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farous:
My friend's son was among those that did the passing out parade last Sunday 25th September 2016 at Obubra NYSC orientation camp,Cross River state.He is a graduate and according to the father,he said he paid sixty thousand naira for the uniform and other materials to be given to them and the training lasted for one month(August 26th -Sept.25th) in which you are the one taking care of yourself in the training camp and he was happy when the son said that it is government job approved by the national assembly to start once they finish the training.
But on the day of passing out,they gave them only certificate for the training and told them they will wait until government call them to start and they all will collect their respective uniforms from their various commands headquarters when they start.How can they start waiting and for how long?if they know they are not yet ready,why starting the training with payment of such an amount of money with other expenses and stress involved.Please who know much about this Peace Corps,are they real or fake?

Nobody commented on this,does it mean nobody know much about them.

My friend's son was among those that did the passing out parade last Sunday 25th September 2016 at Obubra NYSC orientation camp,Cross River state.He is a graduate and according to the father,he said he paid sixty thousand naira for the uniform and other materials to be given to them and the training lasted for one month(August 26th -Sept.25th) in which you are the one taking care of yourself in the training camp and he was happy when the son said that it is government job approved by the national assembly to start once they finish the training.
But on the day of passing out,they gave them only certificate for the training and told them they will wait until government call them to start and they all will collect their respective uniforms from their various commands headquarters when they start.How can they start waiting and for how long?if they know they are not yet ready,why starting the training with payment of such an amount of money with other expenses and stress involved.Please who know much about this Peace Corps,are they real or fake?

Nice one. Saraki a master politician. ...clearing the ground for 2019 presidency.

one thing i dont understand for this Biafra matter is WHY IS IT THAT IGBOS SAY THEY WANT TO PULL OUT AND BE ON THEIR OWN AND OTHER NIGERIANS REFUSE TO GRANT THEM DOING SO.Please can somebody explain to me the reason other Nigerians are forcefully refused to allow them go.I thought if somebody say he or she dont want to be part of you anymore,such person will be allowed to go.

Hear me loud and clear "Two of you MUST cheat".write it down,especially if any or both of you have high libido and two things: its either it break the marriage or two of you ignore what happened and still get re united.

Kulas:
I hope this lady is not trying to advertise herself and the business she is into.Anything can happen in Nigeria,its matter of sit down and use your brain and think to know how you can get it.This story may be fake but trying to use it and create attention and made herself public figure,afterall,she wrote her name there which i know many may resort searching that name.Rubbish!.Even if there is element of truth there,many have returned more than hundred thousand naira and kept quiet without publicizing their name.I smell fake in the story but rather an attempt to create attention and publicity

Exactly!. The stu:pid lady is just marketing herself and her business to the world through social network,imagine putting her picture and name as well.What a fake story indeed.Admin kindly remove this trash and fake story from front page.

haywire07:
We can browse dis if we need it naw

hahahhah,u re very correct.

Kudos to Pastor Mouka the GO of Lords Chosen Charismatic Renewal Movement.I think it will be nice for others to toe the same step.

Nigerian Pastor Bar Robbers, Prostitutes, Kidnappers From Giving Offerings And Tithe
admin | March 27, 2016 | 7 Comments

The General Overseer of The Lord”s Chosen Charismatic Revival Movement, Pastor Lazarus Muoka, has again, barred armed robbers, prostitutes, cult­ists, women on trousers and kid­nappers from giving offerings, pledges and paying tithes in the church.

This is even as the revival preacher urged Nigerians to turn to God in repentance for divine intervention that would lead to the revival of economic and political fortunes of the country.

Preaching to hundreds of thou­sands of worshippers that con­verged on the headquarters of the church at Ijesha, Lagos for the last lap of the two-day crusade, Muoka harped that God is not interested in ill-gotten wealth and riches but want everybody to worship him in truth and in spirit.

Hear him: “If you are here and you are an armed robber, a kid­napper, cultist, adulterer, among others and you don’t want to re­pent, please we urge you not to give offering, tithe or pledge be­cause we are here to lead people to Christ and not money.

“The God who called us is al­ways with us and we know that God will supply all our needs including money to finance the church. We urge you to repent from all evil and God will forgive you and give you good business that conforms with the word of God.

