₦airaland Forum

The rate of insecurity in the country is very alarming that many can hardly sleep comfortably because of the fear of the men of the underworld. Atimes one may be gripped with fear what if they come to ones house and demanded for money and you start giving them story that you dont have money to give them,and what they can do to the person. Nobody wishes that such happen to him/her

So is it advisable to keep a specific amount of money in the house untouched to settle them should such happen rather than giving excuses that you dont have anything to give them especally if truly you dont have even a penny in the house with you because you cant tell what they will do if you tell them such an excuse.

APC is Falani party and can never win any election.Its even PDP that made mistake by not giving Maduka the ticket.

Every Anambrarians knew that Andy Uba can never make 5th position among the contestants let alone wining the election.He is only good in using the federal might( ruling) to rig the election which have been done whether Ndi Anambra like it or not. It's a pity. The question now is what should Ndi Anambra do for being imposed Andy Uba on them.

90 Percents of Igbos need Biafra. Take it or leave it

Nedu's Ex Wife: You are a disgrace and shame to womenfolk.

Ashawo, olosho, public toilet, free toto for everybody that you cross.Some are even saying it's the sister's husband that gave her belle. Shameless ashawo. I wonder why you have not committed suicide by now

Look at the idi.ot that would have hide her head in shame and do everything possible to please her husband knowing the kind abormination she committed and still under the man's roof

I pity Nedu.

Following the dismal performance of Arsenal football club by losing two of their consecutive matches,Arteta has been under pressure to leave the club by resigning immediately. Noticing that his woes will be compounded as their next match is against Man City, Arteta has rushed and in a close door meeting with his former Boss - Pep Guardiola to save his head by allowing him win the next match (3rd Match) of the season against Man City as losing three straight opening matches no doubt means an end of the road for him.

Guardiola is so reluctant to assent to the plead knowing quit well that he lost his first match against Tottenham and a lost of the 3rd Match will also put his own job at risk. The meeting is still ongoing with Arteta deploying all he could to win the heart of Guardiola.

What do you think will be the outcome and the consequences?. #Help@Arteta

Amidst the rate of unemployment in the country,how lucrative and money yielding it is for one to establish a tutorial centre for only science based subjects for WASSCE, NECO,GCE, UME and how can one venture into it.

50k? Mcheeww = 1Million for 20 Youths. Can 50k feed them in a month.

The event alone can gulp even N15M to organise it

Imagine!

I don't believe in the general saying of most people that " men are polygamous in nature". I have interacted with a man who told me that he has never for one day as a married man seen any woman and started having sexual feelings /lusting over her except his wife.

He went ahead and explained that he would have suspected whether the wife did one thing or the other to him for any woman never to look attractive before him let alone having feelings for any other woman expect she,but on the other thought, that the wife has everything in a woman -Good character, very beautiful woman,more than good in bed and ever ready for it, that most times he is the one that runs away from sex and that she is very supportive. That may be it's all these qualities that made him never dream of looking outside let alone having feelings for any of woman or engage in extra marital affair.

We begin to ask, what exactly make men to engage in extra marital affairs-sleeping around with other women apart from their wives?. Share your views.

Though risky and not really the best option but it depends on how your wife can be trusted for its more an avenue attached with a string of immortality where some randy men can woo even a married woman. They will hide under being a customer when they were not but know what they want and can spend anything to lure the woman. Think well before going into it to avoid collapse of your marriage

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South Easterners and their leaders should summon courage and speak and fight against all these rubbish of killing their innocent Youths before this get out of hand. I don't know why they are afraid to speak out and fight this evil orchestrated by the Fulanis. Speak out now before it's too late

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Can a graduate with over 13 years working experience accept job offer of N85,000 monthly salary simply because the person's company had challenges and is out of job.

The daily transport to and fro to work is atleast N1,500 and such a person will still have to buy and eat morning and afternoon food,dress well and has a family. Above all,because of traffic and distance to workplace,such a person will be leaving house atleast by 5am and coming home can reach 10pm.

