Politics › Re: IGP Disu Orders Nationwide Arms Audit After Delta Killing by femi4: 7:57pm On May 06 |
Long overdue |
Phones › Re: How To Connect Your Phone To Tv by femi4: 7:22pm On May 06 |
Same is applicable to laptop
All thanks to smart tv making wireless connection possible |
Politics › Re: "Have I Ever Failed To Get Ticket" - Atiku's Interview Before Peter Obi Left ADC by femi4: 7:20pm On May 06 |
Liar liar...oga go rest..your time is up |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi May Be The Biggest Loser In 2027 by femi4: 7:19pm On May 06 |
Obi no dey fail |
Car Talk › Re: I Never Knew Owning A Car In Nigeria Was This Expensive Until I Calculated Every by femi4: 7:19pm On May 06 |
ridevendor: Honestly…
I used to think people were exaggerating when they complained about maintaining a car in Nigeria.
Until I sat down one day and calculated everything properly.
And I won’t lie… I was shocked.
Let’s Break It Down
This is just an average car owner trying to maintain a decent vehicle.
Not even luxury.
Fuel
Depending on movement: ₦10,000 – ₦30,000+ weekly
And if you move around a lot? Even worse.
Maintenance
This one humbles people fast.
* Oil servicing * Brake pads * Suspension * Tyres * Battery
One small issue can suddenly become:
> ₦80k > ₦150k > ₦300k
Just like that.
Nigerian Roads
This one deserves its own section honestly.
Bad roads damage:
* Tyres * Shock absorbers * Alignment * Underbody
Sometimes it feels like the road is fighting the car personally 😅
Other Hidden Costs
People forget:
* Car wash * Parking * Insurance * Documents * Traffic stress * Unexpected repairs
Everything adds up quickly.
WHAT SURPRISED ME MOST
I finally understood why many people now:
* Use Bolt more * Rent cars occasionally instead * Or delay buying another vehicle entirely
Because owning a car in Nigeria today is almost like managing another responsibility on its own.
THEN I UNDERSTOOD SOMETHING
A lot of people complain about:
* Car rental prices * Transport prices * Driver costs
But after seeing what car owners spend regularly…
I started understanding the business side better.
Especially for operators managing multiple vehicles.
MY HONEST OPINION
At this point, reliability matters more than “forming”.
I’d rather use:
* A well-maintained car * With peace of mind
Than force luxury and end up stranded somewhere.
LET’S DISCUSS
Car owners here:
What shocked you most after buying your car?
* Fuel? * Maintenance? * Nigerian roads? * Spare parts?
Or do you think people are still exaggerating?
FINAL THOUGHT
Owning a car in Nigeria is no longer just about buying the vehicle…
The real challenge starts AFTER purchase.
#thread It was cheaper until Buhari came in |
Car Talk › Re: Affordable And Reliable Cars For First-time Buyers In Nigeria by femi4: 7:17pm On May 06 |
MellowArticle: Whether you’re buying your first car for personal use, work, or ride-hailing, this list highlights options that are generally easy to maintain, fuel-efficient, and widely used in Nigeria. Prices can vary based on condition, year, mileage, and location, but the ranges below give you a realistic picture for new and used purchases; In all thy getting...avoid honda |
Car Talk › Re: Please Advise - Lexus Rx 350 2022 Vs Lexus Rx 350l 4wd 2020 by femi4: 7:17pm On May 06 |
Mavor: Which would you go for, I am specifically concerned about the following
- Durability for Lagos roads - Durability for Nigerian various fuel types - Cost of maintanance - Resale value after 1 - 2 years.
Thank you. Go for 2022...Its relatively new |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Won’t Restore Fuel Subsidy – Oyedele by femi4: 7:16pm On May 06 |
Who cares |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: 'Mark My Words Arsenal Will Win UCL And EPL This Season' - Green Man by femi4: 7:14pm On May 06 |
Odewaleadesoye: [font=Georgia]...some people will say it is too early or they'll bottle it, but football can suprise you. Mark my word...You wont win ucl You are not in psg league...psg is farrr above you |
Agriculture › Re: Another Snake Was Killed On My Farm Tonight by femi4: 7:12pm On May 06 |
Semaj77: So barely two days another snake was killed near my poultry , can anyone recognize this one and what can I do to get rid of them.
At least the camera quality is better this time around Check very well, there are many around |
Education › Re: What's The Highest Score You Had In A Course In Tertiary Institution? by femi4: 7:11pm On May 06 |
Kemistri3: What's the highest score you ever had during your tertiary institution days? And which course/level was that?
Me: 88 Introduction to Clinical Pharmacy 400l 1st semester
Let's go✍🏽 MAT 103 99 My foundation in further maths really helped While others were struggling with limits n dy/dx...I was just cruising in the exam hall |
Romance › Re: When Love Starts Getting Boring, What Actually Happens? by femi4: 7:08pm On May 06 |
When money stops..it starts getting boring |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Passport Climbs To 89th Spot In Global Ranking by femi4: 7:06pm On May 06 |
Climbing with nothing to show for it |
Travel › Re: Share Your First Time Flight Experience by femi4: 7:05pm On May 06 |
Nothing special, just like in moving train |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Bayern Munich Vs PSG: UCL ( - 1) On 6th May 2026 by femi4: 7:04pm On May 06 |
Angelfrost: Na PSG wey chop 4 goals come get defence?!!  Check goals conceeded by Psg to that of Bayern |
Family › Re: How Do You Discard Your Wedding Ring After Losing Your Partner? by femi4: 7:02pm On May 06 |
enemyofprogress: How do you discard your wedding ring after losing your partner?
