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khassy:
Must I reash SS3... Shey I can't change school in Ss2 and write waec in a better school

people are so mean... Naija I bow for u

Adaure4ever:
Wow, he'z cute.
I remember when I had a crush on him. *covers face and blushing*

Woman

Thanks for the clue. I will reward you later

adasexie:
ok..today I was at the mall and a guy who I saw earlier with his friends walked up to me and said he wants to talk to me.
I said ok and he started pitching... Lolz. mumbled a few words I didn't quite hear cos he was talking too fast and was barely audible..next thing I heard "so can I get your number".......
Tf
Bottom line,he didn't get it

Things guys could work on while talking to a girl
1* don't be too anxious
2* talk calm and calculated
3* be audible
4* make eye contact
5* stop shaking

AlienStar:
Even wt the wrong person

my attitudeattitude and character won't make the wrong person stay, my character is only perfect for the perfect person

faith551:
OK na, me no come be wizard

lol

faith551:
LOL, who wan marry winsh (witch)

Wizard

No, if both of then love me the same... Yes if the other one is a player

SUGARBEE:
I was allured in opening this thread after hearing the unfortunate story of, now should I say the guy or the lady? ..

A guy (Name withheld) had been dating and even proposed to this friend of mine, although we're not that close.

Now all who knew her was happy for her when we heard she got engaged to the guy though we kinda knew the guy as the player kind,

Everything was going smoothly between them up until last week when as fate would have it, she had gone to visit him at his home when behold, she caught him stark unclad in bed with another lady..

Furious but outwardly calm, she demanded an explanation, but rather surprisingly to her dismay, the other lady stood up, claiming she was the guy's fiancee and who the hell was my friend to her man.. . .

My friend (heartbroken) calmly composed left the house but she came back, oh she came back and much to my delight to the guy's house some hours later with some bouncers, unfortunately or fortunately for the other lady she was not around as the bouncers ruffled up "Mr player" bad and I mean bad to the extent that when they left, the guy's neighbors had to rush him to the hospital..

Now guys, what do you earn/gain from being a player? I mean, why can't you guys just stick to one lady, rather than jumping around chasing and breaking hearts anyhow, and the troubling part of it all is how you guys trap a lady with the "Engagement" stunt. She drops her guard down and opens her heart and body for you thinking you're the one right for her only to later discover how many other girls you say that to everyday..

Please guys, this attitude needs to be checked and corrected.

And ladies, please I'll advice us to be fully alert with our defenses high against guys who all they think is "chop clean mouth". Not all that glitters is gold.. Don't fall cheaply for all these lies men tell just to go down south.. Think, reflect and pray very well before entering into any relationship so that you won't end up regretting later..

Regardless, I believe a generous amount of gentlemen and honorable ladies are out there, so please before you break a girl's Heart next time, think about how you would feel if someone does that to your sister..

Thanks

But guy u bam.

buygala:
6- Stop having silly monikers


Who in God's name will take a girl seriously who calls herself 'Sugarbee, Punkyveer, Mzflexydeeva, EroticAngelina?


Monikers like 'DaughterofZion, ilovekids, Evangelistblessing, Adamsrib, iloveJesus are more appropriate for available spinsters

Karmatyra:
why is marriage always the sole reason for people to get into a relationship nowadays?

Which other reason should we go into relationship?

You got the illustration well

faith551:
You don't just see a lady on the street and marry her, no. Not in this century.
Having a girlfriend is like assessment, it determines if you'll even qualify to write your acclaimed WAEC

80% ryt.....but I always pray for my relationship to lead to marriage

AlienStar:
*Not every rtlshp will lead to marriage.
*Experience is the best teacher.
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Keketu:
this is my orente, shes 15 years older than me but age is all but a number, shes got a small stature so people dont notice much, a quick + shes woking with fidelity bank

Iranu Abacha

I want to know you people Opinion on this. Is This true....

