gabazin080: I have been married for 10 years and we have 3 wonderful kids. She took a well paying but stressful job recently and her sex drive has reduced drastically. We now have sex like just 4 times in a month.
She doesn't ask and if i ask it is always excuse of fatigue.
She doesn't cheat, i am 100% sure of that. She even told me she wont mind if i find another girl to satisfy my urge.
I am not the type that can cheat too. So I am worried on what could cause this change. Someone told me it could be an infection
Age factor is not thing...some women libido reduces has they approach menopause. Is she close to 40
ExAngel007: I didn’t start out as a good student – El-Rufai’s wife shares her school result sheet in reaction to video of teacher assaulting 3 year old pupil
Hadiza El-Rufai, wife of the former governor of Kaduna State Nasir El-Rufai, has urged parents and guardians not to give up on their children, revealing that she wasn’t a ‘good student’ while growing up.
Mrs El-Rufai stated this in a post on X in reaction to the viral video of a teacher, Stella Nwadigo, assaulting a three-year-old pupil, Abayomi Michael, during a class lesson.
The footage shows the female teacher at Christ Mitots School located in the Ikorodu area of Lagos, violently smacking the young child for struggling with the lesson. The video sparked widespread outrage, leading to the teacher’s subsequent arrest on Wednesday.
To encourage parents and guardians, El-Rufai’s wife published her 1964 report from Provincial Girls’ School in Kano which showed she struggled at school at first.
The former Kaduna First Lady also published a letter from the management of Shekara Girls Primary School in Kano asking her parents to pay her school fees (£2) for the 1970/71 session.
One of her results showed she scored five out of 50.
Rapmoney: Do you still remember when people used to pay for phone calls at phone booths? Then calls were charged per minute. If you make a phone call of 1 minute 3 seconds, you would be requested to pay for two minutes. I still remember how we were very careful then, always talking and looking at the phone screen to see that it didn't exceed the money we had budgeted to spend for the call.
Then, if someone wanted to call you, the call business operator would notify you and you stay close by so that you could receive the call through his or her phone. I think the per second billing by Glo and the reduction of the price of simcards killed this business.
Some people here may not be able to relate with these because they were born when sim cards and phones became available like sachet water. My neighbour as at then bought MTN simcard for N68,000.
Brilliant007: I step out of Lagos searching for a reliable camry 2004. I saw many dealers on Jiji and nairaland. I visited each of them with my reliable mechanic. After checking several cars, we discovered that none of the Nigerian used cars is worth buying . They always have one problem or the other. The most common is bad engines.
Many dealers even promised to give my mechanic 100k behind my back to convince me to buy this melon car.
It's crazy that with 4.5 million, all you can get is a bad car. We return home disappointed.
On getting home. I went back to check my own car that I have been driving for 5 years. My engine, gear, and ac are still in perfect condition and I wonder if those putting their car on sale are those with major problem.
Nigeria dealers have ruined the used car market. Is this a problem with toyota or because the car is a lower year.
I didn't consider other brands. Maybe it would have been a different situation.
At the moment, we are considering buying Tokunbo direct or on installment payment in order to evade this madness in the Nigerian used car Market
Nigeria is finished....2yrs ago, you could bring tokunbo suv in with 3M
GistMedia0: A working girl was seen in a heated protest in a hotel room after her client allegedly shortchanged her after giving him head.
According to the footage, the lady, who was visibly upset, was on a phone call with her friend, explaining what transpired between her and the man. She revealed that they had agreed on a payment of ₦15,000 for her services, but the man paid only ₦10,000 after she had delivered on her end of the deal.
During the phone call, she could be heard saying, "Imagine! After all I did for him, he’s giving me ₦10,000 instead of ₦15,000. This is pure fraud!" The lady insisted that the man must pay the full amount as agreed, refusing to let the matter slide.
The incident has sparked mixed reactions online. While some netizens believe the man should have honored their agreement, others questioned the circumstances surrounding the entire situation.
When sowore dey America can he see police on the road and tell them to leave the road? if something happens on that road it's the same sowore that will be asking where is the police?
