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NwaAmaikpe:




This is the problem with Nigeria.
Kind acts are always tainted with selfish undertones.

He helped the man primarily because he wanted him to acknowledge this help later on and probably give him a free ride for life.
Now the joke is on him.

I can picture the keke man in the midst of angels looking down and laughing.
But this is really
a sad, disgraceful and avoidable way to die.

Thunder fire you there.A man sees a total stranger who was bleeding heavily and on his way to an early grave ,took him to hospital and deposited money for his treatment (meanwhile the cause of this entire issue is just N350) and should expect any form of appreciation? Do you know that the hospital will charge a very high deposit? Pls keep quiet if you have nothing senseful to say.

hisexcellency34:
No be person wey don eat belleful dey do skydiving?

Abi my brother?

Jossyroyal1:



It's suicidal to be a Nigerian and Arsenal supporter at the same time...

Check my signature...

Story of my life!

Joromi12:
What evidence will she tender in court

The case is dead on arrival.You are so right.The law court is very different from social media.She can't secure a conviction of the randy pastor.

Timmypromise:
I think this stuff was staged
How come that space in a traffic jam
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Anyway good for the person

A helicopter can land anywhere.

hisexcellency34:
Gbajabiamila should appoint Akin Alabi Chairman, House Committee on Pools and Betting. He should appoint Peller Chairman House Committee on Entertainment

Abi? We r a joke in this country.I wonder what they will both contribute to national development.They certainly bought their way there and will receive outrageous allowances to recover whatever they've spent.

madridguy:
Anytime i see Mr Magu i remember Nigeria coach for Trinidad and Tobago that year

Sai Baba I hail you....

Eko himself, Jagaban of Africa i salute you sir.

May God cure some people that will develop headache with this picture of Abu Zara and Eko together

U mean the late Musa Abdullahi?? What does he have to do with this?

mhizdebbygold:
My love, am still telling people one thing you are not supposed to take in marriage is insults and beatings.
Don't let him give you flowers on your funeral.

This church combination of a marriage are usually scam, you should know that. how will you get married to someone just after 4 months you met?!

My dear give your self brain... Go and meet that pastor that joined the two of you and explain things to him.
Oga has low sperm count and he's still blaming you like he doesn't have his own problem abi?!
Hey! Don't also forget to pray.

Love ya

Lol the four months of knowing each other is not the issue.Success in marriage is determined by love ,tolerance and personality (education ,exposure,likes,dislikes,hobbies) etc and not how long both parties had known each other.Met my wife once and didnt see her again for 2 years and when next we saw we were already planning our wedding and it was 2 weeks away.We r doing Perfectly ok today.The problem here is that the man is an animal and an abusive buffon.She should divorce him right away.For a marriage to be successful, both parties must work it out and certainly, the man is doing the opposite.I know a couple who knew for each other for just a month and got married.They are still doing well today.

pocohantas:
I agree with the writer, most times people use it to address someone they feel is beneath them. By age or whatever category they deem fit.

How many of the supposed educated people would respond to our MDs with "my dear". I bet none. That part of your brain that is wired to say dear will switch off and use Sir/Madam.

I really do not take it seriously, but I have issues with people using unnecessary endearments for me. Especially people of the opposite sex who I share no BOND with. I had this one that kept calling me sweetness. Who is your sweetness?

At work, I tell the junior staff, don't call me aunty, sister...call me by my first name. Feel free to add a Miss if you want.

I address people by their first names. Except my shugar...

So you get sugar all this while and u didnt tell me? When I had already planned our trad outfit and my wedding suit..Mscheww.

Megatrix:
He can't be brought back to life, let it rest

Yes he cant be brought back to life but Boeing will pay through their noses.

Gforce2019:
Nah today? I remember similar story told by a friend heading to UK , on landing at the airport , after all the due process, the guy called his childhood friend, and the friend switch off his fone. Thank God that the guy brought enough money for lodging and food

Hmmm..I had an Uncle who told me when I was stranded in New York.."I dont know you" but according to my mum ,he was even there when I was born.The bastard is the younger brother to my dad.Life teaches serious lessons at times.

