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TradingGod:
Real red pillers accept the truth no matter how bitter the truth is

If you indulge in pre marital sex you have no moral justification to judge women who indulge in pre marital sex

Because God created man and woman as virgins


St. John 8:7 So when they continued asking Him, He lifted up Himself, and said unto them, he that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.



In translation, if you are not a virgin, you have no right to condemn women that are not virgins

Only a male virgin can judge a woman that is not a virgin. QED

Then why aren't you guys complaining when a poor woman doesn't want a poor man. All you'll hypocrite will say is the man should man up and make money before thinking about relationships.

DarlingtonC:
If you were to be given 10 million naira today, how much can you generate in one year?

And how will you do it?

Only legitimate means only.

You might just get it

I will let a bigger shop where my sister can expand her drinks biz and will make sure there's space outside where my brother can start his grills and barbecue. The guy is very good as his experienced in making delicious sauces and grills with decorating french fries. We will all work had to break even in the first 4 months and try to generate 1-1.5 million every month for the rest of the year. Making it 8-12 million in a year. Thank you

guobe:
You are welcome

Are you dropping combination bet tomorrow on your telegram?

guobe:
I will be gifting 10,000 naira to someone in dire need of this money.
All you have to do is sincerely tell me why this money deserves to be given to you.
Please don't drop your account number as I will select the person to be gifted .
Transfer will be made hopefully before the end of the month.
May God continue to bless everyone of us in Jesus name.

I need it to start preparing for service .

PureFace1:
Women lie all the time to manipulate men and paint themselves in a good light and as someone valuable, don't believe whatever come out of women's mouth unless you see it for yourself.


Now you would think that Monica girl must be one correct and classy babe if that guy could be begging her for relationship, meanwhile Monica was just lying shamelessly to manipulate you and paint herself in a good light and boost how you view her. How can you verify anyway ?

You are very weak as a man if you believe whatever women prattle to you, 90% of what comes out of their mouth is all lies. You haven't experienced rejecting a girl advances at you but that girl would ran to her friends and told them all how you were the one in her DMs and hitting on her ? or you hit on woman and moved on after she rejected you but the same woman would exaggerate everything and say you were begging her for a relationship?

Like the girl I went to toast for the first time one evening that she was doing shakara. I saw her with her friend that afternoon didn't know she was talking about me telling that friend I've been disturbing her because that one told her she likes how I'm calm and cool and don't womanize. I mean she was telling the girl have been disturbing her in the afternoon when I just went to talk to her for the first time in the evening of that same day. And the worst is she wasn't receptive when I talked to her and I just moved on ASAP. So I don't even understand where the disturbance entered from even before I talked to her the first time. But I get she just wants to use me increase her value by down playing mine because I get value for the other girl eye. Girls ehn

BigYash:
If hunger come kill am,who will reap the benefits from the investment? Abi you no know say stomach ulcer dey kill? Again if his landlord serve him quick notice,since he used his rent money for investment.. Oga will you accommodate him? Na who don meet basic needs ,fit invest o.. Except you wan kill yourself by yourself

The guy matter dey tire me sometimes. Today he's wise tomorrow he's very foolish

Bendel insurance na draw I carry am

Yadid:
How fast does it burn? Faster than PMS and AGO or slower? It's not just about the price per scm, how much of it will be consumed is what will determine how it'll really affect transportation fares.

Exactly my question. Because I see this as marketing strategy if it burns faster than petrol. That 3 scm will now burn faster than 1 litre PMS

Fool

SonOfHercules:
Online distance learning bro...
We pushing doesn't mean we can't have periodic fun. Things can change in weeks. So stop broke shaming guys like a pussy and advice if you want.... By God's grace... I'm still a baby online marketer and I'm growing so it's okay to advice don't broke shame like a pussy.

Well it's you I will blame, for giving him the avenue to get to you by even quoting him back when you should have ignored him from his first post. I don't know how someone will bring a post from 6 months to brokeshame someone. That shows he hasn't been progressing as he doesn't believe in progress. Please just ignore from now on, his a lunatic.

Jewessgratitud3:
Hmm.. op you're wrong!!!! Very wrong.

Now let me start with your age. At 28 you shouldn't be living under your parents. You should be responsibly and independently living on your own. You shouldn't be there stressing that old woman with your "I'm a big girl and no body can control me attitude " that is what your attitude smell of and what your mother perceives that makes her treat you the way she does. For Christ sakes if you're a big girl then leave and go be on your own where no one will control you but as long as you're still under her roof you'll live by her rules and regulations.

