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redstaarx:
You just said all I wanted to say.. we keep our good friends close because its actually hard to find friends .. we make the best lovers too

Got dumped few days ago after 1yr 11mths and 1 day relationship I think it was because I had no vibes tho . That's the sad aspect

No vibes? You think it's because you had 'no vibes'? She may have had other reasons for breaking up with you though.
Lol...We introverts like to overthink and over-analyze things but I get you.

Sebastine1994:
My advice to all introvert is this: Make friends before you need them.

Introverts have friends. We only have deep and meaningful friendships though, most of which last for a lifetime. Some of our friends are extroverts, some introverted like ourselves.

You have to be worth it though. We sense negative energy very quickly and we'll avoid it by all means necessary. We tend to avoid toxic people (who we can easily detect) and that can be construed to mean we're antisocial and unfriendly.

We can make friends easily but only with people who respect boundaries. Introverts thrive well within their own boundaries. You cross it, you're a goner.

BABANGBALI:
you forgot to mention Tiwa Savage

Get well soon son.

toygod2:
WHAT'S SO SPECIAL ABOUT THIS LADY

Many Nigerian celebrities, especially within Nollywood and the music industry are beautiful but they tend to carry themselves like agberos. No class whatsoever.

Rita is elegant, polished/refined and carries herself with utmost class. She, along with Genevieve Nnaji, Monalisa Chinda, Adesua Etomi, Joke Silva, Ireti Doyle, Nse Ikpe-Etim and Funlola Raimi exude feminine elegance.

It's not easy to maintain a polished demeanour when you're in an industry associated with hooligans (the Tonto Dikehs and the Tiwa Savages). That's what makes Rita special.

Hayee:
But doesn't stop the fact that men are addicted to gold diggers

They'll act ignorant of this fact.

smartasuen:
I said one country, not the only country!
Of course Nigeria is a living proof that the world has long ended and we are just living on borrowed time.

Do you actually buy that crap that fùck activities only occur in Zimbabwe and East Africa?

ensamy:
Owning a bicycle in Uganda be like owning an exotic car in Nigeria.

Lies.

smartasuen:
Uganda - One country that constantly reminds me that the end of the world is near!

Picture a country where men, women and children are kidnapped and beheaded for ritual purposes and where herdsmen from the north have turned the country into a bloodbath.

Such a country could serve a better purpose of reminding you that the end of the world is near. Not Uganda, whose citizens are known for their peaceful and accommodating nature.

Klass99:
Lol . How do you know?
Are you a moderator?

Klass, it's a very accurate speculation.

Englandboy:
If it not Zimbabwe it Uganda they don't have shame again.

They do have enough shame not to peddle cocaine in other people's countries.

Optimistguy1969:
No other news comes out of east Africa other than

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That's what Nairaland moderators have been reduced to. They have been specifically instructed to pick sex-related stories from East Africa and Zimbabwe.

It's for traffic.

Andrew999:
Put some salt on your palm and then turn some little amount of honey on top of the palm on your palm. Then pray with it.

Any Biblical references regarding the above?

Kingcalls:
B4 u know it, she go hit 40.... men don't like toxic women and she has shown how toxic she is... her time done go , unfortunately, he character in the house has dampened her chance for a good life partner

A lot of men are drawn towards toxic women. In fact, don't be shocked that her ratings went way up after the drama she displayed on BBN. Look around you and check whether it's the homely girls who have a long list of suitors. None. Zero.

It's only on Nairaland where men curse them. In reality, it's one toxic girl after another that is walking down the aisle.

Be honest with yourself.

Happy Birthday Cee-Cee. She's stunning.

Starch galore.

Joysticks:
I will love to see how attractive you look.

Maybe I am attractive. Maybe I'm not.

Wiifesnatcher:
your earlier words have give you out on that, so stop asking me babysit question

Which words?

Wiifesnatcher:
you Farfalla una no get level again, be collecting money and let men be expanding the meat in between your legs till it reach swimming poll size

How did you arrive at this conclusion?

I'm anonymous. You don't know me, so how did you arrive at the conclusion that I collect money from men?

Joysticks:
Do you have guys who have chased you for 4 years.

Would you believe if I told you there is? In fact more than 4 years?

Wiifesnatcher:
that's their problem though, hook up don reduce you people level anyway

na pussy cheap pass now, guys dey Bleep with two noodles pack and egg lately

Who's "you people"?

Wiifesnatcher:
Here to read lies like say you ladies get level, na simp men dey give you girls mouth but thank God hook up have reduce you people virtue

How many men even want to marry now when all these hook up ladies are not resting

Well, simps are here to stay, so plenty girls with no virtue will still have men following them for years.
Many will even marry them. Is it not men again?

Here to read lies from dudes who've been chasing a girl for 4 years yet claiming that they don't follow girls. It's girls who follow them.

Klass99:
Farfalla, the chief analyst! See as you analyze the matter finish. I don't think it was a lack of sexual attraction on her part.

I didn't bother to go through the whole 20 pages or so, so I'm picking up small small information.
I initially thought she was dealing with a sexual prude, only to learn that he not only receives head from the OP, he also compliments her on her performance but he just won't go down on her for reasons best known to him.

Oh well...

Maryliola:
that’s the thing, I still give him head even though he doesn’t give it to me. And I know he enjoys it because he cums extremely quick and he tells me I’m the best he’s had. So I don’t know why he can’t return the favour.

1. It's possible he tried it before and it was a disgusting experience for him. Perhaps he finds it unnatural.

2. It's possible he's never tried it and is unsure of his skill in this forte. Perhaps he's afraid of putting up a disappointing performance, like that of one trying to give you head and in the process ends up looking like a guy chewing an overripe mango.

I still think he shouldn't be coerced to do what he feels uncomfortable doing. Let him do the other stuff. Kissing, fingering, etc. He fingers you, right? Please tell me he fingers you. Or does he also skip that?

Did you meet in church? Or a Shiloh-like conference if I may ask?

Clinghton:
I believe it was the spark that brought you guys together now it's lost, visit a sex therapist. Try convincing your hubby to follow you.

Some couples marry without any (or at least mutual) chemistry hoping that it will come after marriage as the years go by.

I notice that it's a common occurrence especially amongst churchy/religious folks, who are usually made to believe that sexual attraction is carnal and/or against the will of God.

I feel that this woman was never sexually attracted to the husband from the word go. They probably met in church, where agape love is encouraged, while romantic love discouraged, as it's construed as lust by most religious establishments. She was hoping that the marriage certificate would bring down the man's (probably religious) inhibitions, but to her surprise the man remains as stiff as an iron rod.

She wants a MAN. He doesn't even have to go down on her, I think she just wants somebody who turns into beast mode while making love. Somebody vulgar and dirty and hôrny. Somebody who can forget for a moment that he's an usher or choir member in his church and go crazy at the site of her nakéd body. That's what she wants, I can almost guarantee you.

Anyway, since the man isn't keen on doing anything to meet her halfway, I'll suggest she should make peace with her situation and learn how to finger herself to her satisfaction.

cococandy:
Rabid, unhinged and emotional.

No coco. That's pure "logic" displayed there.

Klass99:
Lmao
Shey you mah, you dey see as dem confuse die?

Very confused creatures.

jrusky:
Fine she no fine, she is older.....

She isn’t older than Will.

lkillbrokehoes:
I always thought will was a redpiller.

Why?