“We may not know you but God knows you and will judge you if you go against his will.”

Speaking on the topic, God has power to do all things, Muoka said the Church would not fail to fore-warn evildoers against giving ill-gotten wealth to God who is the owner of all things.

He noted that the crusade, which coincided with Easter cel­ebration, was designed to produce a spiritual rebirth that would bring about restoration, salvation and Holy Ghost baptism.

He furthered that “there shall be a fulfilment of God’s good pur­poses in the life of participants through which they shall experi­ence a total transformation as evi­dent that God can do all things.”

The Imo state-born preacher stated that ”God inspired the cru­sade to draw our attention to the fact that our success does not lie on our ability but on what God can do, for God alone can do this or that vis-à-vis our supplications.”

He noted that human problems exist because “we do not recognize the fact that God has the ability to turn-around our situation no mat­ter how bad it may seem to be. You limit God by seeking other means but that is lack of knowledge. The truth is that, God has the power to cause the barren to conceive, the lame to walk, the blind to see and the captives to be freed.

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Bunch of ..........,only Victor Moses,Mikel,Iwobi and Akpeyi are supposed to be retained in SE.

Thank you all for all ur comments and contributions.I do discipline him but I doesn't shout or keep beating him.I give him punishment,talks with him don't do this or that and play with him.Honestly,he doesn't feel comfortable if I am not home.This I believe has made him to be more closer to me than my wife.Even if its travel that will warrants him to travel with his mother and stays for a week,he won't agree to follow her unless I will follow them.All these I keep on telling her that she can see what her attitude has caused,yet dat didn't deter him.It pains me that I see my son of such age telling lies because of fear.That I won't tolerate,and if out of anger she harm d child,everything will be on my head because I know she will start begging and calling its devil that she didn't know it will be as such.I need to put it at a stop no matter what it can lead to.

Dyt:
Nope
I have a handful 3 year old son too, when I mean handful I mean really really handful
I shout
I give him iladi
I talk

The things I have noticed is they need attention most
I have decided no iladi
No shouting but threaten not to buy him anything or take him out and then he behaves
Cries and comes to me
You she not say sorry for me
Daya say sorry for me


And that's how its been working
When I am angry he knows its time to behave else mum won't buy him anything



But na wa for your wife ooo
I have leant not to judge people but seriously
Using cane on a four year old boy?
Doesn't she feel bad hearing him cry?
Devil pushed her to beat her own child?
Your wife must be one
Sorry to say

Noted. @"No shouting but threaten not to buy him anything or take him out and then he behaves
Cries and comes to me".

The way my wife used to beat and shout to our four year and eight months old child is causing a ripple among us.Though the child is that age,but whoever see him may think he is seven years old and he proves so stubborn if told to do this or that,he can play and play and play,etc,yet constant beating even with hand and shouting on him did not help matters.I have told her severally to stop beating and shouting on him at any slight things he do since it did not change him as she can out of annouyance wound him or cause harm to him and before you know it,we start calling devil,that its devils work and devil pushed you.Besides,in the estate where we stay,its normally only in our house that you keep on hearing everytime the crying of a beating child,i told her that this used to bring our respect down before other neighbours as all of us are learned people and why only many times its always in our own house you will be hearing such as if we are illiterates or uncivilized people,atimes he can be beaten and cry up to four,five times in a day,while you cannot hear such cry from the children of other neighbours arround us and that even the way you beat and shout on him puts fear on him and shouting can affects childs brain and the child can be acting abnormal,i took time to make a research on google and printed materials on the effects of shouting on a child and give it to her to read,she just throw away the materials.She will be saying that her own parent train her well ,that i am supporting the child.I told her that if this is her your parents trained you,that means it not a normal training and whether she has seen any positive change in all her constant beating and shouting to the child.
Now most times he will do something and when asked,he will tell lie that he dont know or that it is not him,all because of fear.Many atimes,i pity my son because of regular beating and crying on him from my wife even with hand.
I have told her severally that since beating and shouting did not change him,that she should simply leave him and anytime she want to punish him,he can politely call him and tell him that what he did is not good and never do it another time or to give him a punishment of kneeling down and hands up or other similiar punishment and if at worst that it involves beating, to slightly use cain and not heavily hitting and beating him with hand or cain as if you are beating an animal and that her attitude is causing more harm on him because you dont need to train a child so that he will be afraid or fear you or act normal when you are arround because of fear,that means when you are not arround he will continue with such attitude or even do the worst and keep telling lies,that you train a child in a way that whether you are arround or not he acts well,that is what ever he can do when you are arround is what he can do when you are not arround likewise being a truthful child and not a liar because of fear.All these advice,did not deter her as she keep on beating and shouting on him as usual and i dont think i will allow such any more or train my child as such.But i need advice especially from the married, is beating and shouting to a child the best way to train a child?