Amen

Afam1103:
Sorry about what you are going through. I know it must have taken alot of courage to share your plight on this forum.
Have faith though that things will get better. I dont have an exact formula for how that will be but I do know that for every woman, there is a man.
There is nothing wrong in wanting to love or showing your emotions. They are the things that make you who you are. Don't let any unpleasant circumstance make you want to change who you are and what makes you unique.
I believe the most you can do when you come across a guy that doesn't love you back is make the hard choice and move on. Because one day, you will find that one guy that will never get tired of that huge heart of yours that contains Limitless love and emotions.
I do have one advice though, when you start a new relationship, give the guy a chance to love you back. Because most people take things for granted if they are not given the chance to show appreciation. So when you show love, give him a chance to show the love back. Eg: if you call today, give him a chance to call back tomorrow, etc.
I wish you all the best dear. The Year is almost over. A miracle might come your way this Christmas but 2016 is most definitely going to be your year.

I am in my early thirty, I think if both of us can put garri inside hot water we can make Eba... I pm you, kindly reply.. I am really serious....

beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap .

Kissing suck

any girl with tatoo is a prostitute, so its out of the question

from my own point of view, it's normal.. the person was only reacting to her dream... its nothing strange and weird..

tell us d truth, u are d person

Monalisa185:
SLEEPTALKING- uncounsious talking in one's sleep....also known as SOMNILOQUY...

I talked a lot when I was little, and every time I talked during the day, I always repeated those things in my sleep (so I was told)..

I'm very sure most of you experienced same thing when you were little and it was seen as a normal trait in kids...

so...I visited one of my aunts a month ago (newly married), during one of our discussions with her husband, he said something about my aunt scaring the hell out of him...my aunt was surprised because he never said anything to her...

he said he woke up one night to go ease himself and overheard my aunt talking in her sleep, he got really scared, but he didn't know why he was so scared....that he probably felt she was possessed or something...my aunt in turn, denied ever saying anything in her sleep...(the argument went on, but lemme stop here)...

after the whole thing, I went online to research about it, I discovered that whites referred to it as a medical problem (but of course, they see everything as such)...

I asked a few people, some attributed it to spiritual problem... lol (normal, normal African mentality)

so I decided to ask nairalanders these questions...if you find out that you partner talks while sleeping, what would be your first reaction?..

how would you feel about you partner?..

what would you think of your partner?..

have you had such an experience with any one (adult)?


mature and sincere contributions needed

only for long throat babes

this is not the matter of rapist, nobody in the world will call that an act of raping.... its called Tit for tat. even law enforcement won't win in this case. meanwhile she is going to do it with the goodness of her heart..

preetyb:
Its very easy sometimes to identify rapist.

how did they get that sperm, is it by masturbation or what

Good morning dear, how was ur nyt? I was expecting a reply in regard of the mail I sent to u last nyt

saraphina:
please where is Lasisi?

I think I agree a bit wit u

I don give up on DAT babe since

profojah:
I thought you said you having a crush on this girl. Is this a new style to approach your crushes?. Humdrum & doldrum niggaz everywhere.

ur thinking is right

oforij:
and apply sansu oil and tramadol to the exam subjects...?
#just thinking oo

I don hear

dachaste:
Lolz. Abeg ooh no fear.





Dat was just a wild guess to show d op notIng is impossible

Girl’sre to give you the top 10 best ways to propose a girl. and I am sure your girl of your dreams will say yes. These are just ten best ways to propose a girl.. Try them out and win the heart of your lady.
Lets check the 10 Best Ways to Propose a Girl.

1. BE YOUR SELF
This is the first rule that you need to get into your mind when you think of proposing a girl. Do not overdo your proposal. Keep it simple yet special and sweet. Listen up fellas if you want to capture your woman’s heart by a marriage proposal, then follow your heart and hers. Be creative, and be yourself. Its every girls dream to have a guy propose to her. Be who you are, and in your own special way say those three golden words.

