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The lcm is sewing machine

AI post...too repititive and vague

So presidential

Fix the damn bridge, talk is cheap

escortafrik:
Let’s make this practical because in Nigeria, your shoe choices are not just about style.
They have to survive heat, rain, movement, long events… and still look good.

So this one isn’t just a “fashion list.”
It’s a lifestyle-approved rotation.


https://community.escortafrik.com/d/161-12-shoes-every-nigerian-woman-should-own

no 4 has destoyed many ankle and waist

escortafrik:
Yesterday we talked about the shoes every
Nigerian woman should own… today, let’s talk about the men!

Men’s fashion in Nigeria is evolving, but when it comes to shoes, many guys are either doing too much… or not enough.

The goal isn’t to own plenty shoes.
It’s to own the right ones that actually fit your lifestyle.

Everyday Essentials (What you’ll wear the most)

1. White Sneakers
Clean, versatile, and always correct.
If you don’t have this, start here.

2. Slides
For quick outings, errands, and relaxed days.

3. Leather Sandals
Perfect for the weather. Simple, breathable, and stylish when done right.

4. Running Sneakers
For comfort, movement, and busy days.

Smart & Put-Together
5. Loafers
Effortless and sharp. Works for office, church, and casual events.

6. Derby / Oxford Shoes
Every man needs at least one proper formal shoe.

7. Driving Shoes / Moccasins
Relaxed but still polished. Great for smart casual looks.

8. Chelsea Boots
Not everyday in Nigeria, but perfect for travel, harmattan, or styled evenings.

Style & Statement
9. Monk Strap Shoes
For when you want to stand out without being loud.
10. Suede Loafers
Adds texture and a more elevated finish to your outfit.
11. Statement Sneakers
For casual fits that need personality.

Must Have’s !
12. Rain-Friendly / Waterproof Shoes
Rainy season will test your wardrobe, better to be prepared than uncomfortable.



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I hate no 3 with passion. Always feel my feet are naked

Bad loser..Senegal should compensate them with towel

Wifi all the way..all their mobile data plan is nonesense

Stay

Uk will finish you with tax

ufotunang:
.are you say it's fake or..I am just asking

They don't treat their staff well

campbelljosh:
Another distraction loading for Nigeria youths towards next election

Stale

Aren't you tired to call it distraction year in, year out yet other events like epl, ucl, wwe, etc ain't distraction...hypocrite!

Long over due

No swagg at all

Just don't dobale there

Lovelink1991:
A woman who lost her husband has cried out over the disturb her late husband's junior brother and mother-in-law to give him the junior brother children who has be childless for 17 years.

She said she need help because they have be threatening her


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCngs9RtivM

Young lady, respect the culture n tradition

lovediehatelive:
It's crazy how women keep raising the bar higher and higher for men, the type of men they want while men keep lowering the bar for women.


Something as basic as virginity which should be the least a man should expect from a woman is now seen as asking for too much?


In the past you don't dare say you have a boyfriend but these days a lady with numerous body count would be so bold to display it and expecting a rich handsome disciplined man who earns nothing less than $50M a month.


But would be guilt tripping you for only wanting a girl that hasn't slept with anyone before.

They even go as far as demanding much from a man for a single mother of 3!!!


Wonders!!!

Men need to do better, some keep lowering the bar but right from ages women keep raising the bar!


Back in the days you only need to have a farm to be considered as the ideal man, but as bicycle came it become the new norm.

And today if you have a bicycle no girl will want to look at you, they'll keep broke shaming you, preferring a guy with a car as the ideal man.

They keep raising the bar higher and higher for men to work harder, but they want men to accept less.

Most men aren't even asking for too much, just a decent virgin girl, no house, no car, no fat bank account.

Over the centuries men hardly raised the bar, but women want a man they set very high standard for to marry a lady that the whole neighborhood has pipped, a lady with zero sexual purity, a single mother of 3 or so.
But

Let them keep raising the bar until they are too old to find a bar

Soludo..a man with no integrity

VYourstories:
My dad once made a statement that instantly changed my mindset towards relationships.

In his words: “Princess, introduction is not marriage. So stop acting so cozy with a guy who has done the bare minimum.”

Shockingly, his words hooked my heart the way a fish gets caught in a net , suddenly, completely, with no escape.

From that moment, this one statement made me develop a visceral hatred for a particular phrase: “Our wife.”

Any attempt for someone to call me “our wife,” I will instantly rebuke the person and respond, “I am not his wife yet.”

I usually receive that instant look of surprise, as though I have said something extreme.

But to me, it was my way of helping myself stay aware of reality without beautifying it.

In my opinion, the introduction ceremony in Nigerian culture is when the lady introduces the man she is interested in marrying to the family.

Introduction is Marriage

Everything they do in a traditional marriage are also done in traditional

Payment of dowry can take place at any time

Once both families agree and bless the union, a marriage is established, other activities are side attraction

A lot is wrong with this company. When they come out with such massive recruitment..Beware

essentialone:
Are traditional rulers still relevant to you as a Nigerian?

They were never relevant..they are after money n power, chasing women up n down

Omo barca should be joining Madrid like Figo

Rash in the bum is inevitable if you dont change your boxers regularly

gassbee:
is there anything wrong if pastor's wife is giving her husband a BJ

Bj is a sin
The mouth is not designed for bj

Atiku's political career is over

Psg go beat una black n blue in the final

Go ask inter

eepeepook:
How are you people coping? I fell ill last week and I know it had to do with losing bodily fluids faster than I could replenish. Since I work for a private company, I obtained permission to dress leisurely. This wouldn’t have been a problem if NEPA was constant. At least air conditioning would be on frequently.

Unfortunately, we’ve no option but to cook in European suits while seated daily. Natives are not much of a relief. One still sweats profusely in them.

In banking sector..you no get choice

Wetin cloud dey find for sunny day

Penkelems:
I remember my maternal grandfather used to have this in his room.
Do we still have it in existence or it has gone into extinction?

suwe materials

Glossy all the way..text come out crisp

That battery health is key

When its really old..non of these will work

Freshtruth:
I am 37yrs old man I work offshore just going for my time off the hotel my company lodge me I just woke up and I was feeling the need to defecate ( shit) as I was defecating I began to urinate I felt sharp pain in my penis after am done I was about to flush I discovered blood stains I taught maybe is a stain in the wbc untll I look at my penis I discovered I just reuniate blood . Omo I put . My 2 hands in my head thinking na so life take end for me . I have not be able to sleep all night. Not married no child now this . Has anyone experience this before? Blood also in my siliva for months now but I didn't take it serious but this one I just saw now fear done grip me like this

docs asap

heartbraker:
I met a girl through a friend and we’ve been seeing each other for a short while now. She has come to my place a few times, and when we’re together there is clear physical attraction and comfort (kissing, cuddling, SUCK BREAST etc.).

However, things haven’t progressed to sex yet. It feels like there is interest, but at the same time she hasn’t fully taken it further, and I don’t want to push or make her uncomfortable

My question is:
In a situation like this, how do you usually handle progression naturally without forcing it or overthinking? And how do you know if it’s just slow pace vs lack of full interest?

I’m trying to be respectful but also not misread the situation.

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You have to prepare her mind with the right words. Bombard her with messages n voice notes either early in the morning or late at night

To sleep with her, start from her mind. Start working with her mind romantically, eventually in weeks, you will have a soft landing