Is it worth it?,Kindly advise

Please advice is needed.

chatinent:
Going to see seers. Fck up.


Story. Fck up.

.damn.

Please kindly note that this is a serious matter that is giving a great concern to your fellow being.

Please the SEER here is neither a native doctor nor babalawo or Witch doctor. All are Christians-Good men of God - Pastor, Prophets with prayer ministries with clean records. Having a Pastor,Prophets or prayer warriors whom you share some life challenging situations even though you are also praying on your own is not a bad idea and that is the category the man in question(husband)met. So don't mistake using seers to quantify it.Again he did not have the wife in mind when going rather in the process of praying for him and thereafter giving him messages with prayers,such wife issue (message) will be revealed. Please understand the point

Thank you.

In one of the counseling session,a man confided that due to some challenges on how things are going that atimes he goes to meet seers for spritual evaluation and assistance and that some of the messages he do get is that his wife is not faithful to him that she do sleep with other men and that he knows what it means to a man still sleeping with such a woman or eating what she cook as such act is one of the things that constitute to his challenges of success and some of the difficulties he do face.

He said that he never take it serious but on a second note he decided to be worried that if like four persons can summon courage and give him such same message which most seers can find difficult to tell any man even when they see such a revelation for fear of not splitting the family or causing divorce for the husband and wife,then it calls for concern.

He said he had sat the wife down and asked her severally that this is one of the messages he used to get about her most times he goes for spiritual direction/help over the way things are going in the family that he is not happy with the message but the message will keep coming up.The wife denied severally that may be what they are still seeing may be the one that happened when she and her husband had five months separation when they have differences which she told the husband when they United again which the husband forgive despite that the husband said that even one man of God had already given him the message that she slept with another man before the wife made the confession during reunion .She said that since they have resolved their differences and get united,that she had never slept with another man apart from him(the husband)

The husband was so worried that even when he decided to tell one of the seers that may be it was the one that happened when they separated that is still being revealed, the seer said not that it's not but that's what she is doing.

Knowing well that this kind of matter is hardly revealed between couples to avoid causing problem between them, and even the person(s) that gave the message if known, otherwise taking her to any of them or a way she can prove herself can it offer solution or is it to keep ignoring the message despite the adverse effect it do have on a man considering the tradition of where he comes from and the effects it ha to any man whose wife slept(sleeping) with another man(men). The husband agreed that if she can open it and tell her the truth so they can again go and do the traditional cleansing the way it's used to be done in their side to avoid the effects it do have on the man and family that he is still willing to forgive her but he doubt whether she can tell the truth

Please a kind advice on how to handle this matter is needed. Please a mature and genuine advice is necessary over this challenging matter as well as how it can be handled to avoid affecting the marriage.

Piggyyeaster1:
Go and blow up Niger bridge so that you Ibos will not be able to come to Nigeria and Nigerians wouldn't be able to go to Ibo land

Please this is a serious question. Let's face the fact.For instance you that is saying this, can you tell me why you don't want me to go.or if you and I are married and the marriage is not working, why should you insist we must stay together when I am agitating that I need divorce?

Nigeria alow Igbos to go: -----No we won't allow them

Ok, stop marginalising them -----No we won't

Ok,allow them with their peaceful agitation as they are not a terrorist group - No we won't,they are terrorist group.

Ok,if you call those that don't carry arm a terrorist group,what can you can Boko Haram & Herdsmen terrorising everywhere and killing people with guns and arms - They are not Terrorist but group agitating for their right.

The statements (Injustice)are endless as meted to Igbos.

Please let's tell ourselves the truth,any responsible person irrespective of your tribe knew that Igbos are unfairly treated and they that their agitation to go their separate is in order and they are peaceful in their struggle for liberation from slavery and bondage in the entity called Nigeria.

My question is why did Nigeria refuse to allow Igbos to go their separate ways?

Please considering that sperm are produced regularly in men. Is there any side effects for men who don't ejaculate (pour it out) for fresh ones to keep filling up which we know is always through se.x or masturbation and what effects does it has on men that don't engage in any of these even for several years.