Difficult for all d msgs to be fake.Something is wrong somewhere.Simply take it easy and seek a solution.Best of luck!

Hmm,where is this world heading to?,So fornication is no longer a sin and is normal that pple are not even condenming their act.You distance from se.x during that 70 days,thereafter u resume.Pls find a good church that can preach u and call a spade a spade so that you can repent.As you are,can you call yourslef and ur slut girl a born again?,hypocrites at d highest level.

Introduction to 2019 political game 101. PMB and APC will learn a lesson..

Why castrating...,when his di:ck is affected in d process and can't even stand erect again,u will come here complaining and looking for outside to get satisfaction.Believe me or not but I want to tell u that in my marriage of years now,we have never use condom,yet we make love when we want,we have kids n none of d pregnacies was by chance.We have never use contraceptives.All I do is WITHDRAWAL METHOD and are now used to it.I am d driver and knows when to pull out n pour out no matter how d pleassure.It has been working for us without any single mistake recorded.

Women need men to fufil TWO holes for them to be happy:UPPER HOLE(Mouth)-money,food,material things. LOWER HOLE(honey pot)-quality,satisfying ans sound se.x. Every man suppose to meet up with d demands of these two holes,if d two are met-it brings happy ,stable union,if one is met n d other lacking,it may still be managing but not d best and if the two are lacking,na real gbesee.So ur own case is one is missing,so try and meet up with the one that is lacking.The truth is that whether we believe it or not,majority of d divorce cases and quarrel or misunderstanding we have in marriages is based non fulfilling of the two holes followed by one hole not getting fulfilled.

Whoever visits this forum on regular basis and goes through most of the posts in this forum will definitely agree with me that most of the bashing you witnessed in this forum is always between the Igbos and the Yorubas.The two tribes always attack,criticize,talk against,etc each other and this no doubts promotes tribalism and hatred between the two tribes.Why is it only these two tribes?,i begin to wonder if they are the only tribes that make up Nigeria.Where are the Hausa's,the Ijaw's,Fulani's,Efiks etc,are they member of this forum at all.Why Yorubas and Igbos all the time.Please lets put this a stop for i dont think it can in anyway help any of the two tribes and Nigeria in general.

Joel3:
op go to sexuality section. search deep and deep you will see some thread there we have dealt with this case many years ago. around 2006-2007-2008 although with my former id.

there is something i teach or did to a girl who end up never want to leave me again. at first she never allow me to do it. but when i forced my way to do it to her she end up not wanting my dick penetration again but that thing constantly. she has high sex drive so she keep Cummin multiple times without my dick or having me to wine waiste to penetrate her.

there are secret things God hide in every individual one can only learnt them through exploration. squeeze your woman don't be scared explore her. draw her hair lick and breath hot breath with your mouth on her ear. press her ass. play with her clitoris. wine her pvssy with you lap. you don't even need to penetrate to satisfy her.


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Noted

oloriB:
Moderators can this move to front page. Lot of marriages are going through this and sometimes the men don't want to know if the wife is satisfied all. Some men just enter the place do for some minutes and come, e don finish. Nothing for the woman again! It is terrible. Making live to a woman is beyond touch, it is the heart you need to touch first.

Yes lot of marriages are going through this.Most men want to know if they are doing the work well n if their wives are satisfied,but many people do shy away from discussing this which is not suppose to be considering d havoc-infidelity,divorce etc it is causing in marriage institution.

