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RomanceRe: As A Newly Elected President Of Nigeria, What Are The First Five Things You'd Do by fayded(m): 1:57am On May 18, 2018
sack buhari.
I know I'm the president now and not him, buh I'll still find him and sack him. don't ask me how.
and I will quietly transmission that IGP, to prison.
RomanceRe: Please Dont Ignore...help! by fayded(m): 5:56am On May 16, 2018
Ephraim998:
is it possible for her to leave me like that?
am her first love
Lolz. oga forget that first love ish. it's not as strong as you think it is. she is growing and priorities change. so, u better be ahead of the curve otherwise she go leave u for back.
first love, lwkmd.
hope say you Dey university so. and she Dey ur uni too.
cos if she Dey different university, ogbeni forget it. isallover
CareerRe: Meet Lanre Udu, Medical Doctor With Two Bachelors, Two Master's Degrees, PHD by fayded(m): 5:59am On May 15, 2018
Jeezzz.. if that guy read med surg here. first off, he won't have time to be gyming this thing.
he will trim his beard, cos his supervisors,consultant will make it a point of duty everyday to insult him. he go chop insult tire.
every question during clerking would be directed to him"you with the beard, what are the diagnosis for... "
and patients would be scared of him.
my beard na like ¼of his own, but the insults wey I collect eh.
I reduce am well, well.
anyway congrats to him. if he wants to specialize in gynae.. then e done set be that
RomanceRe: I Wasn't Intrested In Her Until She Said Goodbye by fayded(m): 7:40pm On May 06, 2018
let's wait for our ogas at the top to coman give you advice.
As for me, I think you should check whether what you re feeling is real or just infatuation, you know.
if it's real, then you gotta make a move sha and quick.
BTW, kudos to that girl, she has you right where she wants you.now ,my man needs her and she will start forming. so quick, how the tables turn.
fear womennnnnn
RomanceRe: Prewedding Photos Of A Popular Nairalander by fayded(m): 7:48pm On Apr 24, 2018
Saff:
yeah but that’s someone wife, and if he isn’t bothered about it, you shouldn’t be at ALL. I’m so sorry.
I stated the obvious and also offered a solution. it's their business what they do with it.
not bothered at all.
and apology accepted, dear.
RomanceRe: Prewedding Photos Of A Popular Nairalander by fayded(m): 7:31pm On Apr 24, 2018
Saff:
why are you concerned about her makeup? That’s a bit feminine.
so because I'm a guy, if I see a badly done makeup I shouldn't notice??..
Aunty, guys notice makeup ish wella nowadays.. especially if it's badly done.
I may not know d names of all this makeup stuff, but I know when it's looking bad and that right there.. well..is not looking so good. no offence, bro
RomanceRe: Prewedding Photos Of A Popular Nairalander by fayded(m): 7:23pm On Apr 24, 2018
mean.. your babe's makeup though.. that makeup artist no try at allllllll... this one na face-beating. abeg avoid Dt artist for ur wedding day bridal makeup. happy married life, bro. congrats
EducationRe: Why I Never Really Enjoyed School Or Have Friends by fayded(m): 8:36am On Mar 30, 2018
Well, that's life. Experiences like that, kinda helped in moukding and making you who you are
Forum GamesRe: Any Comment That Does Not Get A Like In 30 min Gets 1500 Naira Worth Of Recharge by fayded(m): 5:23pm On Mar 28, 2018
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RomanceRe: Did I Do Anything Wrong by fayded(op): 5:38pm On Mar 25, 2018
obiorathesubtle:
Lol. Another child who doesn't spot green lights
Oga, no go there o. I know ladies and their ways.
The ish is that I no want lash this one. I just dont see her that way. And she even senior me, so..I see her as an elder sis.
No green light here.. Just a traffic sign that says STOP
RomanceRe: Did I Do Anything Wrong by fayded(op): 5:35pm On Mar 25, 2018
walepackage:
@op,its normal when you are a player and you keep a lady as a friend,guys hardly believe you aint kpanshing her.But,it aint work that way.Just talk to her and give her fact that the story shoudnt ruin ur friendship with her.If she keeps behaving unexpected or dramatic then move on.Maybe shes tired of your friendship, trying to use the story as a yardstick to do away with you or she have an ulterior motive towards you.
Its not the first time, she has been dramatic for so long. Buh I always ignore and just keep giving her face. Now, I feel insulted and tired and confused. How can the only girl in this world that I've never made a move on(besides my relatives nd sis), accuse me of going around doing such ish. She knows me well, and she knows my friends.
Its just annoying.
RomanceRe: Did I Do Anything Wrong by fayded(op): 5:33pm On Mar 25, 2018
Mandrake007:
You both should meet up somewhere chill,talk things over and make her understand if she remains adamant,then wave her off..