Yoruba the most coward tribe in Nigeria. Take it or leave it,that's not my business

My friend call your wife and tell her pointblank that you are not comfortable with it and that she should cut off with the guy as simple as that. If you leave this to grow,I bet you,you will regret it. Forget about jovial bla bla,there is every possiblity that the guy use to bed her.

Let me tell you,some woman are smart. Do you know your wife can be calling him or talking about him in your present just to keep your mind off from suspicion but behind your back, they are doing something you can't believe. It's a game because she know when she starts hiding it, you will suspect her the more. This same game also applies to men. Act now before it's too late. It's better you speak out and she still continue and hiding it from you for one day you must catch her and sent her packing than for you to keep quiet and they will be taking you as mumu when another man is secretly connected and browsing your network

All comments noted.

It is never a good experience one can wish to any husband to be. It's like a hellish experience so to say. It is more than encouraging that one should carefully date extensively to detect some characters before deciding on who to make a partner for one of the cardinal point in marriage is happiness and there can be hardly state of happiness in a situation like this. Those that have not wore such shoe may not understand properly and nobody prays for such to anybody

One of the best thing Governor of Enugu State did was the hiring of Steven Gerald,a former Liverpool legend as the Manager of Rangers Football club,Enugu. Rangers is now the best club in Nigeria football

She is a graduate

The most surprising thing that will atimes make you begin to think whether this person is truly a human being with conscience and reasoning is that you are open to her both in finance and other things right from the time of the marriage till date and will call her explain all you are passing through both financial challenges,and challenges on what you are doing to the extent you don't have and have most times borrowed and borrowed money from different sources just to fend the family. She can never for one day ask you how far about that thing you said or how are we going to do it. All hers is this man must provide.Truly just like somebody commented here,it's like a man bring in Hellfire

Honestly this experience is annoying and need to share and hear from men that have encountered this kind of wife or in this kind of marriage

You are a man and you married a woman for years and she doesn't care how you take care of all family expenses -feeding the family,accommodation,Kids, etc infact every single expenses in the house and whether the man has a financial challenges,lost of job and out of job etc is never her concern and can never ask you how you are managing to take care of family and she doesn't work or care to be interested in what contribution she can make to run the family.

She is of the assumption that it is the duty of only the man to take care of both her,the kids,all family expenses and doesn't have any concern even if no single food in the house and the husband has no money is never her concern or to think on what to do. Hers is that she and the children must eat whether the husband has money or not and she will just relax on the mentality that once the children eat,she must eat irrespective of whatever the man is passing through financially is never her concern and cannot even ask you

As annoying as this kind of situation may be, how do you handle or cope with such type of wife.

Man City

It is you and not your friend. I don't know why you are covering up and using your friend.

venger:
The truth is no sane human being will want to associate with Igbo because they represent mayhem. It is the greedy politician that is still keeping this force marriage. I wish to wake up in a country that there will be no Igbo. God caused the day that the British brought us together. Spit

Making a point and providing the answer to my question (which you have not) is better than being tribalistic.What I asked is a National issue(IPOB agitation) affecting the country as it's causing a National and international concern. I simply want to know why not allowed to go than forcing them to stay

Please I am not here to be tribalistic. I am here to seek clarification from the "know whys". I have thought severally why is it that if some section of a country wants to pull out and be on their own, they will be denied to do so or it will results to s battle. Taking marriage between s man and woman as an example in which the marriage is not working,ofcourse divorce is allowed to go their separate ways. Why is country's seccesion different just like the Igbos have been agitating that they want to divorce and go their separate ways as they are no longer comfortable living together with Hausa/Fulani,Yoruba etc, but they were told NO, you won't go anywhere but must stay together with us.Is there anything like a world constitution that doesn't accept that?

Truly I don't understand this and please can those that know the reason for the "NO" educate me more on this.

Thank you.

Igbo-Yoruba marriage is not always common. Igbo -Niger Delta or igbo- North Central works better than Igbo - Yoruba.

Yoruba -Yoruba is always common