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FamilyRe: Married Last Week, Already Set For Divorce. Help A Nairalander Make A Decision by farous(m): 12:27pm On Apr 26, 2017
Apollux:
Sorry to disagree with u sir. What u just suggested is not a solution. How long will he continue to play the full and apologize to the wife when is the one wrong?
I'd suggest that the op takes his time out to really investigate this issue. Something else is involved here and he needs to find out before taking a decision.
If the marriage wont work, it will not no matter the amount of apologies he tender. Well I think he should involve his family, present the matter to them and see their response.
Gbam!. On point. This is a good time to investigate and know if the marriage will work out or not.Forget about people asking you to appologise,work on anger.blablabla.Bros,marriage can't be managed,otherwise you are entering into a hell fire instead of joyful home. Please investigate and conclude on whether to continue or pull out.Its ur life.
RomanceRe: Should I Marry This Single Mother? by farous(m): 4:10pm On Apr 12, 2017
DrObum:
OP nooooo! Look for a double mother!
hahahahah

meanwhile OP is not mature anyway,otherwise how can a man come to a public forum and be asking whether to marry so so woman or not..
SportsRe: Photos Of Ejue Juliet Ade, Ahmed Musa's Rumored Side Chic, He's About To Marry by farous(m): 8:42pm On Apr 07, 2017
Assuming Musa is single and an average clothes seller at idumota,will this girl ever look at his face??.Let's say the truth. Now Musa has money and married and this money lover is following him like housefly.Who will tall me that money is not love or that money controls all things?.
FamilyRe: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by farous(m): 8:39am On Apr 06, 2017
Solobenny:
You're not actually sane for making this comment.
CAN NEVER? I guess you've not marital stories. Are you a teen?
U are an idi.ot. Make a research and know whether what I said is true or not. Who are u. And what do you know in marital institution.If the truth must be told from this lady and she did what I suggested,she must come back here and give thanks that her marriage has been restored.
FamilyRe: I'm Tired Of My Marriage!!! Please Help by farous(m): 8:25am On Apr 06, 2017
2kaybiel:
is she a nag, a disobedient, a disrespective or unsubmissive woman?

The woman might have her own trouble which is not stated in this piece because it is rare for a man to make a threat of divorce without a reason even if he is a drunkard.
U made a point. Any sane man CAN NEVER just wake up and start beating,insulting or divorce the wife.There MUST be an untold story. I suggest she just say the truth and beg the man for forgiveness.
FamilyRe: Is It True:that Some Women Prefer Their Husband To Be Poor To Being Rich? by farous(op): 8:09am On Apr 06, 2017
Fadamant:
An aquintance of mine sacked his wife after it was revealed to him that he was poor because his wife actually visited a babalawo with her mother about the time they got married, just so to keep him poor and not go after other women. He confronted his wife and she confessed to it. Imagine that.
U r right.From the man's explanation.
FashionRe: This Lady's Body Transformation Within 50 Days Will Leave You Speechless by farous(m): 1:01pm On Apr 04, 2017
E no make sense,unless she don't need men or don't want to marry(if single),for all i know 98.5% of men need it soft
FamilyRe: Is It True:that Some Women Prefer Their Husband To Be Poor To Being Rich? by farous(op): 7:46pm On Apr 03, 2017
PaperLace:
Yes, strange but true.
Do you blame them? Every time we read of physical abuse or cheating husbands ;people immediately assume the woman deserves it for marrying a RICH MAN. Rich men are now synonymous to all the bad traits ever been exhibited in a (marital) union.

I read here on NL that the only time a man won't cheat is if he is POOR, disabled or impotent. With opinions like this spreading on cyberspace, more women would intensify their anti-prosperity vigils/movements. We should be careful of the beliefs we 'recycle'.

It has also been noted that humans 'real character' shows when they are rich. So, some men and women pray or hope their partners don't get excessively rich. It's not just a woman thing, men own is even worse. That's why some would want their wives to be jobless, or any job that the income would never run into 6digits, let alone 7 or more
I know women that hide promotions from their husbands...

Very crazy, why would any normal human not want his/her partner's success? I don't get it... it shows they have no business being together.

The poorer he/she is _ the higher the loyalty (Nigerian mentality).