LilMissFavvy:
The husband should have visited his wife, even though he is a corper, he was busy smashing gals in camp, his wife was also busy smashing his best friend, rubbish.

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Hoelosho spotted!!!!�

[quote author=obamartins post=77792639]I just stumbled on my marriage note where I wrote down all my expenses while I prepared for my marriage and decided to share. This topic is to guide those planning for their wedding on how much on the average they should budget for their marriage. Although the amount you will spend depends on what you want and the tribe/family you are marrying into. I actually budgeted N1,200,000 (1.2 million) but ended up spending close to 2million.

I got married November 2018 to my beautiful esan girlfriend of 4 years. Here is the breakdown:

Pre-wedding
1. Lab test for HIV, Genotype and pregnancy (as instructed by the church) - N5000
2. Transportation to take her to see my parents - N10,000
3. Ring 18 karat gold (engagement, and wedding rings) - N75,000 (from aboki)
4. Wedding certificate - N4000
5. Wedding seminar organized by my church - N4000

Federal Registry:
1. Affidavit for spinsterhood and bachelorhood-N2000
2. Main fee - N34,000

Traditional marriage
1. Drinks - N140,000
2. Yams - N40,000
3. Salt - N4,000
4. Bride price - N10,000
5. Make up - N20,000
6. Food - N200,000
7. Transportation - N20,000
8. Photograph - N6000
9. Canopy - N6000
10. Palmwine - N2000
11. Palm oil - N12,000
12. Native kola - N3000
13. Introduction - N12,000 (did introduction same day as traditional marriage)
I love esan marriage, they don't put hole in one's pocket

White Wedding
1. Drinks and food - N300,000
2. Reception hall - N105,000 (a Catholic church event hall)
3. Decoration - N50,000
4. DJ plus MC - N35,000
5. Guest house accommodation for my parents - N15,000
6. Souvenir 100 unit (Jotter, bag and notebooks) - N93,000
7. Photographer - N20,000 (soft copies)
8. Video coverage - (Hmmmm! Money no reach)
9. My wife's wedding gown - N35,000 (rent)
10. Me and my bestman's shirt and suit - N36,000
11. My wife's makeup and accessories - N50,000
12. Hotel room for after wedding panpangolo - N18,000 for 2 nites
13. My shoe - N2,000 (it's a long story)
14. Cake (4 steps) - N15,000 (my wife baked it if not e for pass that amount)
15. Transportation for my parents back home - N10,000

This are the little I could remember, I will update as soon as I get them. It was supposed to be a budget marriage but I spent close to N2,000,000 despite cutting off as much expenses as permitted. What was ur marriage budget? Did you stick to your budget or did some unforseen expenses prop up? Please share for the benefit


My venue alone was 1m paid by my dad.My wife's parents spent 2m for food and drinks alone.I spend 4m on photography, decor,our outfits ,videography etc,MC was 200k.It well bro.E no easy to marry for Naija.My wife spent 1m.The entire wedding was 9m.

iTearHerToto:
Op is indirectly begging for money help. Nairalanders let's contribute and help a frustrated soul

You are so stupid.

soberdrunk:
Why the guy dey go dey form Rambo?

They were even accusing the wife then.

delugajackson:
Na enjoyment go kill this man. He just went to the U.S to chill and he's not even on official duty. Who does that? Spending tax-payers money on amorous trips. What do we call this?

That a governor would abandon the security of his state, leaving it to the fate of Hersmen invasion and senseless marauders to embark on a futile trip, a trip that adds nothing of immense value to the country or the average Anambrarian. This is an insult on our collective intelligence.

He is entitled to an annual vacation just like any body else.

Drguzzykola:
The kind of Men we have this days self. Hmm,

As in left d woman for who,

It's sad but women r so dumb.A woman should validate the character of a man and his personality before opening her legs for him.If she took her time in knowing the kind of man her husband was during courtship ,she probably would have avoided this situation today.