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Tatashi:
Women beaters full for here oh. I no wan call one name wey abandon him wife and children go dey live with him mama and sisters for gwarinpa

1759ademola:
Ladies, if you love your life, don't marry a Biafra man. If you can't find a Yoruba man, close your legs.

Pierohandsome:
And the wife allowed this?
It is a mockery to evn she herself

seyz91:
Okay

But it's still same thing cuz economic inpact influence and affects people's mental health

As economic development falls, people feels the heat and get frustrated

What the person said up there is that people are frustrated and frustration can make people do some inexplicable thing

seyz91:
It's worse now except you being fed so you wouldn't notice it
Naija of last year is not naija of this year

Naija of two years ago not naija of past year

It worsen day by day

Do i need to remind you that again?

Vinnie2000:
Which other one? Married? No. Of course, It is Young pple's Sex..

Rgade:
What’s funny is a Nigerian telling an American that he misses slavery. Neither you nor the young man experienced slavery. The young man being much closer to the experience however. We don’t know the reason for their choice, but you are here gate keeping all the way from Nigeria.
Stop being hysterical over American race politics in the name of wokeness. More so when you’re from a shithole country.

Karlovych:
The level of frustration under Jubrin is becoming unbearable and destroying some families

Fajs:
Any Female available for a fun Afternoon in Benin (Edo State) today. Oya make we connect

86Vision:
Hi Nlander Family! Please I need your counsel on this; I have dated my girl for 8years (I regret starting a relationship when I wasn't ready for marriage though).. This delays resulted from the fact that I had so much family responsibilities. Lost my Dad early so I had to fend for myself and siblings. Also, lost my Job year 2016 but thank God for my money lending business that I fell back on(My company is now a licensed money lending firm). My income is above 500k after paying out liabilities(Salaries & Others) monthly with an investment of between 11M - 12.5M..
The Issue is this; I must marry my Girl this year.. Infact I have commenced the process already but the budget of about 1.600M my babe is giving me is too bougous. Though she is not forcing me as she is still ready to hold on for me but sincerely the marriage has to hold this year.. I need to concentrate on other issues of life..
Is there a way I can curtail this expenses/budget not minding what she or her family members/mother would feel?
I desire a more decent, peaceful and life without pressure after my marriage. Especially financial pressure which I feel its best achievable if I keep my wedding expenses very low and keep reinvesting my business profits for growth..
I don't stress myself to earn money for now and I wish to guide this lifestyle by God's special grace and grow at my space..As a money lender, more investmentguarantees more profit/earnings. Life in Nigeria without a level of financial security is quiet frustrating....

rainerboy1010:
Where is sex most likely to happened



A. In a guys house when she comes visiting


B. In a Ladies house. When he comes visiting


And


C. In a natural venue when they meet secretly



Please answers and what's your reason

prettypraise:
Work on yourself, stop cheating, and then you can earn others not to cheat. If a married woman cheats, she should be forgiven and loved again. This is what God wants you to do as a man. If your wife cheats, try to fix the issue, go for counseling, pray for her and love her again.... Learn to forgive cheating. You can do it. Ask God for grace.

bodybuilder:
I hate it when women say they suffer or stay with struggling man. Women as we know are hypergamous and will never settle for less, always looking for the bigger better deal, the richer, the more handsome, more powerful etc.

If a girl is with a struggling guy, that's simply the best option for her, if she could do better she would be with a better guy.
Is funny how these females think they're doing the guy a favour, stop the delusion.

So come of it, you're with struggling guy cause you couldn't catch the made guy. If the made guy looked your way you will monkey branch in an instant.

Simple, you aren't attractive enough to get better guy, you don't stand a chance with the 'made' guy, you not loyal.
As a matter of fact women are incapable of loyalty, they are steady in search of greener pastures

A woman can leave her marriage today, if a millionaire miraculously wants to marry her without thinking twice.

wunmi590:

wunmi590:



I have never experienced it before, because I don't want my family to be divided in faith and general...

I'm a Roman Catholic and I also married a Roman Catholic

zexy2030:
Except for those(15%) who are here for businesses, learning skills or connecting with opportunities.



But major by the romance landers are majorly trolls, kids and low self esteemed individuals. Arranging to meet them in reality might be so impossible.

This I have noticed.

If you are not selling any products or connecting for business, or here for sampled advice, you are in that category, I talked about.


Never take any relationship here seriously, in short avoid meeting up any here. The consequence could be fatal.

