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helinues:
The ladies themselves are worsening the situation by putting almost all the stress on men as majority of them have refused to work after marriage

Majority of women have refused to work?

Do you have any statistics to back your claims?

pocohantas:
Lol. Maybe he is somewhere on Nairaland telling us he can’t marry a non-virgin. Whereas he is married to a woman with 4 kids. She was a SM before his dad. She had three for his dad. Now she has one for the new husband.

Some women are hot o.

Lol.
You'll be surprised she's just one average woman, a 5.5 out of 10. It's the gold digging that's working for her.

One thing we should all know about the "logical" gender is that they tend to gravitate towards gold diggers. They'll overlook a homely 8.5 because gold diggers challenge them while homely women don't. As far as they're concerned, Proverbs 31 woman is just good for preparing oilless and saltless soup and to remind the diabetic, hypertensive and osteoarthritic patient to take his drugs.... (the phrases I pick on Nairaland).

By the way, that oilless and saltless thing cracks me up each time I read your posts. Once in a while I share your posts with my mum and we both end up having a good, good laugh.

Dajugba:
The man she married and assisted from law school till he graduated and became someone in life, one woman from no where came and use diabolic things to take her husband, you are saying she is not wicked. You don't know what it means for a woman to invest her funds in a man and it didn't pay.

The same man shouting "support your man when he's a nobody" will be eyeing one gold digger and even sell his kidney for her as soon as he gets a little money.

These things happen because men crave for gold diggers. They always have this dire need to prove to themselves that they are desirable to gold diggers. That they can get them. They have nothing to prove to Proverbs 31 women.

They curse gold diggers all over Nairaland simply because they can't afford them, but as soon as they can, they'll go for them and will usually go all out to please them.

OP, I'm sorry about your predicament but such is life. Your father messed up and the consequences are now being faced by you. I doubt there's anything you or your folks can do. You can however get a lawyer and see which loopholes she can use to circumnavigate or twist the law to your favour, but don't hold your breath.

As you can see, the "she" above is in bold. Kindly get a female lawyer because once a male lawyer senses your stepmother's gold digging instincts he'll be drawn to her and outwit you off your father's property just to please her.

Good luck though. You'll need it.

She may not be happy but she'll not stop being a social media freak just because people expected her to go quiet and stay away after the whole Kpokpogri saga.

She is doing this to prove a point. That she's the one who'll decide when to be on social media and when to stop. Not us.

In two days, she'll take her son to a barbershop and she'll post that on her social media pages. She knows many will be irritated by that, but she'll post it anyway.

The boy stopped resembling his father and is now a photocopy of the mother.

Cute kid, crazy mum.

From my dad - Money management, independence, love for literature, humanity, going all out for family/blood, sense of humour, creating boundaries, putting your foot down, responsibility, philanthropy, resilience, not taking anybody's crap, how to love without being a slowpoke, how to walk away from toxic people, how to cook fish.

From my mum - Compassion, humility, faith in God, tenderness, pure love, forgiveness, putting my children's needs before mine, respect and love for spouse, respect and love for spouse's relatives, how to have a big heart, philanthropy, how to bake Irish potatoes.

cococandy:
You had 7 likes to this comment?
Wow

Scary. Just the thought of it.
To crown it all they may even attribute it to their famous "logic".

Wawelexy:
Whether it's Congolese or Kenyan accent..
Whether the weather in Kenya is chilled or scorching hot....

That man in that video prefers that country to whatever country he comes from.....take it or leave it.

I'm not fighting that fact. Whether he prefers America to his country wasn't even my issue.

Just wondering why Kenya had to come up when the man is clearly Congolese.

Or I suppose you were just speaking metaphorically. I don't know.

Japanese and German men are creating WhatsApp groups to discuss inventions while neanderthals in another part of the world are creating WhatsApp groups to share sex videos and to discuss female anatomy.

Later they'll be calling themselves "logical".

See these animals.

Later they'll say it's Zimbabwe, Kenya and Uganda with weird stories, as if cult murders and beheadings are children bedtime stories.

Neanderthals!

Wawelexy:
Just a skit! Swears! That man prefers that cold more than the scotching hot sun in his Kenyan country..

The man in the skit is speaking English with a Congolese accent, not Kenyan.
Secondly, there are many parts in Kenya which experience extreme cold, mist and sometimes snow. The inhabitants of those regions will wonder which scorching sun in Kenya are you talking about?