Will American police block the road n cause traffic? Some Nigerians are just dense
In this video, Celebrity Blessing CEO, a well-known relationship therapist, makes a bold spiritual move by offering sacrifices to a village deity for protection.
Amid her ongoing clashes with other celebrities like Verydarkman and others, Blessing CEO turns to the spiritual realm in an attempt to safeguard herself from the relentless backlash. Will this spiritual practice be the solution she needs, or will it spark even more controversy?
I'm writing this with heart full of sorrow because my life is really messed up. For the past two years I have been taking hard drugs like tramadol and emzor.
I have lost my memory because of drugs, most times I forget things easily and it's really affecting my life, because I have lost a lot of things during the period of taking drugs..
The most painful part of it is that one of our female colleagues saw sachet of tramadol in my drawer and told my boss which he later fired me even after begging him.
Whenever I want to stop taking drugs I always feel tired, bored and sad if I don't take it. Most times I always sell my things to buy drugs. If I haven't consume 5 doze in a day I won't feel okay and I'm always angry with my family each time i don't take it.
Please I need your advice and opinion on how I can stop taking hard drugs, Please I want anyone that has been in this position before to enlighten me on how to stop taking drugs..
Insults and abuse are welcome. Please help me push to FrontPage for people to share their opinion with me Thanks
Officialmario
You still dey write well with paragraph...your memory never loss, kontinu
Glimpsetv: Nigerian lady breaks down in tears of joy after getting the rare opportunity to earn N1.3 million for 5 years straight as a ghostwriter.
A female Nigerian ghostwriter was spotted shedding tears of joy after receiving a Ghostwriting contract worth 1.3million per month for 5years.
Ghostwriting seems to be the latest rewarding profession for writers as some writers nowadays have started receiving several gigs from Ghostwriting platforms.
Ghostwriting is the practice of hiring a professional writer to create content published under someone else’s name, whether an individual, group, or organization. The ghostwriter usually remains uncredited and does not receive a byline.
However, in a new clip, the Nigerian lady breaks down in tears, shedding tears of Joy after getting the rare Opportunity to earn N1.3Million monthly for 5 years straight as a Ghost Writer.
The young lady was seen crying profusely, emphasizing that she was still in shock as she never anticipated it. She continuously expressed gratitude to God, repeatedly saying she could hardly believe it.
noniwealth: Is cheating more common with men or they are just loose about it?
Its easier for men to accept that" yes i am sleeping with her so, "
But the woman would rather be caught red handed than admit he sleeps with her when the hubby is away.
Its easier for men to pick a girlfriends call while the wife is somewhere around but the woman would rather say: Please dont call me today i will be out with my husband.
What I'm saying is its common with men cos they can afford to leave traces while the woman will never.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QP8KEf1Lr1g The Lagos State Commissioner for Tourism, Arts and Culture, Mrs. Toke Benson-Awoyinka has denied reports that she physically assaulted a a man by slapping him for recording her on phone.
In a widely circulated video by Sahara Reporters, the Commissioner was seen asking a man recording her with his phone to leave the premises but the unidentified man responded that no one will leave the venue.
The commissioner who got up from her seat later approached the man and said ‘Maa fo phone owo e’ (I will smash the phone he is recording with’).
An unidentified man was heard shouting ‘How dare you slap him?’.
Speaking to TheScrutiny on Thursday, Benson-Awoyinka said she never slapped or physically assaulted anyone.
“No I slapped no one. Absolutely no one” she said.
Botreat: My woman is cheating, but i want to mess with her brains before I trash her.
Found out about it from her WhatsApp chats. she's been with me for over 15months barely contributing anything in the house. I met her at a low point in her life and she has told me on several occasions how she was suicidal before we met.
I had never been a fan of checking my partner's phone, but something lead me into checking her chats and for a moment i doubted if it was my girl's chats I was reading. How she's gone on dates with multiple men, how they've been having sex with one of her cell members from church, how she's had girls sending her pictures of their nudes, how she has sent her nudes to men on several occasions.