Idamond:
As a Christian/Muslim is it advisable to watch porn with your spouse?

cabilla:
Edo men can gossip well well one fool for my house if u tell him something e go carry am go tell landlady

Elporo:
Sounds like a made-in-China ceiling fan.

KingDash:
true... they swim in it.

Agbebakun22:
See this fool rejected sacrifice u think say we Edo mind wetin Una dey yarn from dirty pig mouth..

sirjamesjnr:
Age: 26....30
Graduate
Working-class
Live in Lagos
From Ibo
Fair in colour( not bleaching)
Strictly for marriage.
If you tick the above-mentioned box. I like to introduce you to my good friend.
He is a graduate
Business
From Ibo
Stay in Lagos
Very clean, comfortable and cool-headed.
He is a Christian.
Please let me know if you are interested.
Two of you can start as friends then see where it lead to. Trust me you won't regret you ever try.
This is my email.... sirjamesjnr@gmail.com
Send your number I will contact you
N/b. He picks me up in his car, we ended up at where I can get some food then I ask him why he will take me to a restaurant when we can enjoy homemade food... That is how we dive into the marriage issue. So I got his approval to go in between for him. I want to be at his wedding before I Japa. Please only serious-minded people. My friend hates drama a lot.
We can start with hanging out somewhere cool then he is man enough to heat it. He is an Ibo guy so he is bold enough to take this ministry to the permanent side.

techgeniusworld:
It's High time Men Woke up in America and around the World that the Justice System is absolutely Wrong concerning Divorce and how women walk away with their Husband's money.
The Question Nobody is asking is What does He get in Return ? You want to leave him with Half of all the Money He has made. What's in it for him ? You were a Team and you shared everything together , ok you want to leave the team and want to be given half. It's two ways to look at this , are you Retiring like how people retire from Jobs and are you asking for a Pension ? Pensions are never half of the Company Profits but a Fraction.
People Pretend that the Man is the Devil in the relationship , let's all be real , the man had to put up with a lot of the Woman's flaws also. Birds of a feather flock together.
I am a Strong Supporter of Female Empowerment and Women calling the shots in all works of life but when it comes to divorce men are getting a Criminal Deal.
If a Woman Really Loved a Man she will not want half of his money she will want to give something of hers in return. Men are the ones who prove they really loved their wives in divorce courts, the man is willing to let the Woman go completely. He is not asking for her to give him half her body or for her to be making food for him half of the time or calling him half of the time. The Man wants the woman to go because that is what she wants, but she wants more she wants to leave with half of his money. What does the man get in return ? What's in it for him ? I totally support women waking up in 2021 waking up from a night's rest and deciding they want a divorce for any reason under the sun, freedom and liberty are so important, the next question is should she leave empty handed or how much money should she leave with.
The Woman has decided to leave it was her decision not the man's. So the woman instigated the departure, all well and good since she is the Man's teammate we need to consider the man. As a team they have shared so much and a Divorce is one last time to share again. If the Woman is Walking away with half of the man's money how much of the woman is the man walking away with ? He is told to divide it down the middle but women are told to divide nothing but to just walk away with half, switch off their phones and have no communication with the men. Talk of a raw deal. This is like FUFU instead of smartphone.
Alot of men have been crippled by divorce not because the woman took so much money but because she gave nothing in return as she took so much money.
The Justice System when it comes to Divorce is clearly Anti-men. The emphasis is so much on the woman being innocent and the man being guilty. When they are both half innocent half guilty. Women cheat on men in so many ways, not appreciating his kindness, not respecting him, not praising him, the list is endless. The man cheats with another woman and he is criminalized. The woman has cheated him for years and he bore with it. I'm not saying women should bare with men cheating with other women what I am saying all the drama is magnified to humilate men.
I wait for the day when a woman wants to divorce her billionaire husband and the state they are in allows her to take half his wealth and she goes " You know what , I don't need half his wealth, I'm good with $10 million " now that is a woman who did not marry for money and is not a Gold Digger. She has self respect.
Then she goes " Call me once a week I need to hear your voice till I can completely get over you ".
Now that is a Real Woman. Real Emotions take time to heal , the only people who walk away comfortably with so much money are the ones who were really married to the Money

Finally my father and I had the most tempestuous relationship a father and son could have had but I still keep momentos of him because I loved him, he loved me but was not sensitive enough.
I have his wallet, his pictures, his clothes and his worn out shoes as a reminder of him.
True and Real Love does not die. So when it dies ask yourself, was it real ?

BeardedMeat:
He said they are in love and planning a future together.