on a second thought,why should a guy and a girl be friends in the first place?tensions are bound to arise,well let this be a stern warning for your future relations with females KEEP IT CASUAL..
No tensions here.. At least from my side.I kept it casual, soooooo casual. I personally walked myself into the friend zone and shut d door behind me.
I dunno how much more casual I can be
RomanceRe: Did I Do Anything Wrong by fayded(op): 4:38pm On Mar 25, 2018
ubunja:
you can either satisfy her insecurity and fvck her or you can part ways.
I don't have any sexual interest in her. Nothing at all
RomanceRe: Did I Do Anything Wrong by fayded(op): 4:37pm On Mar 25, 2018
PrimadonnaO:
You shouldn't blame her so much. No girl likes to hear sexual rumours about her flying about, especially when it's not even true. Plus, some sort of "reliable" source must have given her reason to believe you fuelled the rumours.

Try to be a bit more understanding. Don't allow your friendship go down the drain over some external hiccups. Try to talk to her one on one, emphatically and try to make her understand why you'll never do such to her and how it would be unfair to allow such petty things destroy your friendship and what she thinks of you . With time, she'll get over it and you two will be good again.
Understanding??.. After a year and??..
The rumors didn't start today and it didn't start from me. She has asked me before if I'm saying anything and I said no. And we even laughed about it. And suddenly, its my fault.
Its petty, yes. Buh she has made it get to her and she acted childishly by sending me a text which almost accused me of starting it.
With her, I'm always calm and I allow her have her drama(she can be dramatic), and maybe its made her think I am a pushover or something.
She is trying so hard to ensure that I don't see her as other girls I do ish with. Buh the truth is that I dont, I don't even want to do anything with her at all.
RomanceRe: Did I Do Anything Wrong by fayded(op): 4:02pm On Mar 25, 2018
Innobee99:
Face ur studies and avoid being distracted