She's had infections i had to spend so much treating thinking she got it from the toilet because she always complains she doesn't like seating on the toilet seat.
I was really shaken by these discoveries, but I feel better now after discussing it with my guy. Now it's game time and I would so mess with her brain that she would be scared of cheating in future.
The only reason I haven't sent her packing is because I fell into some kind of financial troubles and she had to lend me some funds to support my business and I currently cant pay back everything. I know she's scared of losing this relationship because that would mean she becomes homeless and would have to start fending for herself completely, also from her chats with the guy she is currently having sex with, I can tell he doesn't care about her. He's here just for the sex and isn't ready for any commitment.
Yesterday I told her I've been having this recurring dream about our relationship, but cant recall the details. This morning I just sent her a message about a dream vaguely describing the guy she's having an affair with. Telling her about how a shadow came and was puling her away from me. she took it with so much shock and immediately she got stomach upset and started throwing up. After cleaning up she came back telling me dreams are just figments of imagination bla bla bla, that she's not going anywhere, telling me how I have impacted her life since we met.
Next time I am going to tell her the shadow came with a face, but I cant recall where I know the face, but I am very sure if I see the face anywhere I would remember it.
When I am done messing with her, I'll call my guy to come around and we disgrace her and send her out of the house. I want her scared of cheating in her future relationships.
gr8ofnnetwork: Awaiting the response of Nigeria's Mr&Mrs "in sane clime" to remark. Anyway, since they are mentally enslaved, they will surely justify why it is a possibility in the Almighty UNITED STATEs.
In a bold and empowering move, this lady has taken to social media to share her unconventional New Year's resolution. With a fierce determination, she destroyed her intimacy gadgets, symbolizing her decision to abstain from such evil activities and draw herself closer to God and living a holy life.
The lady, who chose to remain anonymous, shared a video of herself smashing the gadgets, accompanied by a strong message if a better life with God. She expressed her desire to focus on self-love, self-care, and personal growth, leaving behind habits that no longer serve her and embrace God henceforth.
The video has sparked a mix of reactions, with some people applauding her courage and conviction, while others have expressed skepticism. However, the lady remains resolute, encouraging others to join her in embracing a more mindful and intentional approach to life
Her next shopping, she will buy another one.
Make she go ask smokers or gamblers...addiction is real
Wainey: Please if you can't give mature response, don't fill up the front page with drivels.
So I am in a relationship with this lady, but the problem is that she already has three children with her ex, not just one or two but three. Two of the children lives with their father while she lives with one.
Despite this, she is an industrious lady who works for her own wellbeing, though I spent money on her once a while but it's not even half of what she spends on me, that is mostly because she has a better financial muscle than I do. She is caring, loving and loyal, she doesn't even have friends and has always been all about her career, when I asked why she didn't end up with her ex, she said it was cos of tribalism, I didn't ask further though.
Now, Getting married to a single parent is not something I wanted but I have dated a lot of rubbish in this country, but this lady was nothing like them and letting her go is not something I want right now.
So my question to those that are married to single parent, what difficulties did u face in ur marriage?
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The problem is not her but you.
Look into the mirror and ask yourself this question: Are you ready to accommodate her and her kids. Her kids will always be on your space...do you have a large heart for that
See the many Occupational and Workshop Flaws of a Nigerian or a Blackman who is an Aircraft Technician..........Safety precaution.......Zero!!!
Tufiakwa!!
Pam slippers in d workshop
See tha one on Afro Haircut come resemble d guy above me...... , no headgear, no handgloves
See papa with Jagajaga paintings......No handglove, no helmet. See Boots
See sprayer man. Spray Hose directly run on his body. No nosemask, no handgloves n helmet. See his standing position on the double faced ladder. He could snap and down he goes.
The last man in the pics looks like one Hell E-nous That i know
Kilokan wa pelu safety...if you don't do it, your boss will replace you
Family › Re: After 10 Years Of Marriage, My Wife Doesn't Like Sex Anymore by femi4: 12:45am On Jan 11, 2025
