₦airaland Forum

Cubana03:
OP no dey provoke Zzor and Fati2001 na

like we even know whether the op dy alive.

Mide3367:
your self esteem is the lowest I ever seen. You hate men but changed your sex status to M. Be your self

lolz, meaning you don't even have a self esteem.... well deal with that.. I hate Nigerian men... and I recalled they are not the only men on this planet...

od501:
Kid? Oh...yes I am, and when it comes to case of Nigerian gals, I don't intend to grow up, like, ever! Lwkm.... Niaja gaz...u people will never change...so una still dey use that line, that "money is not everything" shii?! As if u mean it, or even know what it means.

Lemme give u a $1 advise, is either u learn the ways of ur ancestors and quit calling it primitive, or study the ways of an average Ukrainian or Lithuanian gal. Argue with ur data! And by the way...I'm involved with the later. And stop replying plz can u? The deception is too annoying.

u can save ur write up.... I can never find myself with Nigerian man as a life partner.

useless people.

bewla:
this does not mean she won't sleep around if she does before



beware of the female poni

don't tag every female with the traits ur wife/gf is displaying

Please and please this isn't a redpill post, before some people will enter the thread to say some strong words.
Note: this is just based on my own intuition nothing more nothing less.
The question we have been battling so far in Nigeria ( I used all the post and comments here on romance section to come up with this)
Do we need to care for our Ladies as proof we love them? Or should I refine it this way, Do we need to spend on our Ladies as proof we love them?
First what is love? Use your own definition to answer that. But for you to say you truly love someone, first of all the person must love you back. Now what am I saying you don't see a Lady at your work place or on the street or at the long Queue at the ATM stand and immediately you fall in love with her, what you are feeling is just human strong basic feelings of attraction towards that person might be sexual or not sexual.
So it is common sense when you approach such person, you use the word like and not love. Now don't ever say you love her, if you are unsure of her feelings towards you, you can flirt and send romantic message but don't use the L word just show her you are so damn interested in her.
How then do you know she shares the same feelings as yours? Well the answer is simple when a Lady is so into you when you two are dating you will know it, there is no formula for this one, but a guy needs to prove he is into a girl because men most times do not know what they want. If a girl loves you, she takes you more serious than her family.
If you are unsure of her feelings towards you, you are not to spend anything on her. But you can spend on fancy date and stuffs afterall, you are the one asking her out on dates but never ever take her financial burdens upon your neck; you can help her out by given solutions to her problems but anything financial stuff if at all you want to give her money, it must be a loan and tell her she can pay you anytime she is financially stable. If she is really into you she will pay back; and if she cannot pay back; she will always bring up the issue of the money telling you to be patient with her, she will say so because she doesnt want the issue of money to come between you. A girl that doesnt take you serious will never discuss about it, or think of ways on how to pay back. Note: never ever remind her that she is owing you and make sure it is the money you can let go.
An healthy and positive relationship isn't one that is demanding of a partner's financial resources. Just like the relationship you have with your fellow man, you guys eat, drink together care about each other, even if you need financial assistance from your fellow man, you will be demanding a loan not some give away.
Sex in any kind of relationship should be mutual. Both parties must feel the pleasure of their bodies, you are not doing anybody a favor by giving sex or nobody is doing you a favor by giving you sex. If you discover that you both ain't sexually compatible, you can walk off as simple as that. I am against sex in any relationship that is not marriage though.
When you are sure the lady you are dating loves you, only then can you confess your undying love for her she won't tell you in words, even if she tells you does her actions and seriousness shows it? Love actually takes time, my definition of love is acceptance, acceptance of the good and bad of your partner. If this feeling of acceptance is stronger than your strong physical attraction for this person only then can you say you are in love and this takes time. If you love a Lady and the Lady loves you back, you should be willing to spend your last dime on her, a lady in love with you can spend her last dime on you too most ladies even go as far as sleeping with old men to help the man they love. But stay away from such ladies, are intentions might be pure but her actions are disgusting .
In conclusion. Most ladies have this entitlement mentality to those guys they don't love, they may like him but don't love him. Most ladies are willing to do heaven and earth for their man even their resources, this of no doubt they are wired to do so. Haven't you wondered how women can keep up with a drunk, womanizing, even a woman beater of a person? They become... let me not use the word foolish but tolerant to such a man, but if the tables were to be turned around a man can't cope with a drunk, wayward, wicked, angrywoman for even a day.
Guys be wise.

