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Ruthluv4:
if any Bank refuse to send u ur money, jst go to CBN n go to the customer stand n complain n ur money will be returned.

galadima77:
The first time I asked, he gave me money to employ a maid; now when I raise the topic, he just says “NO!” angrily and walks away. Three months ago, I would have rejoiced at this reaction from him because his mom is a trouble maker, but now, I am just frustrated. My husband hates his mother and I can’t help suspecting that I caused it all.


When I first met my husband, he and his mother were 5 and 6. He would visit her and buy her gifts almost every week. Being an orphan, I admired their relationship.

I liked that he was so caring. And, when he finally introduced me to her, I recall that me and her vibed. We even became close and she would always call me to check up on me. Two years into my marriage to her son, however, her attitude towards me changed. She was bitter that I had not taken in and given birth to a grandchild, so she started making things difficult for me. She even turned my husband’s sisters against me.

Any small thing, she will pick fight with me. She did everything to poison my husband’s mind against me.


At first I was always begging. But after about a year of dealing with her wahala, I decided to use her own tactics against her, and I started to whisper in my husband’s ears as well. I would exaggerate the things she said to me or did to me and cry to my husband. I always made sure I deprived him of sex every time I was depressed from what his mother may have said or done to me.

Just as I wanted, he started getting irritated by his mom’s attitude too. I think the straw that broke the camel’s back was one of the nights when my mother-in-law was visiting. She woke up in the middle of the night and started screaming that she had a vision that I came and sprinkled something on her while she was sleeping, that I was a witch and I wanted to kill her. My husband, who was well aware that I had not left the bed, got really upset and asked his mother to pack her things. He drove her back to the village that night. At 3 am. Me, I was even scared. This was over a year ago. He stopped speaking to his mother after the incident and I was very relieved.


The thing now is that God has blessed us finally with a son, but as an orphan, I have no mother to help me through the process of becoming a mother. My grandma that raised me passed on a while ago, so I have no one.

I have hired a maid, but it is not the same. I feel like I am doing everything wrong. I need a mother to teach me the tradition of caring for a baby. I already reached out to my mother in law and she is willing to come, but my husband is the stumbling block we are having now. I cannot believe that something I rejoiced over, has come back to bite me. I am feeling so much regret now, because my husband is too stubborn.

nwaanambra1:
prove me wrong sir!!

SHOW ME THE LINK TO THE ANNOUNCEMENT OF THE DEAD OF ANY OF YOUR YORUBA BROTHER OR YOUR FULANI MASTER'S DEAD NIGERIAN SOLDIER FROM 2016 TO DATE!

IN FACT, JUST SHOW ME PICS OF ANY FULANI OR YOURBA SOLDIER KILLED BY BOKOHARAM FROM 2016 TO DATE!


AND IF YOU DONT PROVE ME WRONG MAY DEATH VISIT YOU!

DONT PROVOKE ME TO INVOKING ALUSI OKIJA ON YOU!




WE ARE GETTING TIRED OF THESE SHIT YOU PEOPLE ARE DISHING OUT TO US! REALLY GETTING TIRED OF IT!

THE WHOLE OF SOUTHEAST IS FILLED WITH HAUSA FULANI AND YORUBA SOLDIERS HARASSING AND INTIMIDATING UMU IGBO UP AND DOWN WHILE OUR CHILDREN ARE SENT TO THEIR GODFORSAKEN LAND TO GO AND BE KILLED!

A CURSED LAND MANY OF THEM HAVE NEVER VISITED BEFORE - AND UPON THAT THE NIGERIAN ARMY WILL STILL LEAK THEIR LOCATION TO BOKOHARM TO HUNT THEM DOWN AND AMBUSH AND KILL THEM!


WE ARE GETTING TIRED. WE ARE REALLY GETTING TIRED.




ONE DAY! JUST ONE DAY. . . JUST ONE DAY.

nwaanambra1:
it is now very clear that buhari is using his bokoharam terrorist to kill all the igbo soldiers in the nigerian army!

who soever is still doubting this should check the casualties from 2016 to date and see that 70% of the dead are igbos VERY VERY VERY FEW or no any yoruba and hausa fulani in the list of dead soldiers from 2016. the other 25% are northers from benue, taraba, kaduna and adamawa and they are all christians with muslim names as is rampant in those areas then just as few as 5% are yourba and hausa fulani whom were felled by mistake!


pls if you feel this assertion is wrong, kindly post a link to any dead yoruba or hausa fulani soldiers who died in the war against bokoharam from 2016 to date.


UMU IGBO PLEASE RESIGN FROM THE NIGERIAN FULANI/YORUBA ARMY AND COME BACK HOME! LEAVE THEIR ARMY FOR THEM BEFORE THEY KILL YOU. THERE IS A PLAN TO KILL ALL THE IGBOS IN THEIR ARMY!

PLEASE RESIGN AND COME BACK HOME - I CAN BET YOU THEY WILL SURELY KILL YOU. IF YOU DIE IN THE FULANI YORUBA ARMY JUST KNW YOU KILLED YOURSELF!

oloriLFC:
I'd be sitting on the fence, let the better team win. That been said, Arsenal need to up their game, they were woeful last weekend except that David Luiz lookalike

Bimpe29:
CR7 is GOAT.

Ronaldo is Goal.

The winner is either Ronaldo or Bale.

Effizy12:
Gullible follower spotted.

Effizy12:
They co-wrote trash,the sad thing is most Nigerians don't no want they want as music, they gullible follow muscian and accept any nonsense they deliver,instead of following sensible musics.

Ibiyemiara:
I claimed 5yrs

Ibiyemiara:
Rejoice with me my people

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cnwokike:
Can any good news come out from the Land of South West?

Just passing by. FYI

Femeto:
Is the PTE A exam now #45,000.Can anyone confirm? Still asked last week and I was told #38,000

jboycrb:
U write programs with pen on paper? Abi u design web on cardboard? No PC,no Internet and u expect her to write programs?

tunapawizzy:
Siasia is d major culprit here....watched musa waste away for good 90 minutes while iheanacho sat on d bench .......he didn't react early enuff....siasia was awful.....