2. CANDLE LIT NIGHT

This is a classic but one of great ways to propose your dream girl. Candles are one of the quintessential elements of a romantic evening. The dim lights of the candles burning flames and the romantic tunes sets one of the perfect settings for a romantic proposal. A candle lit dinner is a romantic way to propose to anyone who holds a special place in your heart and the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. Guys set the mood, by preparing and cooking your significant other their favorite dinner. Turn off all lights and lit the candles, play romantic songs. The glowing of the candles sets a mood for a night full of romance and is one of the most perfect scenes to propose. It will set the mood for love and romance.

3. Place where you First meet

Take her to the place where you met each other for the first time. Recreate the same moment and then propose to her. It will definitely move her and get embossed on her memory for lifetime. Its one of the romantic ways to propose. Here some useful tips for your first date.

4. Special Day

What better way to propose to the woman of your dreams is on Valentines Day, Christmas Day, Eid Day, Holly or Dewali Day. Corny but very romantic. Yes I realize a lot of you guys propose on ‘Valentines Day‘ because it is a national holiday and a romance filled day. But to make the proposal extra special, propose on a causal day. Pick a day that has special meaning to you both, such as a birthday, anniversary of your friendship or the day when you went for your first date and etc. A proposal isn’t something to take lightly. For a guy to remember special days such as the anniversary of friendship or first date and to propose on that particular day is a special proposal to a woman. A marriage proposal is a commitment between two people who are deeply, passionately in love.

5. Proposal During a Movie Break

ways to propose girl

The very romantic and easy ways to propose your beloved. This way of proposing is tried and tested and it works, really. Edit and compile a short lovely movie which pop up the special question and screen it during the interval. It should be fun to see her reaction.

6. T-shirt Proposal

ways to propose girl

Get a t-shirt with the text “will you marry me” or “Do You Love Me” and wear a jacket over it, take her to a nearby park or a place you usually meet up and get down on your knees and reveal your special tee to her.

7. Picnic in the Park

ways to propose girl

This is a simple but romantic ways to propose to the woman you love. What better way to propose to the woman of your dreams is by sticking her engagement ring inside the chocolate covered strawberry. Plan a perfect plan for a picnic. A nice and beautiful scene, Green hills and valleys and your loved one lying on your chest. This romantic moment can be made more beautiful chocolates covered with strawberry, bucket of a chilling champagne. You can stick ring with the choclate wrapper and cover it with strawberry for proposing your girlfriend for marriage. You can make this picnic even more beautiful by singing a romantic song for your loved ones.

8. Radio Proposal

ways to propose girl

The girls love brave guyes. Any girl would love the guy who propose her would have the guts to propose in front of thousands of people listening over the radio waves.

If you know she listens to the radio at a certain time everyday, making a dedication will work charms with her. Call your local FM radio station, one you know she will be tuning into. What would you say on the radio? That is clearly up to you. But it should be something memorable and sweet. Dedicate you beloved, her fevorite romantic song. Have the radio play you and your “song,” together, and a sweet proposal following before or after the song. Then have her phone in after the song to give her answer over the radio waves. She definatly answer ‘YES’

9. Surprising By Hiding In A Box

ways to propose girl

This one can be easy, but a lot of coordination is required to execute this proposal. Hiding yourself in a box wrapped with gift paper can be a big surprise to her when you are holding a ring in your hand and waiting to be unwrapped.

10. Banner Proposal

ways to propose girl

If you can’t express your feeling or you are afraid of rejection then you can use banner for proposing a girl. You can get a banner prepared with the word ‘I Love You’ and have it displayed outside her house or in the workplace. It is advised that you do not use her real name on the banner, but use the endearment that you generally use to call her. You can also make a flying banner and can give surprise to your loved one by flying it over her head and making it the most excited and memorable moment of your life. Try this way only when you are sure that she is not going to reject your proposal





Do you agree with this Lalasticlala

local Olosho nt like punkyver international