Some people say you should place it in the casket before burial; a final gesture of love and closure. But what happens if, like me, you didn’t think of that at the time? Does that now carry some deeper meaning, as some might assume?
I’m simply asking, sincerely: how do you part with your wedding ring?
Copied Why discard it, keep it as a memorial |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Bayern Munich Vs PSG: UCL ( - 1) On 6th May 2026 by femi4: 7:01pm On May 06 |
Psg will beat them black n blue
Bayern no get defence |
Family › Re: Gambling Is Ruining My Brother’s Life, Please Help. by femi4: 7:00pm On May 06 |
temitope66: My 27 years old brother has been a chronic gambler for years now, we just discovered he use a huge part of his Salary to play bets. Then after he make excuses when it comes to necessary bills payments. He work in a firm where he make 150k monthly but nothing to show off. I have tried talking to him but he won’t change. Please how can we help him. He needs proper support, not just advice. Encourage him to seek help through therapy . If its possible, his account should be monitored with only needed funds released to him |
Politics › Re: We Left ADC Because Atiku Said ADC Was His - Hon. Ifeanyi Uzokwe by femi4: 6:54pm On May 06 |
He destroys all parties he visits |
Family › Re: What Was The Biggest Unwritten Food Rule In Your House Growing Up? by femi4: 6:49pm On May 06 |
Always eat meat last
Drink Pap / custard with akara together
Sunday rice is a must in the afternoon until I put an end to it |
TV/Movies › Re: How Old Were You When These Adverts Were Released by femi4: 6:48pm On May 06 |
Ecoooooo bank
And first bank at 100yrs with sunny neji voice is goated
Those days when humans dey do advert |
Family › Re: How Do You Tell Your Children The Truth Without Destroying Their Mother? by femi4: 6:46pm On May 06 |
Kalatium: This is one of the hardest realities many men never prepare for.
It is not just the pain of what happened in the marriage. It is the responsibility of explaining it to children who were not there, who did not see what you saw, and who will naturally hear the softer version first.
Because when things fall apart, children don’t hear everything.
They hear what is safe. They hear what is simplified. And most times, they hear one side.
Now imagine sitting in front of your children and trying to explain:
That you discovered their mother had a child before marriage and hid it. That you caught her being unfaithful. That she presented one character before marriage and became someone else after. That there were boundaries crossed you could not accept. That there were patterns you tried to endure, but could not continue living with.
How do you say these things without damaging how they see their own mother?
Because no matter what happened between both of you, she is still their mother.
And this is where many men get stuck.
If you speak the raw truth, you risk breaking their image of her. If you stay silent, you risk being misunderstood and judged unfairly.
So what do you do?
You choose discipline over emotion.
You don’t lie. But you don’t weaponize the truth either.
You explain it in a way that protects their mental space without completely denying your reality.
You say:
“There were serious issues in the marriage that could not be resolved.” “We both made decisions that led to us separating.” “It was not a healthy situation for us to continue.”
You don’t go into graphic details. You don’t turn it into a courtroom. You don’t recruit your children to take sides.
Because once you do that, the damage spreads beyond the marriage.
Children are not built to carry adult conflicts.
They don’t need every detail. They need stability. They need emotional safety. They need to grow without being forced to choose between parents.
And here is the difficult truth many don’t like to accept.
Your children may never fully understand your reasons.
Not now. Maybe not even later.
Because they did not live your experience.
But maturity is not about being understood.
It is about doing what is right, even when your story is not fully told.
You can carry your truth without turning it into a weapon.
Because in the end, the goal is not to win against your ex.
The goal is to raise children who are not broken by what happened between both of you.
That is the real responsibility. Woman always play this card cos they are closer tobthe children |
Culture › Re: Igbomina People. Our History, Our Culture, Our Pride - Odewale Adesoye by femi4: 6:43pm On May 06 |
Awon ara oke...unfortunately, bandits ti take over |
Politics › Re: Dangote Refinery Hikes Petrol Price To ₦1,350 by femi4: 6:42pm On May 06 |
E lo fokan bale...a ma gbe wa le |
Sports › Re: Football’s Injury Crisis: How ACL And Achilles Blows Are Reshaping Squads by femi4: 6:40pm On May 06 |
Another one is groin..very stubborn |
Education › Re: FG Stops Honorary Degree Holders From Using ‘Dr’ Title by femi4: 6:38pm On May 06 |
All our politicians are thieves |
Politics › Re: List Of Nigerian Governors That Are Eyeing The Senate by femi4: 6:35pm On May 06 |
Bunch of thieves |
NYSC › Re: Corps Member Who Can't Sync March (Video, Photo) by femi4: 6:33pm On May 06 |
He will repeat the class |
Career › Re: 500 Roles Vacant, Moniepoint CEO Laments Shortage Of Talents In Nigeria by femi4: 6:32pm On May 06 |
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Education › Re: OOU Student's 2nd Class Upper Certificate Used To Sell Akara - Photo by femi4: 6:31pm On May 06 |
Emmiasky: After all the long struggles, the late nights readings, strikes and school drama.
For someone's certificate to be turned into a common paper to serve akara.
What are your thoughts? What is certificate without job or skills |
Travel › Re: How Many States In Nigeria Have You Been To? by femi4: 6:29pm On May 06 |
Kemistri3: How many states have you been to in Nigeria?
Me: 4
Abia (home state) Imo Rivers Ebonyi
What about you? ✍🏽 15 |
Politics › Re: Tinubu May Not Get Up To 3 Million Votes - Dele Momodu by femi4: 6:26pm On May 06 |
Thats where rice comes in |