Thanks for all d comments.I have learnt a lot,picking so points here that its not about how long but about pre intimacy,etc.Also what happen in a situation ur partner has a high libido,can't it be an issue if d man doesn't last long or not strong so as to match with her regular sexual demand

The rate of divorce these days are high where wives are saying my husband cannot this and that before the court,hence that she need divorce and this atimes occassioned the cause of such divorce.So when then can he confirmed being ok in bed and that you the wife is happy and satisfied in getting what you want.

Hello married Nlders,please when can you confidently say that he is good,strong and active in bed.I do hear some men say they can go three ,four ,five rounds at a go,is it true?,and i will begin to have a sense of guilt within me that it seems i am not doing my work well and i find it very difficult to believe that a man can go like five rounds,truly,i have never gone such-three,four,five at a glance,rather i normally go just one which can last atleast 25min to 35min before pouring out and immediately after that,thats all,unless i have to relax for enough time or sleep before the next encounter,if atall the next encounter will come up,the point here is that i must relax for a longer time or sleep before the next episode and not just pour out now and immediately start another pounding in the next one or two minutes which i think is what those men i heard mentioning they can go three,four,five may be at a stake.Also i do hear some men complain that they last maximum of 5 min before pouring out and probably start again immediately.Please what exactly is the real definition that he is good or strong in bed.Please an open and sincere answer is needed.Married women or medical doctors,etc in this forum can be at best in providing answer to this question.

Cutehector:
Hello, thr r good jobs out dr dat can pay u more dan dat without one roaming abt in the streets.. Banks should just go to hell!

This was what i told her.Imagine 30k roaming the street.

A Relation of mine was seeking an advice of how she can meet up the bank sales target of N7Million monthly.Early this month,she was employed in one of these banks as a contract staff of thirty thousand naira(N30,000) monthly salary that can neither cater for her feeding and transport,let alone other bills and all of them were mandated to meet up a target of N7M every month by sourcing for people that will come and deposit money in the bank.The condition for confirming her is she meeting up N7M for a period of 6 months.She also complained that her fiance is against such job due to the kind stories he used to hear about ladies doing this kind of job and trying to meet up with such target,but she insists on picking it as staying idle in the house don tire her.

Bros u dey try self,u be nice and good guy to be tolerating this rubb.ish from a flirt.She is unfaithful.I hope she is not from one particular side I m suspecting wey their women both married n unmarried dey use mess like food,even under d noise of they hubby,they can cheat.Its a pity,send her packing or u place "Magun" on her so that weda na her ex or anyman wey cross her ........,both she n d man go ........,u know d rest!

The wife is jobless and the husband is not gainfully employed.Now, the nature of the job is that you will be working for the company and your position will be Executive Marketer who will be sourcing for buyers and sellers of properties-houses,Lands,etc and you must be placed to meet so so target,just like the way they use some ladies in the banking indurstry and place them to meet some targets.Also the salary and take home depends on the targets you are given and how you meet up with it.Using the Banking Marketing Ladies as a case study which many know what is involved in such a job or what they encounters atimes in a bid to meet such a target,can you allow your wife to pick such job?.Advise pls!

@madridguy, thanks for the advice,although all you mentioned have been applied,honestly its only somebody who wears this kind of shoe in his/her marriage knows how painful it is.It brings down the love to zero level.

@kle4d,i view your point because when a man applied all the necessary tools to know if she can put an end to such attitude and all failed,the person will begin to ask himself,what else can he do to solve this chronic problem?,is it solvable atall- something of more than 6 years?,what else to do that has not been done?,and thats the essence of posting this to get advice from people who have witnessed this or know people that have witnessed such or to offer an advice if any that have not been offered.

jascon1:
The solution is to look for marriage expert to counsel u

such steps were taken and yet did not find a lasting solution."very chronic"-refuse to go attitude

If your wife of more than 6years of marriage is a chronic liar,and nothing you have not done to know if she can change,all to no result.have sat her down severally and talked to her,yet no change.Everybody knows that one of the destructive tools in marriage is telling lies(lack of trust).One of the effect of this on the side of the man is that it has reduced the love he has on her almost to zero level.A wife that has made telling lies as a second nature,she sees it as '"a normal thing",the conscience doesnt blame her. Please is there any solution again to this?