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tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Guy friend I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha

Killertune20:
So many topics on nairaland about women leaching and being parasites, truth is, over time, there has become increasingly a distortion between guys and ladies, most ladies broke shame guys who inturn see or refer to them as parasites.

Fact check: as a guy, how are you faring in this Nigeria economy? Either you are a business person or 9--5, whatever it is, the economy is hard.

Let's take this back to gender, true or true, there is just a handful of business or services a lady can offer but a guy can do almost anything, ladies are left with little or nothing to do.

Makeup, hair dressing, sewing, sales of female wears etc are the handful of things our girls can do, last I checked, almost every house in Lagos has a shop where you can buy female wear.

And then, the capital to start this business is not even there, how many families in Nigeria can provide 600k for shop rent, sewing machine and other things for their daughter?

Taking all this into consideration, the ladies fall back on the guys cause even her family, can't even help, as her brothers are probably struggling.

Then there is the social media life, the least iphone is sold for almost 100k naira, the peer pressure and social media makes them even forget they have a life, imagine using a phone of 250k and no business or job attached to your name.

The misconception is this, how do you expect a young man to be rich, has a nice apartment, a car, and a good business before you can date him? If you know how to get this things, why not get them yourself?

So at the end, everyone should realise that the economy is hard and there is no hope in sight (hard truth) if not, how much are these women even demanding? Some ask for 2k, I mean less than 5 dollar.


My advice to guys is this, find the girl within your league, you can't be using infinix and you toasting a girl with xs max, and you call yourself a redpiller or alpha male or whatever, when she bills you, you come online and bash women.

Cause most guys want good thing for free, when you eventually see the lady who works in a petrol station for 12k a month, cause she doesn't have wigs or braids or new cloths, you overlook her and then go for the flashy one without a job, how do you think she maintains her lifestyle?

Go for the less expensive ones according to your income, upgrade her or change her when your story changes, pussy is all the same only the faces of the owners differ.

#shalom

Godoverevery:
Most Ladies in Nigeria today see relationship as an end means to there needs.....infact 90% of relationship is transaction.
Yahoo guys spoilt our ladies because they could afford to lavish money on them.
How many working class guys can afford to give there gf/ wife 300k in a month or buy them expensive phones.

The entitlement mentality is been preach among our ladies..they all want rich guys to marry that will transform there life but this rich guys don't marry poor ladies..... I was in a gathering filled with ladies and one was saying any guy that wants to marry her must open a shop and stock it up before she can consider him, this is a lady who is jobless with no degree....the other ladies were cheering her up....lol

I just want to advise guys....know the type of ladies you approach.....If you are poor most of this ladies won't even take a look at you, so why will you date a jobless lady if you are financially ok??If you are working date a working class.
Most of this jobless lady who stay at home all day pressing there phone will only drag your life backward.
You are only meant to assist not carry her burden...if you want to help her to start a business, draft a contract on how to get your money back incase break up happens that what done abroad but if she feels because of breast and the hole between her legs she entitled to your money just kindly give her any yahoo boy contact you know....they are the one who have enough money to lavish.

Note: The only reason why 90%of them feel entitled to your money is because you both have sex.... nothing more nothing less.

Lovethaa:
coming from someone with stupid conclusions

Lovethaa:
From personal Experience and people's Experiences I have gathered that women agr determines what they want

(1) 15-24 years old : At this age they want a cute, fine or handsome man. They are more concerned about looks at this age

(2) 24- 30 years old : At this age they start to care more about how rich you are .. Looks mean nothing to them

(3) 30-40 years old : At this age they just want a man with strong gbola too satisfy them sexually,

(4) 40 years and above : They want love .



Men


(1) 15-24 years : A woman with big ass or boobs to have sex with

(2) 24-30 years : A woman to have sex with

(3) 30-40 years :. A woman to have sex with

(4) 40 years and above : A younger woman to have sex with



Do you agree?

vybzkartel:
This crush of mine turned my proposal down because she said I don't have red lips

My lips are dark

Please, how can I make my lower lip red?

czarr:
Sometimes you meet a girl who you vibe with she's flirting back and all, and you know she'll be down to fvck you sooner, but this is where some guys mess it up. you ask her out and start being overly romantic pushing for exclusivity, you want to possess her as your own, because you think that is what she wants.

You have to understand sometimes these girls just want to fvck...and when you push for something more you may push yourself out of some puccy, she begins to draw back because believe it or not some of them already have a boyfriend, but they just want you to play your position as a side guy/fvck mate.

So guys if you are already vibing with the girl...just keep on flirting and fvcking and if she wants something more she'll bring it up, don't 'romantic' your way into the friend zone.

Uzomacharles:
we all forgive those special people in our lives lol

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
If the Toto is not tight enough

Uzomacharles:
@Bolded yap

Zzor:
I'm keeping my plans secret from all my enemies here, evil men are all over this forum

ledaman:
Frustrated spinster like u

Fvckhypocrite:
DETECTED


I agreed you dnt want to keep people like me as friend bt i want u to do me a favor give me ur location let's meet so that u can tell me all this okpata face to face.

If u can't do that let's forget the past and let's each other move on without abusing again i hate it when sm1 is trying so hard to drag me to his/her stupidity

This is a forum where everybody join with different reason

Never quote me again and i will never quote u also

I have never engage with sm1 here with abusive word if nt 4 yesterday whc u force me and i will never repeat such pls fatimah move on and dnt direct/indirect use abusive word on me

CuteMike01:
When did you become male?

Jergobright1025:
Why do prostitute prevent their customers from touching their breast??

Having sex is really boring without pressing and sucking breast but sex workers hate it when you try to do it (even when you agree to add money)

Fvckhypocrite:
jerk
Quote kapilta that mention ur name, don't quote me again abeg

Nerd!

Abouwaza:
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Abouwaza:
Guys share the first time you had sex,


Mine was a a brothel with my gees back then in high school


I'm still really pained to have lost my virginity to a hoe but Las Last discover say almost all the girls nowadays sef are hoes

Fvckhypocrite:
Omo that gyal dey fvck up jare
i say make i help u fvck some sense to her brain yesterday ni jare with hausa