No lie, u dey hapi small say d news dey there
I'm not. Honestly. I don't even care bout it. I've been with girls hotter than her, so the reps dey there already.
The only thing pissing me off is that she thinks that I want to bang her and I can't, so I move around saying stuffs.
I don't talk bout these stuffs, I don't kiss and tell. Most people know stuffs I did, cos maybe they read my WhatsApp chats or entered my room and saw a girl there. I'd never go around blowing my trumpet. So I hate being treated like I am doing so
RomanceDid I Do Anything Wrong by fayded(op): 3:42pm On Mar 25, 2018
So, I will try my best to shorten this story.
I have a girl who is my friend,a close friend. We spend a lot of time together, she is my course mate, and also lodge mate(I convinced her to move into my lodge). Now, we go to school together, Buh don't always come back together. We've had this routine for about a year and half now. We also read together in the library, and in the same group for all praticals.
Now, due to this closeness, people always assume that we are dating.but, we are not. She is a pretty girl,no doubt. But I have no sexual or any dating interest in her. Now, rumors have always been flying around that I'm banging her and stuff and I always debunk them whenever I hear it.
Recently, she and I have been distant of late, I don't know why sha. Buh I'm cool with it. So last week, she sent me a text that she has been hearing rumors that we re sleeping together, that if I am giving people that impression, I should stop. This really pissed me off, because first of, the rumors have always been there, and we re used to it. It doesn't even move me anymore. And second of all,she is blaming me for the rumors flying, as if its my fault. This is a girl that I tell of all my sexual escapades with other girls, she likes me gisting her, and she is always telling me to pick one and be serious with em. Throughout the time I've known her, I've never made any sexual move on her. She sleeps over in my room sometimes, and we re cool. No sexual tension at all.
Now, she is making it look like I'm tryna use her to score cheap points with guys by saying I've banged her.
Ma guys do know me as someone who is good with girls,and I always tell them that I've never slept with her, I see her as a sister.
I don't understand why I'm being blamed for these rumors that have been there since forever, I can say my part, but I can't force people to believe me.I spoke with her after that text, and she was like even if I'm saying no to those guys, that I'm giving them impression that we re doing something. This drove me crazy, because guys are guys, and they believe what they wanna believe. But I always make it clear that im not dating her or anything.
Now, we ain't talking anymore. And she is just being dramatic, putting all these inspirational ish and when she sees me, she will bone face and pass. I'm not that bothered sha... Buh I want to know if I did anything wrong
EducationRe: Jamb Releases Results by fayded(m): 5:29am On Mar 12, 2018
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RomanceRe: Is It Even Real? by fayded(op): 8:03pm On Feb 17, 2018
ubunja:
the girls we dont seek out to impress are the girls who fall for us coz when we are not trying to impress a girl thats when we are relaxed and girls intreprate this relaxedness as confidence and fall for us.
the girls we wanna impress are the girls who dont fall for us coz when we are trying to impress a girl thats when we are nervous and girls interprate that nervousness as weakness and are turned off.
word#..so what's d advice?..cos somehow I feel its too soon and not real
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fayded(m): 7:27pm On Feb 17, 2018
Hey y'all, I gat this problem.
I met a girl on Monday,it was just coincidental, she needed help finding her h.o.d's office and I helped her.He was around sha,so unlike my usual self,I decided to just talk a lil with her.it was just one of those convos where it seemed like you guys have met before in the past,things just flowed easily between us and I didn't even lie to impress her or something,but she was.I took her number and on Wednesday,I invited her to my dept's valentine fiesta.
at the event,we were just chatting,we didn't even enter d hall again.we just stayed outside ate pop corn and all.and ever since then,we always hang out after school.
she started bringing in stuffs like"who am I to you?".."what do you want from me?".."I never thought I'd ever meet someone like you,its like a dream".
Now the point is I love her,I dunno why or how and I am scared because I just met her on Monday but I see myself doing things that I normally don't do..Now,I'm not a baby in love matters,I've had my own more than enough share of relationships.my point of writing this is that I'd like to know what y'all think bout this.
she is in her 100level,fresher. she is 17yrs.she is sooooooo responsible and soft-spoken.just pure and innocent and she is up to no games.just always honest,sometimes too honest.and she completely trusts me.and so godamn respectful.
I'm in 400lvl,med student(c1).we both wear glasses.she is ambidextrous,in fact she is everything I want,although,she needs some brushing up sha,cos she dresses funny sometimes.but there is no denying her natural beauty.
I've never been in this situation before,most girls I've been with,I always have my guard up in case of anything.but with this one,there's absolutely no danger anywhere.I'm in control of everything and I don't want to ruin it.I dunno whether I should just be myself or just be this dominating guy(alpha male ish).
I've always been repulsive to marriage but with this girl,sometimes I'm entertaining the thought.She is just like 80% what I want.
so,guys any advice??
harddon
xavierblue
magikalz
RomanceIs It Even Real? by fayded(op): 7:22pm On Feb 17, 2018
Hey y'all, I gat this problem.
I met a girl on Monday,it was just coincidental, she needed help finding her h.o.d's office and I helped her.He was around sha,so unlike my usual self,I decided to just talk a lil with her.it was just one of those convos where it seemed like you guys have met before in the past,things just flowed easily between us and I didn't even lie to impress her or something,but she was.I took her number and on Wednesday,I invited her to my dept's valentine fiesta.
at the event,we were just chatting,we didn't even enter d hall again.we just stayed outside ate pop corn and all.and ever since then,we always hang out after school.
she started bringing in stuffs like"who am I to you?".."what do you want from me?".."I never thought I'd ever meet someone like you,its like a dream".
Now the point is I love her,I dunno why or how and I am scared because I just met her on Monday but I see myself doing things that I normally don't do..Now,I'm not a baby in love matters,I've had my own more than enough share of relationships.my point of writing this is that I'd like to know what y'all think bout this.
she is in her 100level,fresher. she is 17yrs.she is sooooooo responsible and soft-spoken.just pure and innocent and she is up to no games.just always honest,sometimes too honest.and she completely trusts me.and so godamn respectful.
I'm in 400lvl,med student(c1).we both wear glasses.she is ambidextrous,in fact she is everything I want,although,she needs some brushing up sha,cos she dresses funny sometimes.but there is no denying her natural beauty.
I've never been in this situation before,most girls I've been with,I always have my guard up in case of anything.but with this one,there's absolutely no danger anywhere.I'm in control of everything and I don't want to ruin it.I dunno whether I should just be myself or just be this dominating guy(alpha male ish).
I've always been repulsive to marriage but with this girl,sometimes I'm entertaining the thought.She is just like 80% what I want.
so,guys any advice??
ubunja
harddon
RomanceRe: I Need Advise On My New Relationship. by fayded(m): 7:20pm On Feb 02, 2018
Safiaa:
That might notbe the case. Some people are genuinely busy, and rarely have time for themselves. I can love you deeply but I may not be with you 24/7 or check up on you constantly. I might just text you once a day. Understand that people are different, and handle relationships differently.
Compare what u said to what he said about her, I doubt she is texting him daily or even once in 2 days.
When someone has feelings for you, you'd know or feel it, and you wouldn't have to come here and try to seek approval or clarification from us.
When u love someone, it doesn't matter how busy u are.. You'd always make out time for them
RomanceRe: I Need Advise On My New Relationship. by fayded(m): 6:56pm On Feb 02, 2018
She ain't interested in you.
Stop giving her too much attention and start talking to other girls and hanging out with em.
If she is feeling you, she'd come bk, if not, then forget her.
She ain't the only intelligent girl in d world or in your vicinity for that matter.
Chances are that your "love" for her is making you hype her. Oga give her space, snub her and live ur life. She'd come bk eventually, but if not, then she ain't yours
RomanceRe: Please Help Am Confused !!! Girl In Medical School A Turn Off? by fayded(m): 10:59am On Jan 28, 2018
Biafraqueen:
Hi guys,