See, all mothers are like that but your character will determine the degree of that trait in them. If your mothers "africnaness is raised to power 2 then you are the problem. We all managed ours like that and never saw it as anything; today we are the better for it.. See they are trying to protect you and that's their own way of doing so but you will not know now. ok, imagine what your sister did.. got pregnant out of wedlock, which mother will be happy about that? The other one got married without her consent and you think she'll want you to end like them. What your sisters did has intensified what was already on ground and made her more strict to you because she doesn't want you to end up that way. Seems you and your sisters have eyes for worldly things but feel caged by her for not letting you operate with that hand. Ok, Why is she not like that to the boys? Because boys can't get pregnant and bring her Shame exactly what she's guarding against. Op, can't you see.? When they are telling you people now it will look as if they hate you, they're toxic and all that but when it happens now, you'll remember you have a mother somewhere.

Your mother is no different from most African mothers only that she added strictness to hers due to her religious position and now see what your sisters did....


I left my parents house at the age of 26, a year after my Mom died. If she was alive she won't allow me, that tells you they are simply protecting you. when I was leaving I told my dad and he gave me his blessings but while I was home before my mom died 2 years before I left she did all those mother things but I never saw it as anything or thought of running away from the house... Things were different back then and children were more respectful who know wetin bible talk then but see now you started by quoting the scriptures to justify yourself. To me thats rude. No problem with knowing your right but children of nowadays na I too know dey kill una. Quote bible , quote law to justify every action no room for moral justifications any more and that is why we have so many broken marriages because we come too know law pass ourselves. Humble yourself or leave that old woman before you give am bp biko.


Ask your brothers how they are getting along with her. You are stubborn and feel nobody can control you under person roof o. Abeg commot there, make you go test outside small and see. See how you painted your mother bad all through but you didn't even mention one single error you did. Saint Obi.
Mtchew.

I didn't read all. I read like 3-4 lines. But I can bet my last money all you wrote there was thrash. Just thank God your mum wasn't like that. This one you are claiming a curse to make a point.

Omotehanny:
Hi everyone

I'm 28 years of age and I'm female
In the book of ephesiand there's a verse that says children should obey their parents , but there is also another verse that says there that [/b]Parents should not provoke their children[b]

I'm open to criticism but put yourself in my shoes.

My mum is a pastor but at thesame time very very toxic person. My dad (bless his soul) has been seen has a bad person at home, it was not until I started looking at her toxicity apart from me that I knew that my dad wasn't has bad has she painted

She does and says everything she feels is favourable to her, then she puts it as that is what God wants. She literally calls herself God most times. Like when she wants you to do what she wants, she will say you are disobeying God that you will die.

When I was much younger I had depression which I've not recovered from till today both mentally and physically. I had no belief in myself, neither did I have a personality. It didn't make a sociable person, for example when I have a quarrel with other folks or even my younger siblings I end up crying.

She uses words that a mum shouldn't use on her children, she curses her children. She narrates how she has been suffering ti feed you since you were born , how she has clothed you , how she has sent you to you, she will always ask if you can repay her? Like why would she make such statements, did i ask to be born?

The one that will baffle you most is that as old as I am, she still physically abused me, she beats me even at this age. Last week she injured me near my eyes and the blood I lost was much. Several times I've wanted to report her but she will later manipulate me with words because she is manipulative also. She acts like okay at times just for you to listen to her , to things that had gone down in her life. But if I tell her things about my life she will use it against me tomorrow. So I usually keep my happenings to myself and just listen to her. It is still her that will be crying and saying that she takes us as friends but we dont tell her about our lives.

We are not in contact with our dads family, even her own family because of her as she is fighting them. Ever since childhood she has been narrating bad things about them to us, even encouraged us to not greet them whe they were still living with us in thesame compound.c

She fights everybody , even neighbors when she doesnt get what she wants.

And the problem is that she is extra toxic to her girl children. My elder has left the house for long and doesn't talk to her at all, she even got married without my mum attending her wedding(me and my elder sister do not share thesame father). She did not attend her mothers burial because of that quarrel she had with her family and she is the first daughter. My younger sister( thesame father) got intentionally pregnant without wedlock just to leave the house. I'm the only girl child at home now and my own level of tocixtiy is just 100
Na me suffer pass everybody. She never listens to anyone or take advice on anyone on how to discipline her children with love and not with violence.