Over financial independence actually comes with this spirit, if you don't have self-control and a clear plan/target _you'll find yourself reinforcing stereotype and the cycle continues.
Hmmm.Great points.
FamilyIs It True:that Some Women Prefer Their Husband To Be Poor To Being Rich? by farous(op): 6:38pm On Apr 03, 2017
Over the weekend,i was with a group of friends and was shocked when one of us narrated the experience he had over his ex wife.The story is a long one but the summary is that He said that this is a woman that derive joy and happiness seeing him Continuously struggling without making it,living in lack and poverty.That she don't want him to rise or make it but rather prefer that he remain the way he is as that gives her joy.Not until he parted ways with her and got married to another person that he started making progress which the present wife cherish.I begin to ask how true is this.
RomanceRe: Twin Sisters Marry Identical Twin Brothers In Akwa Ibom (wedding,prewedding Pics by farous(m): 9:12am On Apr 03, 2017
Nice one.But one disadvantage is that they may mistakenly/unknowingly have se.x with each other for lack of identifications.
Science/TechnologyRe: Philip Emeagwali Among The Top 10 Most Intelligent People In The World With 190 by farous(m): 9:53pm On Apr 01, 2017
DollarAngel:
Philip Emeagwali has been listed as amongst the top 10 most intelligent people in the world, having the acclaimed IQ of 190.
The Best tribe in Nigeria, we are intelligent, Creative, Hardworking, Innovative and a Blessing to Nigeria
Like if you agree, Share if you are nwa afor
"Yellowbars"and nigerians know na.That's why they don't want igbos to leave them and be on their own.immediately I saw the heading"most intelligent.....",I told my colleague that before I can open the link that I want to bet him that this person in question must be an igbo,though he did not doubt me.
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Senegal International Friendly: 1 - 1 (Full Time) by farous(m): 9:37pm On Mar 23, 2017
ReachHard:
I can't believe this thread is not even on FP yet...

But if it's to display olosho now, it won't be problem oo
I wonder oo,if its Tonto Dike or curvy sexy actress this and that,they will quickly rush and place it on FP
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu's Bail Application - Court Postpones Ruling Till April 25! by farous(m): 6:54pm On Mar 20, 2017
Igbos do this igbo do that especially by Yorubas,ok, d same igbo said they want to leave u guyz and be on their own,yet d same people shouting igbo dis igbo dat said No that igbos won't go but rather remain with them in this forced marriage called Nigeria.What does this signify.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: West Bromwich Albion Vs Arsenal (3 - 1) On 18th March 2017 by farous(m): 1:54pm On Mar 18, 2017
Why should all these Arsenal,Man U,Man City ba making a page in nairaland let alone hitting the frontpage.Of what need are all these English premier league that can't make impact in Champions league?.Bunch of local champions that can't make any significant progress in UCL.I use to feel embarrassed seing Nigerian fans shouting Up Gunners!!,UP United,up chelsea,.....etc,....for life!.Nonsensical nonsense!!!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 8 Things You Can Do To Get A Job Despite Graduating With A 2.2 by farous(m): 8:47am On Mar 18, 2017
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FCSC: A Country Where 3rd Class Is Considered Above Msc + Bsc (2.1) by farous(m): 8:41am On Mar 18, 2017
I read this morning the below pos and I also made the attached comments. Someone was even responding to my comment to get skills,bla bla bla. I don't know why we find it difficult telling ourselves the truth.So a 3rd class is now better than 2.1 with MSC.Does this not prove my point to whoever care to listen that 60 percent of jobs in Nigeria is CONNECTION. Let's keep deceiving ourselves.

https://www.nairaland.com/3688832/8-things-get-job-despite/1

farous:
Truth be told. 60 percent of jobs in Nigeria is by CONNECTION(IM-Ima mmadu).So what's this OP is talking about?.Please let's not deceive ourselves.Even many of us reading this posts that got it through CONNECTION and know that its true.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 8 Things You Can Do To Get A Job Despite Graduating With A 2.2 by farous(m): 7:59am On Mar 18, 2017
Truth be told. 60 percent of jobs in Nigeria is by CONNECTION(IM-Ima mmadu).So what's this OP is talking about?.Please let's not deceive ourselves.Even many of us reading this posts that got it through CONNECTION and know that its true
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: UEFA Champions League Quarter Final Draw by farous(m): 11:54am On Mar 17, 2017
England team never a strong football clubs, yet Nigerians fans made them their all time clubs -Man U,Chelsea,Arsenal,LiverPool,ManCity. Do you see any of them in the last eight teams??.When the like of spanish clubs that have provided themselves are there. Its madness anytime i see some people shouting: UP Gurner,United,Chelsea,........for life. Nonsensical nonsense
RomanceRe: List Of Things A Guy First Sees In A Lady Before He Walks Up To Woo Her by farous(m): 11:42pm On Mar 16, 2017
The no 1 thing that attracts 95 percent of men to ladies is big boobs and big booty.every other things are between 5 to 10 percent
CrimeRe: Air Force Personnel Carefully Planned Murder Of Girlfriend by farous(m): 11:40am On Mar 15, 2017
Kalu did wrong and should be jailed for life.Though generally men especially igbos hate other men tasting their woman's stuff,but at the same time why did he go for a yoruba lady knowing quiet well that they including their married women hardly stay with one di..ck and that adultery and fornication is like food to them
FamilyRe: "I Regret Divorcing My Former Husband, The Beating I Receive Now Is Worse" by farous(m): 8:42pm On Mar 13, 2017
An indication that the woman has been secretly dating the present husband and comitting adultery with other men while with the former husband.Definetly She sleeps around with other men.I tire for yoruba marriage.
PoliticsPls Let PMB Remain Indoor In His House Or Aso Rock While PYO Continues by farous(op): 11:06am On Mar 10, 2017
My people,I made the above statement in one of the post I saw yesterday in this forum that PMB is coming back today and to the Glory of God he is back.Welcome back Mr. Presido.However,my people,pls I know that Mr. Presido mean well for Nigerians but we the masses are the one to access your score card and not the selfish politicians that don't know the suffering of the masses for long,hence let's forget about party affiliations,tribe and selfish interest and join the crusade of advising PMB to relax in his house or inside Aso rock and allow Osibanjo to keep piloting the affairs of this country.He has done well with the little time he has been incharge and if we can tell ourselves the truth,we all have seen it and that PMB is incompentence.Let's forget where you come from or party this and that,afterall,I am a PDP igbo man but I don't care but rather interested on the welfare of the suffering Nigerian masses under PMB.
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Strolling On The Street Of London (Photos) by farous(m): 9:43pm On Mar 09, 2017
I would suggest even if PMB come back,let him stay in his house or indoor at Aso rock and let Osibanjo continues.Truly Osibanjo is better than PMB,so that the country will be geeting better day by day rather than getting worse day by day if the dullard take over again.Let's we the masses carry out this protest for the benefit of this country and avoid sentiments for we the masses are the one feeling the impact of PMB incompetency
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh: My Boyfriend While Single Was Igbo, I Never Said I Can’t Marry Igbo by farous(m): 7:11pm On Mar 06, 2017
Another name for nairaland.com is Tontodike.com
FamilyRe: "My Husband Agreed I Date Our Labourer" - Wife by farous(m): 5:14pm On Mar 06, 2017
Immediately i see the heading,i dont bother again to read it for i know that anything regarding adultery and divorce is always the Yorubas.Please somebody that have read the story should quote me if i am wrong and whether its not yorubas.
FamilyRe: Man Catches His Wife Sleeping With Her Ex On Their Matrimonial Bed In Ibadan by farous(m): 9:31am On Mar 04, 2017
nkwuocha:
Well, I'm surprised at the rate your brothers are trooping down SE to marry those Oloshos as you claim.This last Christmas, many of your folks seem to come prepared just to meet up with the standard(s) obtainable here. smiley smiley


