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SAMBARRY:
she doesn't however she has stated what she wants, boyfriend not husband.awon eyan no manners.even the Bible Said be it unto you according to your faith.

Awon potential ",joro please hide id"

cristy149:
I just gave this a thought, how could i be billed a huge sum of money for someone that isn't a virgin.
Some have been used up to the extent of damaged wombs and i will still pay huge sum for dowry, isn't that daylight robbery

Kalatium:
Just like you among the ones denying the truth just to safe face. When deep down you know its true.

Silentgroper:
Haaaa! I got u ... It's either u're lowkey a lesbian or u're bi

Zzor:
What a loving man, which lady wouldn't want such a man, I need my simp beside me as soon as possible. God bless all simps

czarr:
People, both guys and girls find it easy to tell me anything, their desires and fears and also things that they normally shouldn't tell anyone.

Once they are talking to me they start spilling secrets that make me uncomfortable, i start to feel weird, even complete strangers as long as i give a listening ear would tell me their secrets and basically a run down of their life story.

Vikkoh:
Enjoy the rest of your day, dear.

Vikkoh:
You're always online — I see your comment on every thread in Romance section.
You clearly don't make money because if to say you dey hustle one or two, you no go get time take dey post comments everywhere so ...

Adejoncy01:
I ignored her because I don't respond to kids. I can't stoop too low. You should have done the same.

Vikkoh:
Your usage of that picture and your always attacking Nigerian Men shows how Nigerian Men disgusts you.
You sure say you go see husband marry so?

Adejoncy01:
At least, she has most of the things I wanted in a woman. Not dull, humble, beautiful �

Adejoncy01:
Okay. I'll be brief as much as possible.
I feel like sharing this story with you, my dear Nairalanders and I hope you pick a thing or two from it, or perhaps be entertained.

It all began when I started seeking admission to a popular university in the country, I met this girl, should I say miraculously or as fate would have it. An admission list had been leaked so I got her details and contacted her. We got talking as mere friends and I started developing feelings for her. At least, she has most of the things I wanted in a woman. Not dull, humble, beautiful her dad is of the same tribe as mine even though her mother is of different tribe. She's obviously well brought up, as far as my brain can take me.

I made my interest known to her, after running a background check with the help of a friend who happens to be a relative of hers. Yes, I didn't just wanted to flirt with her or something as I was not that type. I needed a friend who would be there whenever I need someone, forever, till death do us apart.

So, she requested we know our genotypes before starting anything serious. Prior to this time, I didn't know about mine. I went to the school clinic and conducted the test. The results came out and they said I was AS, the same with hers. This was early last year.

Painfully, I have to forget about this lady I liked so much even as I type this. I wanted conducting another genotype test since then but laziness and fear of it turning out to be the same results won't let me.

However, I finally mustered courage to run some last month and they said I was AA. When my elder sister who was a nurse saw the results in my room, she asked why I wasted my time to go conduct the tests as all of them that did it came out as AA.

Now, I don't want to go back and tell the lady anything again as I don't want to be seen as being clingy and obsessed. I have to move on. But, if the chance ever present it self, I wouldn't think twice before considering her. I'll forget about all these ones I'm just using to while away time.

Here is a lesson worth sharing with you today; never trust a laboratory test in Nigeria. Confirm it from places. I hope this story is worth the time �

ledaman:
It is better marrying old rags and be happy, then denying inside as a stupid and irresponsible spinster like you modafooker

onyxo76:
i got married 11 years ago, a few months to my wedding, i and a female co worker had some fun together since our spouses to be were not in town and we helped ourselves to prevent loneliness.
the female co worker also got married about a year after i did, and has 2 kids presently.
we have not seen each other since when i got married and had to relocate to another state.
she got my phone number from a friend some 4 years and we chat from time to time and sometimes request for some financial assistance from me to meet some needs, i send her some amount if i can but not everytime.
recently she has been asking that i pay her a visit in her city, that she would love to see me again etc.i have turned down her request severally but she keeps saying that i don't want to see her and so on.
i told her that ill try and pay a visit early next year and she's been saying i will stay the night to which i declined as i have no excuse to tell my spouse that i will be away from home for the night.
I'm considering cutting her off completely but I'm thinking of how to go about it, but at the same time i feel it will be quite harsh as she's quite a nice person, I'm simply not comfortable with her eagerness to see me, or is she having a troubled marriage ?

Silentgroper:
How's my mindset negative? .. Look at that picture and tell me what it depicts

Silentgroper:
Why do u have a girl trying to fingasa anoda girl pics on ur d.p .. Are u bi

Kriss216:
This boy, you still never borrow sense
Please don't end this year like this, abeg.

Kalatium:
Yea she is vomiting out the truth.

Mide3367:
Marriage in this century is scam. Marriage as lost its relevance. In shot no man should marry because it doesn't favour men. It is Virgina people's retirement package after they might have bleeped all the dick they can at their whoring stage of their lives (15-25) then they will realise that ha no more time o. Then they will become committed to a stupid simp who will feel like wow she loves me blah blah and then marry an old cargo. Mainwhile she is already an evening newspaper age 28 years to 35 years and while she was 20 years to 25 years, she believes that she doesn't need any man in her life as she is getting attention here and there by stupid betas who think with their dick only. After is has married the man, then she will start comparing the man other room skills to the men that has bleeped in the past and still cheat on the man because he can't satisfy her. Sh starts hoarding sex from him and uses it as a bargaining chip. One day she will wake up and say she can't continue to cook, wash etc. Baby let's take an house maid. Then you will lik why did I marry you then? She will say you don't love me. He will get her the maid and she won't get to cook anymore or do other house chores. Then she nags like say tomorrow no dey. One day the man will like I will open shop for you so you can be selling provisions and so on. What will you contribute to the family. She will like your money is our money and mine is mine. You are the Head of the family so you don't expect me to bring money. Chai men don suffer. One day the kids will come and meet mom please teach me this. She will push the children to the man. Imagine. What about poisoning her children's mind that their dad is useless he doesn't love the family. Marriage is not for men because it cages men. Baby mama is the best or MGTOW. Men dey your lane but if u must marry, just don't expect much at all. For further references and to read more. Visit thread like https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

SweetCunt97:
Even Idiots wey never fit feed themselves go come here type rubbish.

The true psychological fact I've observed is, Most men who rant about marriages come from Broken Homes, Abusive Homes.

You can't come from a loving background and be filled with such idiotic notion.