I started dating a guy I really liked when i was on a waitlist for admission to study medicine . I got off the waitlist and decided to go to med school. He broke up with me because he didn't see the long term potential in us anymore .

He also raised questions of when I would be able to have kids and settle down (he wants to have kids before I turn 30 - ).

I am now terrified that I won't be able to find anybody because of my situation. This guy was so much of what I was looking for in a person and it hurts to lose him.....
Being a female medical student ,is it a turn off huh
Because this time i experienced the notion.

Thanks.
Hey, its not a turn-off.. He has low self esteem and he knows that once u start ur clinicals as a medical student., you'd become a hotcake and you'd be way off his league.
Just be you, marriage isn't something to rush into. Concentrate on ur books for now, if he wants to stay, let him, if not, he can fvck off.
From one med student to another... "Welcome to serious fun"
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fayded(m): 3:20pm On Jan 05, 2018
magikalz:
grin grin grin cheesy

lmao

So the thing don hook you like this. I thought you parted ways with her and moved on huh

Seems the pussy is too good. Awwn.

Well, you can play along and continue to see other gals as well.

Jealousy is a good tool if you use it well. Clearly, she is already showing signs of it.

Leverage on it.

You can prime her up with stimulating engagements that you know excites her.

You know her better than anybody here. You have had severally so you know what she likes.

Have a fun time with her somewhere then conclude it with a very hot romping session. Make it very HOT.

Ask her what she wants after this while she is all cozy and relaxed.

Make it clear to her that her response will determine what you will do.

Be ready to walk if she decides to be keep acting daft.

BEST ADVICE: Continue to play along as it is. You can always chip it in that you are in for the duration, if she is smart she will take the cue. Take it as she drops it. No go kill yourself. Women no dey finish and this one, you have seen everything already so if she no wan play ball, make your terms clear and carry on with it.

Be the man for petessake! You won't die.

Believe me, you go still meet another wey go blow your mind.

This is how I roll.

No stress yourself. Be humorous but firm about your intentions. You already have her so no need for her VERBAL agreement. Just carry on and behave like the boyfriend you want to be.

Like I said, if she wants what you are offering, she go key in.

Just play your part.
Thanks alot, man.. Would try just this
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fayded(m): 1:17pm On Jan 05, 2018
magikalz:
Everything you want is in your hands.

If you still want her, it's in your hands.

i don't know what else you want to hear.

The gal is clearly not over you and is still interested in you. Of course, she wants a relationship but whatever spirit or pride that is holding her won't allow her say it.

It all depends on you.

What do you want?

Answer the question then you can proceed with what you want.

NOTE: Stop pushing the obvious. Play it easy. Play along. Wetin you go lose?
You can keep f,,ucking her if you want or do whatever you like.

