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Anuoluwa12345:
Good evening, pls I need help on something
I don't even know how to put it well, but I will try my best to explain a little..and I seek sincere advice from matured and experienced ppl on the forum.

I am a type that when I love ppl, I love them wholeheartedly..to the extent that I will give in all my best to them.. be it family members or non. When I tell you I gat your back, then I truly mean it. But the problem now is, when these ppl hurt me. I don't know how to handle it, I don't even know if I will call it unforgiving spirit or maybe cause I remember things alot, I will surely not forget.

It's not as if I won't forgive them o, I will but, to make that relationship between me and that person smooth back.. it's not possible.. the distance will always be there.. tho before I get angry or pick offence it takes long, but once it happens like this! I know I have lost relationship with that soul.

Some of my relatives (extended fam) offended me, and since about 3 yrs now, these ppl have been sending different ppl just to beg me and talk to me etc.. in order to make things back, but it's just not working!. Cuz I know myself.

And I am a type that, once I vex, I don't look back..even if the person has done a lot of things etc.. I have tried my best but it's just not working. And I understand the fact that there is no how there won't be argument among humans, it's not possible.

My greatest fear now is, what if I marry, is this how It will be towards my husband, someone I claim I love? Pls how do I tackle this problem before I reach that stage, pls I need sincere word of wisdom from elders, else why I come to a faceless forum to pour out my mind.

King of Malice..is that you

Make i go download am at the usually place

Hopefully. ..it wont waste my time like gingerr

Love800:
Nokia android is a cool phone to use.
Don't let anyone feed you with lies.

lolz
I m talking from experience

Anything outside Sammy is a crap

Hes in the wrong party

Boladogailese:
It failed to power on and the power button keeps blinking

Who still dey use nokia androix in 2026...you better go Sammy, with sammy, you have no worries

naptu2:
https://leadership.ng/just-in-tinubu-garners-10-99m-votes-floors-osifo-to-emerge-apc-2027-presidential-candidate/

The Returning Officer for the APC primary election, Pius Anyim, declares President Bola Tinubu as the winner of the election, polling 10,999,162 votes, while Stanley Osifo polled 16,503 votes#CTVTweets pic.twitter.com/hqVatZTM4v

— Channels Television (@channelstv) May 24, 2026

With fake counting

KiNg0G:
Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

Perhaps you need to smile more

Congo n Ebola ...are like 5&6

viralmoney25:
I’ve been trying to find Nigerians abroad for work, interviewing them and asking how they relocated. One thing I’ve noticed during my search is how everybody is now a “Japa coach”.

Everywhere you turn now, somebody is selling a relocation masterclass, consultation, CV package, visa mentorship, Telegram group, “secret route”, etc.
And maybe it’s just me, but some of the prices are insane 😭

Like, I understand people monetising knowledge, but sometimes it feels like they are taking advantage of how desperate and confused a lot of Nigerians are right now, especially because half the time the information is already publicly available or came from another random person’s Twitter thread.
I even saw somebody charging for “hidden European countries Nigerians don’t know about” 😭 what's that about?

It just made me realise how deeply capitalistic and exploitative Nigerians can be, especially when we're in a seemingly better situation than before; we barely hear enough from normal people who actually relocated successfully without all this packaging around it.

Dey play
Even the one with wrong information will charge you

guobe:
Most of the Nigerian clubs are fund of doing it as there are usually player exodus every season.

Until this is address, it will always affect team cohesion n reduce chances of going far in the CAF champions league

guobe:
One of the best run clubs and privately owned have been relegated from the Nigerian Premier league.
Remo stars failed to win at the Samuel ogbemudia stadium against Bendel insurance after conceding a late goal at the 94th minute scored by old war horse Chinedu Akuneto.

Its a naija thing ...no continuity with players that won it for them

kinharold:
You can do all you can as a Parent, pikin wey go spoil go still spoil. Have you not seen even Pastors children doing strange stuff?

For me, I will only worry myself till he/she is out of NYSC. After that, I am still your father but you are fully responsible for your life.

Most pastors dont train their kids...they are more interested in church activities

Melezenawii:

BREAKING NEWS: Nigerian Police reject N500 Million bribe and Arrest Eke Henry Ifeanyi with 425 Bags of Suspected Illicit drugs Worth N7.8B

Lagos, Nigeria Operatives of the Nigeria Police Force Zone 2 Command have arrested Eke Henry Ifeanyi, a 41-year-old suspected drug kingpin,… pic.twitter.com/q9sSY3VKV1

— Thegrandmaboy (@TheGrandmaBoy) May 24, 2026

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He ll rot in jail

raphy:
Good day everyone I hope you all had a blessed rainy Friday.

To my topic .
I have 2 green parrot as pets they are 7 month with me I don't know much about parrot but I google what thy love to eat and I feed them well. Sometimes they turn the food plate upside down in there cage like thy ar angry. And they always squack even when food is in cage. A lady base in UK say they use to taik but dnt know if it's true as am not a Bird specialist.
Does anyone knows anything about green parrots.

They do talk

Don’t expect instant talking. Some parrots start within months, some take years, and some mainly whistle or imitate sounds around the house like phone ringtone, laugh etc

I m not really interested in the face anayway.

This is a good development for people needing facial surgery

Kini gbogbo eleyi laro Monday

Don't we have meaningful threads again

Waste of time...the couting no go favour you

Still Shettima...he likes mumu person as vp

1700 x 12.5 = N21250

It will favour me

Hes got now not next 5 yrs

This one is still living in bondage

Look before you leap...i no wan hear story

When you chase money n neglect to train your kids...you might not live long to enjoy the wealth

Kini big deal

Both of you dey single

These are signs of depression

I ve always been at the receiving end

I dey love with brain

wentroublecomes:
Yesterday honestly humbled me deeply.

I recently informed my students (SS2) that I’ll be stepping away from my role as their Physics teacher to focus more on pursuing my career in Civil Engineering since I recently gain employment in an engineering field. Even though I’ll still create time to teach them online once in a while, I never expected the kind of emotional reaction I received from them when I announced it to them yesterday and even today.

Some of them cried.
Some became unusually quiet.
Some kept asking me not to leave completely.

To make sure our connection and learning continue, I created a WhatsApp tutorial group for them where I’ll still teach and guide them from time to time. Since then, the messages pouring in from these students have honestly left me speechless.

Reading their messages made me realize something:
Sometimes, as teachers, we don’t truly know the impact we are making while doing the job every day.

You enter the classroom thinking you are just teaching Physics, solving calculations, explaining motion, electricity, and formulas…
Not knowing some students are watching you as a mentor, role model, motivator, or even a source of hope.

I even received a handwritten letter from one of them yesterday during our weekend lesson.
A handwritten letter.

I’ll post it later because it honestly touched me deeply.

For now, let me share some of the WhatsApp messages from the group that nearly got me emotional myself.

Teaching is truly one of the few professions where you can unknowingly leave permanent footprints in people’s lives.

Teaching is a noble profession and we have just few gifted ones out there...I did something similar, left my teaching job to chase career in engineering that can finance my life style n open many doors

Menopause at your doorstep?....allow him enter now

You wasted your youth, now you dey find 11th hr miracle

She don enter depression

Thats why its good to have a manager

The party is gone..no doubt

The cup no even fine sef..mtheww

SmartPolician:
Why is the government not investing in our football? Increase the prize money from 200 million to one billion naira, and encourage private players to acquire teams/stadia or set up their own.

It is not government responsibility to run football

Their duty is to provide enabling environment

The labour of our heroes past will not be in vain