blokoncept: Pastor’s Wife Raised His 20-Year-Old Love Child; Then Left Their 30-Year Marriage
For three decades, she stood beside her husband—a respected pastor, a spiritual leader, a man trusted by many. But behind closed doors was a truth that could break anyone: an affair… and a child born from it.
She didn’t leave. Not immediately. Instead, she stayed. She endured. She raised that child as her own for 20 years.
Sirchiboy: I watched her video where she talked about how a landlord refused to give her house because she’s from ebonyi state.
I remember when I was looking for a house, i finally found one, I have forgotten agent fee but the house was 850k to pay 700k yearly.
I paid, then later around like 3 hours, the agent called me and said the landlord has received the money and he said “landlord said I should ask you where you are from” I told him “Ebonyi state”…
Later that night he called me back and said landlord talk say the house na 750k yearly and not 700k, that I should send 50k immediately or send my account number for a refund because another person is willing to pay that 750k that same night😓…within me I knew what happened and with no argument or “abeg”…I sent my account number for him to refund me.
3 days I never see refund😂 it was after a week of constant disturbance from me till he refunded me.
There is no proof here that the xtra 50k has something to do with your state of origin
ebubeson: Is it right for a wife to prevent her husband from bathing her little daughters? Is it also right for a wife to monitor her husband in the name of protecting her daughters? It is wrong.
If you married a responsible husband, such actions should be out of it. It is like an insult restricting or monitoring your husband when he is with your daughters. You may go rent another apartment and stay with your daughters. But if in any way you notice any funny behaviour from him, deal with it to the root.
It is wrong..it shows the level of trust between the couple
Penkelems: In the last three days I haven't had good night rests due to persistent and uncontrollable itching on my skin.
Though, right from time I've always had itches from time to time, but not as severe as this one currently.
These few days have been hell for me, as I can hardly sleep at night.
Over the years, I used to take a particular drug for Filariasis. It's a tiny drug that is white in color and has the exact size of a Piriton tablet. I would take only two of it for three or so months. But since I left home, I haven't seen where I can go to get those drugs. At my former place of residence, I used to go to a Primary Health care centre to take it. The drugs weren't even allowed to be taken home, you have to swallow it right there. And you must not eat before going to take it. You go in the mornings, take it on an empty stomach and wait till 1pm before you eat. It's being over five years since I relocated to a new city and I don't know where I can get the drugs. The drug is Free, but you will have to pay for a Card there.
I don't bathe with Rain Water or boil water to bath during the harmattan season, to avoid the itching.
My arms, armpits, tommy, behind my neck, scrotum and pubic region itch. When I scratch, It get swollen a bit, then the swell disappears after a few minutes, sometimes I injure myself when I'm scratching. The painful part is it itches me even to my anus. Inside my anus, I have scratched and scratched and the place has become painful. I have to be extremely careful whenever I use the restroom and need to wash my nyash.
This has caused me a lot of discomfort. I'm really depressed. The fact that I'm going through a lot now, makes the whole thing really tormenting. I've always prayed that God should keep my health, so I don't get bedfasted for any reason, because if I'm unable to go to work and provide for myself, nobody will. I'm all I've got.
I really need your inputs here, my brothers and sisters. Health is wealth honestly.
Mods, please help move this to front page. I'm losing it already. It's frustrating.
Qwikkie: If you ask anyone about their morning routine, you already know what they're going to say. They'll pause, do a small laugh and go "eehn… when I wake up in the morning, all I do first is press my phone for like one hour before I even stand up to start my day."
And honestly? You can't even judge them. Because you're probably doing the same thing.
You open your eyes, the ceiling is right there, and before your body even decides if it wants to get up, your hand has already found the phone. Instagram. Twitter. WhatsApp. TikTok. One video leads to another, one notification pulls you into a whole conversation, and before you know it, 45 minutes have passed and you haven't even brushed your teeth.
That's how most people are starting their day. Reactive from the very first second.
Here's why that's a problem: the moment you pick up your phone, you hand your brain over to other people's agenda. Somebody's drama on your timeline. News that stresses you out. A message you now have to reply to. Your morning the one time of day that actually belongs to you — is gone before it even started.
So how do you actually stop?
First, don't sleep with your phone beside your head. That one move alone will save you. If your phone is charging across the room, you can't just lazily reach for it. You have to physically get up and by the time you're up, you might as well start your morning properly.
Second, give yourself a first 30 minutes rule. No phone for the first 30 minutes after you wake up. That's it. Use that time to stretch, drink water, pray, sit with your thoughts anything. Just protect those first minutes like they're yours, because they are.
Third, replace the habit, don't just remove it. The reason you reach for your phone is because your brain wants stimulation the moment it wakes up. So give it something else, a short walk, music, journaling, even just silence. Once you build a new morning anchor, the phone urge starts to fade.
Fourth, turn off your notifications overnight. If your phone isn't buzzing and lighting up, there's nothing urgent calling you to check it. Out of sight, out of mind literally.
The truth is, your morning sets the tone for your entire day. People who start their day calm, intentional, and in control of their own thoughts, they move differently. And people who start their day scrolling through other people's lives? They spend the rest of the day distracted, reactive, and wondering why they can't focus.
Your phone will still be there in 30 minutes. The question is, who do you want to be before you pick it up?
Not when your phone is your PA, if you dont check your phone, you might miss important info that should determine how the rest of day will go
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