My guess was right! Catholics don't divorce.
U are right my dear. Igbos maintain honours marriage institution more than any other tribes in this country and Catholic church take marriage more serious and respects the institution and don't divorce.80 percent of all the divorce and adulterous news we hear every time is Yorubas.It is high time we started organising a campaign against this both in newspapers and social media on the incessant divorce and adulterous life of the Yorubas and how to curb it and respect marriage institutions.
FamilyRe: Man Catches His Wife Sleeping With Her Ex On Their Matrimonial Bed In Ibadan by farous(m): 8:44pm On Mar 03, 2017
Why is it that Yorubas are rated first in terms of d tribe dat have no respect for marriage institution,divorce rate and adulterous life?
PoliticsRe: Nigerians Are Gradually Forgetting President Buhari by farous(m): 8:27pm On Feb 27, 2017
True talk
PoliticsRe: FG Appoints 5 New Directors, General Manager For NCAA by farous(m): 6:29pm On Feb 27, 2017
.....and no igbo ?. Issorit!
Christianity EtcRe: Ebube Muonso Seeks Amnesty For Nnamdi Kanu by farous(m): 10:16am On Feb 27, 2017
sarrki:
The truth is he must ask for forgiveness from Nigeria nation as a whole

He must also ask for forgiveness from Mr president

And other 120 conditions attached

If he will meet all the condition then he will be out by 2035
U are an idi..ot.Do u have any fear of God in u?,mention single thing Kanu did that warrants this illegal and marginalized detention or tell me whether what he said and fighting for Igbos is true or not. Let people for God's sake always speak truth and call spade a spade. Once again you are a big fool.ish idi..ot.
PoliticsRe: James Ibori Hosts Ayiri Emami And His Children At His Residence In Delta (Photos by farous(m): 11:41pm On Feb 26, 2017
ajuwarhodes:
See those kids holding and hugging a thief...don't they teach current affairs in schools anymore?
At least they shld have known he's a thief,an ex convict...and a man who's robbing them of their future
Lol. The stolen money made their Daddy d billionaire he is today. That's Naija for u. Even most ladies here in nairaland will like to associate with Ibori if they have d opportunity or marry him if they discover Ibori want to marry another wife and still have enough billions of naira stocked somewhere.What a world!
CelebritiesRe: Muma Gee Files For Divorce From Prince Eke, Over Domestic Violence (photos) by farous(m): 4:28pm On Feb 26, 2017
Many people do have the assumption that why must a man beat his wife forgetting that there are some women that are devil personified.They can make a man to leave his house hundred folds when annouyed to avoid laying their hands on their woman,yet the woman can't change.He has exploits all avenues to ensure he did not beat d woman yet to no avail.No man can just wake up and start beating his wife.Let's always look at d side of women as well and know that not every woman is a wife material or meant to be married,men should know that signing a marriage certificate is atimes an invitation to hell fire when you marry the wrong wife.

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