GOVERNMENT2:
NOR GO FIND WORK

is Lik u lost ur job... bitter man

Bennysam:
Fatt002 if you grow and see your father doing all those things for your mother, how will you feel

I will be happy if he's doing it in the right way and with his senses.... no pretence.

tnerro1:
I saw a girl today, you know those girls you see from afar, so set you start by admiring her legs, up to her hips ,then her waist,?her flat tummy and full nice boobs. Only for you to see the face, u go shout chai!!!! How can a set girl like this be this ugly

Chai, this is injustice

They need to flog the mother or the father sha

we need to transfer u to the Middle East.

HE SHOULD NOT MARRY ANY GIRL#TEAMFOREIGN

Silentgroper:
They wish nd envy african men, wit d way we make ur kinds submissive to us.

no sane white man will envy African man..... for what?

HEIGHT

FACIAL STRUCTURE

AND BODY SHAPE....

5hanklee:
No bro. I no mumu reach dat level nah. I just decided to mention them so that it won't be like guys are the only ones discussing about the issue.


I no say she no get brain reach that level na why I call her elders join.

don't compare another human with ur dead brain skull.... you totally need brain transplant.... and he was right Na u fuvk up... for mentioning the names in the first place. ..y can't you start a conversation without calling any moniker ?

and those men ain't even aware if there's a country called Nigeria..... BUT THEY ARE LIVING THEIR BEST,COMFORTABLE AND FULLEST LIFE'S...

another one

od501:
When you say behavior, you mean bois no do giveaway again?...lol. Bois don wise up nh

you are still a kid... not every thing is about money in this life ( if money can buy another extra life ,bring back the death and the rest of deep issues in life then it's useless and meaningless).. ..

here are the behaviors


* love and respect

* commit and fulfill


*take first initiatives


* emotionally intelligent

*protect

*smart

* step up and take the tough decision

* straightforward

* talk to you as an equal..


NOTE : NO BE ONLY HE PARTNER HE GO SHOW THESE BEHAVIORS TO OOOH, BUT EVERYBODY HE MEET .


lemme stap ear.

Silentgroper:
Hahahaha. I got u triggered again . Sorry, baby girl.

still lame, if you don't no what to say you better rest.

Oyadorf:
Most men are promiscuous in nature. No matter how beautiful their wife may be,they will still cheat and I learnt the wives of these men know their husband is a cheat and this lead to a question...

As a woman (Full house wife), would you prefer your husband having side chicks to him marrying another wife or otherwise?

none of the above..


if you insist, I can simply give you chance ( divorce) we both go our own way.

od501:
Lwkm....na so the thing pain u reach. Chai... The na Alumo bitters aswear, not everybody can handle it! I pity yo Mr. Right

no words coming from a typical Nigerian man can pain me...


to down fall your thoughts that you are savage, here is one

1 I don't even no what is kayyamata, just hearing the name( NEVER EVEN SEE AM WITH MY EYES) ..

2 never had a relationship because of the behaviors some Nigerian men are displaying nowadays...


HOPE YOU CAN GO WITH THAT!

Digmygold:
:



Ask Ubunja. Thats why he is single at 60. Broke redpill poo

Pls give me more..

Digmygold:
With their broke frustration hidden under the redpill poo.

Pls don't kill me.

5hanklee:
kikikiki
You dey whyne?
Omoh! Dis one is feeling presidential cus I mentioned her. Well I just wanna hear d bullshit you gat to say tho.

why will I feel like a presidential from a random person like you?


WELL DON'T MENTION MY NAME AGAIN.... ....


I GOT NO BULLSHIT TO SAY, CUZ U ARE A BULLSHIT YOURSELF..

BYE BYE FOREVER.

5hanklee:
Meanwhile, I've made up my mind never to relate with any woman that's not my family member anymore. I can't risk my life and future for this wicked set of people.

you said you have made up ur mind never to relate with any woman that's not your family member....



SO WHY TAGGING ME?

cristy149:
when this man later bombard the girls eyes black and blue, you, zzor and fati will be the first person to bash him .

not every man is a woman beater like you.... so change your mind thinking about people.

Silentgroper:
No ... U do.. Ur face is so repelling nd i knw u're hurting deep down.

never knew ur face is so repelling..... no wonder you have never post half of ur face...

what are the strongest and weakest parts of your relationship

Silentgroper:
Take heart..

you need it more.