy well and decide if you are willing to stand by him or just take a walk and allow a lady who will go all the way with him come into his life.


And for the guys, please don't be scared to open up to that lady on your real vision no matter how stupid or lowly it may be,remember that following your passion and fulfilling your vision is the greatest success and the greatest wealth you can ever acquire but you must also understand that no matter your vision,it is important for you to still perform your primary financial duty as the head of the family.

And for the ladies i will advice that you look inward,be a goal getter and set out early in life to also achieve your goals in life without any form of dependency or expectancy from any man because that man who seem to have great wealth today can crash in a swift and that unassuming man could become a billionaire later so go for the man of your heart,take the risk,be with a man for the right reason and commit the rest to fate.

Hope this makes sense.
PoliticsRe: Biafra: 5 Shot Dead Celebrating Kanu’s Release by fajani(m): 3:23pm On Dec 18, 2015
[size=34pt]IGBOS WHY ARE YOU WASTING YOUR LIVES OVER NOTHING[/size]
CareerRe: Lady Who Slept With Her Bosses For Promotion Cries Out by fajani(m): 3:13pm On Dec 18, 2015
[size=34pt]You came late for advice.... You care abt career fool...... Do you think women have career without husband...[/size]
FoodRe: Man Dies After Drinking 4 Crates Of Beer In Lagos by fajani(m): 2:49pm On Dec 18, 2015
What shall it profit a man who compromised his life for just 4 crate of beer. What will he use as an exchange when he face judgment from Baba God
Jobs/VacanciesHow To Quit The Thank God It’s Friday Mindset by fajani(op):
I know a lot of people are guilty of this....


TGIF, or “Thank God It’s Friday” is the way many people who don’t like their jobs get through their working week.

If you also feel like you’re in this situation and also thinking like this, then here’s my advice to you

If you don’t like the TGIF lifestyle, then first of all stop saying “Thank God it’s Friday”.

Ban it from your vocabulary. It’s a deadly and flawed mindset. TGIF is a gasp of helplessness.

Next, start doing something about it.

Ask yourself: why do you think like this? Why are you continually waiting for the weekend? What is it that you want to escape from? What is it that you don’t like? Identify your own personal reasons behind this.

The next question to ask yourself is: What can I do about it? Should I change my job? Maybe it’s the employer or some aspect of your present job situation that you find intolerable.

Or maybe the dissatisfaction goes further than this and it’s your whole career that you don’t like?

Do you feel the need to break out of this career and find something better?

[size=14pt]Watch Who You Mix With[/size]

Are you doing your present job or stuck in your present career because of pressure and expectations from other people? Maybe pressure from parents, partner, friends or influences from the past?

A few years back I changed my own situation. I no longer work in salaried jobs. Nor do I take on contracts with clients that I don’t like or in sectors I can’t stand.

And as far as possible I avoid mixing with people who have limiting “nine to five” attitudes, because that sort of thing is contagious and is a killer to your entrepreneurial spirit.

[size=14pt]Change Your Lifestyle To Fit Your New Outlook[/size]


I also changed a number of other things.

For example, I now avoid mainstream media, particularly TV.

TV is based on the nine-to-five and the TGIF outlook. Channel TV doesn’t get a look in with me any more. Nor am I interested in their negative “news” agenda.

I modified a number of my routines. For example, I work at different times of the day. Right now I’m using the concept of work sessions. Mostly I have three work sessions per day. Morning, afternoon and evening.

I have these work sessions pretty well every day of the week. Each session lasts just a couple of hours. Though any particular session can vary in length, especially the evening one. Length, start and finishing times are not set in stone.

I also tend to work weekends. I usually take a little time off during the week instead of at the weekend.


[size=14pt]Watch Out For Routines[/size]


Routines can be useful, but it’s important not to get bogged down into thinking in routines for everything.

Some tasks are ideally suited to routine. Like brushing your teeth, doing your invoices and your book keeping. Or checking your email.

But other routines can be restricting. Too much routine can cause you to lose your perception of time and your awareness of the value of time. You need spontaneity and change in your life as well as routine.

You sometimes hear of freelancers or self employed people, especially people working from home, who put on formal working clothes, such as suit, tie etc, when they start their working day. Even though they are working from home.

And then go and shut themselves in a room they have set aside as an office in their home.

Reserving a separate room or a corner of a room as your office can be practical. I’ve done this myself. But what I find bizarre is the practice of changing into a suit and tie when you are working from home.

They say they do it because “it makes them feel the part” or that they then feel “ready for work”.

These people have spent far too long in the nine to five and are still stuck thinking like a salary man.
[size=14pt]Downsize Your Life[/size]

Another thing I did was to downsize.

I took a look at what I spent money on. Especially things like monthly subscriptions for insurances, cable TV, membership schemes, mobile phone, etc.

I realized a lot of this expenditure wasn’t necessary. The benefit I derived from it was minimal compared to the outlay involved.

I also looked at my consuming. I found many things I was buying hardly without thinking about it or because it was expected of me by others. So by eliminating a large part of this I was able to cut out a lot of expenditure and save money. grin

This meant I no longer needed the same income as before. I was no longer a slave to a job like I used to be. This gave me more freedom of choice. More options became open to me than I had before.

[size=14pt]Don’t Forget – Time is Valuable and Life is Short
[/size]

We should never forget that “Time is valuable and time is short”.

We should use our time wisely and get full value from it. We don’t get any of our time back.

So why stay stuck in a job or career you hate, just to say to yourself every week “Thank God It’s Friday”?

Since I quit my salaried job, I changed my motto from “Thank God It’s Friday” to “What – Friday already?” sad

So stop waiting for the weekend – and start fully living your life seven days a week. smiley

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