This one na easy picking.
I wanna date her,
How do I remove d spirit of pride from her and make her accept the relationshiphuh
RomanceRe: Is She Lying by fayded(op): 11:43am On Jan 05, 2018
Huee:
Make things clear with yourself.
Seems to me you're having casual sex with strings attached but you're scared to admit it.
Or maybe you think she doesn't feel the same way towards you.
Make a choice.
My advice - leave it at the casual sex level
Yea.. Exactly.. Her actions are pointing to d fact dt she wants a relationship buh her words re the exact opposite.
I will consider ur advice. Thanks
RomanceRe: Is She Lying by fayded(op): 7:36am On Jan 05, 2018
AnodaIT:
She just want to be sure before she commit herself to you again and you are not helping matters

All questions she ask is for you to confirm that she is special, so be guided
How do u mean exactly??.. She actually told me recently, that maybe I'm afraid of committing to her cos I know she will hurt me,..
Imagine such guts. How can that girl now want to commit.
RomanceRe: Is She Lying by fayded(op): 6:13am On Jan 05, 2018
Kenzico:
I made a promise in 2018....Woman issue would never be a first in my life.

So do as I do Bro. Leave Woman cos they are unpredictable
Its easier said than done bro. I have never really loved any girl, buh I know, I love this one.
I've tried running and lying and even sleeping with her friend. I just did everything to sabotage it and make sure that I lose my feelings.
It never worked. And I can't run, she is in my dept, junior colleague. And she is in the same lodge with me. Literally, my neighbor. I hate this feeling I have.
RomanceRe: Is She Lying by fayded(op): 6:10am On Jan 05, 2018
DuBLINGreenb:
Guy marry her already and stop disturbing us.
Lolz, abeg e never reach marriage levels.
RomanceRe: Is She Lying by fayded(op): 6:09am On Jan 05, 2018
koolaid87:
This is 6am and this is what’s bothering you.

Damn, we lost it.

Op, go back to bed and come back when you have something productive on your mind
I will be busy today and won't have the time to type this again.
So, if u have any advice, I'd really appreciate it.
RomanceIs She Lying by fayded(op): 5:55am On Jan 05, 2018
Good day guys, thanks for ur advice all this time. Its really helped me. Its brought me so far, now I'm at the point, where I need to make a decision quick.
So, this girl I've been bleeping for some time now. We had a lil ish and we stopped bleeping and even talking. We went our separate ways, but now we re talking. She keeps claiming that she doesn't want a relationship but her actions are saying otherwise. She asks me about the girls I had sex with during d period we weren't talking, and she asks whether I enjoyed them, how many times we did it, whether I love any of them. She just kept on asking, and she was like"its just to clear my doubt".
Next thing she went on and said that all pussies are not the same, that you have a connection and passion with some, that you can never have with the rest. I replied her that from where I stand, all pussies are the same. She got angry and left.
And she keeps sending me this songs like perfect by ed sheeran, losing you by solange, only you by ric hassani.
I ask why and she is like, she likes them and I should listen to em. And if I post anything on WhatsApp, that is remotely related to love, she will ask, "who is this for? ".
All these things, she does, and she keeps saying she doesn't want a realtionship.
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by fayded(m): 5:51am On Jan 05, 2018
Good day guys, thanks for ur advice all this time. Its really helped me. Its brought me so far, now I'm at the point, where I need to make a decision quick.
So, this girl I've been fucking for some time now. We had a lil ish and we stopped fucking and even talking. We went our separate ways, but now we re talking. She keeps claiming that she doesn't want a relationship but her actions are saying otherwise. She asks me about the girls I had sex with during d period we weren't talking, and she asks whether I enjoyed them, how many times we did it, whether I love any of them. She just kept on asking, and she was like"its just to clear my doubt".
Next thing she went on and said that all pussies are not the same, that you have a connection and passion with some, that you can never have with the rest. I replied her that from where I stand, all pussies are the same. She got angry and left.
And she keeps sending me this songs like perfect by ed sheeran, losing you by solange, only you by ric hassani.
I ask why and she is like, she likes them and I should listen to em. And if I post anything on WhatsApp, that is remotely related to love, she will ask, "who is this for? ".
All these things, she does, and she keeps saying she doesn't want a realtionship.
Magikalz
Davidthegeek
Harddon
Xavierblue

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