She doesn't respect a child. Even tho I give her almost half if my salary every month, she doesnt give me a single respect. She abuses me in front of my younger brothers and their friends.


There is nothing I do that pleases her. She will use what has happened for years to still judge you, repition upon repition. She doesnt truly forgive and forget. She expects you to always do everything to her liking, forgetting you are human. She lays false accusers on me when reporting me to people , things I did not even dream of doing. She lies on me. One moments she loved you, the next day she hitting and beating you like a goat. And whether you are wrong or not , after physically and verbally abuse you, she will still expect to kneel down and beg her like God, forgetting she hurt you also.


When my dad was still alive, whenever she starts with me my dad will not make a single speech, If he does she will face him head on.
She brings her family matter to the church and preaches it like a sermon only for the members to be treating you as a bas person. She made me not to believe in God, I'm just gradually recovering from all those.

I've left the house bedorebeause of all these. But she manipulated me into coming back', crying and saying she was not able to wat

But honestly, with the way she injured me this last time, I've lost all fear fro her. At this moment we are not crossing paths. When I greet she doesnt answer me, whenever she is praying, she is abusing me saying all sorts of evil in her mouth while praying. Which Christian does that, not to talk of a pastor.
Shes still looking for ways to make trouble with me but I'm avoiding her. I don't fear her anymore. She stopped us from wearing jewelry when I was 16, but now she has made me stubborn. I'm wearing jewelry in the house and shes saying all sort of evil against me , but I dont really care

I dont think I can continue staying her. The boys dont have much problem with her. She gives them once in a while. But the girls is too frequent. P.s I'm not a bad person, I have never had a fight with anyone before, just misunderstanding here and there which is unevitable.


I want to move out, I'm not buoyant enough but as long as I have peace and mental sanity I dont mind. Because even though we resolve It today( which she will make me beg for days as if she is God) . A worse scenario will come up again

What do you think?

I can see the FTC typing if this is true. It's 💯 true cos by gradma is exactly like that. Exactly!!! That I can't minus or add anything to it. She's the only one good others her bad, and like the Op stated mine believes she's the child of God and God talks to her. Only that my gradma isn't a pastor, that's the only difference. Upon all my mum did for her both before and after we were born that we the children saw, she's forgot everything and it's my mum who hated her. She did it till my mom died last year and now since her daughter is dead it's our turn. But because me and my siblings has recognize her toxicity and manipulation we don't allow her get to us and this is paining her badly. If I didn't have this woman has my gradma I wouldn't have believe someone like this ever existed.

APOPTOSIS:
MIKEL that said he's better than KANU should go for brain transplant. He's sick in his memory cells.
Hope he's on Nairaland watching this.
Same Mikel that punished CECH with Back passes.
MIKEL and KANU na mate🤔🤔🤔?
MIKEL should just respect himself henceforth.

People just open their mouth to talk rubbish because you won trophies.
Doesn't he know an IDIOT can accompany a team to win trophies? So because he won trophies, that now makes him sensible and integral to his team, even close enough to compare himself with Kanu. He doesn't come anywhere close to Amuneke and he's talking about KANU. MIKEL go ask ur father about KANU.

When these Men Were in Super Eagles, Nigeria's FiFa ranking in the world was 6th position. No African country has ever attained such till now.
Get that into ur head. Nonsense!

They were 5th

Danielomisco:
Kanu is a good player,I still cant understand how Okocha is rated higher.

I was almost roasted because of this. But I looked at all of my debaters they don't know much about football.

Mariangeles:
Are you for real? How fortunate.

As real as an heart attack.

Streak47:
Women have very deep nature that even them don't know its capacitation. The thing is, you don't even need to tell them you have other ladies. If you tell them it's like disrespect or you don't value her. You got to make them all feel special in their own way and they would usually know if you are guy with other women even when they ask you and you try not to answer them or divert the topic. Women are very smart, they know.

On the other hand a woman can kill a man for hanging out with other women and the same woman will be ok with another man doing the same thing--- given the same situation of the relationship.

So the question for men, do you want to be a man that your wive would kill you for hanging out with other women or be a very dominant man that she will be ok with that?

Mind you, the same woman is able to exhibit the same characteristics.

I get. I don't flaunt it to their face. In fact I'm always single when I tell them this. I just tell them (even though it's before we start to date) that I can't be with one lady. And they understand because I treat them right by showing them love and they respect me in return. I just let them know I'm a real African man. And they get it. I posted sometime ago about when i was having a conversation with the second girl and it somehow crept into the first girl talk(I and the first girl wasn't together due to distance but we still talk on phone and didn't officially break up) then she asked if I still love her, I didn't know what to say I just looked into her eyes and an idea just popped in my head and I kissed her and continue to kiss her each time she asked. She asked up to like 15 times and I kissed her every fucking time with a smirk on my face. She first thought I will answer that's her reason for the continuously asking till she realized after the more than 15th kiss that I'm not answering the damn question.(Surprising thing is each time she ask and I lean in for the kiss she still kiss me back the whole fucking time she didn't realize early enough that the kiss was a way of me diverting the question)

finegirl233:
Lucky you that time.

Can one just enter a bank to change it or there is something i will have to do first. I read somewhere that i can get more than 50k if i change it, me that is looking for urgent 10k for the past one week.

My own time I just went to bank to confirm if it were genuine which the banker helped me check then I went to the Bereau de change mallams to help me change it. He changed it. If you are in Lagos it's very easy just go Sabo in yaba or Gbagada they will literally be begging byou to change for you but careful though. They might want to fraud you by collecting it and changing it to fake and threaten you to leave it with them.

Had a conversation with some people about guys don't cheat. I'm a strong believer of men don't cheat, you cheat only when you afraid of your partner when you just want to fulfill for biological desire. I'm broke now but I know it's for a little while but my point is I've tried this thing with 2 different girls(not intentionally though but it works). Before being in a relationship with them when we are just being friends and tell them I can never be with only one woman and that just somehow increases their desire or just lemme say didn't diminish it for me. The second one outrightly told me she can't share her man. I told being with only one woman is too much trouble you have to have like 2 or 3 to have peace of mind as a man(this sounds paradoxical but it can't more true) and I just noticed when we started dating she was the one suggesting to me the girls she wouldn't mind being her rival. Then I just see these foolish men with cars and big houses still afraid of their wife not catching them with another woman.

finegirl233:
I have a 50euro note which i got from a secondhand cloth. The bill is somehow old too. Where can i change it? No bank close to where i stay presently.

I remember seeing 80 dollars in a second hand bag too. I changed it for a total of I think 21k then in 2014 or15 thereabout sha. I was laughed at because I was asking my family for 50 naira to buy sugar, everyone didn't have change then I just carried this bag my mum just bought for my sister to search for money. My mum was like " are you foolish bag that I just bought for your sister, how will you find money inside" until I brought out this clean chilled 4, 20 dollars note. They turned out genuine bill.

We had a sexual thread on a romance section. But idiots that want to look holy that should have done the sane thing by ignoring all decided to post and looked stupid instead. If you have sexual experience to share, share you you don't waka pass. You don't even need to enter thread.

Werey say na dear illiterate,

questioner:
Have you lived in Rivers state for at least a year,
have you lived in Benue before
Even all this sharia northern states, have you lived there before?

I stayed in Warri for 2 years, I remember a girl that was not more than 16 years, if you see the way she carried herself?
A grown man came to see her one day and she came outside in singlet with her boobs jingling and shorts that was in between a boxer and pant.
In front of her parents house o.
And the way she stood suggestively, while the man tried concentrating, it was clear she knew what she was doing.
You think that kind of girl will grow up with any inhibitions?

Let me not even start with my experience living in Benue.

have you heard of a town called Ngurore where you have 12 year olds who are drunkards?

Bro, ten is happening in Nigeria, just that most of us are not good at telling stories like white people do

You are funny trying to explain yourself. Though I've not had much sexual experience oo but with the little have had I believe you. Some people just say you are lying due to jealousy or think it may never happen to them seeing the situation they are currently. I've had a mother of a 9 months old baby wants to fvck me. I would not have minded doing it but I thought she was joking due to the age of her baby. Or the one that fvcked me with guys desperate to have her but chose me that show the least interest in fvcking her(I loved her sha, I love only people that loves me) I also didn't believe all this could happen to ME(I believe it happens in the outside world not to me) until it happened.

You should have chosen the "wake me up inside" song. That's their only song I know do you know and list if there are better ones than this?

Geovanni412:
Good jobs will reduce their leisure time for betting

Whether they stop or not is a different issue altogether

Being broke and in need of funds can make a guy do stupid things

True talk.